Longest that you have been single for?

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I was letting my mind run free when I realised something. I have been single for...*drum roll* 4 years. Yep. 4 years. It sucks greatly/ It is because I am very shy and tend to keep to myself. I'm more of a observer. I speak when spoken directly too. #Sociallyawkward.

Also, the past couple of years have been busy between graduating, starting college and my weight loss, I suppose I haven't really had time for a relationship. But, has anyone else played a long game in the single life or am I just that pathetic? haha

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  • Posts: 580 Member
    single as in no dates at all or no exclusivity? haha

    -single for about a year and a half now lol
  • Posts: 505 Member
    bout 3 50
  • Posts: 561 Member
    I've talked to guys but never been in an official relationship. So basically I have been single for 20 years, almost 21 by next month.. Lol. Basically my whole life!
  • Posts: 52 Member
    After being together for almost 12 years with a great women, and deciding that it still wasnt what I wanted, I love being single (not to be confused with being alone )
  • Posts: 2,890 Member
    What is single? *old timers setting in* lol
  • Posts: 7,692 Member
    Longest for me (not counting before high school) would probably be a year. Then again, I met my husband when I was 19, got engaged at 20, and married at 21.
  • Posts: 1,154 Member
    After being together for almost 12 years with a great women, and deciding that it still wasnt what I wanted, I love being single (not to be confused with being alone )

    lol reminds me of...

    foreveralone.jpg
  • Posts: 325
    13 minutes. live life fast yo
  • Posts: 731 Member
    ummm about 6 months now.
  • Posts: 1,625 Member
    Nearly 3yrs for me now. Wow, I didn't even realise it had been that long till I totted it up :laugh:
  • Posts: 3,436 Member
    41 years, the beauty of being asexual.
  • Posts: 1,271 Member
    I'm now at 8 years and counting...


    This is the drawback of being really introverted and just kind of disliking humanity in general. :laugh:
  • Posts: 1,710 Member
    4 or 5 years, maybe more. I've been too busy being me and, when I've had a relationship, it felt like too much. Not lived with a guy for 10+ years. It's just not something I've wanted.
  • Posts: 520 Member
    2 yrs as of this month!
    Reading others' posts doesn't make me feel as bad, i'm not the only one!
  • I'm going to count from first hint of sexual activity, so from first kiss to first relationship, eighteen months. Before that, thirteen years.
  • Posts: 90 Member
    Random questions at 1am! yay!

    I was letting my mind run free when I realised something. I have been single for...*drum roll* 4 years. Yep. 4 years. It sucks greatly/ It is because I am very shy and tend to keep to myself. I'm more of a observer. I speak when spoken directly too. #Sociallyawkward.

    Also, the past couple of years have been busy between graduating, starting college and my weight loss, I suppose I haven't really had time for a relationship. But, has anyone else played a long game in the single life or am I just that pathetic? haha

    Omg, I'm not the only one...I love being the observer. Especially in class- a lot of people love to snack on pretzels! Anyway, I'm extremely shy and I'm usually the "listener" but once someone gets to actually know me-- I can be really funny/entertaining. I love making people laugh with my weirdness. Then again, everyone in college seems to be a bit more serious and laid back. Oh and I can't really say I've had a boyfriend. Ugh. 19 and single. Lol.
  • Posts: 3,801 Member
    It's been a little over a year now. Sadly, I've met some great guys where the attraction was mutual in that period. But there's just been too much transition with me graduating college and knowing I'm going to live on the other side of the country. I feel like I missed out, but at the same time spared myself a broken heart and am going into this next phase unattached to anyone back home.
  • Posts: 508 Member
    My longest is about 4 years.
    currently 19 Months
  • Posts: 1,252 Member
    2 weeks :S
  • Posts: 369
    Since 13 years old, less than a week. :glasses:
  • Posts: 1,785 Member
    2 weeks :S

    so you broke up and 2 weeks later you were in a relationship ?

    2weeks is the longest you have been single I don't believe that
  • Posts: 529 Member
    Getting on for 4 years now, not particularly bothered though, more time for friends and riding motorbikes! :drinker:
  • Posts: 479 Member
    10 years, then had two terribad relationships, kinda wishing they hadn't happened... would have had my streak still going :)>
  • Posts: 425 Member
    I had my first 'relationship' when I was 14, my second between the ages of 15-17 and my final (and current) one from 17 until now (I'm 21)

    So from the age of 14, I've been single a grand total of a year (8 months between the first and second, and 4 months between the second and third)

    I'm a relationship kind of person :-)
  • Posts: 70 Member
    longest was 3 years but have had many long periods of being single, right now i've been single for a bit over a year but its all good I need to focus on other things :)
  • Posts: 624 Member
    year and a half. OP is too pretty to be single for 4 years
  • Posts: 479 Member
    OP is too pretty to be single for 4 years

    ^^ this
  • Posts: 279 Member

    ^^ this

    She is also 20! She wont be single for much longer if she doesn't want to be.
  • Posts: 529 Member

    She is also 20! She wont be single for much longer if she doesn't want to be.

    Cheeky ;)
  • Posts: 16,913 Member
    The first nineteen years of my life? Barring that 14 months.

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