Ladies . . . how many dates?

whierd

First date both times. But knew them for at least a month before the first date.

but, um, tim??? this post was for the laaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaadies.

Clearly I break the rules.

summertime_girl

No idea. It's been 20 years since I went on a date. But now that I'm getting a divorce (sob) I suppose I'll find out sooner or later.

odusgolp

It's on if he brings me cheese or plays with my hair...

Morninglory81

I enter, my cue in hand. I did not plan on coming this evening. I worked the closing shift at the Thruway and just want to go home. I am late, the pool matches have already begun. We are facing a team I do not know.
I see him. He is at the table lining up a shot. His eyes are intense, I can not look away. His movements are fluid and controlled, each stroke hits it's mark. I am lost in his game, my breath is matched with his. My senses are alive with an animal desire that is consuming my reason. I want him! I am now a jaguar on the hunt. He stands no chance for I knew how to peruse this prey.
His match is over, I congratulate him on his win. I now have his attention. I step up to the table to display my talent. My opponent is of no concern to me. The game I am playing is not on the felt. I lose my match but he is interested.
We are talking and I learn we share a common pain. His wife of four years has just left him. I easily convince him that a mindless release is the medicine he needs. He says "I have been out of the game for so long that I do not even know how to begin to hit on a woman let alone close the deal." He is making it so easy to seduce him. I tell him the blunt truth, a method that has never failed me, I say "I have been divorced for six months and I want nothing more from you than a night of passion. I just want to satisfy a selfish need. I will make this real easy for you. I will drive you home, when we get there if you ask me in you will get laid. It is just that easy!" He is now mine.
We are in my car and I can sense he is excited and uncertain. I feel powerful, confident,and in control. We are stopped at a red light. I turn to look at him and say "We should at least kiss before we go any further." He leans in and our mouths meet in a clumsy kiss while I try to pay attention to the traffic light. The light turns green and we are driving again. I turn into his drive way, kill the engine, turn to him and say "This is where you make your decision."
He quickly invites me in and offers me a drink. I turn to him and smile, saying "I did not come here for a drink!" I now move to the open bedroom door and make my intentions clear one last time. He needs no more encouragement and instantly covers the distance to me. We come together as if we have known each other for a life time. We satisfy our physical needs. Spent we lay in each others arms enjoying the afterglow of intimacy. I fade in and out of sleep for an hour. All of the sudden I realize there is a closeness that I feel in this strangers arms. A contentment I have not felt in a long time. I need to leave now!
I get up and dress moving brusquely trying to shut out that unwanted feeling. I am at the door ready to leave. I say "It was fun. Thank you." He says " That's it? Can I have your number? Can I see you again?" I am frozen in place. I think to myself: Who is he to change the rules of my game? I want nothing more than this one night. Why am I giving him my number?
Seven years have passed and I am now the mother of two beautiful boys. I often think back on the night that changed the direction of my life. I am grateful my husband had the audacity to challenge my rules.

Good read.

Thanks beautifull

whierd

It's on if he brings me cheese or plays with my hair...

:laugh:

sbbhbm

I have never been on a date. I just make friends with a guy and then marry him apparently... and hence the two divorces under my belt. Good grief that sounds pathetic. :sad:

Svolt

I put out on the first date for a klondike bar

Seriously tho, who wouldn't. Love them Klondikes....:smooched:

^^^ Hahaha

It all depends on the chemisty with the guy. I'm an impatient gal though ...
I put out after two weeks with my ex. We were together for almost 5 years.

PlayerHatinDogooder

WOW. This post isn't creepy or anything. What are you, some kind of creep?

I've got to figurre out who to friend request somehow . . . .

glovepuppet

i don't ''put out''.
two adults decide that they are mutually attracted, then spend time together until both of them are comfortable enough in each other's company to enjoy sex. that takes as long as it takes.

kittyr77

You're supposed to go on a date first? I thought that's how you GOT dates....My whole life is a LIE!

ha ha so true

PoopieMonster

WOW. This post isn't creepy or anything. What are you, some kind of creep?

You know, if you're gonna try and troll, at least pick a better username

What specifically is wrong with my username?

soldier4242

I'm not having sex until marriage.

Than you are a gambler on a level that I cannot even imagine.

PoopieMonster

WOW. This post isn't creepy or anything. What are you, some kind of creep?

I've got to figurre out who to friend request somehow . . . .

Unbelievable. :sick:

VorJoshigan

Some of my ladies barely make through one date, and most never make it past 2 or 3. I think it's because I wrap them in bacon.

taunto

I'm not having sex until marriage.

Adini, I will boyfriend you so hard!

I will ask you out for coffee and even talk to you while looking at your face and not looking at all the hot waitresses

Then, oh you better be prepared for my next brutal move because after the coffee, I will ask you out for a dinner and movie. Oh yeah, you know how hard I would be boyfriending you when theres dinner and a movie involved!

I will wine and dine you all night. I will wine and dine you so hard that you might even wanna... ask me to take you home.

And then.

Oh thats when the magic begins.

Then, I will drop you off because you're tipsy and so I will take you to your home and go my own way and wait for your phone call.

BAM! You just got boyfriended. HARD!

PS. This hardcore boyfriending will involve me forgetting I even have a cellphone!

Back off dude.

I'm already taking her to Red Lobster.

GUIZE SRSLY!!!
we're at olive garden right now enjoying all you can eat soup and breadsticks....

This girl deserves a better class of creep. And I'm gonna give it to her.

LookMaNoHands

I'm not having sex until marriage.

The only right answer I see here, and the only way to truly earn the right to wear a white wedding dress.

taunto

I'm not having sex until marriage.

The only right answer I see here, and the only way to truly earn the right to wear a white wedding dress.

My white hand can never wear a white glove

redhead1910

I'm not having sex until marriage.

The only right answer I see here, and the only way to truly earn the right to wear a white wedding dress.

Haha this is hilarious. I will wear whatever the *kitten* I want at my wedding and I don't need to "earn the right" to wear a color.

whierd

I'm not having sex until marriage.

The only right answer I see here, and the only way to truly earn the right to wear a white wedding dress.

Why is it the right answer?

Morninglory81

I'm not having sex until marriage.

The only right answer I see here, and the only way to truly earn the right to wear a white wedding dress.

Earn the right :huh: :noway:

whierd

I'm not having sex until marriage.

The only right answer I see here, and the only way to truly earn the right to wear a white wedding dress.

Haha this is hilarious. I will wear whatever the *kitten* I want at my wedding and I don't need to "earn the right" to wear a color.

Tell him babe, you can wear whatever you want at our wedding.

ZealousZamboni

As for me, I answer to a personal belief (read:not religious) that sex is something that should be shared between two loving, committed individuals.

After the relationship has been exclusive for a month or more, I'll consider it. There are quite a few people who say that this won't keep the relationship healthy and it's going to be awkward, but the fact remains: if you're with the right person, the relationship should be healthy enough for both parties to consider each other's personal boundaries.

rml_16

Date??? Who needs a date... Car in front of my house!!! Actually I married the only guy I put out for on the first date. Sometimes when he annoys me I regret this.

When I met the current BF, he was supposed to leave town for a while and I was NOT looking for a relationship and we slept together basically the night we met. It wasn't even a date.

Eight years later ...

But I guess that means I have no self-esteem. :-/

schaapj2

I saw my hand, gave it a dirty look and said "How YOU doin'?" I put out the minute I saw it LOL.

I'm an old spinster it feels like. I forgot what dates or sex is like with anyone other than myself haha.

PlayerHatinDogooder

I'm not having sex until marriage.

The only right answer I see here, and the only way to truly earn the right to wear a white wedding dress.

What color should the wedding dress be if there's sex before marriage?

diodelcibo

Op you should be aiming to get in by date 2 maximum.

DarkAngel262

If I ever hae sex again, I'll update with my input.
Someone hold me!

catrinaHwechanged

I'm not having sex until marriage.

The only right answer I see here, and the only way to truly earn the right to wear a white wedding dress.

I am not religious. I am not a proponent of marriage....it's just not for me. You can have commitment without marriage. I will likely never get married. It's not the right answer for everyone.

redhead1910

I'm not having sex until marriage.

The only right answer I see here, and the only way to truly earn the right to wear a white wedding dress.

Haha this is hilarious. I will wear whatever the *kitten* I want at my wedding and I don't need to "earn the right" to wear a color.

Tell him babe, you can wear whatever you want at our wedding.

Can I walk down the aisle to Metallica?

Achrya

I'm not having sex until marriage.

The only right answer I see here, and the only way to truly earn the right to wear a white wedding dress.

I wore a red and black dress at my wedding. Because it was cute and I looked hot. White is overrated/makes me look incredibly dark (which I don't need help with, tbh.) and all that aside, it certainly doesn't need to be earned. You look good in white? You found a nice dress you wanna wear in white? Wear it.

I don't care if you'd slept with the entire nfl, if you want a white dress you better wear and rock it.