True Confessions - Don't Judge

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  • RunHardBeStrong
    RunHardBeStrong Posts: 33,069 Member
    Timshel_ wrote: »
    Just_J_Now wrote: »
    Timshel_ wrote: »
    I would never get married again. Or will never, if things do ever end.

    Same.

    I used to say this but now that I'm divorced (and old) I think if I find "Mr. Really Right", I might consider it. He has to be really really be right though. :p

    Suppose I don't know how it would be and what a really, REALLY good relationship might make me consider, so I stand corrected to say, "I could never see getting married again at this point".

    This is all true. I just told a friend last week that if I were in a really good "normal" relationship I may take the plunge again. But he is gonna have to be one freaking amazing guy.
  • Just_J_Now
    Just_J_Now Posts: 9,551 Member
    Timshel_ wrote: »
    Just_J_Now wrote: »
    Timshel_ wrote: »
    I would never get married again. Or will never, if things do ever end.

    Same.

    I used to say this but now that I'm divorced (and old) I think if I find "Mr. Really Right", I might consider it. He has to be really really be right though. :p

    Suppose I don't know how it would be and what a really, REALLY good relationship might make me consider, so I stand corrected to say, "I could never see getting married again at this point".

    This is all true. I just told a friend last week that if I were in a really good "normal" relationship I may take the plunge again. But he is gonna have to be one freaking amazing guy.

    Yup. Not that anyone should ever "settle" but I can see if you've never been married then sure go for it. However, when you've been married before (for me 27 years) and have been through all kinds of hell, then it's going to take A LOT for me to "take that plunge again". That said, I'm a hopeless romantic and I'm not losing hope.
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  • Keto_N_Iron
    Keto_N_Iron Posts: 5,385 Member
    Just_J_Now wrote: »
    Timshel_ wrote: »
    Just_J_Now wrote: »
    Timshel_ wrote: »
    I would never get married again. Or will never, if things do ever end.

    Same.

    I used to say this but now that I'm divorced (and old) I think if I find "Mr. Really Right", I might consider it. He has to be really really be right though. :p

    Suppose I don't know how it would be and what a really, REALLY good relationship might make me consider, so I stand corrected to say, "I could never see getting married again at this point".

    This is all true. I just told a friend last week that if I were in a really good "normal" relationship I may take the plunge again. But he is gonna have to be one freaking amazing guy.

    Yup. Not that anyone should ever "settle" but I can see if you've never been married then sure go for it. However, when you've been married before (for me 27 years) and have been through all kinds of hell, then it's going to take A LOT for me to "take that plunge again". That said, I'm a hopeless romantic and I'm not losing hope.

    <3

    20 years here. Not all of it has been hell but the past several years have and I am over it. He was suppose to move out at the end of this month but now he is "trying" and back peddling. I know it won't last. So I am paying off bills and preparing as much as I can in the mean time.

    stay strong. You deserve to be happy.
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    Just_J_Now wrote: »
    Timshel_ wrote: »
    Just_J_Now wrote: »
    Timshel_ wrote: »
    I would never get married again. Or will never, if things do ever end.

    Same.

    I used to say this but now that I'm divorced (and old) I think if I find "Mr. Really Right", I might consider it. He has to be really really be right though. :p

    Suppose I don't know how it would be and what a really, REALLY good relationship might make me consider, so I stand corrected to say, "I could never see getting married again at this point".

    This is all true. I just told a friend last week that if I were in a really good "normal" relationship I may take the plunge again. But he is gonna have to be one freaking amazing guy.

    Yup. Not that anyone should ever "settle" but I can see if you've never been married then sure go for it. However, when you've been married before (for me 27 years) and have been through all kinds of hell, then it's going to take A LOT for me to "take that plunge again". That said, I'm a hopeless romantic and I'm not losing hope.

    I married a second time and don't regret it one bit, even though we aren't together in that way now.
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    Just_J_Now wrote: »
    Timshel_ wrote: »
    Just_J_Now wrote: »
    Timshel_ wrote: »
    I would never get married again. Or will never, if things do ever end.

    Same.

    I used to say this but now that I'm divorced (and old) I think if I find "Mr. Really Right", I might consider it. He has to be really really be right though. :p

    Suppose I don't know how it would be and what a really, REALLY good relationship might make me consider, so I stand corrected to say, "I could never see getting married again at this point".

    This is all true. I just told a friend last week that if I were in a really good "normal" relationship I may take the plunge again. But he is gonna have to be one freaking amazing guy.

    Yup. Not that anyone should ever "settle" but I can see if you've never been married then sure go for it. However, when you've been married before (for me 27 years) and have been through all kinds of hell, then it's going to take A LOT for me to "take that plunge again". That said, I'm a hopeless romantic and I'm not losing hope.

    <3

    20 years here. Not all of it has been hell but the past several years have and I am over it. He was suppose to move out at the end of this month but now he is "trying" and back peddling. I know it won't last. So I am paying off bills and preparing as much as I can in the mean time.

    It's not easy Aly .. hugs girl
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    Let my start by saying I would never kill myself.
    Being around for my kids is way too important to me.

    That being said my mind has been telling me I'm better off dead for the last year. I have completely stopped taking care of myself and have allowed myself to become a kind of person younger me would despise. I have stopped making music and videos and writing stories and I learned to hate myself.

    Yesterday I decided to lay off of myself and to help myself to be closer to happy. I am going to do whole 30 this month and push myself to the gym. I am ending my toxic relationship. I will talk positively to and about myself.

    I guess my confession is i am excited to be excited about life again.

    Im sooo happy to hear this .. :+1:
  • Lisa8823168
    Lisa8823168 Posts: 139 Member
    I confess that I sometimes loath my skinny kids for eating without limits...in front of me!
  • SomebodyWakeUpHIcks
    SomebodyWakeUpHIcks Posts: 3,836 Member
    Just_J_Now wrote: »
    Timshel_ wrote: »
    Just_J_Now wrote: »
    Timshel_ wrote: »
    I would never get married again. Or will never, if things do ever end.

    Same.

    I used to say this but now that I'm divorced (and old) I think if I find "Mr. Really Right", I might consider it. He has to be really really be right though. :p

    Suppose I don't know how it would be and what a really, REALLY good relationship might make me consider, so I stand corrected to say, "I could never see getting married again at this point".

    This is all true. I just told a friend last week that if I were in a really good "normal" relationship I may take the plunge again. But he is gonna have to be one freaking amazing guy.

    Yup. Not that anyone should ever "settle" but I can see if you've never been married then sure go for it. However, when you've been married before (for me 27 years) and have been through all kinds of hell, then it's going to take A LOT for me to "take that plunge again". That said, I'm a hopeless romantic and I'm not losing hope.

    <3

    20 years here. Not all of it has been hell but the past several years have and I am over it. He was suppose to move out at the end of this month but now he is "trying" and back peddling. I know it won't last. So I am paying off bills and preparing as much as I can in the mean time.

    I got room for you at my crib

    Yeah but she'll freeze to death.
  • caco_ethes
    caco_ethes Posts: 11,962 Member
    I confess that if I can’t figure out how to balance mfp with work, I’m going to have to quit until March :sweat_smile:
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  • FabulousFantasticFifty
    FabulousFantasticFifty Posts: 195,832 Member
    I think I'm actually having a Genuine down to earth Crush on someone here! :blush:
  • CaptainFantastic00
    CaptainFantastic00 Posts: 4,619 Member
    I think I'm actually having a Genuine down to earth Crush on someone here! :blush:

    About time you started falling for me
  • SweatsOnSunday
    SweatsOnSunday Posts: 514 Member
    I fall into crushes regularly :)
  • slessofme
    slessofme Posts: 7,744 Member
    IC... I went almost 900 calories over my daily amount yesterday. I am extremely weak to the charms of enchiladas and chicken bacon ranch pizza.
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,834 Member
    Some days I am good at accepting getting older, but still a majority of days I am not.
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,834 Member
    lstrat115 wrote: »
    I have been making some pretty terrible decisions lately. I don't really know how to change what I have done.

    Ummmm, make better decisions?

    I mean, I feel ya for sure. I know the decisions I make more often than not are bad ones lately, but really I don't care to deny myself much of anything, so there is the real issue.
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,788 Member
    Timshel_ wrote: »
    Some days I am good at accepting getting older, but still a majority of days I am not.

    Consider the alternative and be happy.
  • YearOfTheDragonLeo
    YearOfTheDragonLeo Posts: 215 Member
    I want to smash someone's face in
  • CaptainFantastic00
    CaptainFantastic00 Posts: 4,619 Member
    I want to smash someone's face in

    10/10 would smash
  • MrSith
    MrSith Posts: 1,636 Member
    TheRoadDog wrote: »
    Timshel_ wrote: »
    Some days I am good at accepting getting older, but still a majority of days I am not.

    Consider the alternative and be happy.

    Aging is a privilege denied to many.
  • WorkerDrone83
    WorkerDrone83 Posts: 3,195 Member
    I'm making an 'Abs mix-tape' for a girl I'm crushing on. Nothing to do with music, just an abs exercise circuit. So much pressure to choose good exercises.