What's on your mind?

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  • your_future_ex_wife
    your_future_ex_wife Posts: 4,278 Member
    edited October 2019
    I apologize. I have been having a super rough time lately and was particularly snarky yesterday.

    I hope things improve for you soon and quickly.

    ETA: your goldfish comment made me laugh
  • _Miss_chievous_
    _Miss_chievous_ Posts: 2,765 Member
    I apologize. I have been having a super rough time lately and was particularly snarky yesterday.

    I haven't seen anything so I don't know what you're talking about but I can say that you're appreciated here and I hope things get better for you ❤
  • laprimaJenny
    laprimaJenny Posts: 1,495 Member
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    You: hi!

    Me: hello!

    You: how are you?

    Me: fine, you?

    You: good, thanks.

    silence

    You: How was your day?

    Me: Oh you know, same ol, same ol. Thanks for asking. Yours?

    You: it was good. Did some stuff.

    Me: oh good.

    silence

    Me: so, I’ll talk to you soon.

    You: yeah, good. Let’s keep in touch.

    Perspective!🤔 I have this exact conversation on my phone right now..
    I have it virtually and irl Every. *kitten*. Day. If I try to interject some odd tidbit of real conversation the party of the first part cannot relate.

    Yep- same!! Makes me question why I hold onto such shallow relationships? I think next conversation with them I’ll just screenshot the one before- cause it’s literally going to be identical! I like your thought process- next time I’m going to throw in the most random thing to say- it’ll either make the convo better or finally end it all together!!🤣

    Or when you give some real conversation, they respond in a short exchange with mere disinterest.

    Ugh.. yep, that’s my favorite! I can definitely be a “wordy” talker so I don’t expect to be matched word for word. However, if I write a paragraph & only get back a word or two then it tells me all I need to know about the value that person places on our relationship! ( 🎶 Thank you next... 🎶 )

    Yesterday i messaged a friend a big long diatribe about my day/life and ranted about a few things. I finally asked “but how are you?”

    The message i got back was:

    I am fine







    That was it. I laughed so hard, still laughing about it today in fact

    I admire the fact that you can laugh it off. I feel so vulnerable when I’m treated in this manor.

    Although I have come to realize at times it’s my own expectations that let me down and it’s actually not the person’s fault.
  • _sw33tp3a_11
    _sw33tp3a_11 Posts: 4,692 Member
    I apologize. I have been having a super rough time lately and was particularly snarky yesterday.

    I love you ❤
  • GymGoddessGoals
    GymGoddessGoals Posts: 2,146 Member
    I apologize. I have been having a super rough time lately and was particularly snarky yesterday.

    I love you ❤

    I love you too.
  • caco_ethes
    caco_ethes Posts: 11,962 Member
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    You: hi!

    Me: hello!

    You: how are you?

    Me: fine, you?

    You: good, thanks.

    silence

    You: How was your day?

    Me: Oh you know, same ol, same ol. Thanks for asking. Yours?

    You: it was good. Did some stuff.

    Me: oh good.

    silence

    Me: so, I’ll talk to you soon.

    You: yeah, good. Let’s keep in touch.

    Perspective!🤔 I have this exact conversation on my phone right now..
    I have it virtually and irl Every. *kitten*. Day. If I try to interject some odd tidbit of real conversation the party of the first part cannot relate.

    Yep- same!! Makes me question why I hold onto such shallow relationships? I think next conversation with them I’ll just screenshot the one before- cause it’s literally going to be identical! I like your thought process- next time I’m going to throw in the most random thing to say- it’ll either make the convo better or finally end it all together!!🤣

    Or when you give some real conversation, they respond in a short exchange with mere disinterest.

    Ugh.. yep, that’s my favorite! I can definitely be a “wordy” talker so I don’t expect to be matched word for word. However, if I write a paragraph & only get back a word or two then it tells me all I need to know about the value that person places on our relationship! ( 🎶 Thank you next... 🎶 )

    Yesterday i messaged a friend a big long diatribe about my day/life and ranted about a few things. I finally asked “but how are you?”

    The message i got back was:

    I am fine







    That was it. I laughed so hard, still laughing about it today in fact

    I admire the fact that you can laugh it off. I feel so vulnerable when I’m treated in this manor.

    Although I have come to realize at times it’s my own expectations that let me down and it’s actually not the person’s fault.

    Oh, they were absolutely joking. Just taking a little jab, which is why it was so funny 😅
  • Reckoner68
    Reckoner68 Posts: 2,139 Member
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    You: hi!

    Me: hello!

    You: how are you?

    Me: fine, you?

    You: good, thanks.

    silence

    You: How was your day?

    Me: Oh you know, same ol, same ol. Thanks for asking. Yours?

    You: it was good. Did some stuff.

    Me: oh good.

    silence

    Me: so, I’ll talk to you soon.

    You: yeah, good. Let’s keep in touch.

    Perspective!🤔 I have this exact conversation on my phone right now..
    I have it virtually and irl Every. *kitten*. Day. If I try to interject some odd tidbit of real conversation the party of the first part cannot relate.

    Yep- same!! Makes me question why I hold onto such shallow relationships? I think next conversation with them I’ll just screenshot the one before- cause it’s literally going to be identical! I like your thought process- next time I’m going to throw in the most random thing to say- it’ll either make the convo better or finally end it all together!!🤣

    Or when you give some real conversation, they respond in a short exchange with mere disinterest.

    Ugh.. yep, that’s my favorite! I can definitely be a “wordy” talker so I don’t expect to be matched word for word. However, if I write a paragraph & only get back a word or two then it tells me all I need to know about the value that person places on our relationship! ( 🎶 Thank you next... 🎶 )

    Yesterday i messaged a friend a big long diatribe about my day/life and ranted about a few things. I finally asked “but how are you?”

    The message i got back was:

    I am fine







    That was it. I laughed so hard, still laughing about it today in fact

    I admire the fact that you can laugh it off. I feel so vulnerable when I’m treated in this manor.

    Although I have come to realize at times it’s my own expectations that let me down and it’s actually not the person’s fault.

    Oh, they were absolutely joking. Just taking a little jab, which is why it was so funny 😅

    Joking? Sounds like an insensitive cad to me. You know what they say about removing toxic people from your life....your life might smell better but your life’s soil probably still won’t grow anything for a few years.
  • caco_ethes
    caco_ethes Posts: 11,962 Member
    Reckoner68 wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    You: hi!

    Me: hello!

    You: how are you?

    Me: fine, you?

    You: good, thanks.

    silence

    You: How was your day?

    Me: Oh you know, same ol, same ol. Thanks for asking. Yours?

    You: it was good. Did some stuff.

    Me: oh good.

    silence

    Me: so, I’ll talk to you soon.

    You: yeah, good. Let’s keep in touch.

    Perspective!🤔 I have this exact conversation on my phone right now..
    I have it virtually and irl Every. *kitten*. Day. If I try to interject some odd tidbit of real conversation the party of the first part cannot relate.

    Yep- same!! Makes me question why I hold onto such shallow relationships? I think next conversation with them I’ll just screenshot the one before- cause it’s literally going to be identical! I like your thought process- next time I’m going to throw in the most random thing to say- it’ll either make the convo better or finally end it all together!!🤣

    Or when you give some real conversation, they respond in a short exchange with mere disinterest.

    Ugh.. yep, that’s my favorite! I can definitely be a “wordy” talker so I don’t expect to be matched word for word. However, if I write a paragraph & only get back a word or two then it tells me all I need to know about the value that person places on our relationship! ( 🎶 Thank you next... 🎶 )

    Yesterday i messaged a friend a big long diatribe about my day/life and ranted about a few things. I finally asked “but how are you?”

    The message i got back was:

    I am fine







    That was it. I laughed so hard, still laughing about it today in fact

    I admire the fact that you can laugh it off. I feel so vulnerable when I’m treated in this manor.

    Although I have come to realize at times it’s my own expectations that let me down and it’s actually not the person’s fault.

    Oh, they were absolutely joking. Just taking a little jab, which is why it was so funny 😅

    Joking? Sounds like an insensitive cad to me. You know what they say about removing toxic people from your life....your life might smell better but your life’s soil probably still won’t grow anything for a few years.

    They probably fat fingered the send button before they finished and I’m just giving entirely too much credit
  • CaliValleyGirl
    CaliValleyGirl Posts: 744 Member
    It's our anniversary!
  • CaliValleyGirl
    CaliValleyGirl Posts: 744 Member
    edited October 2019
    On the road again. 🎤🎙️🎶🎵

    I love road trips.

    Except for the semi trucks on the freeway n make me nervous.

    I've seen final destination, that crap does happen!

    Every log truck, "We're going to die".

    Every gas tanker, "We're going to die".


    May your day be filled with love and light.

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  • Plague_Doktor
    Plague_Doktor Posts: 44 Member
    I love Halloween, so my grotesque appearance on random trips to Walmart look like a fun spooky choice and not just my reality
  • cdubks88
    cdubks88 Posts: 3,573 Member
    It's our anniversary!

    Happy Anniversary!
  • CaliValleyGirl
    CaliValleyGirl Posts: 744 Member
    cdubks88 wrote: »
    It's our anniversary!

    Happy Anniversary!

    Thank you!
  • Reckoner68
    Reckoner68 Posts: 2,139 Member
    I love Halloween, so my grotesque appearance on random trips to Walmart look like a fun spooky choice and not just my reality

    I smile when they compliment me on my costume, then weep into my Oreos when I get back to the car
  • caco_ethes
    caco_ethes Posts: 11,962 Member
    I miss the anticipation for trips that i felt as a kid. As an adult it sometimes just feels more stressy than excited
  • George_of_the_Jungle
    George_of_the_Jungle Posts: 3,316 Member
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    I miss the anticipation for trips that i felt as a kid. As an adult it sometimes just feels more stressy than excited

    are we there yet?
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    I miss the anticipation for trips that i felt as a kid. As an adult it sometimes just feels more stressy than excited

    sometimes ?

    sometimes ?


    I need to move.

    .... any vacancies in West Dakota ??
  • caco_ethes
    caco_ethes Posts: 11,962 Member
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    I miss the anticipation for trips that i felt as a kid. As an adult it sometimes just feels more stressy than excited

    are we there yet?

    This is even going to be a kidless vacation. Just me and two of my friends. How am i not involuntarily pumping my fist in the air?
  • caco_ethes
    caco_ethes Posts: 11,962 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    I miss the anticipation for trips that i felt as a kid. As an adult it sometimes just feels more stressy than excited

    sometimes ?

    sometimes ?


    I need to move.

    .... any vacancies in West Dakota ??


    West Dakota is one giant vacancy
  • George_of_the_Jungle
    George_of_the_Jungle Posts: 3,316 Member
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    I miss the anticipation for trips that i felt as a kid. As an adult it sometimes just feels more stressy than excited

    are we there yet?

    This is even going to be a kidless vacation. Just me and two of my friends. How am i not involuntarily pumping my fist in the air?

    IDK but if you don't wanna go then I will!
  • Plague_Doktor
    Plague_Doktor Posts: 44 Member
    Reckoner68 wrote: »
    I love Halloween, so my grotesque appearance on random trips to Walmart look like a fun spooky choice and not just my reality

    I smile when they compliment me on my costume, then weep into my Oreos when I get back to the car

    Same pal, same
  • CaliValleyGirl
    CaliValleyGirl Posts: 744 Member
    Getting nervous.

    So far we almost hit a solid safety barrier that rolled into the freeway. Then we almost hit hay bales that fell off a truck.

    I'm ready to go home.
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  • isalsayourface123
    isalsayourface123 Posts: 2,153 Member
    Thinking about how lonely my career is, what with sitting in isolation and hardly any human contact. Somehow it just doesn't feel right passing my youth like this.

    I do the isolating after work.
  • 777Gemma888
    777Gemma888 Posts: 9,578 Member
    It's our anniversary!

    Happy Anniversary! May you & your love be blessed with many more.

  • iMago
    iMago Posts: 8,714 Member
    i just heard someone unironically use the term "She Shed" and its enough to make me wish Thanos really had yeeted half the universe away

    Mr Stark i don't wanna feel so good on the planet anymore
  • your_future_ex_wife
    your_future_ex_wife Posts: 4,278 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    i just heard someone unironically use the term "She Shed" and its enough to make me wish Thanos really had yeeted half the universe away

    Mr Stark i don't wanna feel so good on the planet anymore

    I think it’s funny that a few years ago men were sitting up their man caves but the women just moved out completely.
  • iMago
    iMago Posts: 8,714 Member
    iMago wrote: »
    i just heard someone unironically use the term "She Shed" and its enough to make me wish Thanos really had yeeted half the universe away

    Mr Stark i don't wanna feel so good on the planet anymore

    I think it’s funny that a few years ago men were sitting up their man caves but the women just moved out completely.

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