Ladies . . . how many dates?

PlayerHatinDogooder
PlayerHatinDogooder Posts: 1,018 Member
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Until, you know
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  • kmartinixx
    kmartinixx Posts: 197
    Lol I think it totally depends on how physically attracted I am to the person. If they're just sweet then I will wait longer to get to know more about them. But if there is just instant chemistry...ya never know! lol.

    Just being honest! :blushing:
  • LuckyFur
    LuckyFur Posts: 96
    One or two unless I don't find them attractive.

    Then it's about 5 or 6.
  • IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym
    IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym Posts: 5,573 Member
    totally depends on the connection. Oh, and I want some level of commitment.
  • Lift_This_
    Lift_This_ Posts: 2,756 Member
    with the ex, it was like 3 months before i put out...well him too....

    but, there have been a few times where it was the first or second date. hangs head in shame.
  • EmilyOfTheSun
    EmilyOfTheSun Posts: 1,548 Member
    There's no set number. It's a case-by-case basis.
  • Candi_land
    Candi_land Posts: 1,311 Member
    Depends on how much alcohol is involved. :drinker:
  • hbrittingham
    hbrittingham Posts: 2,518 Member
    I slept with my husband on our first or second date, I can't remember which. But I did know him (we worked together) for 6 months before he finally convinced me to go out with him.

    That was 23 years ago.
  • Achrya
    Achrya Posts: 16,913 Member
    120 days from the first date, at minimum.

    Not even joking.
  • pastryari
    pastryari Posts: 8,646 Member
    I'm not having sex until marriage.
  • ItsCasey
    ItsCasey Posts: 4,021 Member
    As many as I say. You got that?
  • Some_Watery_Tart
    Some_Watery_Tart Posts: 2,250 Member
    You're supposed to go on a date first? I thought that's how you GOT dates....My whole life is a LIE!
  • rowanwood
    rowanwood Posts: 509 Member
    I put out...put you right out the door for thinking I'm a vending machine. You know, you put in a movie and dinner and sex pops out the other end.





    And though I'm no puritan, my husband proposed before we'd even gotten to the sex. It's been 12 years since then.....
  • elawoman72
    elawoman72 Posts: 76 Member
    LOL. Total case-by-case. Some are just luckier than others ;^)
  • skullshank
    skullshank Posts: 4,323 Member
    I'm not having sex until marriage.

    will you marry me?
  • MG_Fit
    MG_Fit Posts: 1,143 Member
    One or two unless I don't find them attractive.

    Then it's about 5 or 6.

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  • Velum_cado
    Velum_cado Posts: 1,608 Member
    Case by case basis. There's no blanket rule for this.
  • footiechick82
    footiechick82 Posts: 1,203 Member
    oy... if a woman has any type of self esteem, they won't on the first date - UNLESS they're just in it for the "put out"... I think a few of us have been there...

    but for a woman that wants a relationship, depends on how many times you see her.

    say you see her twice a week, after a month and a half 2 months which is about 10-14 dates.

    I should edit: there has to be monogamy involved and a relationship status set in stone!
  • taunto
    taunto Posts: 6,420 Member
    I'm not payin for waitin
  • SoViLicious
    SoViLicious Posts: 2,633 Member
    Date??? Who needs a date... Car in front of my house!!! Actually I married the only guy I put out for on the first date. Sometimes when he annoys me I regret this.
  • Tewsy87
    Tewsy87 Posts: 55 Member
    When it;s monogamous and you know it.
  • MrsBobaFett
    MrsBobaFett Posts: 802 Member
    Totally depends on if there is chemistry, with my now Husband it was 3 dates, we had animalistic chemistry and we still do 4 1/2 years later ;)
  • PlayerHatinDogooder
    PlayerHatinDogooder Posts: 1,018 Member
    120 days from the first date, at minimum.

    Not even joking.

    Seriously? But isn't sex kind of an important part of a relationship. What if you wait six months and you guys are really awkward and stuff and it's horrible?
  • redhead1910
    redhead1910 Posts: 304 Member
    When it feels right you will know, whether it's the first date, the third, or the 100th. :)
  • oregonzoo
    oregonzoo Posts: 4,251 Member
    If "date" means trips to Wendys for a waffle cone frosty....

    One.
    One "date".
  • vjohn04
    vjohn04 Posts: 2,276 Member
    As many as I say. You got that?

    Lol!!!
    ^this, definitely!!!!
  • cgrout78
    cgrout78 Posts: 1,628 Member
    anywhere from 1st date to 10th date...depending on timing/chemistry etc.
  • saxmaniac
    saxmaniac Posts: 1,133 Member
    You're supposed to go on a date first? I thought that's how you GOT dates....My whole life is a LIE!

    No, you're totally right. You go on dates after sex. Don't let these jokers fool you.
  • JaneDough_
    JaneDough_ Posts: 301 Member
    Depends. One thing is for sure. Never on the first or second date. Nope.
  • Lynds7128
    Lynds7128 Posts: 132
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  • Lochlyn_D
    Lochlyn_D Posts: 492 Member
    None. My hubby and I hooked up at the bar. We started dating after.
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