Do guys ever turn it down?
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Oh, and we are actually capable of being subtle and teasing. Turning sex down on Tuesday can lead to a rather fantastic Wednesday...0
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God wired guys for sex and the only reason I can see a guy turning it down is if he's to sick, if hes cheated, or its his way of saying hes not into you anymore. Just be honest here sorry0
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nope0
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sounds VERY familiar, but mine is hubby, not boyfriend :frown: i doubt he is cheating tho so i dont have to worry about that at least..0
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Do guys? Probably. A prevailing reason is he wants to focus on you, but can't because something else is broken and he can't figure out why, so it's distracting and frustrating. Your mission is to find an entry point to get his mind off work/project on to you. Cinnamon rolls are a good option.
Myself? I wouldn't intentionally, neither sick nor tired0 -
I'm married, and yes, they turn it down just like a woman. We're only human, and the human body goes through a lot in a day/night. "Timing". age, & mood are the key factors for fun, healthy sex/lovemaking! There is nothing more enjoyable than being physical with someone so long as they want to be physical back at the same time.0
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On occasion. Maybe he had a bad day at work, he's stressed about something or he's mad at me about something but hasn't gotten around to telling me yet.0
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I'm just curious if a man would ever turn down sex with his girlfriend after she initiated it, I don't mean if you're tired or you're sick. I seem to always be the one making the move on my boyfriend...we haven't done it in a couple of weeks :I0
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God wired guys for sex and the only reason I can see a guy turning it down is if he's to sick, if hes cheated, or its his way of saying hes not into you anymore. Just be honest here sorry
Who let this joker in?0 -
God wired guys for sex and the only reason I can see a guy turning it down is if he's to sick, if hes cheated, or its his way of saying hes not into you anymore. Just be honest here sorry
Who let this joker in?
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Yes. If I'm really tired and have to wake up really early (by early I mean in 4 hours or less) or sometimes if I'm in the middle of homework or repairing something etc - I mean sorry, but I got s**t to do. It can wait. Sex isn't even the top 5 of priorities. I hate how some people are like "well duhh, drop everything for it." If I have a lot of stuff to do, it needs to get done first. Also, if a girl is being moody and obnoxious, then I lose all desire right there.
Edit: Also, I turn it down if my girlfriend is drunk. I hate dealing with drunk people.0 -
Just because he isn't sneezing doesn't mean he isn't sick. My sex life took a nose dive all of a sudden, and I thought it was my fault or that he'd lost interest in me. Then he was diagnosed with cancer.
Sex isn't everything. I'd happily live the rest of my life in celibacy if I could just have my husband back.0 -
Mine never does... But we both seem to always be in the mood. lol Even when we're mad at each other we sometimes still have sex... Because we like sex and love each other. Now the angry sex isn't OFTEN, but yeah, it happens.0
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Yes. If I'm really tired and have to wake up really early (by early I mean in 4 hours or less) or sometimes if I'm in the middle of homework or repairing something etc - I mean sorry, but I got s**t to do. It can wait. Sex isn't even the top 5 of priorities. I hate how some people are like "well duhh, drop everything for it." If I have a lot of stuff to do, it needs to get done first. Also, if a girl is being moody and obnoxious, then I lose all desire right there.0
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I have to laugh at all these expert opinions and at most of the guys that say they're always ready and in the mood. Gotta love the internet! Lol.0
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Just because he isn't sneezing doesn't mean he isn't sick. My sex life took a nose dive all of a sudden, and I thought it was my fault or that he'd lost interest in me. Then he was diagnosed with cancer.
Sex isn't everything. I'd happily live the rest of my life in celibacy if I could just have my husband back.
Oh my.. very touching.. sorry for your loss.. but I do agree with this 110%0 -
Yes. If I'm really tired and have to wake up really early (by early I mean in 4 hours or less) or sometimes if I'm in the middle of homework or repairing something etc - I mean sorry, but I got s**t to do. It can wait. Sex isn't even the top 5 of priorities. I hate how some people are like "well duhh, drop everything for it." If I have a lot of stuff to do, it needs to get done first. Also, if a girl is being moody and obnoxious, then I lose all desire right there.
Why can't you finish the lawn first, then do it? If it's just for a house, it'll take 5 more mintues. It seems so inefficient to stop halfway, put the lawn mower in the backyard so it isn't stolen, go inside, shower off cuz you're all stank and sweaty, sex her, then go back out, mow, and get sweaty again.... but regardless, I'm fine with a simple chore. But say I'm studying for a final, I've got homework out my *kitten*, I just got off work, and my test is in 12 hours. I rather have sex AFTER the test. Is that so crazy?
Edit: I just honestly don't understand why sex must dictate how we function. Maybe I'm flawed, who knows? If you have lots of free time, then do your thing. But if you're busy, you should fit it in your schedule, not fit your schedule around it.0 -
My husband has turned me down before.. but then again we've been together for 7 years and have 3 kids.. I've done the same!0
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Yes. If I'm really tired and have to wake up really early (by early I mean in 4 hours or less) or sometimes if I'm in the middle of homework or repairing something etc - I mean sorry, but I got s**t to do. It can wait. Sex isn't even the top 5 of priorities. I hate how some people are like "well duhh, drop everything for it." If I have a lot of stuff to do, it needs to get done first. Also, if a girl is being moody and obnoxious, then I lose all desire right there.
Why can't you finish the lawn first, then do it? If it's just for a house, it'll take 5 more mintues. It seems so inefficient to stop halfway, put the lawn mower in the backyard so it isn't stolen, go inside, shower off cuz you're all stank and sweaty, sex her, then go back out, mow, and get sweaty again.... but regardless, I'm fine with a simple chore. But say I'm studying for a final, I've got homework out my *kitten*, I just got off work, and my test is in 12 hours. I rather have sex AFTER the test. Is that so crazy?0 -
Yes. If I'm really tired and have to wake up really early (by early I mean in 4 hours or less) or sometimes if I'm in the middle of homework or repairing something etc - I mean sorry, but I got s**t to do. It can wait. Sex isn't even the top 5 of priorities. I hate how some people are like "well duhh, drop everything for it." If I have a lot of stuff to do, it needs to get done first. Also, if a girl is being moody and obnoxious, then I lose all desire right there.
Why can't you finish the lawn first, then do it? If it's just for a house, it'll take 5 more mintues. It seems so inefficient to stop halfway, put the lawn mower in the backyard so it isn't stolen, go inside, shower off cuz you're all stank and sweaty, sex her, then go back out, mow, and get sweaty again.... but regardless, I'm fine with a simple chore. But say I'm studying for a final, I've got homework out my *kitten*, I just got off work, and my test is in 12 hours. I rather have sex AFTER the test. Is that so crazy?
Well the lawnmower can be put into the garage very easily, no showe need cause well maybe she likes him hot and sweaty and thats what turned her on in the first place.. just a thought... but i do agree.. why stop if your almost done mowing the lawn... oh wait there was another lawn that need immediate care and attention.. LOL jk..0
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