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I agree with this it should be that way my husband was totally not my type when i first met him he was really thin and i usually like teady bear kind of guys but i gave him a shot and 15 years later he is not so thin anymore but i fell in love with him for what i saw inside not what was on the outside and the more we grow with eachother the more i love everything about him, plus he looks really hot in a black suit lol---i think some people's bodies are just not built to look a certain way and what people that have a little meat to them shouldn't be with someone who is all buff that just doesn't make sense to me
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So where the hell do I sit on this scale?
The last two women I asked out blew me off. One did the Old, "maybe", "We'll see". WTF, am I a six year old asking for a cookie? Just say thanks but no thanks. The second woman had been flirting with me for weeks, and yes it was flirting, not just being nice. She made several remarks about how she would date me, liked older men, how she found my sense of humor to be attracitve quality. When I asked her out on a date, she said yes, then when we went to nail down plans, she said she just wanted to do a freinds thing cuz she isnt ready to date anyone yet... SMH...
At this rate, I almost want to give up on women all together... well, not all together, but dating is making me want to get a mail order bride
No I am not rich, but make a good living, I may not be totally hot, but not bad either, and as for personality, effin forget about it, I am the funniest person I know, bar none! It should also be noted that while I play a bad boy on TV, I am easily wrapped around a womans finger and whipped behind closed doors. Perfect guy, I tell you! LOL
Go ahead ladies, give me some honest feedback, what the hell are you looking for?
Maybe you need to lower your standards or date desperate women?0 -
Damn, that took an ugly turn! You are correct, no woman owes me anything because I am a nice guy, but I would assume common human decency and respect for yourself and others would allow you to be mature enough to just say "I am not interested" or “thanks but no thanks”, don't string someone along with maybes or worse yet say “Yes” and then friend-zone them before the first date. LOL. Then again, maybe that is just my sense of entitlement crap I have in my head (… ahem, man hater).So where the hell do I sit on this scale?
The last two women I asked out blew me off. One did the Old, "maybe", "We'll see". WTF, am I a six year old asking for a cookie? Just say thanks but no thanks. The second woman had been flirting with me for weeks, and yes it was flirting, not just being nice. She made several remarks about how she would date me, liked older men, how she found my sense of humor to be attracitve quality. When I asked her out on a date, she said yes, then when we went to nail down plans, she said she just wanted to do a freinds thing cuz she isnt ready to date anyone yet... SMH...
At this rate, I almost want to give up on women all together... well, not all together, but dating is making me want to get a mail order bride
No I am not rich, but make a good living, I may not be totally hot, but not bad either, and as for personality, effin forget about it, I am the funniest person I know, bar none! It should also be noted that while I play a bad boy on TV, I am easily wrapped around a womans finger and whipped behind closed doors. Perfect guy, I tell you! LOL
Go ahead ladies, give me some honest feedback, what the hell are you looking for?
my honest feedback is no woman owes you anything just because you are a nice guy. maybe when you get that sense of entitlement out of your head, you can treat women like human beings who have their crap going on which might have nothing to do with you, or maybe they just don't want to tell you to your face that they aren't into you.
I know this guy who i can tell is into me. He's nice. He's a good guy. I haven't blatantly told him i'm not into him. If he asked me if I thought he was funny or whatever, i would say yeah, sure. But my god if he ever tries to ask me out, I'm gonna have to come up with some way to ditch him. He's nice enough that i don't want to hurt his feelings. But the thought of kissing him makes my skin crawl. I'm just not into him.
I never ask anything from a woman that she is not willing or wanting to give, to include her time, friendship, and love. If anything, you just proved my point on how crazy women are for no apparent reason that we men can see. I am sorry for whoever hurt you, but I am not him. I hope that guy that you know, who you would never kiss, is able to see the light, and come away from you unscathed, for his sake.
we aren't all crazy. Oh, wait.... we might be.0 -
^^^^THIS^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^JUST BROUGHT ME BACK TO LIFE, SO THANK YOU! :drinker: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
As for the topic, yea, hotties want hotties, hotties want money, hotties want cupcakes sometimes...who the hell knows what anybody wants? I see hot guys with not so hot girls, I see gorgeous women with not hot men, I see hotties with hotties, I see two non hot people madly in love....heck I even saw a guy with a dog once...:noway:
and I am here like, "oh, I love Netflixs and rainbow sprinkles".
At the end of the day, I want a man that thinks the sun rises and sets outta my *kitten*. Yuppers.
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yep. i'm waiting for this too.
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I agree with this it should be that way my husband was totally not my type when i first met him he was really thin and i usually like teady bear kind of guys but i gave him a shot and 15 years later he is not so thin anymore but i fell in love with him for what i saw inside not what was on the outside and the more we grow with eachother the more i love everything about him, plus he looks really hot in a black suit lol---i think some people's bodies are just not built to look a certain way and what people that have a little meat to them shouldn't be with someone who is all buff that just doesn't make sense to me
Take a deep breath. Now, punctuate. :bigsmile:
i don't puntuate i have to deal with doing that crap all day at work and for 12 years in school, i do the same thing on my facebook lol i can't help it0 -
i don't puntuate i have to deal with doing that crap all day at work and for 12 years in school, i do the same thing on my facebook lol i can't help it
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In the words of Mr. Neal McCoy....."looks aren't that important just icing on the cake, what really turns ME on is the shake"0
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i don't puntuate i have to deal with doing that crap all day at work and for 12 years in school, i do the same thing on my facebook lol i can't help it
3.5/10 would not edit
But and this may surprise you I did get my best grades in school in english LOL! Dont judge me on my punctuation skills
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You're,like Realllly s:m'art n sTuff,0
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I've unfortunately run into countless shallow individuals who only care about physical "beauty". You can be a total idiotic *kitten*, boring, obnoxious, conceited, ignorant, etc, but LULZ he/she has an amazing body AND THAT'S ALL THAT MATTERS.
But hey, I guess those people are doing the decent people a favour. That's one advantage to having excess fat. It repels *kitten*.
you have stunning eyes. And, those people who are that shallow that they focus on looks alone aren't worth anyone's time, if that's all they care about. As someone earlier said, beauty fades.
Thanks. They aren't worth anyone's time. Let them frolic with their own kind in their own little bubble.That's one advantage to having excess fat. It repels *kitten*.
Not true. Some of us *kitten* are deep, able to see past the physical and into even more physical. Some of us like a little chunk.
Sorry to disappoint you, but you're clearly not a *kitten*! I know it may be hard to accept but you're going to have to live with it.
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In the words of Mr. Neal McCoy....."looks aren't that important just icing on the cake, what really turns ME on is the shake"
you mean my protein shake?!? :laugh:0 -
Damn, that took an ugly turn! You are correct, no woman owes me anything because I am a nice guy, but I would assume common human decency and respect for yourself and others would allow you to be mature enough to just say "I am not interested" or “thanks but no thanks”, don't string someone along with maybes or worse yet say “Yes” and then friend-zone them before the first date. LOL. Then again, maybe that is just my sense of entitlement crap I have in my head (… ahem, man hater).So where the hell do I sit on this scale?
The last two women I asked out blew me off. One did the Old, "maybe", "We'll see". WTF, am I a six year old asking for a cookie? Just say thanks but no thanks. The second woman had been flirting with me for weeks, and yes it was flirting, not just being nice. She made several remarks about how she would date me, liked older men, how she found my sense of humor to be attracitve quality. When I asked her out on a date, she said yes, then when we went to nail down plans, she said she just wanted to do a freinds thing cuz she isnt ready to date anyone yet... SMH...
At this rate, I almost want to give up on women all together... well, not all together, but dating is making me want to get a mail order bride
No I am not rich, but make a good living, I may not be totally hot, but not bad either, and as for personality, effin forget about it, I am the funniest person I know, bar none! It should also be noted that while I play a bad boy on TV, I am easily wrapped around a womans finger and whipped behind closed doors. Perfect guy, I tell you! LOL
Go ahead ladies, give me some honest feedback, what the hell are you looking for?
my honest feedback is no woman owes you anything just because you are a nice guy. maybe when you get that sense of entitlement out of your head, you can treat women like human beings who have their crap going on which might have nothing to do with you, or maybe they just don't want to tell you to your face that they aren't into you.
I know this guy who i can tell is into me. He's nice. He's a good guy. I haven't blatantly told him i'm not into him. If he asked me if I thought he was funny or whatever, i would say yeah, sure. But my god if he ever tries to ask me out, I'm gonna have to come up with some way to ditch him. He's nice enough that i don't want to hurt his feelings. But the thought of kissing him makes my skin crawl. I'm just not into him.
I never ask anything from a woman that she is not willing or wanting to give, to include her time, friendship, and love. If anything, you just proved my point on how crazy women are for no apparent reason that we men can see. I am sorry for whoever hurt you, but I am not him. I hope that guy that you know, who you would never kiss, is able to see the light, and come away from you unscathed, for his sake.
Wow. You just called me a man-hater? Really??? I don't hate men. Not at all.
This is where I saw your entitlement or sense of being owed something: " When I asked her out on a date, she said yes, then when we went to nail down plans, she said she just wanted to do a freinds thing cuz she isnt ready to date anyone yet... "
She has the right to change her mind. Just as you may have the right to change your mind. But you come on here and complain about it like it is some crime against humanity??
I advise you to stop dividing the world into men and women. This isn't some battle of the sexes. You project your own sexism here "you just proved my point on how crazy women are for no apparent reason that we men can see."
You don't know me at all. But thank you for making it clear that my vagina got in the way of you understanding my point.
If that guy ever asks me out, I will tell him that i'm not interested. Just like that girl told you she just wanted to be friends. I don't see the ****ing problem with her actions. I see a problem with you being pissed off about it.0 -
Damn, that took an ugly turn! You are correct, no woman owes me anything because I am a nice guy, but I would assume common human decency and respect for yourself and others would allow you to be mature enough to just say "I am not interested" or “thanks but no thanks”, don't string someone along with maybes or worse yet say “Yes” and then friend-zone them before the first date. LOL. Then again, maybe that is just my sense of entitlement crap I have in my head (… ahem, man hater).So where the hell do I sit on this scale?
The last two women I asked out blew me off. One did the Old, "maybe", "We'll see". WTF, am I a six year old asking for a cookie? Just say thanks but no thanks. The second woman had been flirting with me for weeks, and yes it was flirting, not just being nice. She made several remarks about how she would date me, liked older men, how she found my sense of humor to be attracitve quality. When I asked her out on a date, she said yes, then when we went to nail down plans, she said she just wanted to do a freinds thing cuz she isnt ready to date anyone yet... SMH...
At this rate, I almost want to give up on women all together... well, not all together, but dating is making me want to get a mail order bride
No I am not rich, but make a good living, I may not be totally hot, but not bad either, and as for personality, effin forget about it, I am the funniest person I know, bar none! It should also be noted that while I play a bad boy on TV, I am easily wrapped around a womans finger and whipped behind closed doors. Perfect guy, I tell you! LOL
Go ahead ladies, give me some honest feedback, what the hell are you looking for?
my honest feedback is no woman owes you anything just because you are a nice guy. maybe when you get that sense of entitlement out of your head, you can treat women like human beings who have their crap going on which might have nothing to do with you, or maybe they just don't want to tell you to your face that they aren't into you.
I know this guy who i can tell is into me. He's nice. He's a good guy. I haven't blatantly told him i'm not into him. If he asked me if I thought he was funny or whatever, i would say yeah, sure. But my god if he ever tries to ask me out, I'm gonna have to come up with some way to ditch him. He's nice enough that i don't want to hurt his feelings. But the thought of kissing him makes my skin crawl. I'm just not into him.
I never ask anything from a woman that she is not willing or wanting to give, to include her time, friendship, and love. If anything, you just proved my point on how crazy women are for no apparent reason that we men can see. I am sorry for whoever hurt you, but I am not him. I hope that guy that you know, who you would never kiss, is able to see the light, and come away from you unscathed, for his sake.
Wow. You just called me a man-hater? Really??? I don't hate men. Not at all.
This is where I saw your entitlement or sense of being owed something: " When I asked her out on a date, she said yes, then when we went to nail down plans, she said she just wanted to do a freinds thing cuz she isnt ready to date anyone yet... "
She has the right to change her mind. Just as you may have the right to change your mind. But you come on here and complain about it like it is some crime against humanity??
I advise you to stop dividing the world into men and women. This isn't some battle of the sexes. You project your own sexism here "you just proved my point on how crazy women are for no apparent reason that we men can see."
You don't know me at all. But thank you for making it clear that my vagina got in the way of you understanding my point.
If that guy ever asks me out, I will tell him that i'm not interested. Just like that girl told you she just wanted to be friends. I don't see the ****ing problem with her actions. I see a problem with you being pissed off about it.
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So where the hell do I sit on this scale?
The last two women I asked out blew me off. One did the Old, "maybe", "We'll see". WTF, am I a six year old asking for a cookie? Just say thanks but no thanks. The second woman had been flirting with me for weeks, and yes it was flirting, not just being nice. She made several remarks about how she would date me, liked older men, how she found my sense of humor to be attracitve quality. When I asked her out on a date, she said yes, then when we went to nail down plans, she said she just wanted to do a freinds thing cuz she isnt ready to date anyone yet... SMH...
At this rate, I almost want to give up on women all together... well, not all together, but dating is making me want to get a mail order bride
No I am not rich, but make a good living, I may not be totally hot, but not bad either, and as for personality, effin forget about it, I am the funniest person I know, bar none! It should also be noted that while I play a bad boy on TV, I am easily wrapped around a womans finger and whipped behind closed doors. Perfect guy, I tell you! LOL
Go ahead ladies, give me some honest feedback, what the hell are you looking for?
my honest feedback is no woman owes you anything just because you are a nice guy. maybe when you get that sense of entitlement out of your head, you can treat women like human beings who have their crap going on which might have nothing to do with you, or maybe they just don't want to tell you to your face that they aren't into you.
I know this guy who i can tell is into me. He's nice. He's a good guy. I haven't blatantly told him i'm not into him. If he asked me if I thought he was funny or whatever, i would say yeah, sure. But my god if he ever tries to ask me out, I'm gonna have to come up with some way to ditch him. He's nice enough that i don't want to hurt his feelings. But the thought of kissing him makes my skin crawl. I'm just not into him.
haha.
I think this article is most excellent, and is also why the whole "Friend zone" thing is just annoying:
http://feminspire.com/nice-guy-syndrome-and-the-friend-zone/
some highlights: "All right. Seriously. A Nice Guy® is a guy who tells you, in a bitter, resentful tone, that women don’t date “nice guys,” they only date “bad boys,” and because he’s “too nice,” women only view him as a friend" and "The Friend Zone is a bull****, misogynistic, make-believe land Nice Guys have come up with to demonize women for not wanting to date them. They use it as an excuse to ignore the fact that there are Actual Reasons behind their decision to not pursue a relationship or have sex with this guy. You know, like not being physically attracted to them. Or not being able to connect with them. Or seeing through their crap and realizing that the only reason these guys are even friends with them in the first place is so they can get laid."0 -
will do.
enjoy your hotties will date whoever the **** they want thread!0 -
will do.
enjoy your hotties will date whoever the **** they want thread!
I just meant the fighting, not specifically you. This thread was just intended to be silly...0 -
will do.
enjoy your hotties will date whoever the **** they want thread!
I just meant the fighting, not specifically you. This thread was just intended to be silly...
yeah. And i'd like to say to that guy I responded to- whatever his name is- I agree my first response was a bit harsher than needed to be. Maybe I read more resentment in the initial post than was there. But I think the girl saying she wanted to be friends WAS her making it clear. And why be angry about it?
I am not a man hater. I'm a sexism hater. It's a "thing" I have.0 -
Hey. Some of the women I dated appreciated me finishing last.
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Hey. Some of the women I dated appreciated me finishing last.
Ooops? Thread locked in... 5... 4...
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that was quite generous of you.0 -
See, know we are talking. Yes, I do feel you came off a little harsh on your response to me, which prompted my less than favorable response back to you. Her friend zoning me was fine, just dont spend 3 weeks telling me you want to go out with me when I can free up my schedule, just to then say lets be friends. it is confusing..
will do.
enjoy your hotties will date whoever the **** they want thread!
I just meant the fighting, not specifically you. This thread was just intended to be silly...
yeah. And i'd like to say to that guy I responded to- whatever his name is- I agree my first response was a bit harsher than needed to be. Maybe I read more resentment in the initial post than was there. But I think the girl saying she wanted to be friends WAS her making it clear. And why be angry about it?
I am not a man hater. I'm a sexism hater. It's a "thing" I have.
So we are clear, I have no tolerance for sexism, and I have nothing but the highest respect for most women; those who garner my respect. I'm sure you are not actually a man hater, I was just being provocative in my repsonse. Thank you for your insight and feedback, we all see things differently.0
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