Is this offending?

PersianKitty94

You get invited to a bday party. You're just eating a few cream puffs and just enjoying yourself. Then the party host comes to you and tells you to eat less so others can have some of the cream puffs also. Would you be offended?

MonkeyMel21

I mean....are you camped out by the cream puffs chowing down? Is there just a small plate? I would most likely not take offence unless the host meant offence.

angelxsss

They might've been legitimately afraid of running out of food, not insinuating you were being a pig or anything by eating a few cream puffs

PersianKitty94

40 ish guests. 30 puffs. You had about 5 but that's all you've had at this party.

NorthCascades

I would take my gift back, imply that it was very expensive, and demand the rest of the plate for it.

cee134

I would be offended. How would I suppose to know that the host is a cheapskate that only made a small amount of food?

Oxytocin_Panda

that is the least of my problems. I usually get 'Im sorry, who are you and why are you at this party?'

PersianKitty94

angelxsss wrote: »

They might've been legitimately afraid of running out of food, not insinuating you were being a pig or anything by eating a few cream puffs

Shouldn't the host have bought enough cream puffs to take into account that people would actually eat a few? Cream puffs are bite sized.

Elise4270

Should have grabbed the plate and walked out..

PersianKitty94

NorthCascades wrote: »

I would take my gift back, imply that it was very expensive, and demand the rest of the plate for it.

I got them two 50 dollar gift cards. After such incident, decided to take out one of the cards.

Just_J_Now

I'd probably be more embarrassed then offended. Then I'd find a way to make her feel super guilty for even telling me that, the nerve! I would NEVER embarrass a guest at my party. Buy enough food if you're hosting a party b itch.

angelxsss

Yeah unless they were strapped for cash. But in that case, maybe better prior planning would've caused them to choose a different food to serve, like ramen noodles.

loumrn

I would have licked the rest of the cream puffs and walked out.

loumrn

I am petty not greedy.