Are men afraid to ask for a women's number?

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  • steplaj
    steplaj Posts: 586 Member
    chrissyw30 wrote: »
    Maybe they are afraid of being rejected? Last week I had a guy approach me at the gas station and ask if he could use my phone because he was having car troubles and his phone battery was dead...he made about a three second call and said he couldn't reach them..later that night he called me back to "thank" me for letting him use my phone and offer to buy me lunch etc..so apparently he called himself from my phone.. lol.

    sounds kind of creepy to me! If I want your number, I'll ask you for it... Worst that can happen is you say no.
  • ZodFit
    ZodFit Posts: 394 Member
    I give ladies my number when they say cool *kitten* like "C'thulu flows through me the ancient one will rise again az'lak nazulue'ikit raglan wek" or "I'm really into fitness" either one...take my digits
  • Cerealsensei
    Cerealsensei Posts: 1,625 Member
    Im gonna ask for somebodies number today....sikeeeee.
  • 50_SHADES_OF_TREY
    50_SHADES_OF_TREY Posts: 84 Member
    edited January 2017
    Amaahd wrote: »
    Women are not as receptive to being approached.



    i agree
  • TonyB0588
    TonyB0588 Posts: 9,520 Member
    I do, but only for business purposes.
  • JackKopCh
    JackKopCh Posts: 8,042 Member
    You'd probably get done for rape or being a sexist pig these days if you asked for a girls number... D:
  • carmatiz
    carmatiz Posts: 124 Member
    I like be able to chat one on one. Not feeling forced to. Guess doing it naturally.
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  • Cerealsensei
    Cerealsensei Posts: 1,625 Member
    LL5lifts wrote: »
    The first time a guy asked me for my number when I was younger I was so excited. And he called....wanted to talk to my sister. This thread just made me remember that.

    I would have thrown rocks at both of them
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  • COMMANDO_1
    COMMANDO_1 Posts: 41 Member
    Yes they might be accused of sexism
  • harribeau2012
    harribeau2012 Posts: 644 Member
    Absolutely. I never get asked, the only possible reason is that they are too shy. Cannot have anything to do with being a 4 and married
  • LenGray
    LenGray Posts: 862 Member
    Kevoofthehoradrim wrote: »
    I give ladies my number when they say cool *kitten* like "C'thulu flows through me the ancient one will rise again az'lak nazulue'ikit raglan wek" or "I'm really into fitness" either one...take my digits

    Ia! Ia! Cthulu fthagn! Ph'nglui mglw'nfah Cthulu R'lyeh wgah'nagl fthagn!

    ...I don't want anyone's number, I was just happy to see a shout-out to my lord and devourer :smiley:
  • JJFGL2016
    JJFGL2016 Posts: 30 Member
    It happened to me this week.
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  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    edited January 2017
    harribeau2012 wrote: »
    Absolutely. I never get asked, the only possible reason is that they are too shy. Cannot have anything to do with being a 4 and married

    Yeah... you're a 4.

    On a scale from: Negative 5 to + 4.0025
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    lstrat115 wrote: »
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    harribeau2012 wrote: »
    Absolutely. I never get asked, the only possible reason is that they are too shy. Cannot have anything to do with being a 4 and married

    Yeah... you're a 4.

    On a scale from: Negative 5 to + 4.0025

    Such a heartbreaker!

    I reckon that she'll need to eek out that last .0025 on her own.
  • BreezyPeezy5
    BreezyPeezy5 Posts: 8,059 Member
    I've had a few ask for my number but I'm mainly the one asking for a guy's number. I'm even bolder now, since part of my job is networking.
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  • LenGray
    LenGray Posts: 862 Member
    edited January 2017
    LL5lifts wrote: »
    LenGray wrote: »
    Kevoofthehoradrim wrote: »
    I give ladies my number when they say cool *kitten* like "C'thulu flows through me the ancient one will rise again az'lak nazulue'ikit raglan wek" or "I'm really into fitness" either one...take my digits

    Ia! Ia! Cthulu fthagn! Ph'nglui mglw'nfah Cthulu R'lyeh wgah'nagl fthagn!

    ...I don't want anyone's number, I was just happy to see a shout-out to my lord and devourer :smiley:

    I read a good book...fiction...called The Croning. About the elder gods but I'm not gonna do spoilers.

    Thanks for the recommendation! :star: I'm in the middle of 'The Book of Cthulu' compilation and 'The Obelisk Gate' by N.K. Jemisin right now, but I'll definitely put it on my To Be Read list :smiley:
  • Canehdn
    Canehdn Posts: 122 Member
    It's tough. There are tons of women who have met so many creeps and losers that it almost feels stalky and you always think the other person will find you creepy.
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    Canehdn wrote: »
    It's tough. There are tons of women who have met so many creeps and losers that it almost feels stalky and you always think the other person will find you creepy.


    I don't think the other person will find me creepy...



    I know it.
  • bufnitzoiu
    bufnitzoiu Posts: 147 Member
    edited January 2017
    I don't ask for telephone numbers anymore, my wife doesn't let me :D
  • ASAPStocky
    ASAPStocky Posts: 51 Member
    I tend to err on the side of she doesn't want to be bothered.
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  • nolan44219
    nolan44219 Posts: 1,221 Member
    I keep pm'ing @LL5lifts asking her for her number so I can share "progress pics" with her but she keeps shooting me down.
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    nolan44219 wrote: »
    I keep pm'ing @LL5lifts asking her for her number so I can share "progress pics" with her but she keeps shooting me down.

    stand in line !
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  • Chandra126
    Chandra126 Posts: 50 Member
    If you have an interest in someone, whether you are a guy or a girl, you could just offer to give your phone number to the person. For me that would be less awkward, I'd feel less "on the spot".
  • nolan44219
    nolan44219 Posts: 1,221 Member
    LL5lifts wrote: »
    nolan44219 wrote: »
    I keep pm'ing @LL5lifts asking her for her number so I can share "progress pics" with her but she keeps shooting me down.
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    nolan44219 wrote: »
    I keep pm'ing @LL5lifts asking her for her number so I can share "progress pics" with her but she keeps shooting me down.

    stand in line !

    I keep telling you both that my numbers are 13, 3, and 21.

    I'm playing those numbers tonight!
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