Teacher says Pop Tarts are not a healthy snack
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Healthy or not is it really worth making your child's time in school miserable by forcing a poptart issue? Pick your battles mama bear. There are plenty of worse things in the world to be outraged about. Save the rage for when it really matters and leave the poptarts for a home snack.11
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NorthCascades wrote: »crzycatlady1 wrote: »The teacher who told me my son couldn't bring in pretzels and fishy crackers anymore because they weren't 'healthy' was also very overweight. Not really interested in what her definition of 'healthy' was.
You're delegating the important job of educating your child to her. And you're micromanaging. This is hardly gross incompetence, it's a minor difference of opinion in a somewhat controversial topic; let the teacher do their job. Probably that teacher didn't make up the rules, but it's part of their job to enforce them equally for everybody. You're unfairly putting them in a difficult position if you pick a fight with them as an individual (and disregard what they have to say because you don't like their body) instead of, you know, working with the decision makers to address the policy, or leaving it be.
I didn't pick a fight with the teacher but yeah, my kids aren't in the traditional school system anymore because of numerous issues we had, the dumb snack policy being the least of them.0 -
NorthCascades wrote: »NorthCascades wrote: »crzycatlady1 wrote: »The teacher who told me my son couldn't bring in pretzels and fishy crackers anymore because they weren't 'healthy' was also very overweight. Not really interested in what her definition of 'healthy' was.
You're delegating the important job of educating your child to her. And you're micromanaging. This is hardly gross incompetence, it's a minor difference of opinion in a somewhat controversial topic; let the teacher do their job. Probably that teacher didn't make up the rules, but it's part of their job to enforce them equally for everybody. You're unfairly putting them in a difficult position if you pick a fight with them as an individual (and disregard what they have to say because you don't like their body) instead of, you know, working with the decision makers to address the policy, or leaving it be.
Then let her stick to educating and leave the food choices to the parent.
Everybody has their own opinion on what "educating" means, they're all different, and yet, we need a policy that applies to everybody. Luckily most students go home to their parents after school, so the parents are the ultimate authority on food choices in the home. But not in the school. If it's really that hard for parents to live with, homeschooling is an alternative; you've heard the saying "if you want something done right, do it yourself."
Yep, that's why my kids do their schooling at home now
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stevencloser wrote: »Packerjohn wrote: »stevencloser wrote: »Packerjohn wrote: »hawkmancody wrote: »There is 16 g of sugar in a cherry poptart. And 4.5 g sugar per oz of grapes. So 1 poptart is equal to not quit 4 oz of grapes. That's like what 10-15 grapes if even that many. Sure grapes have other vitamins but still both can be in a good diet. Besides sugar is sugar doesn't matter if you get it from a soda or fruit it all becomes the same thing.
Some nutrition study is needed if you're saying 4 oz of grapes are the same quality snack as a pop tart
Same amount of sugar, different micronutrients, neither being particularly outstanding.
http://nutritiondata.self.com/facts/fruits-and-fruit-juices/1920/2
Ask 100 registered dietitians their recommendation for a snack and I would be willing to bet 95%+ of them would pick the grapes over Pop Tarts.
So you don't care about the actual nutrient contained but rather go for the "duh, of course grapes are healthy"?
Which do you think dietitians would pick as the better snack choice?0 -
Alyssa_Is_LosingIt wrote: »JoeMacCready wrote: »ummijaaz560 wrote: »Are Pop tarts the devil?
No, but the macro profile isn't great. A pack of 2 is (going from memory) about 400 calories, 72c, 10f, 6p or somewhere thereabouts. I agree the teacher has no business interfering unless they're exceptionally qualified to do so, and even then... That being said, a greek yogurt and some berries would be a better choice but whatever...
For the record I love poptarts. I just use them as pre-legday fuel.
It's a kid, and it's a snack. The OP seems like she otherwise feeds her child a well-rounded diet, so I'm sure his macros aren't lacking. If he's getting the proper nutrients and has a snack every now and then that doesn't have perfect macro ratios, I don't see the harm. Especially if the child is active and he's running and playing often.
You realize most children in the US don't get the recommended amount of physical activity. Only 15% according to the Tufts University study linked below.
https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2016/04/160405122618.htm3 -
mrmarkharding wrote: »Well of course all the snowflakes here, side with the mother. "you can't tell me or my kid what to eat".
Really people, pop tarts. why don't you just give the kid 5 spoons of sugar??
I give the teacher all the credit in the world for trying to teach kids not to become obease. Of course the mother is to dam lazy to make a snack that is healthy, for the child. much easier just to buy junk food, and throw it in a lunch bag.
One pop tart for a snack every so often is not going to lead to obesity.
As for the rest of your comment-just no. Rude and uncalled for. Would you call ablate t when send their kid to school with a whole appleblr a whole banana lazy because it wasn't cut? Step off your high horse.7 -
Back when I was in school, we were taught that your "rights" we're automatically limited when we stepped into the building. For example, our right to free speech was limited, because the teacher was allowed to tell us what we could and couldn't say. I feel that the same principle comes into effect here - you have every right to decide what your child can and cannot eat while they're at home. But that right is limited when they step into the school building. At that point, the teacher decides what they are and are not allowe to eat.7
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Lol, adolescents aren't going to be skinnier by eating one "healthy" snack on break. Nor are they going to get fat from it if they aren't exceeding their calories. If kids are fat and overweight, it's because it's behavior allowed at home.puttputt24 wrote: »
It's not the kids.....................it's the LEGAL SYSTEM.Christine_72 wrote: »Aaah gone are the days when kids swapped lunches and snacks, there were no food rules and allergies/sicknesses/intolerance's were rarely heard of. Wtf has happened to our kids since i was in school??
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Not the legal system. It's the parenting. Adolescents are more obese than ever before. Parents are the ones supplying the food. I stand by supporting the teacher. FOLLOW THE RULES.
And if you read what I responded to, it was about swapping lunches and food rules. It is a legal issue and most schools will have a policy about it. You should read some student handbooks we have here in California (which are pretty stringent).
http://chms.schoolloop.com/file/1205619913654/1220710266282/3623520024127309292.pdf
Ironically, students can't have chips or soda at snack time, but they can at lunch (actually sold by the school lunch room).
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Due to issues like this though, kids can't really celebrate things like their birthdays with classmates with cake or cupcakes. It's forbidden during school time. After school is a different story.pebble4321 wrote: »singingflutelady wrote: »I know that I said this earlier but limiting snacks to only vegetables, fruits, yogurt, and granola leaves some students with NOTHING they can eat for snack because of medical reasons. So what happens to them? They starve or they get an exception and get bullied/made to feel guilty because what the teacher randomly decided was healthy isn't healthy for them?
This is where I would expect a good teacher would set the expectations in class - everyone is having something that is healthy or good for them. Clearly accomodations need to be made for students with actual allergies or medical needs, as you describe, and it should certainly be done in a way that doesn't make the child feel bad. I still think it's a good idea to promote healthy eating in general for the sake of the kids who aren't getting that message at home. (To me, healthy eating includes the idea that some people have a different set of foods that are good for them.)
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Due to issues like this though, kids can't really celebrate things like their birthdays with classmates with cake or cupcakes. It's forbidden during school time. After school is a different story.pebble4321 wrote: »singingflutelady wrote: »I know that I said this earlier but limiting snacks to only vegetables, fruits, yogurt, and granola leaves some students with NOTHING they can eat for snack because of medical reasons. So what happens to them? They starve or they get an exception and get bullied/made to feel guilty because what the teacher randomly decided was healthy isn't healthy for them?
This is where I would expect a good teacher would set the expectations in class - everyone is having something that is healthy or good for them. Clearly accomodations need to be made for students with actual allergies or medical needs, as you describe, and it should certainly be done in a way that doesn't make the child feel bad. I still think it's a good idea to promote healthy eating in general for the sake of the kids who aren't getting that message at home. (To me, healthy eating includes the idea that some people have a different set of foods that are good for them.)
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My cousins school had what I thought was a really cool way around this. They still celebrated your birthday in class, but instead of bringing cookies or cupcakes, you had to bring something non-edible, like cool looking pencils, or stickers etc. My aunt told me the kids didn't even miss the treat food (let's face it, not everyone can bake lol) and still had fun/looked forward to birthdays in the class room.2 -
Due to issues like this though, kids can't really celebrate things like their birthdays with classmates with cake or cupcakes. It's forbidden during school time. After school is a different story.pebble4321 wrote: »singingflutelady wrote: »I know that I said this earlier but limiting snacks to only vegetables, fruits, yogurt, and granola leaves some students with NOTHING they can eat for snack because of medical reasons. So what happens to them? They starve or they get an exception and get bullied/made to feel guilty because what the teacher randomly decided was healthy isn't healthy for them?
This is where I would expect a good teacher would set the expectations in class - everyone is having something that is healthy or good for them. Clearly accomodations need to be made for students with actual allergies or medical needs, as you describe, and it should certainly be done in a way that doesn't make the child feel bad. I still think it's a good idea to promote healthy eating in general for the sake of the kids who aren't getting that message at home. (To me, healthy eating includes the idea that some people have a different set of foods that are good for them.)
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My cousins school had what I thought was a really cool way around this. They still celebrated your birthday in class, but instead of bringing cookies or cupcakes, you had to bring something non-edible, like cool looking pencils, or stickers etc. My aunt told me the kids didn't even miss the treat food (let's face it, not everyone can bake lol) and still had fun/looked forward to birthdays in the class room.
I was about to say, "Why does someone having a birthday necessitate bringing food into the classroom?" . There's tons of other fun ways to celebrate a birthday. It doesn't always have to be about candy and cake.1 -
Due to issues like this though, kids can't really celebrate things like their birthdays with classmates with cake or cupcakes. It's forbidden during school time. After school is a different story.pebble4321 wrote: »singingflutelady wrote: »I know that I said this earlier but limiting snacks to only vegetables, fruits, yogurt, and granola leaves some students with NOTHING they can eat for snack because of medical reasons. So what happens to them? They starve or they get an exception and get bullied/made to feel guilty because what the teacher randomly decided was healthy isn't healthy for them?
This is where I would expect a good teacher would set the expectations in class - everyone is having something that is healthy or good for them. Clearly accomodations need to be made for students with actual allergies or medical needs, as you describe, and it should certainly be done in a way that doesn't make the child feel bad. I still think it's a good idea to promote healthy eating in general for the sake of the kids who aren't getting that message at home. (To me, healthy eating includes the idea that some people have a different set of foods that are good for them.)
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Maybe I'm just old.... but I don't recall anyone bringing cake to school on their birthday and we all survived! Birthday parties were after school, and that worked just fine.3 -
pebble4321 wrote: »
Due to issues like this though, kids can't really celebrate things like their birthdays with classmates with cake or cupcakes. It's forbidden during school time. After school is a different story.pebble4321 wrote: »singingflutelady wrote: »I know that I said this earlier but limiting snacks to only vegetables, fruits, yogurt, and granola leaves some students with NOTHING they can eat for snack because of medical reasons. So what happens to them? They starve or they get an exception and get bullied/made to feel guilty because what the teacher randomly decided was healthy isn't healthy for them?
This is where I would expect a good teacher would set the expectations in class - everyone is having something that is healthy or good for them. Clearly accomodations need to be made for students with actual allergies or medical needs, as you describe, and it should certainly be done in a way that doesn't make the child feel bad. I still think it's a good idea to promote healthy eating in general for the sake of the kids who aren't getting that message at home. (To me, healthy eating includes the idea that some people have a different set of foods that are good for them.)
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Maybe I'm just old.... but I don't recall anyone bringing cake to school on their birthday and we all survived! Birthday parties were after school, and that worked just fine.
Same here, we didn't celebrate kids birthdays in school at all, let a lone bring in cake or treats.
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Yeah, when I was growing up, no one brought food to school.
As for poptarts ... the only time I eat them is prior to a long, long, long bicycle ride. They're 200 calories each ... 400 calories for the packet of 2. I don't need those calories unless I'm seriously exercising!!
For a snack, it would probably be better to go with a 100 cal banana or a 180 cal granola bar or even a cheese sandwich.0 -
Christine_72 wrote: »pebble4321 wrote: »
Due to issues like this though, kids can't really celebrate things like their birthdays with classmates with cake or cupcakes. It's forbidden during school time. After school is a different story.pebble4321 wrote: »singingflutelady wrote: »I know that I said this earlier but limiting snacks to only vegetables, fruits, yogurt, and granola leaves some students with NOTHING they can eat for snack because of medical reasons. So what happens to them? They starve or they get an exception and get bullied/made to feel guilty because what the teacher randomly decided was healthy isn't healthy for them?
This is where I would expect a good teacher would set the expectations in class - everyone is having something that is healthy or good for them. Clearly accomodations need to be made for students with actual allergies or medical needs, as you describe, and it should certainly be done in a way that doesn't make the child feel bad. I still think it's a good idea to promote healthy eating in general for the sake of the kids who aren't getting that message at home. (To me, healthy eating includes the idea that some people have a different set of foods that are good for them.)
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Maybe I'm just old.... but I don't recall anyone bringing cake to school on their birthday and we all survived! Birthday parties were after school, and that worked just fine.
Same here, we didn't celebrate kids birthdays in school at all, let a lone bring in cake or treats.pebble4321 wrote: »
Due to issues like this though, kids can't really celebrate things like their birthdays with classmates with cake or cupcakes. It's forbidden during school time. After school is a different story.pebble4321 wrote: »singingflutelady wrote: »I know that I said this earlier but limiting snacks to only vegetables, fruits, yogurt, and granola leaves some students with NOTHING they can eat for snack because of medical reasons. So what happens to them? They starve or they get an exception and get bullied/made to feel guilty because what the teacher randomly decided was healthy isn't healthy for them?
This is where I would expect a good teacher would set the expectations in class - everyone is having something that is healthy or good for them. Clearly accomodations need to be made for students with actual allergies or medical needs, as you describe, and it should certainly be done in a way that doesn't make the child feel bad. I still think it's a good idea to promote healthy eating in general for the sake of the kids who aren't getting that message at home. (To me, healthy eating includes the idea that some people have a different set of foods that are good for them.)
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Maybe I'm just old.... but I don't recall anyone bringing cake to school on their birthday and we all survived! Birthday parties were after school, and that worked just fine.
This may be a cultural difference since my SO who immigrated to the US said the same thing. When I was growing up, it wasn't unusual (but not required) for the birthday boy/girl to bring in some sort of home made treat to share with the class (usually cupcakes) although this really only happened in elementary school where you spent the entire day with one teacher. It may also happen in middle and high school, but I went to prep school after 6th grade so not entirely sure. Since prep school is sleepaway, the dorm "mother" or "father" (adult that lived in the building) or your RA was responsible for doing some sort of party in the dorm (in the evenin, after classes were over) if your parents didn't plan somethjng spntjat nonkne felt left out. Mostly, parents came and took theirs kids and a few friends out to dinner or something.0 -
Personally I don't even consider a pop tart to be a food and I don't personally agree with the concept of no good/bad food. Some foods are crap and offer no nutritional benefit.
If people want to incorporate them into their diet, whatever. But all 'foods' are not equal.
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Schools have rules. Usually these food rules are based on health department clinical guidelines.
If you want your kid to eat a pop tart can't he do that at home?
If you want kids to be allowed to bring bubble gum and sherbet and cans of coke to keep them going during a school day rather than a mandarin or a banana or whatever, why not address it with the schools parent/committee?
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Maybe I'm missing the point but to me it seems the OP's objection was more about the teacher bringing it up directly with the child and not about the actual pop tart per se.
At my kids' schools there were rules about what should be included or not included in packed lunches. We were asked not to include sugary or salty snacks (sweets,chocolate bars,crisps etc) This was partly about encouraging healthy eating habits and also because teachers were having to deal with kids who were either hyper or lacking in energy in afternoon classes.
This seemed perfectly fair and most parents supported it. However I don't agree that it's OK for a teacher to call out an individual child about the contents of their lunch or snack box and make them feel bad about it. Kids don't have any control over what their parents give them to eat at school and I personally think the teacher should have talked to the OP about it,not the child.
Having said that it's probably not worth making a huge fuss about it - in my experience kids hate it when you do that and that may be why he/she didn't tell you what had happened .3 -
Packerjohn wrote: »stevencloser wrote: »Packerjohn wrote: »stevencloser wrote: »Packerjohn wrote: »hawkmancody wrote: »There is 16 g of sugar in a cherry poptart. And 4.5 g sugar per oz of grapes. So 1 poptart is equal to not quit 4 oz of grapes. That's like what 10-15 grapes if even that many. Sure grapes have other vitamins but still both can be in a good diet. Besides sugar is sugar doesn't matter if you get it from a soda or fruit it all becomes the same thing.
Some nutrition study is needed if you're saying 4 oz of grapes are the same quality snack as a pop tart
Same amount of sugar, different micronutrients, neither being particularly outstanding.
http://nutritiondata.self.com/facts/fruits-and-fruit-juices/1920/2
Ask 100 registered dietitians their recommendation for a snack and I would be willing to bet 95%+ of them would pick the grapes over Pop Tarts.
So you don't care about the actual nutrient contained but rather go for the "duh, of course grapes are healthy"?
Which do you think dietitians would pick as the better snack choice?
Instead of using the old Call to authority fallacy, try to think about WHY you think they'd pick grapes as a better snack choice and why you think they're a better snack choice. I outlined the nutrients in both to you as to why neither is particularly outstanding nutritionally, they're about equal if you compare them, so it certainly isn't because they're so much better nutritionally.3 -
Christine_72 wrote: »pebble4321 wrote: »
Due to issues like this though, kids can't really celebrate things like their birthdays with classmates with cake or cupcakes. It's forbidden during school time. After school is a different story.pebble4321 wrote: »singingflutelady wrote: »I know that I said this earlier but limiting snacks to only vegetables, fruits, yogurt, and granola leaves some students with NOTHING they can eat for snack because of medical reasons. So what happens to them? They starve or they get an exception and get bullied/made to feel guilty because what the teacher randomly decided was healthy isn't healthy for them?
This is where I would expect a good teacher would set the expectations in class - everyone is having something that is healthy or good for them. Clearly accomodations need to be made for students with actual allergies or medical needs, as you describe, and it should certainly be done in a way that doesn't make the child feel bad. I still think it's a good idea to promote healthy eating in general for the sake of the kids who aren't getting that message at home. (To me, healthy eating includes the idea that some people have a different set of foods that are good for them.)
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Maybe I'm just old.... but I don't recall anyone bringing cake to school on their birthday and we all survived! Birthday parties were after school, and that worked just fine.
Same here, we didn't celebrate kids birthdays in school at all, let a lone bring in cake or treats.pebble4321 wrote: »
Due to issues like this though, kids can't really celebrate things like their birthdays with classmates with cake or cupcakes. It's forbidden during school time. After school is a different story.pebble4321 wrote: »singingflutelady wrote: »I know that I said this earlier but limiting snacks to only vegetables, fruits, yogurt, and granola leaves some students with NOTHING they can eat for snack because of medical reasons. So what happens to them? They starve or they get an exception and get bullied/made to feel guilty because what the teacher randomly decided was healthy isn't healthy for them?
This is where I would expect a good teacher would set the expectations in class - everyone is having something that is healthy or good for them. Clearly accomodations need to be made for students with actual allergies or medical needs, as you describe, and it should certainly be done in a way that doesn't make the child feel bad. I still think it's a good idea to promote healthy eating in general for the sake of the kids who aren't getting that message at home. (To me, healthy eating includes the idea that some people have a different set of foods that are good for them.)
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Maybe I'm just old.... but I don't recall anyone bringing cake to school on their birthday and we all survived! Birthday parties were after school, and that worked just fine.
This may be a cultural difference since my SO who immigrated to the US said the same thing. When I was growing up, it wasn't unusual (but not required) for the birthday boy/girl to bring in some sort of home made treat to share with the class (usually cupcakes) although this really only happened in elementary school where you spent the entire day with one teacher. It may also happen in middle and high school, but I went to prep school after 6th grade so not entirely sure. Since prep school is sleepaway, the dorm "mother" or "father" (adult that lived in the building) or your RA was responsible for doing some sort of party in the dorm (in the evenin, after classes were over) if your parents didn't plan somethjng spntjat nonkne felt left out. Mostly, parents came and took theirs kids and a few friends out to dinner or something.
We did that too in Elementary school in Germany.0 -
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Yes it could be cultural or age related, or both, I went to primary school in Australia in the 70s.0 -
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singingflutelady wrote: »In my opinion, something that derives all of it's calories from sugar and fat, and has no other real nutrients in it, is junk food, and looking at the nutritional value of poptarts, that's what they are, fat and sugar, which I personally wouldn't want my kid to eat. I would rather they eat an apple, or veggies, or something like that.
I also think that schools are trying to teach kids about nutrition because unfortunately, not everyone teaches their kids about making good choices for food. I can understand you being upset, but I can also understand the school as well.
So kids who have medical conditions who can not eat fruits and vegetables without serious pain and GI issues should be forced to go hungry because what is healthy for them is different than what is healthy for you?
NO. In this case the parent would send a letter or a doctor's certificate pertaining to that child's specific condition.1 -
ummijaaz560 wrote: »I went to my kids school this morning, to speak with his first grade teacher.
He came home yesterday saying he couldn"t bring his Pop tart for their morning snack, because they can only have "healthy snacks".
I was upset. I still am even after speaking with the teacher this morning.
I teach my child that there are no good or bad foods, unless you have a allergy or ethically cant eat it.
He has been sitting there afraid to pull out his "unhealthy snack" because its not "fruit, or granola bar, or yogurt"(healthy snacks").
I often send those as well.
I told her not to teach my child about foods being good or bad, because I dont subscribe to that.
Teacher: "So you're ok with him having a sugary Pop Tart in the morning"?
Me: Yes, I if send it its good enough for him to have. Just so you know there are granola bars with just as much or more sugar in them as Pop Tarts.
Teacher: blank stare.
Do teachers have the right to teach children sugary snacks are unhealthy?
Are Pop tarts the devil?
There are concerns all over the world about childhood obesity, and these types of policies are not unfamiliar to me. Not sure if they're legally enforceable, but I guess it depends on your particular country or state.
Here on MFP we usually think of the equation of Calories In and Calories Out and the resulting Calorie Deficit. If a child is taking in a lot of extra calories, he or she has to be also burning extra calories through activity.
A quick Google search indicates Pop Tarts are high in fat, sugar, sodium, and additives, yet offer little nutritional value.
Good habits have to be taught, and at one time the school was one pillar of society where this occurred. Now it has become very awkward for schools and teachers to teach anything that might conflict with changing values in society.3 -
I had a talk with my son yesterday after he came in from school.
He said he had a good day, and that he doe not like pop tarts anymore and wont bother me for them when we go to the store.
I told him he can still like them and no one will be mean to him. He says he will think about it.
Folks, it was never ever about the fight of having a pop tart. It was about not having my child feel bad for eating a food. Now it's happened.
I just want to say that I'm not going to go against the rules of the snack policy. That was never a thing.
I just wish the teacher would have sent a note home when she trashed the first pop tart.
I also wish she wouldn't have had him sitting there watching everyone else eat while his snack had been binned.
My son and I talked about his not telling me the first time. He said he forgot. He's six by the way.
I think I'm entitled to teach my children that foods are not unhealthy in balance and moderation.
I see comments of my being lazy and not a good mother, for even giving my child a sugary snack.
You are entitled to your opinions, even if it's rude and false.
I've got work to do on this. Have a good one.
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ummijaaz560 wrote: »I went to my kids school this morning, to speak with his first grade teacher.
He came home yesterday saying he couldn"t bring his Pop tart for their morning snack, because they can only have "healthy snacks".
I was upset. I still am even after speaking with the teacher this morning.
I teach my child that there are no good or bad foods, unless you have a allergy or ethically cant eat it.
He has been sitting there afraid to pull out his "unhealthy snack" because its not "fruit, or granola bar, or yogurt"(healthy snacks").
I often send those as well.
I told her not to teach my child about foods being good or bad, because I dont subscribe to that.
Teacher: "So you're ok with him having a sugary Pop Tart in the morning"?
Me: Yes, I if send it its good enough for him to have. Just so you know there are granola bars with just as much or more sugar in them as Pop Tarts.
Teacher: blank stare.
Do teachers have the right to teach children sugary snacks are unhealthy?
Are Pop tarts the devil?
There are concerns all over the world about childhood obesity, and these types of policies are not unfamiliar to me. Not sure if they're legally enforceable, but I guess it depends on your particular country or state.
Here on MFP we usually think of the equation of Calories In and Calories Out and the resulting Calorie Deficit. If a child is taking in a lot of extra calories, he or she has to be also burning extra calories through activity.
A quick Google search indicates Pop Tarts are high in fat, sugar, sodium, and additives, yet offer little nutritional value.
Good habits have to be taught, and at one time the school was one pillar of society where this occurred. Now it has become very awkward for schools and teachers to teach anything that might conflict with changing values in society.
Wow, I am impressed. Someone with a comment that is intelligent. Good for you, and thank you for trying to teach others here, to look at the positive, instead of just berating a teacher for making a comment to someones child.1 -
Packerjohn wrote: »Alyssa_Is_LosingIt wrote: »JoeMacCready wrote: »ummijaaz560 wrote: »Are Pop tarts the devil?
No, but the macro profile isn't great. A pack of 2 is (going from memory) about 400 calories, 72c, 10f, 6p or somewhere thereabouts. I agree the teacher has no business interfering unless they're exceptionally qualified to do so, and even then... That being said, a greek yogurt and some berries would be a better choice but whatever...
For the record I love poptarts. I just use them as pre-legday fuel.
It's a kid, and it's a snack. The OP seems like she otherwise feeds her child a well-rounded diet, so I'm sure his macros aren't lacking. If he's getting the proper nutrients and has a snack every now and then that doesn't have perfect macro ratios, I don't see the harm. Especially if the child is active and he's running and playing often.
You realize most children in the US don't get the recommended amount of physical activity. Only 15% according to the Tufts University study linked below.
https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2016/04/160405122618.htm
That's because Moms and Dads spend all their free time on their phone, or tablet instead of going outside and playing with their children. They believe taking them to soccer on Saturday is enough. I live in a community of million dollar homes. My children are the ONLY ones told to go outside and ride their bikes. I have never seen another child ride a bike here in 8 years. Sad just sad.3 -
This is common now. Or the kids make a gift for the child.
Due to issues like this though, kids can't really celebrate things like their birthdays with classmates with cake or cupcakes. It's forbidden during school time. After school is a different story.pebble4321 wrote: »singingflutelady wrote: »I know that I said this earlier but limiting snacks to only vegetables, fruits, yogurt, and granola leaves some students with NOTHING they can eat for snack because of medical reasons. So what happens to them? They starve or they get an exception and get bullied/made to feel guilty because what the teacher randomly decided was healthy isn't healthy for them?
This is where I would expect a good teacher would set the expectations in class - everyone is having something that is healthy or good for them. Clearly accomodations need to be made for students with actual allergies or medical needs, as you describe, and it should certainly be done in a way that doesn't make the child feel bad. I still think it's a good idea to promote healthy eating in general for the sake of the kids who aren't getting that message at home. (To me, healthy eating includes the idea that some people have a different set of foods that are good for them.)
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My cousins school had what I thought was a really cool way around this. They still celebrated your birthday in class, but instead of bringing cookies or cupcakes, you had to bring something non-edible, like cool looking pencils, or stickers etc. My aunt told me the kids didn't even miss the treat food (let's face it, not everyone can bake lol) and still had fun/looked forward to birthdays in the class room.
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ummijaaz560 wrote: »I had a talk with my son yesterday after he came in from school.
He said he had a good day, and that he doe not like pop tarts anymore and wont bother me for them when we go to the store.
I told him he can still like them and no one will be mean to him. He says he will think about it.
Folks, it was never ever about the fight of having a pop tart. It was about not having my child feel bad for eating a food. Now it's happened.
I just want to say that I'm not going to go against the rules of the snack policy. That was never a thing.
I just wish the teacher would have sent a note home when she trashed the first pop tart.
I also wish she wouldn't have had him sitting there watching everyone else eat while his snack had been binned.
My son and I talked about his not telling me the first time. He said he forgot. He's six by the way.
I think I'm entitled to teach my children that foods are not unhealthy in balance and moderation.
I see comments of my being lazy and not a good mother, for even giving my child a sugary snack.
You are entitled to your opinions, even if it's rude and false.
I've got work to do on this. Have a good one.
Please go to your safe room now and reflect on how rude people have been to you because they disagree with your position. I am sorry your child has been scarred for life because a TEACHER was trying to what was best for a student, and a class, god forbid she singled out your child. Please keep your child in the plastic bubble.
The simple fact is the TEACHER is right whether you want to believe it or not. A pop tart is not a healthy snack. Ask any dietitian or nutritionist.3 -
ummijaaz560 wrote: »I had a talk with my son yesterday after he came in from school.
He said he had a good day, and that he doe not like pop tarts anymore and wont bother me for them when we go to the store.
I told him he can still like them and no one will be mean to him. He says he will think about it.
Folks, it was never ever about the fight of having a pop tart. It was about not having my child feel bad for eating a food. Now it's happened.
I just want to say that I'm not going to go against the rules of the snack policy. That was never a thing.
I just wish the teacher would have sent a note home when she trashed the first pop tart.
I also wish she wouldn't have had him sitting there watching everyone else eat while his snack had been binned.
My son and I talked about his not telling me the first time. He said he forgot. He's six by the way.
I think I'm entitled to teach my children that foods are not unhealthy in balance and moderation.
I see comments of my being lazy and not a good mother, for even giving my child a sugary snack.
You are entitled to your opinions, even if it's rude and false.
I've got work to do on this. Have a good one.
I'm curious as to your motivation for starting this thread.
What did you expect ... what were you hoping for?
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I'll just add that I supervise kids (enforce rules) at my DD's school during lunch. And kids bring all sorts of foods for lunch. A lot of sandwiches get thrown away. Bananas, apples, and packaged vegetables do too. So just because it's packed for lunch, doesn't always mean it's getting eaten.
Also I notice the obese kids (just a handful) tend to buy 2 lunches. The tall and larger kids (like over 5'8) tend to too.
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