do girls want the bad boyz or the nice guy

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  • pxpwop
    pxpwop Posts: 704 Member
    They want to mess around with the bad boyz until they hit their early 30's. Then they want the nice guy. But then the nice guy is so sick of being the nice guy he is no better then the bad boy.

    No worries, Im not bitter. lol
  • Maribabewhich
    Maribabewhich Posts: 157 Member
    I rather nice guys and one that can stand his grounds when the time comes for it.
  • NotRailMeat
    NotRailMeat Posts: 509 Member
    <--- Geeky, nice guy with just a touch of bad boy attitude!
    why no love for the geek guy lol :heart:
  • BusyRaeNOTBusty
    BusyRaeNOTBusty Posts: 7,166 Member
    There's only 2 options? I like strong maybe even *kitten*-ish personalities. Too nice isn't attractive to me. I don't want someone who caters to my every wish who doesn't have his own opinions or life. My husband is difficult and challenging at times but I wouldn't be happy if I wasn't challenged occasionally.
  • lindychristinaallen
    lindychristinaallen Posts: 3
    We want to screw the bad guys and flirt with danger and then settle down with a good guy. Sad but true. Wish I'd skipped all the bad...
  • pxpwop
    pxpwop Posts: 704 Member
    Proves my point. Thank you!
  • heberlonghurst
    heberlonghurst Posts: 156
    My experience is that they completely ignore men who are intelligent, responsible, hardworking, educated, well-read, cultured and respectful and instead sleep with the men who are crass, misogynist, callus and cruel.

    People on this board have already commented that it is the nice-guys fault for being nice. But, really what type of basis is that for establishing a relationship. Do I have to be mean to women in order for them to treat me with respect? What type of respect is that?

    ^^

    As far as the myth that nice-guys are weak or pushovers. I can say that my earnings are in the top 5% for my country. Besides my job I also teach finance at the #1 school of economics in LATAM. My opinions can move (and have moved) the stock market. Men listen to me, respect me, follow me and take risks based on what I say.

    It is only women who ignore me or treat me like I am invisible. I know that there is a biological, evolutionary, psychological etc need for women to respect the man they are with and for them to see him as strong and capable. But somewhere, somehow the natural need for a strong, inteligent, capable, interesting man who can protect, provide, entertain, satisfy sexually etc has become short-circuited or distorted and many actually do prefer a loser who treats them like $(#+ to a respectful, intelligent, and capable man.

    I've been told I need to stand up to women and put them in their place. But when I notice the way that the men they fawn over treat them it just seems wrong.

    Someone commented that when she was young she prefered the bad men but when she grew up and gained some experience she has learned and now prefers the good men. I think THAT is the consolation for us. While good and respectful men won't have as many women fawning over them, we do have access to more interesting and higher quality women.
  • heberlonghurst
    heberlonghurst Posts: 156
    They want to mess around with the bad boyz until they hit their early 30's. Then they want the nice guy. But then the nice guy is so sick of being the nice guy he is no better then the bad boy.

    No worries, Im not bitter. lol

    This is the reason bad men go bad. If women prefered good, intelligent and responsible men, there would be a lot more of us and the world would be a better place.
  • CrystalDreams
    CrystalDreams Posts: 418 Member
    they want a guy who appears to be a bad guy but is really a nice guy... basically a unicorn. A rare creature that only exists in myth... but a few times some are found due to a mutation.
  • PetulantOne
    PetulantOne Posts: 2,131 Member
    btw, to the women who are saying they want bad boyz... yeah... you haven't seen many (or are delusional about them). See I've seen bad boyz. Rapists. Pimps (who pimp out their own SO and even sisters), drug dealers who purposely get their girl addicted to hard drugs so they could pimp her out. Murderers. Women beaters. Get you pregnant and take off. Beat your kids. Call you names in front of everybody. Mooch off of you. etc.

    I'm sure you would love to have those bad boyz

    All of this.

    Also, why do people bother asking these questions? It's not like you're going to get a definitive answer.
  • danholden4006
    danholden4006 Posts: 66 Member
    I have a penis... that counts for something right?
  • Lift_This_
    Lift_This_ Posts: 2,756 Member
    I have a penis... that counts for something right?

    sure.
  • SibleBranson
    SibleBranson Posts: 1
    Girls like guys who appear bad, but are nice on the inside
  • DawnOBRN
    DawnOBRN Posts: 290 Member
    Yes- we want the sheep in wolves clothing.
  • JessicaPacheco39
    JessicaPacheco39 Posts: 59
    Definitely the nice guy!:flowerforyou:
  • vvenegoniIII
    vvenegoniIII Posts: 4
    Nice guy that looks like a bad boy and has a motorcycle.

    Hey! That's me!
  • Race2the9
    Race2the9 Posts: 77
    me too!!!
  • susieoj
    susieoj Posts: 181
    Lol that's different for every woman but in my experience the "bad boy" is just that, a boy... Not a man you can rely on and trust. The so called bad boys also frequently tend to be employment challenged in my experience ...how about a strong man who could kick some *kitten* but has the good judgement to pick his battles :)
  • deemartin2
    deemartin2 Posts: 168 Member
    a bit of both, at least for me
  • Race2the9
    Race2the9 Posts: 77
    Lol that's different for every woman but in my experience the "bad boy" is just that, a boy... Not a man you can rely on and trust. The so called bad boys also frequently tend to be employment challenged in my experience ...how about a strong man who could kick some *kitten* but has the good judgement to pick his battles :)

    Well Said

    Cheers:drinker:
  • splitfix
    splitfix Posts: 5
    I've always went for the quiet guys who were always just the girl's "best friend", the ones who would care for me as much as I would care for them. I refuse to put effort into someone who would cause me to worry, feel insecure, fight with, etc.

    I hate guys who try to be "bad" or are just *kitten* to women. It leaves a bad taste in my mouth thinking about the guys I know who act like that. Eh.
  • MelsAuntie
    MelsAuntie Posts: 2,833 Member
    The nice guy, absolutely. Bad boys aren't worth it in the long run, too much trouble, too little respect, and they are not any sexier, at all.
  • Lacey_Cakes
    Lacey_Cakes Posts: 223 Member
    Nice guy who isnt a puss. I hate hearing about the girls who go for 'bad boys' then they get treated like crap. Like, hun, this isnt the CW, it will never turn out well for you.
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    I go for manly. Cops, military, the Ed Stark type, I suppose. Tough guys with soft hearts. I do not like girly men, and that's usually the type who classify themselves as "nice guys." I want a man who isn't afraid to toss me about and fight for my honor.
  • LonLB
    LonLB Posts: 1,126 Member
    I think I'm a nice guy. Do you think I look like a girly man?


    LOL.
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    I think I'm a nice guy. Do you think I look like a girly man?


    LOL.
    SO not about looks!
  • emaren
    emaren Posts: 934 Member
    I was once accused of being too nice......

    Just once......
  • tuckerrj
    tuckerrj Posts: 1,453 Member
    I've been around, , , say for 50+ years. In my experience, an overwhelming majority of women say they want a nice guy but ACTUALLY pursue the bad boys. It's sad. . . The crappier a man treats women, the more women they seem to attract. I don't get it. never have, never will. Let the lambasting begin!!!
  • Tricep_A_Tops
    Tricep_A_Tops Posts: 319
    They want the sweet and nice guy during the day :flowerforyou: and the bad boy at night. :devil:
  • Cassandrat83
    Cassandrat83 Posts: 55
    I think it depends on age- when I was younger, I was completely attracted to the bad boy. As I grew though, from about 19 on- definitely the nice guy....so much so that I have been with my 'nice guy' for the last 10 years- been together since I was 20 :) He was my friend, first and foremost!!

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