do girls want the bad boyz or the nice guy
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It depends on the girl. Find one that likes you and talk to her, not the internet.0
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Let.me guess, nice guy who got the shaft?0
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True storyBoth I think...but what do I know
Let's also not forget that "bad boy" is open to interpretation to me a bad boy is my SO and he's a great man. However to some a "bad boy" would be someone that beats their GF/wife/SO... so *shrugs*
So true.
I like the "bad boy" look, but want him to be nice.0 -
I like a nice guy: Intelligent, creative, kind, insightful, listens, has a conscience and sense of empathy, good father to the children, adventurous. Someone you can trust.
I don't like a bad boy that is an abusive, narcissist (or worse a sociopath).0 -
They want men. Men can be bad in the sense that they know what they want and will try and get it, even if its something the girl disapproves.
Most of the "men" nowadays are boys who tip toe around everybody. They lack confidence in themselves. When you don't even believe in yourself, why should any women?
Most (not all) girls like a nice guy. Just be confident enough to tell her that you won't always be a nice guy when the need for a tough person comes along.
Yes. I have to agree.
Also it should be pointed out that lack of confidence and assertiveness doesn't make you a nice guy.
It just makes you sissy.
Nice guys are usually the toughest ones.
They don't have anything to prove.0 -
If you feel that the girls you like are only interested in bad boys, you're probably going after the wrong girls.0
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Someone who can be a man's man when he has to, but can also show tenderness to his wife and kids. A combination of masculinity and tenderness...0
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Somebody who is nice because they are genuinely a nice person and not because they think that they deserve something in return for being nice.0
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I like them good... then slowly they become bad... then I hurt them.... and they get sad. When I stop the pain, then they get bad. Very very bad! I then yell "YIELD TO YOUR MISTRESS TOY!"1
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btw, to the women who are saying they want bad boyz... yeah... you haven't seen many (or are delusional about them). See I've seen bad boyz. Rapists. Pimps (who pimp out their own SO and even sisters), drug dealers who purposely get their girl addicted to hard drugs so they could pimp her out. Murderers. Women beaters. Get you pregnant and take off. Beat your kids. Call you names in front of everybody. Mooch off of you. etc.
I'm sure you would love to have those bad boyz0 -
They want men. Men can be bad in the sense that they know what they want and will try and get it, even if its something the girl disapproves.
Most of the "men" nowadays are boys who tip toe around everybody. They lack confidence in themselves. When you don't even believe in yourself, why should any women?
Most (not all) girls like a nice guy. Just be confident enough to tell her that you won't always be a nice guy when the need for a tough person comes along.
^^^
This! Nothing more to add.
Hi Taunto.
Hi Dawn!0 -
They want men. Men can be bad in the sense that they know what they want and will try and get it, even if its something the girl disapproves.
Most of the "men" nowadays are boys who tip toe around everybody. They lack confidence in themselves. When you don't even believe in yourself, why should any women?
Most (not all) girls like a nice guy. Just be confident enough to tell her that you won't always be a nice guy when the need for a tough person comes along.
Yes. I have to agree.
Also it should be pointed out that lack of confidence and assertiveness doesn't make you a nice guy.
It just makes you sissy.
Nice guys are usually the toughest ones.
They don't have anything to prove.
Yes to both quotes. Hell yes to the bold part. Be confident enough to be yourself, be bold enough to be the best person you can be. The rest will take care of itself.0 -
Neither. I want a man who has some courage to go along with his convictions. The rest of it tends to take care of itself.0
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I like them good... then slowly they become bad... then I hurt them.... and they get sad. When I stop the pain, then they get bad. Very very bad! I then yell "YIELD TO YOUR MISTRESS TOY!"
Where do I sign up?
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Tell me this isn't another "nice guy" piece of bull****.
“It sucks when someone you have feelings for doesn’t share those feelings; it happens to women all the time, too. We hear “I just want to be friends” and “you’re like one of the guys” and “you’re like a sister to me” just as often. But you’ll never hear a woman complain that guys just don’t appreciate a Nice Girl because we’re taught it’s our own ****ing fault when we’re rejected—we aren’t pretty enough or thin enough or sexy enough, we weren’t sexual enough or were too sexual, we put out too much or too little or too soon or not soon enough, we didn’t wear our hair the right way or our skirt the right length, we’re “too tomboyish” or “too butch” or “too feminine”, or we’re “not their type”, or we’re otherwise not good enough in various ways to entice the man to grace us with his affection. But when we’re not interested in someone, we’re vilified. We’re the ***** that lead them on, the ***** who let them buy us dinner but didn’t want to date them, the ***** who doesn’t appreciate a nice guy, the ***** they were nice to and then got nothing in return from.And, frankly, **** those people. Showing interest in me, being friendly with me, getting close to me, or eating a meal with me (even if they paid for it) doesn’t obligate me to open my heart or my legs. And anyone who doesn’t appreciate my friendship sure as hell doesn’t deserve my love or my *****.”
http://internal-acceptance-movement.tumblr.com/post/322945651700 -
Bad boys are so high school...they usually end up the losers without a good job
Or they finally give themselves a swift kick in the rear end and grow the hell up.0 -
I would think from past conversations, some prefer the the good guy with confidence that can be the bad boy during adult time...0
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“It sucks when someone you have feelings for doesn’t share those feelings; it happens to women all the time, too. We hear “I just want to be friends” and “you’re like one of the guys” and “you’re like a sister to me” just as often. But you’ll never hear a woman complain that guys just don’t appreciate a Nice Girl because we’re taught it’s our own ****ing fault when we’re rejected—we aren’t pretty enough or thin enough or sexy enough, we weren’t sexual enough or were too sexual, we put out too much or too little or too soon or not soon enough, we didn’t wear our hair the right way or our skirt the right length, we’re “too tomboyish” or “too butch” or “too feminine”, or we’re “not their type”, or we’re otherwise not good enough in various ways to entice the man to grace us with his affection. But when we’re not interested in someone, we’re vilified. We’re the ***** that lead them on, the ***** who let them buy us dinner but didn’t want to date them, the ***** who doesn’t appreciate a nice guy, the ***** they were nice to and then got nothing in return from.And, frankly, **** those people. Showing interest in me, being friendly with me, getting close to me, or eating a meal with me (even if they paid for it) doesn’t obligate me to open my heart or my legs. And anyone who doesn’t appreciate my friendship sure as hell doesn’t deserve my love or my *****.”
http://internal-acceptance-movement.tumblr.com/post/32294565170
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Somebody who is nice because they are genuinely a nice person and not because they think that they deserve something in return for being nice.
This.some prefer the the good guy with confidence that can be the bad boy during adult time...
And this
And guys who don't use "boyz" instead of "boys."0 -
well WOMEN want a good MAN0
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both....a nice guy to everyone...but a bad guy behind closed doors lol 0
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I like em nice with that bad boy exterior.
So, both.0 -
Bad boys are so high school...they usually end up the losers without a good job
You're 18...
Doesn't mean I haven't seen my share of bad boy high schoolers turn into loser men.0 -
I'm a bit older than a lot of folks here, but I never was attracted to the bad boys. I could be wrong, but I think girls that are attracted to bad boys are looking for excitement, adventure, freedom, fun, a little danger, and dare I say it, great sex. I don't know really because I never understood it. That's just my take and again, no offense to anyone. I'll read along & maybe I'll learn something. Give me the decent good guy any day. Oh wait, I married one. Never mind.
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Bad boys are so high school...they usually end up the losers without a good job
Or they finally give themselves a swift kick in the rear end and grow the hell up.
True...0 -
How about interesting without being a d**k?0
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well WOMEN want a good MAN
^^^Absolutely!0 -
Nice guy every time. Bad boys have never done it for me.0
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Personally, a nice guy who can be bad :b0
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more bothered by the lack of attention to grammar in title and OP than the content. obviously.
i like a nice guy with a dash of bad boy. someone sweet yet edgy.0
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