ladies hows your libido??

Age : 43
no kids, never wanted and never gonna have
Activity: less than I want, desk job and 30 mins to and hour a day of whatever i can manage
libido: OMG!! and not gettin it..

Hubby and I are very affectionate but he just dont need it and Im a crazy ***** for it.

31
3 kids
activity level: moderate
sex drive: I'd say moderate. Honestly, there are days when it's all I think about but then I have days where my husband has to be the initiator. It tends to fluctuate... my poor husband has no idea what to expect I am from one day to the next. I guess it's one way of keeping him on his toes.

46
2, aged 5 and 8
about half the time at the computer, other half the time running around, chasing kids...currently getting about an hour of cardio per day
sex drive...meh. In my 30s is was GREAT...insatiable and exciting and dirty and hot. Now, not so much. Hub and I seem to be on the same page...most of the time we'd rather sleep. I'm hoping as I lose the weight and get more in shape, things will change!

38
two kids under 6
Moderately active
Its definately better in the summer when I'm off work. My DH refers to me as Dr. Jekyll and Ms. Hyde. As I am very work focused during the school year, and in the summer anything goes...we average 2 a week during the school year maybe 4 times in summer.

my son is almost 6.. still no change?

Do you think maybe that's just a habit now? I/we honestly went through like... a 5 year period that it was once every two weeks.. once a week... once a month.. it was horrible and it was 150% me. I really got into the habit of not doing it and it just got to be the last thing that I wanted to do..... ever. Is it both of you or just you? I really really believe that you have to do it to want to do it, and the more you do it, the more you'll want to. It's hard girl, I can commiserate.

what is your age? 33
do you have kids? yes 2
your activity level on an average day? extremely active
your sex drive? most often non exsistant

what is your age? -> 35
do you have kids? ~> yep, a boy and a girl, age 10 and 6.
your activity level on an average day? ~> desk job, exercise one hour 4-5 times per week, usually
your sex drive? none, moderate, normal, big, insatiable ~> fluctuates. Two weeks of the month I am a crazy horny teenager, the other two weeks you'd best get the *kitten* away from me. I have PMDD, so I'm also medicated, which messes with me too. :sigh:

what is your age? 32
do you have kids? 2 kids (13, 9 yo)
your activity level on an average day? SAHM of two self-sufficient kids - so lowish aside from lifting
your sex drive? Insatiable - especially since I got OFF of BC and started lifting. I feel 18 again.

I don't have kids, but otherwise, the story sounds similar to mine. I'm 30 and getting off the pill has done wonders for me. I think that's actually how it works. You don't have kids because you don't want to have sex!

I also find that exercise increases my libido. Now by getting off the pill, starting to work out and turning 30 all around the same time, you can imagine what this did to me! I agree that I feel like I'm 18 again, except an 18 year old female gets hit on all day long and a 30 year old female is more likely to get ignored all day long. It was starting to wear on me, but then this weekend, I heard my hubs and his friends talking about how they can't keep up with their women. Then, I realized it was normal, and I felt better about the situation.

Yes, I want it. And if I'm really nice, I can still get it.

Lol!

Im sorry! I can't help myself!

I DON'T HAVE AN OFF SWITCH! Owoooooo!!!

This thread has made me very very very very sad

It's like me and my husband filpped our lipidos. from the age of 18 to 25 I wanted him all the time and he was the one happy with just once a week. Now that i'm sick with Kidney failure and have to do dialyisis three times a week I'm the on happy with2-4times a month and he is the one wanting it all the time. I told him, hey you missed out, should have f....cked my brains out when you could, now you will have to deal with having it a few times a month. My condition can only be fixed by getting a transplant!. lol oh I'm 27 somewhat active and my sex drive is between zero and moderate.

Oh and I have 4 kiddos

What a fun thread...

No joke

36 years old
no kids
desk job and i exercise a few hours a day
sex drive is low, only because i take 3 medications that kill my sex drive. sucks

i was starting to feel like the lone ranger. i'm 29, no kids, desk job, and maybe an hour of exercise a day. i take anti-depressants for my anxiety which effectively zap my libido. hopefully i can switch to something a little less ho hum. cuz i do love the sexy time with my man!

what is your age? 32
do you have kids? newp
your activity level on an average day? very very active
your sex drive? Im going to get arrested. I have dirty dirty dirty dreams, I wake up horny as hell, go to bed physically needing it, if I go more than a week without it - i start to get over-sensitive emotionally and my coping skills start slightly suffering, by three weeks I cant focus at work, im restless and cant sleep and after a month, im pretty sure I'll rape someone. Some days Its ALL I think about. Im like a 16 year old boy. I have to take care of myself far more often than I can admit on the internet.

i'm 38 now, but went through the exact same thing at around 32! my husband actually suggested i see someone to figure out what was "wrong" with me!!

when I was 25, I asked my ex, after he told someone that he'd never met a girl that actually wanted it twice a day, Baby what are you gonna do when I hit my thirties and my sexual peak?

"Hire someone."

OMG that is hysterical.


34
3 kids
very active- work, kids, working out, typical house ****- dinner, cleaning, making lunches, laundry etc. etc.
My drive varies in a month, but I do tend to see a pattern relating to my TOM. The 2 weeks before- I want it all the time. The week after, I don't care if we do or we don't. Wacky hormones.

what is your age? 28
do you have kids? 3
your activity level on an average day? I chase around 3 kids and go back and forth from the hospital that my mom is in. I'm pretty active
your sex drive? since I had my daughter it's pretty much non existent. I've tried over the counter libido enhancers. nothign helps. I plan on seeing my doctor once I can afford it