Cleavage, inappropriate or fine?
Replies
-
Moral Shame is a good thing as long as it does not go Toxic. Individuals and Cultures have different levels of moral shame. Ask yourself, "if I had a Daughter My Age and physical size, would I want her wearing out what I do?" YOU decide from there...If "mating" is a consideration, you also may want to ask yourself, "What type of MAN am I attracting dressed like I am; are you looking for a "Keeper" or some that you can "throw back" in the ocean. Remember, most men take a woman where he finds her, for the purpose for which he has "classified" her ( slutty, ho, quickie, short term...mother of my kids, a wifey prospect, good to meet mom/family...).0
-
This. Killed. Me0 -
Just curious, you said "never around young kids." But you do wear these clothes to get ice cream and to the beach? I usually see lots of kids in these kinds of places0
-
I love boobs, too bad I have none! I would flaunt it if I had SOME.0
-
I wish I had cleavage....I hate my itty bitty titties!!! If I look annoyed at seeing someone's cleavage...it is just pure jealousy!!! Just makes me hate mine even more!!! So, just ignore us woman sporting small boobies!0
-
I'm a D myself and people are always telling me to go put on a shirt that covers my chest and b/c theyre really hard for me to find unless theyre up to my neck (which i always feel like are choking me) my response is usually ill be sure to do that when you go find me one, so honestly since you dont wear it around kids or at work what you do with your cleavage is your choice and the other people are just jealous.0
-
1. Nobody is jealous.
2. Do what you want.
3. Don't complain when people make assumptions about you based on how you're dressed.
^This. I am a bit conservative and I would have to strongly disagree with the women who say's that other women are jealous of their cleavage. I have always had cleavage, not so much since I've lost weight, but, nevertheless, I have never had the desire to put them out there for the world to see. They are for my husband's eyes only.
Whenever I do see women out there with it hanging out for the world to see, I think, how sad if that's the only way this women can get the attention that she craves.
As far as using the excuse that it's hot. Yeah, it's hot..but wearing something sleevless and not so low cut maybe a better (classier) option. But, do what you want...just don't complain when you don't get the kind of attention you're looking for.0 -
A study by a Chicago university sociologist of 1,200 women found that large-breasted women tend to have higher intelligence. The study divided the women into five groups ranging from virtually flat-chested to extra-large breasts.
The results revealed that the big-breasted women had an overall higher I.Q.—about 10 points—than the lesser endowed members of the study. Women with average-sized breasts also beat out those that were in the smallest size group.
This why I love big breasted women!0 -
Wouldn't a loose, flowy top actually be cooler than a tight, cleavage baring top?0
-
I wish I had cleavage....I hate my itty bitty titties!!! If I look annoyed at seeing someone's cleavage...it is just pure jealousy!!! Just makes me hate mine even more!!! So, just ignore us woman sporting small boobies!
You can always buy some0 -
I think mine is totally appropriate.0
-
Um........ MORE PICS!!
0 -
Appropriate everywhere except at work and when in the presence of little ones (unless you're swimming)0
-
I don't mind seeing or showing a little bit. I'm the same way. I have a decent chest, and people give me snooty looks when I'm showing less boobage then someone with A or B cup who shows everything except their nipples. I know it might be less attention grabbing, but my things is how much skin is showing.0
-
I don't mind seeing or showing a little bit. I'm the same way. I have a decent chest, and people give me snooty looks when I'm showing less boobage then someone with A or B cup who shows everything except their nipples. I know it might be less attention grabbing, but my things is how much skin is showing.
With great cleavage comes great responsibility.
A cups can always get away with more low cut tops.0 -
Cleavage is so misunderstood. There is good clevage and there is bad clevage. I dont care how big boobs are, if they are gross, no one wants to see them in any environment. EVER!
I cant tell you how many overweight/obease women I have overheard bragging about how big their boobs are. Harsh truth, but nobody wants to see that *kitten*!0 -
you can never go wrong with tits.
tits make any situation better.
yay tits.
...and the same goes for bacon so by logical extension if cleavage is inappropriate bacon would be inappropriate, and since I've never heard of anyone finding bacon inappropriate cleavage can not be inappropriate
how about if you just cover up the cleavage with bacon?0 -
I noticed on here that some women indicate their cup size is larger than a D. I am totally confused, according to Frank Costanza the biggest is a D.0
-
I personally am a breast supporter...no i mean it, if asked i will add support to any breast, lol.
There are some places were an over abundance of cleavage is frowned apoun, work and church being the first two i can think of but otherwise you go girl and flaunt it all you want...just dont start another thread 3 weeks latter complaining about ment not looking you in the eyes...it is a double edge sword, you cannot punish us for looking at what you showcased.0 -
I know I am going to get blasted for this, but I am finding this thread a little weird. Most women get so upset about "men sexualizing breasts" yet there have been a bunch of posts saying "not around kids". Hello? Kids are the ones who remember what they are actually for!!!! If you mean "teenaged boys" when you said kids, then maybe you have a point, but little ones are NOT thinking about your cleavage as sexual. They are thinking FOOD!0
-
you can never go wrong with tits.
tits make any situation better.
yay tits.
...and the same goes for bacon so by logical extension if cleavage is inappropriate bacon would be inappropriate, and since I've never heard of anyone finding bacon inappropriate cleavage can not be inappropriate
how about if you just cover up the cleavage with bacon?
No woman would stay covered for long! (Hell, I'd probably eat it off myself....haha)0 -
A study by a Chicago university sociologist of 1,200 women found that large-breasted women tend to have higher intelligence. The study divided the women into five groups ranging from virtually flat-chested to extra-large breasts.
The results revealed that the big-breasted women had an overall higher I.Q.—about 10 points—than the lesser endowed members of the study. Women with average-sized breasts also beat out those that were in the smallest size group.
This why I love big breasted women!
UGH!!!! I am small chested and dumb :frown: lol0 -
If you are worse than the recent picture of Tori Spelling (see People.com) sitting in a wheelchair, then PLEASE don't go out in public!!!!
If you're not - then who cares.0 -
I think mine is totally appropriate.
I tend to agree, but more research is necessary. :blushing:0 -
Depends on the situation. I love cleavage! But I wouldn't show it at work. Weekends and evenings however, fine!0
-
you can never go wrong with tits.
tits make any situation better.
yay tits.
...and the same goes for bacon so by logical extension if cleavage is inappropriate bacon would be inappropriate, and since I've never heard of anyone finding bacon inappropriate cleavage can not be inappropriate
This logic is perfect0 -
for some of us, anything lower cut than a crew neck means showing cleavage.0
-
Just curious, you said "never around young kids." But you do wear these clothes to get ice cream and to the beach? I usually see lots of kids in these kinds of places
Haha I suppose I should have been more descriptive with that one, honestly at the beach I don't give a rats *kitten*, people are walking around in bikinis and just shorts on, so my relaxing in a tank top and pants is fine, plus I go to the beach later at night when my mans off work, so the youngings are usually off home tired by then.0 -
As a woman who has nothing to show, if you got it, flaunt it. Easier said than done though. I often try to hide my derriere because I know it steals people's attention. :blushing: More power to you if you're confident enough to wear whatever you want and to hell with everyone else.0
-
I am a 48(ddd) so i understand..it depends at work no..not at work yes0
Categories
- All Categories
- 1.4M Health, Wellness and Goals
- 393.6K Introduce Yourself
- 43.8K Getting Started
- 260.3K Health and Weight Loss
- 175.9K Food and Nutrition
- 47.5K Recipes
- 232.5K Fitness and Exercise
- 431 Sleep, Mindfulness and Overall Wellness
- 6.5K Goal: Maintaining Weight
- 8.6K Goal: Gaining Weight and Body Building
- 153K Motivation and Support
- 8K Challenges
- 1.3K Debate Club
- 96.3K Chit-Chat
- 2.5K Fun and Games
- 3.8K MyFitnessPal Information
- 24 News and Announcements
- 1.1K Feature Suggestions and Ideas
- 2.6K MyFitnessPal Tech Support Questions