strip club question??...
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My wife goes with me all the time.0
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no he better not and who would take that risk of catching something so grosss besides I would wonder what was wrong with me if he wasnt satisfied enough to be getting one from me0
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I go because I find it impressive by all the strength and talent they have when using the pole.Nope....I wouldn't be happy... Pissed would be more like it...:explode:
It is amazing to see all these women on here that go....I would have never guessed women would be ok with that...
Oh Well Live and Learn :drinker:0 -
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Still trying to wrap my brain around the idea of another woman doing a lap dance to me. Ugh! Repulsive idea! What could possibly be attractive/fun/entertaining about that?? I'd just stand up in disgust, say "no thanks", and push her off.
Well, considering it isn;t something they just come up and do of their own accord, and you have to request a lap dance and pay for one, I guess you're never going to face that problem, are you?
This. It is disgusting to me that people are "disgusted" by other women...you have the same bits. To me, that just screams "I'm uncomfortable in my sexuality!"
NO, for god's sake, it doesn't mean I'm disgusted by other women! it means that I am disgusted by the idea a strange woman plopping herself down, rubbing herself on me and shoving her boobs in my face. Why the heck would I want that? I don't care if we have the same bits. Unwanted from another woman. Assault if from a man.0 -
Still trying to wrap my brain around the idea of another woman doing a lap dance to me. Ugh! Repulsive idea! What could possibly be attractive/fun/entertaining about that?? I'd just stand up in disgust, say "no thanks", and push her off.
Well, considering it isn;t something they just come up and do of their own accord, and you have to request a lap dance and pay for one, I guess you're never going to face that problem, are you?
This. It is disgusting to me that people are "disgusted" by other women...you have the same bits. To me, that just screams "I'm uncomfortable in my sexuality!"
NO, for god's sake, it doesn't mean I'm disgusted by other women! it means that I am disgusted by the idea a strange woman plopping herself down, rubbing herself on me and shoving her boobs in my face. Why the heck would I want that? I don't care if we have the same bits. Unwanted from another woman. Assault if from a man.
Then don't pay for a lap dance. Simple
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Nope....I wouldn't be happy... Pissed would be more like it...:explode:
It is amazing to see all these women on here that go....I would have never guessed women would be ok with that...
Oh Well Live and Learn :drinker:
That my friend is because we live in a society and age where morals and the line between right and wrong are practically non-existent.
If my significant other went, she could pack her bags and hit the door. Hell I'd pack them for her.
If you are okay with your S/O seeing someone else naked and that turns them on, there are 2 problems with that logic.
1. Why is he/she being sexually excited about ANOTHER person
2. Shows how much interest they have in who they are with.
It's about character and people today don't have much of it.
That is my 2 cents.
-Army Vet (4 countries, 45 states in america, married and divorced, and re-married - I got some experience)0 -
For me their are a bunch of reasons to not like it.
First I have been several times. A woman that I knew owned one, and we went there as it was just another bar. Everyone can try to glorify "stripping" as some sort of empowered thing that is making use of a body obtained by hard work.....But you are fooling yourselves.
First of all it isn't normal to get naked and rub your goods all over someone you do not know for money. It's just a lesser form of prostitution. Both of which "normal" people will not do.
Second, look up statistics on the number of strippers who have been sexually abused. WHAT is sexy about a woman doing something to you because some slimey dirty scumbag POS did "something" to her?
Drug addiction is a REALITY.
These women make a BUNCH of money and most often times are always broke. The old story "stripping to pay for college" is just something that is told to take the edge off of the reality of the situation.
First of all who the hell are you to make assumptions as to why these women are strippers? Who are you to judge their choice of exotic dance as a way to make a living? My mother was a stripper, a SINGLE mother who NEEDED a way to support her child and pay her way through college at 19 years old. So No its not just something to take the edge off reality.0 -
Nope....I wouldn't be happy... Pissed would be more like it...:explode:
It is amazing to see all these women on here that go....I would have never guessed women would be ok with that...
Oh Well Live and Learn :drinker:
That my friend is because we live in a society and age where morals and the line between right and wrong are practically non-existent.
If my significant other went, she could pack her bags and hit the door. Hell I'd pack them for her.
If you are okay with your S/O seeing someone else naked and that turns them on, there are 2 problems with that logic.
1. Why is he/she being sexually excited about ANOTHER person
2. Shows how much interest they have in who they are with.
It's about character and people today don't have much of it.
That is my 2 cents.
-Army Vet (4 countries, 45 states in america, married and divorced, and re-married - I got some experience)
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Nope....I wouldn't be happy... Pissed would be more like it...:explode:
It is amazing to see all these women on here that go....I would have never guessed women would be ok with that...
Oh Well Live and Learn :drinker:
That my friend is because we live in a society and age where morals and the line between right and wrong are practically non-existent.
If my significant other went, she could pack her bags and hit the door. Hell I'd pack them for her.
If you are okay with your S/O seeing someone else naked and that turns them on, there are 2 problems with that logic.
1. Why is he/she being sexually excited about ANOTHER person
2. Shows how much interest they have in who they are with.
It's about character and people today don't have much of it.
That is my 2 cents.
-Army Vet (4 countries, 45 states in america, married and divorced, and re-married - I got some experience)
Well im guessing you dont look at porn then? Or admire a beautiful woman walking down the street? Or at the beach? Its because we have no morals that we cant celebrate the human form as a work of art and enjoy it in its purest form? Interesting.0 -
Nope....I wouldn't be happy... Pissed would be more like it...:explode:
It is amazing to see all these women on here that go....I would have never guessed women would be ok with that...
Oh Well Live and Learn :drinker:
That my friend is because we live in a society and age where morals and the line between right and wrong are practically non-existent.
If my significant other went, she could pack her bags and hit the door. Hell I'd pack them for her.
If you are okay with your S/O seeing someone else naked and that turns them on, there are 2 problems with that logic.
1. Why is he/she being sexually excited about ANOTHER person
2. Shows how much interest they have in who they are with.
It's about character and people today don't have much of it.
That is my 2 cents.
-Army Vet (4 countries, 45 states in america, married and divorced, and re-married - I got some experience)
I see your point, however.... not all couples are like that. I've taken my S/O to the strip club to have fun. It's like going to a show. You get in and watch the acts preform. Some you rate as a 2, others you rate as a 9. And the fact that they go around giving lap dances is just a bonus. I paid to have them give my S/O a lap dance. And while she is doing her little bit, they are just talking casually like it's nothing.
If you think that a stripper/exotic dancer/performer is going to affect your relationship or ruin something or steal your man/woman. Then you are very insecure in your relationship.
Most of the girls there are either lesbians or taken......0 -
For me their are a bunch of reasons to not like it.
First I have been several times. A woman that I knew owned one, and we went there as it was just another bar. Everyone can try to glorify "stripping" as some sort of empowered thing that is making use of a body obtained by hard work.....But you are fooling yourselves.
First of all it isn't normal to get naked and rub your goods all over someone you do not know for money. It's just a lesser form of prostitution. Both of which "normal" people will not do.
Second, look up statistics on the number of strippers who have been sexually abused. WHAT is sexy about a woman doing something to you because some slimey dirty scumbag POS did "something" to her?
Drug addiction is a REALITY.
These women make a BUNCH of money and most often times are always broke. The old story "stripping to pay for college" is just something that is told to take the edge off of the reality of the situation.
First of all who the hell are you to make assumptions as to why these women are strippers? Who are you to judge their choice of exotic dance as a way to make a living? My mother was a stripper, a SINGLE mother who NEEDED a way to support her child and pay her way through college at 19 years old. So No its not just something to take the edge off reality.
How many millions of women in the same situation through this country and throughout time DIDN'T choose to be a stripper?0 -
I took my husband to his first one, though we weren't married at the time. I'd take him again. He could go if he wanted. He knows where the best is...right here at home.0
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And one other thing.
If your husband had some random woman get naked and rub herself all over him for free would that be OK?
If your wife had some random guy get naked and rub himself all over her for free would that be OK?
So then why is OK to PAY for it to happen?
Someone care to answer this?0 -
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I think they're fun to just go and chill... until guys start throwing dollars at you. Going with a group of guys/a bf would be alright too.0
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And just like the "would you give it back" thread
It's funny how SO many people care about this in real life but then on the internet everyone's all "I'm secure I don't care", and "He can go anytime he wants and I'll go with him"0 -
Ha. I've gone with friends when I was younger but haven't been for years. I probably stopped for the same reason I stopped drinking...money.
ETA: (Geez...what a Scrooge I turned out to be in my "old age" haha)0 -
Impressive. But it looks like all of these were taken during a "class". You see the amazing things like that at these places about 0.0005% of the time.0 -
This...and all the similar GIFs are super cool.
Holy *kitten*!! That is amazing strength!
So is this...
It took me a long enough time just to be able to 'sit' on the pole. Dx 0 -
A few years ago it would have been a big NO. Now, I'm on the fence. We make fun of the types of girls who strip all the time, so if anything, it would just be a good laugh and then he would be dying for a shower after. It would probably be a hilarious time. I might even use it as revenge on him or something.0
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For me their are a bunch of reasons to not like it.
First I have been several times. A woman that I knew owned one, and we went there as it was just another bar. Everyone can try to glorify "stripping" as some sort of empowered thing that is making use of a body obtained by hard work.....But you are fooling yourselves.
First of all it isn't normal to get naked and rub your goods all over someone you do not know for money. It's just a lesser form of prostitution. Both of which "normal" people will not do.
Second, look up statistics on the number of strippers who have been sexually abused. WHAT is sexy about a woman doing something to you because some slimey dirty scumbag POS did "something" to her?
Drug addiction is a REALITY.
These women make a BUNCH of money and most often times are always broke. The old story "stripping to pay for college" is just something that is told to take the edge off of the reality of the situation.
First of all who the hell are you to make assumptions as to why these women are strippers? Who are you to judge their choice of exotic dance as a way to make a living? My mother was a stripper, a SINGLE mother who NEEDED a way to support her child and pay her way through college at 19 years old. So No its not just something to take the edge off reality.
How many millions of women in the same situation through this country and throughout time DIDN'T choose to be a stripper?
How many of them DID?0 -
People do take classes in this. They train to be a pole dancer... they work at stripe clubs. They become professionals and even go to competitions. This actually can be a career. Yes some just do it to get some extra cash, but there are a lot out there that practice and train to be a great pole dancer.0 -
For me their are a bunch of reasons to not like it.
First I have been several times. A woman that I knew owned one, and we went there as it was just another bar. Everyone can try to glorify "stripping" as some sort of empowered thing that is making use of a body obtained by hard work.....But you are fooling yourselves.
First of all it isn't normal to get naked and rub your goods all over someone you do not know for money. It's just a lesser form of prostitution. Both of which "normal" people will not do.
Second, look up statistics on the number of strippers who have been sexually abused. WHAT is sexy about a woman doing something to you because some slimey dirty scumbag POS did "something" to her?
Drug addiction is a REALITY.
These women make a BUNCH of money and most often times are always broke. The old story "stripping to pay for college" is just something that is told to take the edge off of the reality of the situation.
First of all who the hell are you to make assumptions as to why these women are strippers? Who are you to judge their choice of exotic dance as a way to make a living? My mother was a stripper, a SINGLE mother who NEEDED a way to support her child and pay her way through college at 19 years old. So No its not just something to take the edge off reality.
How many millions of women in the same situation through this country and throughout time DIDN'T choose to be a stripper?
How many of them DID? Your so ignorant. Go eat something.
A tiny, TINY, TINY fraction of women as compared to those who DID NOT.
Reality isn't ignorance.
Have a nice day.0 -
Impressive. But it looks like all of these were taken during a "class". You see the amazing things like that at these places about 0.0005% of the time.
What do you think these classes are FOR? How would you know? You dont go to strip clubs...0 -
For me their are a bunch of reasons to not like it.
First I have been several times. A woman that I knew owned one, and we went there as it was just another bar. Everyone can try to glorify "stripping" as some sort of empowered thing that is making use of a body obtained by hard work.....But you are fooling yourselves.
First of all it isn't normal to get naked and rub your goods all over someone you do not know for money. It's just a lesser form of prostitution. Both of which "normal" people will not do.
Second, look up statistics on the number of strippers who have been sexually abused. WHAT is sexy about a woman doing something to you because some slimey dirty scumbag POS did "something" to her?
Drug addiction is a REALITY.
These women make a BUNCH of money and most often times are always broke. The old story "stripping to pay for college" is just something that is told to take the edge off of the reality of the situation.
First of all who the hell are you to make assumptions as to why these women are strippers? Who are you to judge their choice of exotic dance as a way to make a living? My mother was a stripper, a SINGLE mother who NEEDED a way to support her child and pay her way through college at 19 years old. So No its not just something to take the edge off reality.
How many millions of women in the same situation through this country and throughout time DIDN'T choose to be a stripper?
How many of them DID? Your so ignorant. Go eat something.
A tiny, TINY, TINY fraction of women as compared to those who DID NOT.
Reality isn't ignorance.
Have a nice day.
Oh yeah? Lets see your references? Lets see where you get your statistics? If its REALITY show me.0 -
I have no problem with it at all0
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I have two views on strip clubs:
1) Just bring me. First of all, I find hilarious entertainment value in it. And, secondly, you will get sooooo much more attention from the dancers if you have a girl with you...it makes the guys seem more safe.
2) I always tell my boyfriend (and I told my exhusband the same)...if you want to go to a strip club with your buds...GO!!!! Have fun! Seriously! Just don't come home all hot and bothered over some other woman and wake me up expecting me to take care of it. lol!
No to number one - if you want to go, more power to you, but I don't need to be there. Especially if he can't be REAL without me there.
To number two, which I have in fact said to my ex on occasion, go and have a great time, and then enjoy your hand later...don't wake me up expecting to look after what someone else started. Quite frankly, I have no problem that it got him excited, but I don't want to KNOW that he's thinking about someone else when with me.0 -
Impressive. But it looks like all of these were taken during a "class". You see the amazing things like that at these places about 0.0005% of the time.
What do you think these classes are FOR? How would you know? You dont go to strip clubs...
For a fun new way to work towards fitness goals/get a work out.
Before making a point about my opinion try reading all of my replies. Thanks.0 -
EVERYONE CALM DOWN!! And watch the cute kitty.... >_>0
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