True Confessions - Don't Judge

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  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    Inhale, exhale, long confession incoming.

    At the time i was at my now Ex's place and i started to feel really dizzy, dehydrated and my body got ice cold. I woke her up and told her that i needed to go to the hospital because i knew something was really wrong with me.

    When she woke up she was a bit startled of course and she told me maybe i was sick from something i ate. I told her that definitely wasnt the case and that i needed to go to the hospital, i literally thought i was dying.

    After she got up she told me that "She didnt wanna spend her day in the ER"

    In that moment i had no strength to argue because i was so out of it and afraid of what was happening to me but when she said that it cut really deep. Especially considering a few months prior i sat with her in the ER for 8 houra because she was having chest pains, which i would never complain about because i wanted to make sure she was ok.

    She has since apologized for how she reacted, but to be honest it still really bothers me when i think about it. We're still friends but that moment will probably haunt me for awhile.

    You deserve someone who truly cares about you physically and mentally .. :* obviously she wasn't it
  • Gimsteinn
    Gimsteinn Posts: 7,678 Member
    synchkat wrote: »
    Gimsteinn wrote: »
    I picked a fight today..
    With people on facebook
    About a dead dog and a murdered girl.... I still say that a dog who was killed isn't the same as a 20 year old girl who was raped and killed... But apparently I'm an *kitten* who has no feelings or respect for the dogs owners..

    But aren't you a dog owner? And the very fact they're called owners is a major difference supporting your argument

    yeah I am. I just don't hold pets up to the same standard as humans.
  • LittleHearseDriver
    LittleHearseDriver Posts: 2,677 Member
    I confess it drives me crazy to wait for an hour to pick up an RX that the doctor sent electronically for my mom 30 minutes before we left the office. I know things take time, but I'm exhausted and cranky.

    I'm sure it means the world to your mom knowing she has you there to take care of her. You are a wonderful son. Some days really suck, but better days are coming, I promise.
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    Gimsteinn wrote: »
    synchkat wrote: »
    Gimsteinn wrote: »
    I picked a fight today..
    With people on facebook
    About a dead dog and a murdered girl.... I still say that a dog who was killed isn't the same as a 20 year old girl who was raped and killed... But apparently I'm an *kitten* who has no feelings or respect for the dogs owners..

    But aren't you a dog owner? And the very fact they're called owners is a major difference supporting your argument

    yeah I am. I just don't hold pets up to the same standard as humans.

    This

    1000 times this....

    Mad Re5pext.
  • Gimsteinn
    Gimsteinn Posts: 7,678 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Gimsteinn wrote: »
    synchkat wrote: »
    Gimsteinn wrote: »
    I picked a fight today..
    With people on facebook
    About a dead dog and a murdered girl.... I still say that a dog who was killed isn't the same as a 20 year old girl who was raped and killed... But apparently I'm an *kitten* who has no feelings or respect for the dogs owners..

    But aren't you a dog owner? And the very fact they're called owners is a major difference supporting your argument

    yeah I am. I just don't hold pets up to the same standard as humans.

    This

    1000 times this....

    Mad Re5pext.

    Yeah but these days you're an evil person if you think that a dog doesn't have the same rights to life as a human being.
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    Gimsteinn wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    Gimsteinn wrote: »
    synchkat wrote: »
    Gimsteinn wrote: »
    I picked a fight today..
    With people on facebook
    About a dead dog and a murdered girl.... I still say that a dog who was killed isn't the same as a 20 year old girl who was raped and killed... But apparently I'm an *kitten* who has no feelings or respect for the dogs owners..

    But aren't you a dog owner? And the very fact they're called owners is a major difference supporting your argument

    yeah I am. I just don't hold pets up to the same standard as humans.

    This

    1000 times this....

    Mad Re5pext.

    Yeah but these days you're an evil person if you think that a dog doesn't have the same rights to life as a human being.

    Then I suppose that I'm evil. *shrug

    Begs the question on ethics:

    If your favorite pet and a total stranger were both drowning and you could only save one from certain death, which one do you save? ..... and why?
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,834 Member
    I swear I had all the intentions of doing my evening run. Then, my son wanted sushi for his bday so I had a big old plate and beers. Lol.

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  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    Timshel_ wrote: »
    I swear I had all the intentions of doing my evening run. Then, my son wanted sushi for his bday so I had a big old plate and beers. Lol.

    r1dwytgc7bip.jpg

    You are an evil tease :p
  • Just_J_Now
    Just_J_Now Posts: 9,551 Member
    Timshel_ wrote: »
    I swear I had all the intentions of doing my evening run. Then, my son wanted sushi for his bday so I had a big old plate and beers. Lol.

    r1dwytgc7bip.jpg

    *SWOON*
  • synchkat
    synchkat Posts: 37,368 Member
    I Confess I have a penchant for doing crazy things a 43 yesr old shouldn't be doing still on skates but hey it'll keep me young right?
  • JLAJ81
    JLAJ81 Posts: 2,477 Member
    synchkat wrote: »
    I Confess I have a penchant for doing crazy things a 43 yesr old shouldn't be doing still on skates but hey it'll keep me young right?

    You are 43?! Damn girl I never would have guessed!
  • MalkinMagic71
    MalkinMagic71 Posts: 1,433 Member
    synchkat wrote: »
    I Confess I have a penchant for doing crazy things a 43 yesr old shouldn't be doing still on skates but hey it'll keep me young right?

    You are not 43.... no way
  • LittleHearseDriver
    LittleHearseDriver Posts: 2,677 Member
    Work was a hellish 11 hours. The phone wouldn't stop ringing every 5 minutes and I was by myself all day while everyone else was at a huge church service. I had pictures to scan, vaults to order, memorial records, and slideshows to make all on my own. I was so overwhelmed. After a family asked me to make changes to an obit for the 5th time and I went in the back and cried.
  • JLAJ81
    JLAJ81 Posts: 2,477 Member
    Work was a hellish 11 hours. The phone wouldn't stop ringing every 5 minutes and I was by myself all day while everyone else was at a huge church service. I had pictures to scan, vaults to order, memorial records, and slideshows to make all on my own. I was so overwhelmed. After a family asked me to make changes to an obit for the 5th time and I went in the back and cried.

    I'm sorry your day was rough. Hopefully your nights been better.
  • jpearson1289
    jpearson1289 Posts: 26 Member
    I confess that success is a scary thing and I keep sabatoging myself. Some of it is my depression holding me back but some is fear.
  • synchkat
    synchkat Posts: 37,368 Member
    Haha @jjewell1981 and @MalkinMagic71 I'll be 44 in June. I'm a little crazy and if someone says try something I will
  • MalkinMagic71
    MalkinMagic71 Posts: 1,433 Member
    Work was a hellish 11 hours. The phone wouldn't stop ringing every 5 minutes and I was by myself all day while everyone else was at a huge church service. I had pictures to scan, vaults to order, memorial records, and slideshows to make all on my own. I was so overwhelmed. After a family asked me to make changes to an obit for the 5th time and I went in the back and cried.

    Bad days at work suck.
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  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    I confess that success is a scary thing and I keep sabatoging myself. Some of it is my depression holding me back but some is fear.

    keep pluggin' away, kid

    I wish you well
  • White_hibiscus
    White_hibiscus Posts: 1,594 Member
    edited January 2017
    I confess this forums is addicting as hell. It has taken over my life
  • moya_bleh
    moya_bleh Posts: 1,375 Member
    I confess that being made to hate myself is probably going to consume me once and for all sooner rather than later :(
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    moya_bleh wrote: »
    I confess that being made to hate myself is probably going to consume me once and for all sooner rather than later :(

    :(
    I think you are awesome and Im not the only one :*
  • moya_bleh
    moya_bleh Posts: 1,375 Member
    lstrat115 wrote: »
    moya_bleh wrote: »
    I confess that being made to hate myself is probably going to consume me once and for all sooner rather than later :(

    I think you are far harder on yourself than other people are. I saw the previous comments about your height. I have been attracted to men anywhere from 5'4 to 6'8. None of them were attractive to me because of their height
    If you really hate yourself that much then you should probably talk to someone, especially if the hate is all driven by physical attributes. People have so much more to give to this world than their looks. You need to find the positive within

    A few articles. The hate is real.

    http://www.thedatereport.com/dating/opinion/sorry-short-guys-but-i-wont-date-you/

    http://www.revelist.com/dating/women-dating-shorter-men/1238

    https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/insight-is-2020/201401/short-men-why-women-arent-attracted-enough-date-them

    https://twitter.com/heightismxposed?lang=en
  • synchkat
    synchkat Posts: 37,368 Member
    I confess I'm not made to get up early
  • JLAJ81
    JLAJ81 Posts: 2,477 Member
    lstrat115 wrote: »
    I confess that I cut the crap out of myself shaving and I put on an Avengers Band-Aid even though I have plenty of "adult" Band-Aids that I could have used.

    I like you more and more each day
  • JLAJ81
    JLAJ81 Posts: 2,477 Member
    lstrat115 wrote: »
    lstrat115 wrote: »
    I confess that I cut the crap out of myself shaving and I put on an Avengers Band-Aid even though I have plenty of "adult" Band-Aids that I could have used.

    I like you more and more each day

    <3
    Wait, are you flirting with me?

    ;):* now I am.
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    lstrat115 wrote: »
    tjiddy wrote: »
    lstrat115 wrote: »
    I confess that I cut the crap out of myself shaving and I put on an Avengers Band-Aid even though I have plenty of "adult" Band-Aids that I could have used.

    I have three daughters at home. Sometimes I rock the Hello Kitty band aids.

    Don't care though...

    Real men wear Hello Kitty Band-Aids

    I want a Hello Kitty neck tattoo for my birthday.
  • JLAJ81
    JLAJ81 Posts: 2,477 Member
    lstrat115 wrote: »
    lstrat115 wrote: »
    lstrat115 wrote: »
    I confess that I cut the crap out of myself shaving and I put on an Avengers Band-Aid even though I have plenty of "adult" Band-Aids that I could have used.

    I like you more and more each day

    <3
    Wait, are you flirting with me?

    ;):* now I am.

    Still not giving you my phone number or my address or my SSN

    I just want the SSN.