Confession Time! ((ABSOLUTELY NO JUDGEMENT))

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  • quiksylver296
    quiksylver296 Posts: 28,439 Member
    edited November 2020
    Beka3695 wrote: »
    Confession:
    I’m pretty sure my marriage is ending.... Just needed to toss that out in the universe.

    Oh, no!!! I am so sorry! I hope things work out for the best. Prayers and hugs!!!

  • Beka3695
    Beka3695 Posts: 4,126 Member
    I got fired and have been unemployed for the last month, if we’re confessing really crappy things. 😥

    I’m so sorry quik!!!! Sometimes it just feels good to get it off your chest to folks that don’t judge!!

    Positive vibes coming your way, too!!!
  • crosbylee
    crosbylee Posts: 3,455 Member
    Can we just cancel out this entire year, please? Sorry for all that's going badly. Sometimes those things happen to present better opportunities.
  • The_Elephant_Man
    The_Elephant_Man Posts: 207 Member
    Beka3695 wrote: »
    Confession:
    I’m pretty sure my marriage is ending.... Just needed to toss that out in the universe.

    I am sorry!!! Just keep your head up! I wish you the best.
  • Beka3695
    Beka3695 Posts: 4,126 Member
    crosbylee wrote: »
    Can we just cancel out this entire year, please? Sorry for all that's going badly. Sometimes those things happen to present better opportunities.

    You are exactly right!!!! Let’s keep finding that silver lining
  • Italian_Buju
    Italian_Buju Posts: 8,030 Member
    We can only hope that 2021 is better....
  • melissafeagins
    melissafeagins Posts: 1,421 Member
    Beka3695 wrote: »
    Confession:
    I’m pretty sure my marriage is ending.... Just needed to toss that out in the universe.

    Becky,
    I am sorry, but not sure I am surprised. I think you are going to be stronger when it's over.
    Call or text anytime. I mean that.
    And definitely, we'll meet for chocolate soon.
  • melissafeagins
    melissafeagins Posts: 1,421 Member
    Y'all, Denni and I made an offer on a house in my hometown. We've lived in his for 28 + years, first because his grandmother was alone here and it was between our jobs, then because our kids had started school and my job was here.
    Now his job is there and mine is in our very small house. And since my dad died, we have the money to pay this one off and make a down payment on the new one without worrying about selling right away.
    Home inspection is 11/18, close is 12/18.
    Prayers and positive thoughts, please. Especially for a smooth transition for Tyler to a new high school, not that he's really been in the current high school enough to be settled, thanks to Covid schedule disruptions.
    For the first time ever, I will have enough bedrooms for all of my kids to have their own, which means I have a place for my family to come for holidays, when large groups can gather indoors safely. (And if the weather is nice,, they can come to the backyard this year for socially distant marshmallow roast at the fire pit.)
  • raymax4
    raymax4 Posts: 6,070 Member
    Y'all, Denni and I made an offer on a house in my hometown. We've lived in his for 28 + years, first because his grandmother was alone here and it was between our jobs, then because our kids had started school and my job was here.
    Now his job is there and mine is in our very small house. And since my dad died, we have the money to pay this one off and make a down payment on the new one without worrying about selling right away.
    Home inspection is 11/18, close is 12/18.
    Prayers and positive thoughts, please. Especially for a smooth transition for Tyler to a new high school, not that he's really been in the current high school enough to be settled, thanks to Covid schedule disruptions.
    For the first time ever, I will have enough bedrooms for all of my kids to have their own, which means I have a place for my family to come for holidays, when large groups can gather indoors safely. (And if the weather is nice,, they can come to the backyard this year for socially distant marshmallow roast at the fire pit.)

    Way to go Malissa!,
    I know you deserve it.
    Fingers crossed and prayers sent.
  • raymax4
    raymax4 Posts: 6,070 Member
    Hi everyone,
    I’m sorry I have been gone so long. I have finished school in fine form however my fitness plan has suffered. Not to worry I’m back on task and am looking forward to getting back into my jeans. I haven’t yet read all the previous text but will soon.
  • melissafeagins
    melissafeagins Posts: 1,421 Member
    raymax4 wrote: »
    Hi everyone,
    I’m sorry I have been gone so long. I have finished school in fine form however my fitness plan has suffered. Not to worry I’m back on task and am looking forward to getting back into my jeans. I haven’t yet read all the previous text but will soon.

    Congratulations!!!
  • raymax4
    raymax4 Posts: 6,070 Member
    Is it odd that I am enjoying my food better and feel more full since I started logging my food? And yes I am losing weight
  • quiksylver296
    quiksylver296 Posts: 28,439 Member
    Y'all, Denni and I made an offer on a house in my hometown. We've lived in his for 28 + years, first because his grandmother was alone here and it was between our jobs, then because our kids had started school and my job was here.
    Now his job is there and mine is in our very small house. And since my dad died, we have the money to pay this one off and make a down payment on the new one without worrying about selling right away.
    Home inspection is 11/18, close is 12/18.
    Prayers and positive thoughts, please. Especially for a smooth transition for Tyler to a new high school, not that he's really been in the current high school enough to be settled, thanks to Covid schedule disruptions.
    For the first time ever, I will have enough bedrooms for all of my kids to have their own, which means I have a place for my family to come for holidays, when large groups can gather indoors safely. (And if the weather is nice,, they can come to the backyard this year for socially distant marshmallow roast at the fire pit.)

    Just saw this. How awesome! I hope inspection went well!
  • quiksylver296
    quiksylver296 Posts: 28,439 Member
    raymax4 wrote: »
    Hi everyone,
    I’m sorry I have been gone so long. I have finished school in fine form however my fitness plan has suffered. Not to worry I’m back on task and am looking forward to getting back into my jeans. I haven’t yet read all the previous text but will soon.

    Welcome back!
  • raymax4
    raymax4 Posts: 6,070 Member
    Melissa, I am so sorry about your dad, It stinks that when people come into the hospital with covid their greatest support can not be with them. I understand the reason for the rule but it still breaks my heart to see this. Our hospital has bought I pads so the patients can have skype visits which helps. I still miss my mom and get sad at times even though she has been dead since 2011. Remembering the times we had togather does help. Big Hugs



  • raymax4
    raymax4 Posts: 6,070 Member
    This pandemic has touched almost everyone in very significant ways. Shortages, loss of work, lost love ones, and just the stress of it all tires the soul. It was fortunate that we had social distancing because it gave at least not every one got sick at the same time. Evan though it did not feel like it the hospital had opportunity to revamp many units into covid units, and improve their game plan. Treatments are improving. We are going to get better at this and will be better prepared in the future. I will be glad when we have conquered this.
  • melissafeagins
    melissafeagins Posts: 1,421 Member
    raymax4 wrote: »
    Is it odd that I am enjoying my food better and feel more full since I started logging my food? And yes I am losing weight

    I don't think so. Mindfulness is really helpful for a lot of things. Maybe especially food
  • melissafeagins
    melissafeagins Posts: 1,421 Member
    I got fired and have been unemployed for the last month, if we’re confessing really crappy things. 😥

    OH, no, Tami. That's awful!!
    And, we're all here for the crap and I am sorry I missed this for two weeks.
    When I say I'm buried at work, I mean it and so of course I added buying a house to my to do list.
    How is the job hunt?
    On the positive side, someone else is reading the child porn now.
  • melissafeagins
    melissafeagins Posts: 1,421 Member
    Beka3695 wrote: »
    I dislike the Holidays.... and burlap.

    There! I said it!!

    I like the holidays, but not most people's attitude about them. Burlap is for barns and live Christmas trees make me sick. There, I mostly agreed with you.
  • crosbylee
    crosbylee Posts: 3,455 Member
    It's funny I look at the dates and realize we are still going, even if it is not everyday. I had my first covid positive patient at my clinic. Had to suit up for that one, although they were 15 days out and asymptomatic. I do understand the abundance of precaution, although I have seen comments from parents who feel we have gone off the deep end for non covid patients when it comes to PPE.

    I am working on enjoying what time I get to spend with family this year. We had a good Thanksgiving and looking forward to Christmas. Still working on finishing the lights on my house.
  • Italian_Buju
    Italian_Buju Posts: 8,030 Member
    Hope everyone has good holidays! Stay safe!
  • Beka3695
    Beka3695 Posts: 4,126 Member
    Happy New Years to everyone!!!!
  • Italian_Buju
    Italian_Buju Posts: 8,030 Member
    Hope everyone had good holidays!
  • quiksylver296
    quiksylver296 Posts: 28,439 Member
    Happy New Year's, guys! I'm believing for great things ahead. (I have to. I can't handle the idea of worse things. :D )
  • Beka3695
    Beka3695 Posts: 4,126 Member
    I miss this thread!!!!!

    Where did all my venting buddies go???
  • Italian_Buju
    Italian_Buju Posts: 8,030 Member
    I just realized my last two comments were pretty much the same :|

    After six years, this thread may be dying......
  • Beka3695
    Beka3695 Posts: 4,126 Member
    edited January 2021
    I just realized my last two comments were pretty much the same :|

    After six years, this thread may be dying......


    This does not make me happy, nor do I believe it!

    We can provide CPR
  • crosbylee
    crosbylee Posts: 3,455 Member
    I am still in and out. I should make this a new habit. I need to log better anyway. It helps to have this group.