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Are men afraid to ask for a women's number?

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    Motorsheen wrote: »

    that's because there is a big jump between small talk in a check-out line to something further.

    what would you wanted for him to say?

    Nothing. I agree with you. I have no expectations ever.
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    bbell1985 wrote: »

    Nothing. I agree with you. I have no expectations ever.

    no really, it's a fair question.

    waiting for you in the parking lot = creepy

    right?
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    jnichel wrote: »

    You mean like, 36-24-34? Those digits?

    Wow. Those measurements.
  • Posts: 4,553 Member
    bbell1985 wrote: »

    Wow. Those measurements.

    Probably not realistic, eh? lol
  • Posts: 1,116 Member
    Ummm....pardon me, Miss.....whats your email address?
  • Posts: 4,571 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »

    no really, it's a fair question.

    waiting for you in the parking lot = creepy

    right?

    Yes. Why are you bothering me?
  • Posts: 4,571 Member
    jnichel wrote: »

    Probably not realistic, eh? lol

    I mean, maybe. It's just so far removed from my 32-28-40 that I can't picture it lmao.
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    edited January 2017
    bbell1985 wrote: »

    Yes. Why are you bothering me?

    bothering you?

    sheesh.... sorry?
  • Posts: 4,553 Member
    bbell1985 wrote: »

    I mean, maybe. It's just so far removed from my 32-28-40 that I can't picture it lmao.

    HA! Tricked you into giving me your number. :)
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    happimess1 wrote: »
    I dont have the guts to ask for their number. I prefer the curl up in a ball and cry myself to sleep every night option


    This is why you need to buy the cutest puppy and let him do the work! Lol. Also make sure to attach a brownie to him and put a shirt on that says "are you my new mommy?" I'm just saying lol
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    chrissyw30 wrote: »


    This is why you need to buy the cutest puppy and let him do the work! Lol. Also make sure to attach a brownie to him and put a shirt on that says "are you my new mommy?" I'm just saying lol

    Man, if I didn't have that pesky wife when my kids were babies, I would have been getting all the phone numbers. But nooooo, she wouldn't let me date. lol
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    jnichel wrote: »

    Man, if I didn't have that pesky wife when my kids were babies, I would have been getting all the phone numbers. But nooooo, she wouldn't let me date. lol


    Hahaha. This made me laugh!
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    jtegirl1 wrote: »

    Dude, you're doing it wrong. You're not supposed to ask permission, you do it on the down low :D

    Where were you 20 years ago to inform me of the procedure?????
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    jtegirl1 wrote: »

    I was in my 20's and too innocent to know all this good info.

    Youth is truly wasted on the young.
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    Ive never had an issue with guys asking for my number.. Granted it was never for "dating" purposes.. just gaming.. or relationship advice from someone who doesnt date.. poor confused guys.
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    jtegirl1 wrote: »

    Yes, yes it is. Now I'm older, wiser and have no one to take advantage of my corruption.

    That just means you need to corrupt someone. ;)
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    edited January 2017
    jtegirl1 wrote: »

    I had a guy in K-Mart last summer make conversation with me while we waited in line. Attractive, my age, and specifically started a convo with me. He even took his time putting his receipt away like he was waiting for me to get done checking out, but then he left. :( I felt like I was being punk'd. It's so odd for that to happen anymore. Now every time I go in there I look for my mystery man.

    The devil and angel were having a brawl on his shoulders
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    jnichel wrote: »

    You mean like, 36-24-34? Those digits?

    No, phone number LMAO
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    Men here tend to state, "Let's swap digits" or "do you want to Kik me."

    Short answer, if he likes you, he will ask you or stalk you.

    #SmallTownAmerica

    Yes ! Guys hit me up on Instagram and Snapchat and ask for my KIK all the time
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    Yes ! Guys hit me up on Instagram and Snapchat and ask for my KIK all the time

    Same for girls for me. I only do IG and it's public so nothing interesting there. Well, unless you like cooking, drinks, home improvements, a boatload of tennis stuff, and the ramblings of a middle-aged guy.

  • Posts: 299 Member
    edited January 2017
    I always just make eye contact, then if possible, go up to her and say something directly complimenting her, like "you're cute.......... I saw you walking by and just wanted to......."

    Either gets a really negative reaction right away, "I have a boyfriend" or it goes really positive. Then talk for 5 minutes, get number there. I had to work on this confidence though. I Moved multiple times to new cities where i knew no one. I Was (still am) young so I had to find dates other ways besides social groups. I practiced a lot. For about 4 months, one whole summer, I hit on 5 girls every day. No exceptions. Had to go to the next town over because the hot girls remembered me haha. Some I had approached 3 times .
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    I'm not young - I'm from the days when people actually did ask for numbers. But I must be kinda scary I guess, because I've never had a guy ask me for my phone number in my whole life. My husband got mine from my friend. ;)
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    I stutter when in the presence of a cute/hot girl. It's awful haha.
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    You're adorable

    haha. It's not adorable when I stutter like that. It's nerves or something I guess, but it's the main reason I don't approach anyone. I can feel the nerves/stutter coming on before I even open my mouth. It's bad lol.
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