WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR MAY 2017
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Marti, thanks! It was therapy to make an album of all her pictures, when she passed away. I used many of her handkerchiefs as borders, which was fun. If you were my neighbor, we'd sit with tea and you could have a look see. I did that with one of my neighbors asking if she wanted to meet my momma. Then I showed her the album.
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Becca I couldn't see your album on Facebook. Could you help!
Machka I enjoyed your pictures of the Love Shack. My DH did too!
It's starting to storm so I'm going off now. Good evening!
Dana in Arkansas
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Lanette: I love the message: "I meditate. I burn candles. I drink green tea, and I still want to smack some people." It is SOOOO true (except for the green tea.) :bigsmile:
Heather: I'm glad you're feeling better. We found an advertisement for a cleaning service. If DH is serious about wanting help I think we should contact them. This is a company that does all sorts of things, from businesses to private homes.
Lenora: I love it that you confronted the person for throwing trash out of her car window. You are a true warrior!!!!! :bigsmile:
Lisa: (((HUGS)))
Yvonne in TX: I agree that marriages that start with friendship are a big advantage for both partners. :bigsmile:
Alison: Good luck with the lawyer. Are you planning to take a list of things to talk about? I'd have to take a list or I'd forget everything due to nervousness. (((HUGS)))
My haircut was just right and I got to go pick up my new glasses. They are amazingly better, both lenses and frames. They fit better, feel better, and I can see better. YAY!!!!! :bigsmile: :bigsmile:
Katla in beautiful NW Oregon
Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!" -Audrey Hepburn
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Mary - thank you for telling us more about Lyme disease. I also have a schoolmate in Indiana who was stricken with it, quite ill for a while. I believe she’s in remission now. I am so happy for you – that you found the intermittent fasting is helping. I had how helpful fasting is for all kinds of reasons – am crossing fingers this gives you long-term relief. Hope you can meet up with Rori! I'm jealous!
Becca – love the kitchen photos, the flowers, everything. I checked out your FB – we share the same tastes in so many things! And the anarchists – I remember attending a sheep show in Eugene in the late 80’s – we were warned not to go downtown because of the anarchists. Even back then no one knew what they were rioting about. Youthful exuberance fueled by a little too much booze and weed? They can march all they want but damaging property is a crime, I don’t care what the “cause” is.
Lenora – you hit the nail on the head about changing what we can and accepting what we cannot. I believe prayer might not change things overnight but will give me strength faith to face whatever comes. Thank you for the reminder.
Renee from Chicagoland – hope the diabetes shot does the trick for you.
Heather – so happy the emergency cleaner did a good job for you! And great idea about putting a fuschia in front of the house – really adds a snazzy look, I’m sure. Once when we sold a house I made sure I had fresh flowers on the dining room table each day, I think it helped set the mood for potential buyers….plus I liked them too!
Karen in VA – how neat is that museum???? Bet your grandson (Mr. Cutie!) really enjoyed it. Very talented people out there. Gives a person a lot to think about in terms of caring for the environment and damage trash does to the ocean-dwellers.
WOW, I am loving all these “then” and “now” photos. All of you gals are really too gorgeous. So nice to link up faces with names. I really feel like we are long-time sorority sisters. And the stories about where you lived and what you did – Machka, Dana, Kelly, Helen, and many I’ve missed. They are all special and I enjoyed reading them.
GIRLS ONLY TALK HERE......On the topic of husbands and how their medical issues change them, my heart goes out to you. Lisa, Kelly, Becca, Beth – what saddens me is that their spirit becomes wounded as well. My DH was diagnosed with RA about 20 years ago and despite it, managed to keep active and it was always his goal to “do more than healthy men can who are half his age.” I knew he hurt but was not a complainer. That worked until he fell off the garage roof fixing shingles and broke his back – and other injuries that took a long time to heal. He’s now pretty fragile in body and spirit. I try to do what I can to cheer him up but when a person is so depressed…. I have found ways to “divert” his attention and try to bolster him as there’s no way he’d tell a doctor about it. But in other ways, he has become more understanding and mellow about things. I just hate to see him in pain and feeling bad that he’s so tired all the time and has become almost an agoraphobic – never leaving the house. I am grateful that we traveled a bit and did fun things when we were both healthy. In a way, I feel like I have a handicapped child here who I know won't get better. I hope he knows I love him no matter what and I am never disappointed that he's not superman. I need to remind him of that more.
Last thing…we got a nice letter from the IRS today saying we failed to pay taxes on over $40,000 of income in 2015 so please send us a check for $4,000. Plus interest. I nearly fell over. First, DH’s taxable social security income was calculated incorrectly, likely due to this next paragraph.
The bank where I had an IRA CD messed up – I switched it to another IRA so the 1099R should have said rollover and instead said distribution. I wheeled into the bank this afternoon and politely read them the riot act. I had noticed their error in early 2016 when I rec’d the 1099R, they said they’d fix it and even sent me a copy of the correction…. which was NOT marked correction and further, the amount was wrong- I hadn’t noticed it before! No wonder everything is flubbed up. I told them they were to give me a letter by early next week stating they messed up so I could send it to the IRS. I’m sure some heads got bonked after I left.
It’s not the end of the world, just a hassle that will get fixed. I am grateful I have the time to delve into it and kept reasonably good records…normally I am not that organized.
That’s it for now. Everyone have a good evening and thanks for listening to my “stuff”.
Lanette
SW WA State
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stats for the day:
bike ride hm 2 gym- 12.34min. 14amph, 144mhr, 2.9mi = 116c
apple watch- 93c
day 19-Plyometrics exercises- 23min, 3sets of 10each, squats, burpees, running stationary lunges, single leg toe touches, ceiling to fl toe touch single leg, hamstring leglifts, crunches, situps, push-ups, 111ahr, 138mhr = 148c
apple watch- 139c
Ski Machine- 12min, 4incl, 20resist, 121mhr, .61mi = 97c
apple watch- 89c
bike ride gym 2 dome- 6.26min, 13.1amph, 132mhr, 1.4mi = 63c
apple watch- 49c
bike ride from puyallup 2 sumn station- 14.50min, 12.2amph, 137mhr, 136ahr, 3mi = 159c
apple iwatch- 115c
jog station 2 wk- 4.42min, 9.10min mi, 133ahr, 151mhr, .5mi = 75c
apple watch- 74c
jog wk 2 sta- 4.21min, 9.31min mi, 179mhr, ..4mi = 61c
apple watch- 49c
bike ride dome 2 hm- 21.07min, 7.5amph, 147mhr, 2.6mi = 187c
Apple Watch- 154c
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Well, going to try to catch up. Probably won't be in for the next few days.
Wed. I did the South Beach Diet Super Charged DVD. Then we had a Newcomer general meeting, ceramics at night. Today I did a Kathy Smith Lift Weights to Lose Weight DVD. The plan for tomorrow is to do Kelly Coffee Meyers Shape Up DVD.
Volunteered at the Green Room today, then cut the grass.
Tomorrow I'm driving to VA, will stay with Jess, then we'll drive to PA for a bridesmaid dress shopping, then back to VA. I was planning to come home on Sun but Jess asked me to stay so I can see her horseback riding lesson. I'll borrow her weights, exercise, then come home.
Went to AC Moore tonight to go to a meeting where they help you with needlework, but there wasn't anyone there. Actually, that was a blessing in disguise so I'm making a pork roast for later in the week (something I won't need to rush to do when I get home), put water bottles in the car (for some reason I get so very thirsty in the car), got almost everything packed to take to Jess (just have a few refrigerated items for her), packed my food (I usually stop at rest areas to eat). Now I'm here trying to get caught up before I go to VA.
Oh, let me tell you about Pete's mother's newest thing. Denise called here to ask us if we thought Jess would like this robe that said "Maid of Honor" on it. We did, but before Denise could order it, Pete's mother bought 3 robes, all of them saying "bridesmaid". Well, Denise told her that Jess' had to say "Maid of Honor" so Denise ordered another one. She texted us a picture of both of them and they are so very very different. Denise said that Pete's mother said the place where she got the robes didn't have a Maid of Honor one. Really? You have to have at least one witness to a wedding, so the chances of having a Maid of Honor are greater. There's nothing that says you have to have a bridesmaid.
Anyway, Denise was going to ask his mother to return hers. While we were talking to Denise his mother called so Denise said she would call us back. When she did she said that she thought she'd keep the three that said "bridesmaid". After all (according to her, influenced I'm sure by Pete's mother) it's only one day and the writing is on the back, no one will see it. Vince was LIVID!!! Talk about a slap in the face to Jess.
Then his mother says that she doesn't think she can return them since she threw out the packing material. Come on! She got them from Amazon. If anyone is good about returns, it's Amazon.
This weekend should be very interesting. I understand that she asked Denise for Jess' phone number. My only guess would be that she's going to plan the bridal shower, and I know that this isn't going to sit well at all with Jess.
We shall see what happens. Stay tuned!!!!!
katla - her dogs also like the ribs from the head of cauliflower. Go figure!!!
I wanted to make the hosts for Denise's wedding, and I sent her a sample. However, the priest said that he couldn't be absolutely sure about the ingredients so he nixed the idea. Really, if I was a regular parishioner there, he probably would have made an exception. But he doesn't know me. At least Denise knows that I wanted to and was willing.
I did find this place in FL that would make the placq for me. Looks like we'll HAVE to go to FL (which is what I wanted to do anyway). Someone at the Green Room was saying that what they did for their daughter was take a big platter, everyone at the reception signed it, then she had someone go over the signature with black paint, had the platter glazed, fired, and gave it to the girl. When I go up this weekend, I'll run by Denise and ask her if she'd like me to do something like that. The gal at our ceramics place said that she'd write over the names. I told her that I'd pay her. At first she said "no" but I know it's very labor intensive.
Sharon - happy belated birthday!
It's a beautiful day today, but I understand that I'm going to be driving in the rain (boo).
Made homemade dog biscuits to give to Jess (she'll be watching a dog) and to Denise. Also have chocolate chip cookies for them. Made this chicken alfredo to take to Jess and a chicken stir fry. I know that with Colby out of work, money is tight for her. That's one of the reasons I think she wants me to come up, so we can use my car/gas. That's OK.
dana - doing a happy dance for you
Welcome everyone new
Lanette - I've gone to the shooting range with Vince. I tell you, by the time I get to pull the trigger, a robber would have come and gone.
Cheri - congrats on your weight!
Yvonne - happy belated birthday! Glad you enjoyed the yoga class even if it did kick your butt
dana - I'm sorry your mom won't talk to you
DJ - Jess likes the ribs on Romaine, too. It's just that this gal's dogs like them so much. If it weren't for that, I'd probably give Vince the ribs, too
Just got the quad cane that we have to loan to a friend who had a stroke and is recovering. We usually give her a ride to the Newcomer general and Board meetings. We asked her if she'd like a ride to the baseball game that they're going to have tomorrow (which might get rained out) but she said she'd drive herself. Maybe she feels funny going with just vince since I won't be there unless it is rained out. Then I can probably make it for the rain date.
barbie - I'm sorry to hear about the stress Jake is experiencing. I like Becca's idea of doing something funny when he gets stressed. It could very well change his demeanor
machka - loved reading about your place. So sorry you had DVT, glad your hubby got you to the Dr.
Allie and everyone else concerned about health insurance - remember that any bill goes thru the House and then the Senate. The Senate will propose their version which probably won't be anything like the one that went thru the House. It very well may take years before they come to something that both agree on, and it most likely won't look anything at all like what the House passed.
dana - gorgeous picture of you and your hubby. Stay safe
Lisa - so happy for Corey. I'm sure not being able to work drove him nuts (and you, too). I can totally understand your feeling. Vent anytime at all.
Michele in NC
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Jake had a bunch of scary symptoms this morning...blood pressure and heart rate up and down, chest pain, and he fell at the grocery store. He called me and asked me to come home from walking the dogs early. I had him drink water and have an Isagenix shake and then check his symptoms before deciding to call 911. Food and water and comfort helped. He knows that he causes his own stress but seems unable to make the necessary changes. He knows that he should eat breakfast but he "forgets". I stayed home from line dance class in the morning and line dance practice for the Fair after lunch. He had originally planned to make marinara sauce and do part of the intensive carpet cleaning today. Instead he spent most of the day in the recliner watching TV. He, too, is discouraged about his loss of strength and his inability to do as much work as he used to.
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danareel6615 wrote: »Becca I couldn't see your album on Facebook. Could you help!
Machka I enjoyed your pictures of the Love Shack. My DH did too!
It's starting to storm so I'm going off now. Good evening!
Dana in Arkansas
I changed my security option, so hopefully now you can! Becca1 -
(((((((((((((((((((((((Hugs Barbie!!!!))))))))))))))1
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Lanette: I'm sorry the bank messed things up for your taxes. Do you share the bank's name so that we can be sure not to open accounts there? :grumble:
Barbie: Hugs and good wishes for Jake. Could a visit to the doctor do anything to improve his situation?
I went in and picked up my new glasses today and I love them. I am having a bit of trouble with the computer screen just now. I wonder if my eyes are just tired because of the change in glasses. They're quite a bit different than the last pair & right now it feels like my eyes are working hard to adjust.
Katla in beautiful NW Oregon
"The greatest weapon against stress is our ability to choose one thought over another." - William James
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margaretturk wrote: »Sharon Happy Birthday! :flowerforyou:
Rori I am in for August too. Mary and Gayle hopefully we can still meet up in June after this temporary job is over. Like any job there are highlights and low lights. People that make it easier, people that make it harder, and those who do their job and I do mine. Now that the Kindergarten concert is over and they are settling down I think I will quite enjoy it.
Margaret
I'm in, let me know what works! Spending time with mom, she's remarkable, mind stil great, body and heart shot. She keeps winning at trivia, claims she's the only one totally here and I think she's right. The Drs are still amazed, no answers for the future, one day a a time. Gayle5 -
barbie - I'm so sorry Jake had such a scare (and so did you!). I can tell how I've slowed down in the last 5 or so years, and you know me -- always on the go. It's depressing. But I can hardly imagine the feelings Jake is going thru. This getting old stuff sure isn't for sissys. I do hope he gets some of his strength back asap
Michele in NC
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Lanette - I am glad the curcumin pill is doing good things for you.
How frustrating it must be for you to be dealing with the IRS on an issue caused by your bank. I hope it is all straightened out very soon.
Barbie - I am sorry to hear about Jake's scare.
Didn't go to work today. I think it is some kind of stomach bug. I hope I am done with it as I don't have the luxury of calling in again as I have to be there at 6 a.m. It was a 27*C here today. I was unable to go outside to enjoy the warm weather though.
Yesterday was a day of frustration. Running people to the walk-in clinic, chauffeuring to dance lessons, trying to explain to DH why I didn't want to go for supper with a certain person, etc.
We ended up going for Chinese food with my sister and brother in-law. It was okay and we did a little touring of the country side. I think my kids are planning something for Sunday.
Talked to my DDIL and she is really having problems dealing with our DOS. He has been told that he needs to get treatment for PTSD but he is resistant. I am hoping they can weather this storm. We talked for about 2 hours. I just want to hug her but it is a long stretch to Richmond, BC.
DH went to pick up the parts for our trailer as they had finally came in. He had to drive north of Calgary (more than a 2 hour drive) and then home. He unpacked the door and it opens the wrong way. After all this hassle and wait it is the wrong door. To say he isn't happy would be an understatement!
Had to cancel my appointment with the weight loss nurse so no weigh in for me today.
Take care all
-Sharon in Sunny Southern Alberta2 -
Barbie- (((hugs))) I hope the situation with Kake improves.
Gayle - great! It will be fun to get together! I'm glad you are able to spend time with your mom.
Mary from Minnesota3 -
Kate UK2
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BECCA - love the photo album of pics of your Mum, what a lovely way to celebrate Mothers Day
Kate UK3 -
Morning Ladies~
was up early Fit Bit pooped out around 1:30 so I have that charging..
took a shower..have my scrubs on for work.. and to nervous to have any breakfast.. will take a kind bar to have and then maybe something to snack on later. as I wont get to work till probably 10:30.. working till 5 and then up to Faith and Buddy for the weekend..
Katla~ I have a notebook that I have kept for the past 6 months which I write in all things pertaining to Tom/ Money /stuff the lawyer should know.. have alot of stuff copied and our finances on a USB.. he now has everything password coded so I cant see anything,,, but have stuff from January . I am sure he used part of his 401k to buy his car and to pay mine off . i think after 64 1/2 he can borrow on it without penalty.. and so the more he spends the less I get...It is only gonna bite him in the butt... will check in tonight and fill ya all in.. keep me in your prayers please..4 -
Hello everyone.
So sorry to hear of hubby problems. Barbie, Lisa, KJ, Katla, Beth, Joyce, Rori and so many of you. I think about you all a lot. Sending the (((((BIGGEST HUGS))))) ever! :flowerforyou:
Currently my DH is well, but as some of you know, he has an Achilles heel with occasional bouts of severe anxiety. He does work at it and he finds chatting to me a great help. His other weak point is terrible posture, which sometimes gives him backache at night. If it weren't for his maniacal exercise regime I'm sure he would be a physical wreck. Rowing on our machine has saved him, I think. We count ourselves extremely lucky to be fit at 71 and 67 respectively. Sometimes I think we are crazy to work so hard at our exercising every day, but it is absolutely, definitely worth it.
I still can't use the rower with my arm, but it continues to improve. I have a lot to do today with icing and decorating the birthday cake, cooking sausages and wrapping presents. With DH out at the cricket all day I think I won't do the grandkids room on my own - blackout blinds to put up, beds to drag out. I will lay the party table so I won't have to think about it tomorrow. I'm not going to do anything to hurt my arm as I am very pleased with its progress. I was a very grumpy bunny last week, being in pain and unable to do much, so I can quite understand the grumpy husbands. It definitely dominated my every thought.
The family are arriving 12.30 - 1, so we have a bit of time in the morning. I have a delivery at 10 - 11 with sandwiches, roulades etc. The party officially starts at 2 pm. I will have bread, cheese, salami on a separate table for the family if they are hungry before hand. They are bringing Bea's food.
I am a bit nervous as the guests include my ex-husband and his 15 year old daughter. I like both of them. , but neither of them have been to the house before, which I find a bit bothering for my exacting standards of house prideness. :laugh: I can imagine him looking round quizzically, as I would do if I went to his house.
Loving all the photos folks. Babies, weddings, houses.
Our viewers liked the house a lot. They live locally and haven't sold yet, so it's all still up in the air. Oh well.
Love Heather UK xxxxxxx4 -
Hello, I am new to your thread and I love this idea. We were talking about this at WW last night about what do you need to do for you to help you stay on course and succeed. Baby steps.
May Goals:- track my food and do it honestly
- exercise 3 days a week
- 64 oz or more of water everyday
Have a great weekend and Happy Mother's Day
Renee In Philadelphia
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Barbie thinking of you and sending and peace.
DD has shared the whole difficult experience with her first boyfriend, (now ex!). He got horribly drunk one night and got rough with her and a roommate who tried to protect her, then he ran wild through the campus. Police arrived, She got an order of protection and was instructed not to go near him while a case was brought against him. The case dragged out for 4 months! Long story short as of Wednesday, he was expelled from the college. She had to present her side of the story as well as an "impact statement" which she said was a relief to look him in the eye and tell him how his actions affected her and her experience at school. What a strong young lady!!! She said she didn't tear up, just told the story, straight and true. She is happy that she can put this behind her, but I think the experience will put her off from dating, time will tell. Phew feels good to get that story off my chest, it has been weighing on me as well.
NYKAREN7 -
May 1 - 3.5 km walking (40 min) + 20.4 km spin bike (44 min) + 1.7 km rowing (12 min)
May 2 - 6.5 km walking (80 min)
May 3 - 2.6 km walking (30 min) + 20.9 km cycling (66 min)
May 4 - 7 km walking (85 min) + 16 flights of stairs (13 min)
May 5 - 4.7 km walking (55 min) + 7 flights of stairs (6 min)
May 6 - 163.3 km cycling (515 min) ... May's century ride.
May 7 - 2.2 km walking (27 min)
May 8 - 3.5 km walking (40 min) + 22.5 km spin bike (50 min) + 1.8 km rowing (12 min)
May 9 - 5.2 km walking (65 min) + 20 flights of stairs (16 min)
May 10 - 5.4 km walking (65 min)
May 11 - 3.5 km walking (40 min) + 13 flights of stairs (10 min)
May 12 - 2.5 km walking (30 min) + 12 flights of stairs (9 min)
2017 Monthly May
Walking Distance (km): 46.6
Walking Time (min): 582.5
Cycling Distance (km): 184.2
Cycling Time (min): 675.7
Stairs Climbed Number: 68.0
Stairs Climbed Time (min): 54.4
Other Distance: 3.5 Rowing
Other Time: 24.0 Rowing
Totals
Total Distance (km): 234.3
Total Distance (miles): 145.6
Total Time (min): 1336.6
Total Time (hr): 22:16:35
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Barbie - my heart goes out to you--and to Jake.
Heather - best wishes for a stress-free party!
NYKAREN - how scary for your DD (and you), and so glad she was able to stand up and say what needed to be said! There's a lot of strength in that girl--and you.
Allie - you are loved, and surrounded by the good wishes of everyone here. From what you've said, you are loved by many of those near you physically, as well. Stay strong--you can do this!
Renee in Philly - welcome to the group!
This group has a way of putting my problems into perspective that is so needed in my life--I am grateful you are all here. While my ticker only shows 325 days or so, as of this April, I've actually been with y'all for two years. You have been an incredible source of inspiration and support. Our very occasional moments of drama have been fleeting, and truly less than any group I've ever been in online. Or in person, for that matter. You are the people I drink my coffee with every morning, and you make my life better.
Our military son got a phone call yesterday to tell him that they will be moving forward with an administrative separation from the Air Force. It could take three months or as long as a year--it's on military time. He is happy about the decision, seems determined to come back to Texas and stay with us, and believes it will make him happier. If it's not the right decision, only time will tell. It's possible that his father's injury is what pushed him into all this--he's realized his dad isn't unbreakable, too, and wants to be here to help at one level. He also, I think, has a near-terminal case of homesickness--which I had at the same age and for the same reasons.
We're letting those chips fall where they may--we just asked of him that he be present in his life, and fight for what he wants. This is what he wants.
And on a lighter note (really bad pun, sorry. ): The top four pounds of what I gained the first ten days of May while I had that stinking cold have finally dropped off, and I'm back where I started this month. Trying to be mindful, be centered, and to meet my goal: "be lighter."
Love y'all,
Lisa in West Texas6 -
Stronglift Workout B
Squats-1X5X 55/65/75/85, 5X5X 90
OHP- 1X5X 45/50, 5X5X 55
DL- 15X 95/105/115/120
Kettlebell Swing
GobletSquats- 3X5X35
Russian Kettlebell Swing- 16X10X35
40lbs loss by May 27 Challenge
30 push-ups
May move your @$$ Challenge
I am going to take a walk today.
Move More Sit Less Challenge
I am going to a golf meet. 3-4 hours of walking.
Keto/LC 4 Week Challenge April 24th-May20th
Day 20/28 drink water and stay within carbs! Over halfway done!
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Barbie ~ How scary for you and Jake. I am glad you were there for him and helped him feel better. As Katla said, perhaps a doctor's visit is needed.
Heather ~ Happy that your party is coming together. I can see why you might feel stressed with your ex visiting for the first time.
Allie ~ Good luck and prayers for you today.
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(((Barbie))) Never easy when your body let's you down.
I use my dad as inspiration. He knew he had to keep moving as much as he could. When he could no longer take his long walks he would walk up and down the driveway and would do leg lifts in bed. He was mobile until the end. My mother on the other hand started refusing to push herself. She ended up wheel chair bound at the end. It is true move it or lose it. Movement of any kind makes you feel better too.
Knee only has some stiffness now. I do my exercises everyday.
DH is looking and feeling much better now that he has recovered from surgery and does not have to be on chemo. His teeth turned grey from the process. He is bleaching his teeth under the care of a dentist and is much improved already.
Margaret
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TGIF ladies!
Katla – Hope your eyes get adjusted to the new glasses! I have found that not wearing glasses at all are the best way to read things on this lap-top. My eye doctor said he does the same thing! Regarding the bank, it’s a little “family owned” local bank here SW WA. I think I have all the documentation necessary to send everything off to the IRS right now but it would be better to have something from the bank. Plus I want to see what their explanation is - in writing.
Lisa – I think once Corey gets back to work, you’ll get your superman back – he’ll be a bit wiser and realize he’s not indestructible. Sounds like the administrative separation will be very good for your son – glad he’s looking forward to it and being back near his folks. You are a very wise mom!
Carol – I hope the curcumin helps! I woke up this morning relatively pain-free so won’t need to take the super-pill. Thanks for mentioning about potential side effects, I will check that out.
Heather – sounds like you are getting everything all set up for a great party! I’m sure it will be a great success. It’s encouraging the viewing went well.
NY Karen – your daughter is very brave to have dealt with that young man and presenting her story. I’m sure it’s a relief for her and you that he has been expelled.
Allie – sounds like you have your ducks in a row for meeting with the attorney this morning. Hang in there!
Barbie – so sorry to hear about Jake; glad you were there to help calm and care for him. Hope he’s doing better today – is there a possibility his medicines needed to be adjusted?
A concern of mine is that if something were to happen to me, who would tend to DH’s needs if I weren’t here. I do have things lined up with our young (45 y/o) BFF who has power of attorney, is executor, etc. She has copies of passwords, accounts, and knows where things are “stashed”. She’s used to dealing with grumpy old fellers, hospitals, etc.
I need to load up squash and herb plants this morning and run them into the plant sale. When I dropped off tomatoes yesterday afternoon, there weren’t a lot of plants in there yet – the event is in one of the huge buildings at the fairgrounds and normally it’s jammed packed. But today will be the big day for plant deliveries, so it could be pretty full by tomorrow morning when it opens. Master Gardeners get first pick before the general public so I’ll see if there’s anything we need. Most of our landscaping here came either from the plant sale or other Master Gardeners sharing their excess.
Finally, this poster spoke to me this morning. I’ve seen that look.
Welcome Newbies! Stick around and tell us about yourselves!
Lanette
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KetoneKaren wrote: »Machka Oh my goodness! You are my hero. And believe me, for Lisa to say you are a tougher woman than she is, is no small compliment. I can't wait for Penny to drop in and hopefully read some of your posts and look at your photos...danareel6615 wrote: »Machka I enjoyed your pictures of the Love Shack. My DH did too!
Thanks! It was quite an experience ... difficult at times, and we were glad to move into a modern house after a year, but a good experience. Really heightened our appreciation for things like hot showers and bright lights.machka - loved reading about your place. So sorry you had DVT, glad your hubby got you to the Dr.
Yes!!
They found out I have a genetic disorder which means I can't take any hormones ... this makes perimenopause interesting!! I'm resorting to "natural" remedies.
Well this will put a little dent into the exercise consistency ...
In January 2015, right before starting here, I was rushed into a gynaecologist who rushed me into surgery with a very large uterus polyp which turned out to be a pre-pre-cancerous. I've been going for follow-up ultrasounds every 6 months in the hopes that there would be no more polyps because more polyps indicate the possibility of an increased chance of cancer. Then 6 months ago, they discovered pre-cancer in a different area of the female anatomy.
Yesterday I was informed that another polyp has developed. So I'll be in surgery next Thursday to remove it + a D&C + treatment of the other pre-cancer they found.
They move quick! One minute I'm sitting in the Drs office ... next minute I'm filling out a massive pile of forms and stuff for surgery!6 -
Jake had a bunch of scary symptoms this morning...blood pressure and heart rate up and down, chest pain, and he fell at the grocery store. He called me and asked me to come home from walking the dogs early. I had him drink water and have an Isagenix shake and then check his symptoms before deciding to call 911. Food and water and comfort helped. He knows that he causes his own stress but seems unable to make the necessary changes. He knows that he should eat breakfast but he "forgets". I stayed home from line dance class in the morning and line dance practice for the Fair after lunch. He had originally planned to make marinara sauce and do part of the intensive carpet cleaning today. Instead he spent most of the day in the recliner watching TV. He, too, is discouraged about his loss of strength and his inability to do as much work as he used to.
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My husband is 75; I'm 66 (I've been retired/disabled from my now for nearly 20 years); it took me a good 3 years to 'accept and understand' why I couldn't work'. When my boss was in 'private practice' and I had to be out; he'd continue paying me and hired a first year college student to work in my place. He then hired her full time when I came back. I had been 'out' during the first 15+ years a couple of times; but, this last time ... my continue employment was 'out of his hands'; but, with 'donated leave time' I was able to be 'vetted' and get a retirement check and apply for SSD benefits. When we got the back pay from the time I became disabled until I started my application, Louis took the money to put a down payment on this land. We put our house on the market one night and the realtor called another one who had been looking for a house to move in; wanting one that was 'move in ready'. She came over, looked at the house and signed a contract on it; and we had 45 days to move out. I don't remember the packing up or the move. When we moved, we moved in with DOS and family. I never felt 'welcome' there and as soon as my studio was built, we moved into it, all the boxes that were in storage got moved in, too; stacked 2 deep and as high as possible; with only a king-sized bed, a coffee pot and toaster, and my porta-john right outside the door. I'd go over to my son's house to watch TV during the day. I had to have been taken over there when Louis left for word. Like I said, never felt welcome there. DDnL#1 accused me of 'snooping' through their things if I made their bed for them, loaded the dishwasher, and did some 'light' housework. I would 'attempt' to watch their TV but; when I changed the channel, it would mess up (they had 3 remotes) and they had to each be used in a certain order for it to change channels. I finally told Louis that we'd either have to stay in a motel or something or I would 'go crazy'. That is when we moved into the studio while our house was being finished.
The other night we met with our insurance agent; to find insurance that would cover Louis past the age of 80 and for 'hopefully' increasing mine. I got denied; but, had some with AARP; he bought some that will carry him until he dies. Quite expensive; but, it will cover the mortgage. Son wondered why we did it and of course, it was to cover the mortgage, if we can pay it down enough for the insurance to cover it (both of us). Of course, we'd have to have enough to pay for the funeral; past that - anything else would just have to be 'written off'. Or one that is left will have to pay it. Trey told me that 'if' there was not enough then our 'rich' son would have to supplement my income, because even after filing bankruptcy, they would not have any money. I told him that was fine; at least he'd be close enough to 'check in on me' which I knew he'd do. He got upset when I told him, that if I did not have enough to pay off the house & land, I would have to just sell it. Actually, he 'freaked'. But, now we know for sure that he has no desire to take over his Dad's business because he doesn't think he could find 2 other painters that would work and be dependable and honest. I told him, 'then, you need to start looking'. Of course, if he could go to technical college that would be a 2-year degree in something. But, I'm not going to pay anything towards it, I don't make enough.
DDnL#1 had an interview for another job yesterday. Don't know how it went, what it pays; but, I do know they have health insurance because it is large enough they have to pay for insurance. But, depending on how much it pays ... and how much she'd be bringing home will depend on whether she takes it or not, if it is offered to her. At least she has talked to him about it. I think she realized that it was important. And, they, together can make that decision together. She took a certain kind of insurance that they have to pay their deductible up front before a MD will see them. Trey was upset that she did not take a PPO or something else, that would have paid the MD and then they could pay the deductible on time. She needs a hernia repair surgery; but, if they change companies; they will probably see it as a pre-existing condition and they will lose what they have paid the surgeon (all but $250). I think she should have it now that she will be paid when she is out of work with her job now. Or hopefully the other company will pay. I think she hopefully has finally realized that her quitting her job, simply because she got mad and walked out (without ever calling Trey) and telling him that evening is what 'pushed them over the edge, financially'. They had a huge fight about it a few weeks ago and she was 'upset' that others thought that 'she was the reason'. Basically, she was; but, won't take 'ownership' of it.
I have been staying close to my caloric intake; but, not exercising daily. I just hope that I will still 'go down' and not the other way. Even 'if' I stay the same, I can handle that. Five more days to weigh-in. I also have an appointment to talk to my GP about my BP, which after he took me 'off' the medication because even after cutting it in half; my BP has been all over the place. Up and down. When the bottom number is less than 70; I feel worst that when it is above 85.
The 'window' man who has rescheduled twice and just not shown up (even though he swears he called for 2 days) is also scheduled for Tuesday afternoon or Wednesday afternoon. IF he reschedules, this time I will demand that I talk to the owner. I am NOT a happy camper and neither is my husband. We should have been allowed to stain all 4 sides of the outside strips and paint all 4 sides on the ones on the inside and not have it show on both sides. The installer 'swears' that he told the owner it wasn't going to do because it was 'raw wood' and it had not been treated or stained. Louis stained the outside within 2 days; when he started in the inside is when he noticed the 'raw wood' had been used and some of the strips were warped. They better do whatever it takes to make us happy with the installation because that should be a part of their lifetime guarantee. I certainly have no reason to pay extra on something they should have known would be unacceptable.
So much for venting! Other than that - not much happening. Hopefully, I will finish the book I have been reading, it has finally gotten really interesting. My reading has slowed down and it is aggravating me. Husband has been reading 2 or 3 books to my one in two weeks. But at least we can renew them twice before having them taken in to be 'checked in' and 'checked out' again (with 2 more renewals); provided they are not on a 'waiting list' anywhere in the State of Georgia. We were pleasantly surprised that they found all 5 books written by Bobby Cole. He is a good author of mystery book; 2 are stand alone and the other 3 are a series. Louis thinks, after reading the 3rd one that 'surely' he will write another one. Trey has the 3rd one; and hopefully he will finish it about the time I finish "Rented Mule".
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