What nobody tells you about losing weight
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lilaclovebird wrote: »
This site is amazing and after using it I also recommend Herroom.com, in addition to Amazon, for shopping. They carry MANY brands in MANY sizes, have great sales and a decent return policy(I've never had a problem). Don't freak out if you come out with some cup size you've never heard of. DD isn't THAT big guys...
Also, I recommend women get fitted ANYWHERE EXCEPT VICTORIA'S SECRET.
They fit you to sell THEIR BRAS. They don't fit you to fit YOU.
I definitely recommend specialty stores or find a fitter in a department store who knows her stuff because there is probably certain bra styles that will fit you and your shape better than others.
You guys are so nice to help--those are great websites! I know it sounds like I am being hypercritical of myself, but really, I *am* weirdly shaped! I've been fitted in specialty shops and at all the big department stores in New York (no VS!) and the ladies (most have been doing this longer than I have been alive) have seen me as a great challenge. Their eyes narrow and they scratch their heads and they say, 'Hmmmm...'
The point is that I thought losing weight would make buying clothes easier, and it will eventually, but right now it feels like I am in no man's land. Just have to power through! Gives me something good to look forward to.
If it's due to some unevenness or one being shaped differently than another, I would just take up, or keep up with, strength training and power through.
My breasts evened out nicely with strength training and a deficit.
I actually mentioned in one of my Facebook groups not too long ago about how your body goes through sort of transformation phase on the way to greatness where it looks 'different' and it's NOT a good different either. You have to push through that phase to get to the greatness, but it DOES come through eventually!
There IS light at the end of the tunnel!
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orange_hoodie wrote: »thereshegoesagain wrote: »Nobody told my that my community would benefit as well. Now that I walk around town instead of driving from one spot to another, I've taken up the habit of picking up trash and disposing of it.
I find it strange though when some people look at me like "what is she doing?" They're probably the same people who just drop their trash where they want to.
If you have not read this yet, I think you'll really enjoy it: http://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2014/06/30/stepping-out-3
Great read, thank you!
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The point is that I thought losing weight would make buying clothes easier, and it will eventually, but right now it feels like I am in no man's land. Just have to power through! Gives me something good to look forward to.
Exactly. This. I'm glad I'm not alone but sorry you're feeling this way as well.0 -
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kportwood85 wrote: »AubreyWestwood wrote: »I've come to the conclusion that I need constant reinforcement from people saying I look thinner or I get discouraged. I've lost 15lbs and not a word from anyone.
I'm feeling similar, I've lost 20+ pounds since Christmas, and...nothing. Nobody has said a word. So, I'm frustrated, but, I'll keep going until I find out just how many pounds I need to lose before somebody asks.
I think I lost 50 or 60 before people seemed to notice.3 -
I just read this entire thread over the last few weeks. Thanks for keeping me motivated, everyone! I'm down 16lbs since Feb 8th when I started getting serious. I changed my sleep schedule so I can wake up, make a proper breakfast, then walk 2 miles every morning, then after work walk another 2 miles, then dinner. I feel like it's working out pretty well, and staying busy keeps me from snacking or binging.
Way to go!0 -
geminiswede wrote: »How much you'll roll your eyes at your coworkers when they say that this miracle thing or that miracle thing will help you lose more weight and how they can't wait to try it and how I should try it too. Um, I've lost almost 60 pounds just tracking calories and moving more, I think I'm good.
Also how jewelry (mainly rings) fit you differently. The engagement ring I still wear with my wedding band keeps flipping around so that it's face up on the palm side. Not quite loose enough yet to get it resized or wear a spacer with it, but just enough to be annoying.
Great loss!
I found a package of different-sized plastic ring spacers. It was maybe six or ten dollars at most. Might be worth a look as temporary measure, until you get to goal.0 -
I used to be like a lot of people and thought I needed some expensive shake or pill or something else to help me lose weight. I've lost over 25 pounds just tracking calories and using this free app and a friend of my sisters was telling her how she lost weight with this new, expensive, pill. Well...i lost more weight then her in that time frame and I did it for free! If someone told me a long time ago counting calories was this easy and I would see this weight loss I would have done it!
Whoo-wee! Way to go!0 -
I haven't noticed more frequent door-opening. But then, I've also long been one to open doors for whoever is there, sometimes with a low bow and flourish. ☺1 -
Wonkasmistake wrote: »Having to have your prom dress taken in three or four sizes because you've lost too much weight to keep it up no matter how tightly corseted.
The stamina to completely run more than a lap.
Looking at itty-bitty clothes and thinking 'There's no way that's my size!', though it really is
Feeling much more confident
Receiving unwanted attention
Receiving wanted attention :^))
Having to go thrift shopping for smaller sized clothing
Looking at all of the oversized clothing pile up
You have so much more energy!
Other people are too intimidated to ask you The Question.
Very cool!
How long is a lap? The longest I've managed to run so far is about a half-mile. Am working reward the 15 minutes my fitbit will recognize automagically.0 -
MimiOfTheLusciousLawn wrote: »Nobody told me that it would be so hard finding clothes in smaller sizes. When I was a lot bigger, I knew I had the handful of stores I could shop in and the choices were limited. And you made it work because you had to. Now, in a size 16, XL shirt or 1X, there's either a no-man's land size-wise or these sizes fly off the racks. I don't understand how and where the line is drawn between misses and plus sizes, or that an XL and a 1X should be the same size (or XXL and 2X), but they're not! I'm clueless as to what stores/brands are good or reasonable or carry my sizes. I never thought it would be MORE difficult to shop for clothes, but it's actually getting harder every new size.
Women's sizes don't make sense because every brand has a different template. Men can buy pants by waist and inseam and be pretty sure they'll fit. After shedding 70-odd pounds, starting at. ... I think too-tight 20s, I can still wear some 14s, while others fall off me. I also wear 12s, 10s and the very occasional 8. And, tho the weight has been 140-145 since November, pants that were tight when I bought them then are now loose. At 63, I'm getting sorta toned! (But the midsectional skin is loose and weird-looking.)1 -
KpopGrad92 wrote: »The emotional side of it all. Passing former lowest weights, Getting out of obese category, Getting out of plus size, Realizing how capable you are of physical activity. Realizing what people really support you, this is so huge! I realized how unsupportive my ex was of me and all I can think is thank god I got rid of him before we moved in or got married. I know in 20 lbs when I hit onederland there will be tears, I know when I hit normal BMI there will be tears. Goal weight I will just be such a mess. You learn a lot about your real self. You learn about the people around you. I learned I love running and that weight lifting doesn't suck that much. Weight loss is a lot of self discovery. I am excited what losing 80 more pounds will help me learn.
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holmesj747 wrote: »going from being told at the doctors office that you have high blood pressure and them wanting to prescribe medication to (a new doctor) taking a double take looking at your chart and saying that everything is now right where it was supposed to be, no medication needed and asking what I've done to change. That felt damn good!!!
Huzza!1 -
holmesj747 wrote: »oh and no longer having man boobs that are bigger than some of the females I know. lol
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HollyJean2013 wrote: »How easy and effortless it is just to go from sitting to standing. You don't have to use your arms to push yourself up off the couch.
How your confidence shines and you learn to love yourself.
How sugar really affects your body and mood.
How amazing it feels to actually go after your dream of being fit and seeing that it is possible=)
No longer needing a cane to heave myself up from the ground if I got down to photograph a flower or lizard.2 -
holmesj747 wrote: »oh and no longer having man boobs that are bigger than some of the females I know. lol
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don't know why my "waytago!" didn't show up.0 -
That you will walk out of a restaurant without ordering after looking at a menu and realizing they don't have anything that will fit your macros.2
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I actually mentioned in one of my Facebook groups not too long ago about how your body goes through sort of transformation phase on the way to greatness where it looks 'different' and it's NOT a good different either. You have to push through that phase to get to the greatness, but it DOES come through eventually!
There IS light at the end of the tunnel! [/quote]
I LOVE this comment!! I was Literally telling myself this yesterday and it's great reading that someone else feels the same and can relate!! I have different parts of me that are fantastic while other areas.. Not so much. Lol But I see them TRYING to transform. Once I burn/lose the last of this fat on my upper body so that more of my muscles show through, I'll be home free. I look a little bulkier than I'd like to look on the top because I still have some fat to lose on my arms and upper back. It just doesn't go with the rest of my body. Smh. Folks don't see what I see, but what matters is what I think. Lol
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