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I'm British, and I didn't think it was possible to put me off roast beef.

Off topic but, OP your head looks like it is screwed on sideways.

This S*** is effin hilarious I haven't laughed this hard in a long time especially at work! Thanks y'all for the entertainment!

Wow. After reading all the posts in this forum, I am SO sorry I thought about defending you, Foxy. Hypocrite.

Imma gonna go have sex now.

Slut:happy:

You called? :laugh: :happy:

Nearly every man would cheat and/or leave after a MUCH shorter time of no sex.

And nearly every woman too

Nearly every man would cheat and/or leave after a MUCH shorter time of no sex.

Really? NEARLY every man would cheat? sounds like bs.

I'm a man and I can vouch for this (he said cheat or leave)

Nearly every man would cheat and/or leave after a MUCH shorter time of no sex.

Even a woman would leave after 6 years...wow

Nearly every man would cheat and/or leave after a MUCH shorter time of no sex.

Really? NEARLY every man would cheat? sounds like bs.

Note, they said NEARLY. Meaning not EVERY. Sadly, this is a true statistic. More than a few of my male friends have cheated. Some haven't been caught.

And it isn't about NOT loving their wives/girlfriends. Some people, a small minority, but some people are what are referred to as "polyamorous".

I'M SORRY THAT HAPPENED TO YOU. Do not give in to it. Wait till you do find Mr. Right. Share that special moment on your wedding night. The right guy is out there some where.

I agree with this.

With being prude. I want that special romantic moment where my foot lifts off the ground when I kiss the man of my dreams. I was dating a guy for 6 years. And I thought he was the one. And he cheated on me. Because I didn't want to have sex. I mean im 37 years old, I know my clock is ticking.

If someone cheats on you because you didn't have sex with him, he's a douche. There's no excuse for cheating on anyone.

In a relationship, there's this thing called "communication". If your needs or your partners' needs aren't being met, it would be better to talk about it rather than just decide to cheat on someone. That's kind of the cowardly ****head way out.

I'm sorry he wasn't the one, but hopefully you'll find someone who will respect you enough for you.

I guess I'm a douche. I don't want to get divorced, but if I go 6 mos without it, that's an invitation to cheat in my mind. It's complete nonsense for a woman to think it would be OK to do that.

^^^^That might bring the hate but it's how I feel. (and isn't an issue w/me)

Nearly every man would cheat and/or leave after a MUCH shorter time of no sex.

Really? NEARLY every man would cheat? sounds like bs.

Sorry by nearly what I really meant was ALL.

This would have ended in cheating or leaving with ALL men.......ALL OF THEM.

There's been a month where I've been a little frigid...mine didn't cheat. But we're talking a month. And if he did, honestly...I really wouldn't care too much. I don't get back, I get even. :happy:

With being prude. I want that special romantic moment where my foot lifts off the ground when I kiss the man of my dreams. I was dating a guy for 6 years. And I thought he was the one. And he cheated on me. Because I didn't want to have sex. I mean im 37 years old, I know my clock is ticking.

If someone cheats on you because you didn't have sex with him, he's a douche. There's no excuse for cheating on anyone.

In a relationship, there's this thing called "communication". If your needs or your partners' needs aren't being met, it would be better to talk about it rather than just decide to cheat on someone. That's kind of the cowardly ****head way out.

I'm sorry he wasn't the one, but hopefully you'll find someone who will respect you enough for you.

I guess I'm a douche. I don't want to get divorced, but if I go 6 mos without it, that's an invitation to cheat in my mind. It's complete nonsense for a woman to think it would be OK to do that.

^^^^That might bring the hate but it's how I feel. (and isn't an issue w/me)

If you can't work it out with your partner instead of going "hey, this is a problem, I need this" and decide to go behind her back and cheat while still married ...

I'm not doctor phil, but see ... usually in these cases, there's a couple reasons why she possibly MAY not be sleeping with you (not saying you're doing these things or she is, but they are possibilities):

- you don't treat her well (or you two get into arguments a lot)
- she's possibly cheating on you, and therefore doesn't need it from you
- she's uncomfortable with her body/self

... or she just doesn't feel like it (that's a thing)



then yes, "douche" seems a fitting title. Don't worry, this applies to women douches as well.

Nearly every man would cheat and/or leave after a MUCH shorter time of no sex.

Really? NEARLY every man would cheat? sounds like bs.

Sorry by nearly what I really meant was ALL.

This would have ended in cheating or leaving with ALL men.......ALL OF THEM.

Lol

... you know the hearts and minds of every man on planet earth? impressive.

Not all men have the moral compass of a doorknob, you know. Maybe you do?

Your very sweet to try to smooth the ripples the OP started. But I sadly have to say most of us were very nice and supportive of her choices and then she went ape sh*** and hated on everyone without similar views. So I think at this point everyone is collectively trying to make a mockery of this thread.

And I love them for it...

Then you dodged a bullet there. What if you had given in to him and had sex? What would have been his excuse for cheating then? Lack of sex is not a reason to cheat!!! I mean....if you're married and you have an accident or develop Alzheimer or whatever? You would hope that your relationship would survive because of the love and commitment.

And you are not a prude.....you are a beautiful woman who deserves to be respected for who you are and that includes the choices that you have decided to make when it come to your body, sex and relationships. That means you love yourself and have self respect. I don't believe that is prudish at all!!!

He was a coward who obviously didn't love you enough to give you everything. If he was with you 6 years with no marriage commitment then he was not the right person for you. Don't worry about your clock!!! If you had had sex with him sooner would that made a difference in getting married? If you had been married and had children he would have found another reason to cheat and then you would be dealing with a divorce with a child.

I believe he did you a favor!!

This a troll thread?