When you SHOULDN'T count calories
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thorsmom01 wrote: »If you just want to track what you ate and not have any of the NI or amounts along with it, then get a notebook and a pen and keep track that way.
One thing hasn't changed, you still like to make things more complicated than they need to be, even when trying to simplify things.
Love this !
Haha I've used this line on my hubby a couple of times today
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If i had to work on a way of eating that didn't include weighing and calorie counting, I'd try taking a picture of each meal i ate every day and weighing myself each week. If I'm gaining weight then I'm eating more than i burn, so I'd eat the same stuff but smaller portions, continuing to take pictures for comparisons. I'd keep reducing portions sizes until weight is being lost instead of gained or maintained.0
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upgradeddiddy wrote: »MakePeasNotWar wrote: »upgradeddiddy wrote: »Need2Exerc1se wrote: »upgradeddiddy wrote: »
This is 100% false. I know many people who have lost weight without counting calories. You don't have to count anything to lose fat. You just have to consume less than you expend. How do you know when you are without counting? You lose fat.
Had a response to this, I suggest you read it. "Just consume less" means you lose fat but also more likely than not muscle as well if you are not counting. So yes a lose weight without counting, yes my bad but is it the best thing to do to just lose weight without realizing what's actually happening to you body...not so much. But hey do you
How does counting calories prevent muscle loss?
I could have sworn adequate protein and resistance training did that.
Odds are, if you are properly counting calories you are looking at macros and micros and back to my original statement you have to see what works for you...but then again I am on the forums so I need to stop being so general... Oh mylanta smh
But your original statement was not to "see what works for you". It was:
"you cant lose weight without counting and analyzing first and seeing how your body responds first...period."
Sure, counting can be helpful. It might even be the best method for some people. That doesn't mean it's the only way that works. It's possible to reduce calories without counting them (portion control, set menu plans, calorie density, etc etc), just as it's possible to increase protein without counting calories or protein grams (additional portions, larger portions, more protein sources, etc.)
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I'd say the majority of the population has lost weight without counting calories. For me however, this works best.
I do think that if someone has stalled or plateaued then weighing and logging would be prudent. But if you can lose weight without it, then good for you0 -
upgradeddiddy wrote: »Need2Exerc1se wrote: »upgradeddiddy wrote: »
This is 100% false. I know many people who have lost weight without counting calories. You don't have to count anything to lose fat. You just have to consume less than you expend. How do you know when you are without counting? You lose fat.
Had a response to this, I suggest you read it. "Just consume less" means you lose fat but also more likely than not muscle as well if you are not counting. So yes a lose weight without counting, yes my bad but is it the best thing to do to just lose weight without realizing what's actually happening to you body...not so much. But hey do you
Obviously counting calories is in no way tied to muscle retention. But if a person has a lot of weight to lose, chances are they will lose muscle even if they eat high protein and lift as heavy as possible.0 -
christinev297 wrote: »I'd say the majority of the population has lost weight without counting calories. For me however, this works best.
I do think that if someone has stalled or plateaued then weighing and logging would be prudent. But if you can lose weight without it, then good for you
Agreed
And the majority of the healthy population stay healthy without tracking macros.
The assertion that one has to track macros to lose weight in a healthy way is as silly as the assertion that one has to count calories to lose weight.
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I don't think this is a matter of you SHOULDN'T count calories. It's more of a you DON'T WANT TO count calories.
Some of us on MFP have been here long enough to remember your old account and threads, which provide much more context.I've been struggling with sticking to a diet. I've tried just about everything in the past. Since November, I've tried South Beach, Weight Watchers, counting calories on both Sparkpeople and MFP, and just trying to eat healthier in general. I also tried a Paleo diet for a week. I've lost a few pounds here or there, but I've never been able to stick to anything for more than a week or two. Most of the time, I'm lucky if I last more than a day or two.
I'm just not sure what to do. When I tried South Beach and Paleo, I did alright to start (I lost 6 pounds in a week on a Paleo Diet),but I constantly craved all I couldn't eat. I definitely do better with calorie counting in that respect. I think having forbidden foods is a recipe for disaster- at least for me.
At the same time, I've never been a math person, and I HATE dealing with numbers. On top of that, trying to plan out my meals ahead of time is a challenge on MFP simply because I don't know how many calories I'll have to spend each day based on my activity level (I wear a Fitbit 24/7). I might have 1,200 calories total for the day (estimated by dinnertime), or I might have 2,000. It really can vary, and it's hard for me to keep up.
Plus, like I said before, I HATE NUMBERS. They stress me out immensely. I always feel like I'm hungrier when I'm counting calories.
Not to mention that eating things like whole eggs, whole milk, nuts, and full-fat cheese seem like waste of calories compared to lower-fat options- but I definitely prefer the full-fat dairy and whole eggs. I almost feel like I'm being "punished" when I pour a 150 calorie cup of whole milk when I know I can save about 50 calories and have skim milk- even though i know there are benefits to drinking the full-fat dairy (plus, it tastes better, in my opinion).
I will say, however, that in the past, I was successful with counting calories for about a month or so, but that was nearly 2 years ago, and I have not had any success since then.
Certainly, you CAN lose weight without calorie counting. But I think your problem is consistency and actually sticking to something. I mean the above quote is from 2013, 2 years ago, and you're STILL having the same issue. Either commit yourself to one thing or nothing at all. But it's obvious that what you're currently doing, is not working. And if you're not already, seek out some professional help.0 -
I don't think this is a matter of you SHOULDN'T count calories. It's more of a you DON'T WANT TO count calories.
Some of us on MFP have been here long enough to remember your old account and threads, which provide much more context.I've been struggling with sticking to a diet. I've tried just about everything in the past. Since November, I've tried South Beach, Weight Watchers, counting calories on both Sparkpeople and MFP, and just trying to eat healthier in general. I also tried a Paleo diet for a week. I've lost a few pounds here or there, but I've never been able to stick to anything for more than a week or two. Most of the time, I'm lucky if I last more than a day or two.
I'm just not sure what to do. When I tried South Beach and Paleo, I did alright to start (I lost 6 pounds in a week on a Paleo Diet),but I constantly craved all I couldn't eat. I definitely do better with calorie counting in that respect. I think having forbidden foods is a recipe for disaster- at least for me.
At the same time, I've never been a math person, and I HATE dealing with numbers. On top of that, trying to plan out my meals ahead of time is a challenge on MFP simply because I don't know how many calories I'll have to spend each day based on my activity level (I wear a Fitbit 24/7). I might have 1,200 calories total for the day (estimated by dinnertime), or I might have 2,000. It really can vary, and it's hard for me to keep up.
Plus, like I said before, I HATE NUMBERS. They stress me out immensely. I always feel like I'm hungrier when I'm counting calories.
Not to mention that eating things like whole eggs, whole milk, nuts, and full-fat cheese seem like waste of calories compared to lower-fat options- but I definitely prefer the full-fat dairy and whole eggs. I almost feel like I'm being "punished" when I pour a 150 calorie cup of whole milk when I know I can save about 50 calories and have skim milk- even though i know there are benefits to drinking the full-fat dairy (plus, it tastes better, in my opinion).
I will say, however, that in the past, I was successful with counting calories for about a month or so, but that was nearly 2 years ago, and I have not had any success since then.
Certainly, you CAN lose weight without calorie counting. But I think your problem is consistency and actually sticking to something. I mean the above quote is from 2013, 2 years ago, and you're STILL having the same issue. Either commit yourself to one thing or nothing at all. But it's obvious that what you're currently doing, is not working. And if you're not already, seek out some professional help.
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I don't think this is a matter of you SHOULDN'T count calories. It's more of a you DON'T WANT TO count calories.
Some of us on MFP have been here long enough to remember your old account and threads, which provide much more context.I've been struggling with sticking to a diet. I've tried just about everything in the past. Since November, I've tried South Beach, Weight Watchers, counting calories on both Sparkpeople and MFP, and just trying to eat healthier in general. I also tried a Paleo diet for a week. I've lost a few pounds here or there, but I've never been able to stick to anything for more than a week or two. Most of the time, I'm lucky if I last more than a day or two.
I'm just not sure what to do. When I tried South Beach and Paleo, I did alright to start (I lost 6 pounds in a week on a Paleo Diet),but I constantly craved all I couldn't eat. I definitely do better with calorie counting in that respect. I think having forbidden foods is a recipe for disaster- at least for me.
At the same time, I've never been a math person, and I HATE dealing with numbers. On top of that, trying to plan out my meals ahead of time is a challenge on MFP simply because I don't know how many calories I'll have to spend each day based on my activity level (I wear a Fitbit 24/7). I might have 1,200 calories total for the day (estimated by dinnertime), or I might have 2,000. It really can vary, and it's hard for me to keep up.
Plus, like I said before, I HATE NUMBERS. They stress me out immensely. I always feel like I'm hungrier when I'm counting calories.
Not to mention that eating things like whole eggs, whole milk, nuts, and full-fat cheese seem like waste of calories compared to lower-fat options- but I definitely prefer the full-fat dairy and whole eggs. I almost feel like I'm being "punished" when I pour a 150 calorie cup of whole milk when I know I can save about 50 calories and have skim milk- even though i know there are benefits to drinking the full-fat dairy (plus, it tastes better, in my opinion).
I will say, however, that in the past, I was successful with counting calories for about a month or so, but that was nearly 2 years ago, and I have not had any success since then.
Certainly, you CAN lose weight without calorie counting. But I think your problem is consistency and actually sticking to something. I mean the above quote is from 2013, 2 years ago, and you're STILL having the same issue. Either commit yourself to one thing or nothing at all. But it's obvious that what you're currently doing, is not working. And if you're not already, seek out some professional help.
Your Google-fu is strong. You are my senpai.0 -
The root cause of obsessive thinking and behavior needs to be dealt with before or in parallel to CICO.
You are dealing with a symptom of the root cause. You need to address the root cause, not the symptom. Not going to happen via internet advice.0 -
I don't think this is a matter of you SHOULDN'T count calories. It's more of a you DON'T WANT TO count calories.
Some of us on MFP have been here long enough to remember your old account and threads, which provide much more context.I've been struggling with sticking to a diet. I've tried just about everything in the past. Since November, I've tried South Beach, Weight Watchers, counting calories on both Sparkpeople and MFP, and just trying to eat healthier in general. I also tried a Paleo diet for a week. I've lost a few pounds here or there, but I've never been able to stick to anything for more than a week or two. Most of the time, I'm lucky if I last more than a day or two.
I'm just not sure what to do. When I tried South Beach and Paleo, I did alright to start (I lost 6 pounds in a week on a Paleo Diet),but I constantly craved all I couldn't eat. I definitely do better with calorie counting in that respect. I think having forbidden foods is a recipe for disaster- at least for me.
At the same time, I've never been a math person, and I HATE dealing with numbers. On top of that, trying to plan out my meals ahead of time is a challenge on MFP simply because I don't know how many calories I'll have to spend each day based on my activity level (I wear a Fitbit 24/7). I might have 1,200 calories total for the day (estimated by dinnertime), or I might have 2,000. It really can vary, and it's hard for me to keep up.
Plus, like I said before, I HATE NUMBERS. They stress me out immensely. I always feel like I'm hungrier when I'm counting calories.
Not to mention that eating things like whole eggs, whole milk, nuts, and full-fat cheese seem like waste of calories compared to lower-fat options- but I definitely prefer the full-fat dairy and whole eggs. I almost feel like I'm being "punished" when I pour a 150 calorie cup of whole milk when I know I can save about 50 calories and have skim milk- even though i know there are benefits to drinking the full-fat dairy (plus, it tastes better, in my opinion).
I will say, however, that in the past, I was successful with counting calories for about a month or so, but that was nearly 2 years ago, and I have not had any success since then.
Certainly, you CAN lose weight without calorie counting. But I think your problem is consistency and actually sticking to something. I mean the above quote is from 2013, 2 years ago, and you're STILL having the same issue. Either commit yourself to one thing or nothing at all. But it's obvious that what you're currently doing, is not working. And if you're not already, seek out some professional help.
Actually, that old post seems to back up the assertion that counting calories isn't the right option for her. If someone hates numbers and math, measuring and counting every morsel they swallow is likely not going to be sustainable.
Many people try several different weight loss plans before finally striking upon one that works. At least she keeps trying instead of giving up.0 -
christinev297 wrote: »To me, it sounds like you're creating problems before they even happen, IF they in fact will happen at all. Like worrying about anorexia etc. when you've never even been in this headspace.
I used to be against using a food scale and weighing every little thing I eat because I saw it as obsessive. But here I am weighing my food and counting my calories, and I quite enjoy it, and I am far from obsessive about it.
The bottom line is, I wanted to lose weight and you gotta do what you gotta do...
You can continue to use excuses why you cant do this or that, or you can put your head down and bum up and just do it!
This may sound harsh, but there are a million and one threads on here filled with excuses..
Having a history of anxiety and obsessive tendencies is a solid reason to not choose calorie counting as a method of monitoring food intake - they don't always go well together. And counting calories and weighing your food really isn't the only way to lose weight, despite what many on this site believe.
I have a son that has OCD tendencies. He tried counting calories...within three months I had to recommend for him to quit. His obsession with numbers had taken over...it was a bit disturbing for me as his mother to watch him develop some unhealthy relations with food and weight loss. At this point he is trying again but by using different methods. Mostly portion control with awareness of caloric value.
For those that have not experienced nor witnessed someone have these types of problems I am not sure they understand that it can have such affects. I didn't before I watched my son go through it.
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47Jacqueline wrote: »I'm a numbers person, so I like to see things add up over a day. But if it's an issue that's getting in your way, there's always Weight Watchers.
You're still counting...whether it is calories...points...macro/micro...it is that meticulous tracking that affects some people.
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I have OCD and anxiety. I think that is one of the things that has actually helped me WITH counting calories. I do not go over my goals for the day and I stay on track.0
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OP I totally get it. Just my 2 pennies, but if your budget allows, I might suggest a meal service. I'm fortunate to have one in my area that provides freshly prepared meals (3 meals and 2 snacks a day) for a reasonable fee. They estimate each day is about 1,300 - 1,500 calories, which is perfect for me. I just officially started it today and I'm excited to see the results. It takes all the guesswork and obsessing out of the equation. Plus it's a major time saver... no shopping, cooking, cleaning. Time you can spend exercising or just relaxing!0
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I think this post should be called "When **I** SHOULDN'T count calories"... Phrasing it as 'you' (us) makes it seem as though we also shouldn't be counting calories. But I don't have the issues that you have with calories, or struggling when eating out so, for me, counting calories is a simple approach that works all the time. I'm not trying to be dismissive, I'm just explaining that what may be true for you, is not necessarily true for everyone else.0
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Reading Jillian michaels' book "Slim for Life" was really helpful to me... She recommends only logging and counting/measuring in the first couple of weeks to get acquainted with what proper portion sizes are...0
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I understand that the basic premise of weight loss is that one must burn more calories than he or she consumes.
Of course, it is not always an exact science. The 3,500 calories= a pound rule is an estimation, and it doesn't take into account the 20% margin of error allowed on nutritional labels here in the USA (as well as personal user error in calculating portion sizes, etc). Still, as long as you eat less than what you burn, you should eventually lose weight. (Just know that other factors such as water retention and the timing/weight of your last meal and bathroom visit may influence the scale as well).
That being said, I am also aware that calorie counting does not work for me. I am aware that if I stick to meticulously counting calories (or Weight Watchers points, as I have done in the past), I will lose weight. However, I have not been able to stick to it long-term.
I would even go as far as saying that I, personally, should NOT count calories.
Let me explain.
I am a very black and white thinker with a history of anxiety and depression. Often, calorie counting means I become obsessive. I weigh everything I eat down to the last gram. Eating out in a social situation is only permissible if nutritional information is readily available (I cannot cope with just estimating calories or portion sizes). This is becoming more of a challenge as, although I do not eat out as frequently as I have in the past (I tend to go to a restaurant once every 2 weeks or so during the school, year), my current social life revolves more around church groups with homemade food, or dinners at friends' houses.
So, if I'm in a situation where I don't know the exact numbers, I tend to cope by not eating anything at all, or binging. Either way, my need for perfection drives me to destruction even before I get into the details of my Fitbit calorie burn, TDEE calculators, deficit sizes, and the like. I also worry that, with my personal history, I could very likely spiral into the realms of an eating disorder if I get too engrossed in calorie counting.
I know that I am not the only person out there who cannot deal with counting calories- or SHOULDN'T. While I have never struggled with anorexia or another eating disorder, I can see how someone with a history of anorexia who could also afford to lose some weight after recovery, should steer away from diet plans that involve counting calories simply because it could trigger a relapse of self-destructive behaviors.
So, how do you lose weight without counting calories or cutting out any major food groups? I understand that it may be slow weight loss, but I'm becoming more and more content with that idea. I'm already trying to make small changes like consistently eating a packed lunch at work (with fruits, vegetables, lean proteins, and whole grains) instead of opting for quick-on the go options like potato chips, snack cakes, hummus with pretzel chips, or Lunchables. That, coupled with the fact that I've gone from eating at restaurants 1 to 3 times a week (up to 4 or 5 days at one point) to eating at a restaurant roughly 2-3 times a month should help. (Eating at a friends' house usually happens a couple times a month- if that. Church food events are more frequent, but I tend to nibble at the food there, so it's less of an issue.
OP...This might help. It is a thread started by Side Steel with advice on how to not track calories. There is a lot of good information in it.
http://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/discussion/10180601/non-tracking-methods-and-behaviors-that-may-help-while-tracking/p1
Hope it helps.
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I was about to suggest the first one, Lean Habits. I haven't read the other two, but Lean Habits is a great plan for losing weight without counting calories. I'd follow it myself but I'm hoping to soon be ready to start bulking, and Lean Habits is geared toward losing or maintaining weight.
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I agree that the title of this could afford revision. "When ONE Shouldn't Count Calories" would probably be better.
I know I've been struggling with this for years, but there is one major change. I've stopped trying to conform to a mold. Rather than following a specific diet plan, I'm starting to piece multiple plans together in order to find one that works for me.
If that means eating primarily from a certain list of foods, or counting calories for one or two meals a day most days, then I'll do it, but for now, I am trying to avoid feeling like I'm on a diet0 -
Personally I thrive on the structure and routine of weighing/calorie counting. I think I'd be a muddled up mess without my kitchen scales, fitbit and mfp. I need to see those numbers etc in front of me in black and white.
I've only been calorie counting for 12mths, the novelty and joy hasn't worn off yet, and I hope it never does0 -
I couldn't log in to my account for the past weeks and still managed to lose weight. I suppose learnt about portion size without realising I had. Also, as someone mentioned, visualising the eating well plate it may helps.
Hope it helps:
nhs.uk/Livewell/Goodfood/Pages/eatwell-plate.aspx
Also, what about printing some "What does 100 cal., 200 cal., etc. of food look like?" posters and placing them up in the fridge to have a roughly idea...?0 -
I also invested in some new lunch containers and a lunchbox, so that should help me make better choices at work. I've learned that if I pack lunch- no matter how unhealthy it is- I am more likely to eat fruits and vegetables. Today, I'm having mac and cheese with hot dogs, but I also added broccoli, roasted carrot fries, and pureed butternut squash (mixed into the pasta).
I think that's a brilliant idea. There's an active post about bento lunch boxes. Of course, you don't need to buy a bento one. Any other tupperware will do the job.
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You could pre-count the meals you eat most often in 400 calorie chunks and 100 calorie snacks and make a list of them. This is pretty modular because most calorie targets are divisible by 400 and those that aren't can benefit from the snacks or half meals. If you go to restaurants often or happen to eat things that are not on the list, you would use common sense and portion control in these situations.
It may require stressing about number for a few days while you prepare your meal list, but after that you're free! All you have to do is pick what you feel like eating from the list. One may think that's limiting, but it's not at all. People tend to eat repeat foods very often.
Make sure to familiarize yourself with the way these meals look and how much food you're using so that you don't overeat them, but just in case set your calorie target a little bit lower than you want it to be to account for new foods and inaccuracies.
That's how I maintained for a while before resuming weight loss. It was amazingly easy and I had an impressive list of 37 meals and 12 snacks. Too bad my hard disk was fried by a short circuit and I lost it.0 -
My goal is to get to a point where I don't count either. If you eat reasonably and you are moving you will lose. I think you have to be disciplined in order to lose and not count calories.
Right now I count and track exercise and for me it's fun. I love seeing my fitbit synch with MFP and seeing how any calories I have left. I make it a "game" to get that number up and it's a good visual of my success for the day.
The only time I don't count is on Saturday when I eat at maintenance. When I track I feel like failure.
Once I get to my goal weight I will longer count and just make sure I am active and eat a well balanced diet.0 -
I don't think this is a matter of you SHOULDN'T count calories. It's more of a you DON'T WANT TO count calories.
Some of us on MFP have been here long enough to remember your old account and threads, which provide much more context.I've been struggling with sticking to a diet. I've tried just about everything in the past. Since November, I've tried South Beach, Weight Watchers, counting calories on both Sparkpeople and MFP, and just trying to eat healthier in general. I also tried a Paleo diet for a week. I've lost a few pounds here or there, but I've never been able to stick to anything for more than a week or two. Most of the time, I'm lucky if I last more than a day or two.
I'm just not sure what to do. When I tried South Beach and Paleo, I did alright to start (I lost 6 pounds in a week on a Paleo Diet),but I constantly craved all I couldn't eat. I definitely do better with calorie counting in that respect. I think having forbidden foods is a recipe for disaster- at least for me.
At the same time, I've never been a math person, and I HATE dealing with numbers. On top of that, trying to plan out my meals ahead of time is a challenge on MFP simply because I don't know how many calories I'll have to spend each day based on my activity level (I wear a Fitbit 24/7). I might have 1,200 calories total for the day (estimated by dinnertime), or I might have 2,000. It really can vary, and it's hard for me to keep up.
Plus, like I said before, I HATE NUMBERS. They stress me out immensely. I always feel like I'm hungrier when I'm counting calories.
Not to mention that eating things like whole eggs, whole milk, nuts, and full-fat cheese seem like waste of calories compared to lower-fat options- but I definitely prefer the full-fat dairy and whole eggs. I almost feel like I'm being "punished" when I pour a 150 calorie cup of whole milk when I know I can save about 50 calories and have skim milk- even though i know there are benefits to drinking the full-fat dairy (plus, it tastes better, in my opinion).
I will say, however, that in the past, I was successful with counting calories for about a month or so, but that was nearly 2 years ago, and I have not had any success since then.
Certainly, you CAN lose weight without calorie counting. But I think your problem is consistency and actually sticking to something. I mean the above quote is from 2013, 2 years ago, and you're STILL having the same issue. Either commit yourself to one thing or nothing at all. But it's obvious that what you're currently doing, is not working. And if you're not already, seek out some professional help.
Yes after reading that I agree.
OP's problem does seem to be lack of commitment and follow-through, rather than the issues of any particular system.
OP, It seems to me that as soon as the going gets tough or the novelty wears off, then you consider the system 'no longer working'
Like you are seeking some system that is all magic and fun.
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If you really believe that counting calories will trigger obsessive behavior, negative thinking, or other significant problems, then you need to work with a professional in order to address the beliefs and thought patterns that are the foundation for all of that.
Focusing on the question of whether you should count calories or not deflects from what the actual problem is.
If you don't address the basic problem, then counting calories or not will never matter one way or another, because the core problem will always find a way to express itself regardless of whether you're counting calories.
I think dealing with root causes is optimal, but for OP, right now, today, there's no harm in trying other approaches to reduce food intake. While there is some potential harm in counting calories, currently. And counting calories is not essential for weight loss, there are other ways of doing it.
So maybe calorie counting is something to consider in the future. There is no reason OP has to wait to act until then.0 -
I don't think this is a matter of you SHOULDN'T count calories. It's more of a you DON'T WANT TO count calories.
Some of us on MFP have been here long enough to remember your old account and threads, which provide much more context.I've been struggling with sticking to a diet. I've tried just about everything in the past. Since November, I've tried South Beach, Weight Watchers, counting calories on both Sparkpeople and MFP, and just trying to eat healthier in general. I also tried a Paleo diet for a week. I've lost a few pounds here or there, but I've never been able to stick to anything for more than a week or two. Most of the time, I'm lucky if I last more than a day or two.
I'm just not sure what to do. When I tried South Beach and Paleo, I did alright to start (I lost 6 pounds in a week on a Paleo Diet),but I constantly craved all I couldn't eat. I definitely do better with calorie counting in that respect. I think having forbidden foods is a recipe for disaster- at least for me.
At the same time, I've never been a math person, and I HATE dealing with numbers. On top of that, trying to plan out my meals ahead of time is a challenge on MFP simply because I don't know how many calories I'll have to spend each day based on my activity level (I wear a Fitbit 24/7). I might have 1,200 calories total for the day (estimated by dinnertime), or I might have 2,000. It really can vary, and it's hard for me to keep up.
Plus, like I said before, I HATE NUMBERS. They stress me out immensely. I always feel like I'm hungrier when I'm counting calories.
Not to mention that eating things like whole eggs, whole milk, nuts, and full-fat cheese seem like waste of calories compared to lower-fat options- but I definitely prefer the full-fat dairy and whole eggs. I almost feel like I'm being "punished" when I pour a 150 calorie cup of whole milk when I know I can save about 50 calories and have skim milk- even though i know there are benefits to drinking the full-fat dairy (plus, it tastes better, in my opinion).
I will say, however, that in the past, I was successful with counting calories for about a month or so, but that was nearly 2 years ago, and I have not had any success since then.
Certainly, you CAN lose weight without calorie counting. But I think your problem is consistency and actually sticking to something. I mean the above quote is from 2013, 2 years ago, and you're STILL having the same issue. Either commit yourself to one thing or nothing at all. But it's obvious that what you're currently doing, is not working. And if you're not already, seek out some professional help.
Because no one on this site ever tried to lose weight unsuccessfully before their perfectly successful effort today.0
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