WOMEN AGES 50 + FOR NOVEMBER 2017

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  • bwcetc
    bwcetc Posts: 2,826 Member
    Becca ... congratulations on the weight loss!

    Kim ... I love your mailbox idea!

    Dana ... that is an awful pic of you and your granddaughter!! LOL!

    Machka ... a homecoming is a tradition centered around a football game, parade, and coronation of a king and queen and often a semi-formal dance. Alumni often return for this particular day. The prom is a formal dance held at the end of the year. Both tend to focus on seniors in high school and college, but really have nothing to do with graduation.

    I have officially eaten everything in sight and will now be heading off to bed ...

    Beth near Buffalo
  • coastalgosgal
    coastalgosgal Posts: 2,900 Member
    Evelyn, Vancouver Island, well its me that went to the food bank and scored the turkey! Haha! They get what they get, and much is breads, beans and sweets. Much is canned. I have seen the food bank ladies at my grocery store buying canned items on sale. They get foods that are weeded out of Costco, and Safeway. I am grateful for it, because without a food bank, our cupboards would be a bit on the lean side.

    Kayla, that would be a neat trick to see, my husband jamming 5 doughnuts and a container of strudel bites!!! Haha! I am stronger than any doughnut! Knowing I can lose weight on my own gives me POWER. Power to say no! See my cape??? Its purple with glitter! * big grin*

    Becca
  • coastalgosgal
    coastalgosgal Posts: 2,900 Member
    bjmcq wrote: »
    I am thinking of you all, as you rush through your day off, doing errands, preparing for family dinners,
    and just getting ready for the next week ( ironing ....groan). Even the retired folks have a lot going on I find....I hope you all have a sane and calm food plan this weekend no matter what. There is so much to test us.

    For my part, I am tired of losing and gaining and losing the same 12 pounds....but that is as far as I get, and then it becomes harder and harder to lose anything else. Then I lose interest in trying and controlling that most basic function - deciding what passes my lips,.

    There is much on my plate these days, too much in fact, but I am determined to stay on my food focus. And my healthy approach to a never ending series of social events and food. This may be my 3rd or 4th serious attempt, but failing is learning, and learning is useful....and not giving up one day may be a natural, normal thing for my brain.

    Thanks for your support, you have mine! beejay

    Beejay, you have so much willpower in losing that 12 lbs and that's it? Don't sell yourself short. It isn't that you stop trying, you are just settling for not putting yourself first. Be the driver in your own life. If you have social event, pick like your favorite actress and before the event happens, write the scene in your head. Make the event paramount, not what is being served. Have situations in your scene memorized. How you will handle them. Eat like a slim person, and take a spoonful of an item, not a serving spoonful either! I have confidence in you!!!
    Becca
    Oregon
  • barbiecat
    barbiecat Posts: 17,194 Member
    :)Becca, The Elk's Club where we hold our line dance classes regularly collects food for the local food bank. They choose a different item each month and members place their contributions on the table in the lobby. When I see them, I always think of you. The various items they've collected have been peanut butter. canned tuna, oatmeal, and Cheerios. They also have two barrels for miscellaneous contributions and a locked box for cash donations.
  • coastalgosgal
    coastalgosgal Posts: 2,900 Member
    Terry getting better in VT, Happy 11th Anniversary to you!!!!
  • coastalgosgal
    coastalgosgal Posts: 2,900 Member
    barbiecat wrote: »
    :)Becca, The Elk's Club where we hold our line dance classes regularly collects food for the local food bank. They choose a different item each month and members place their contributions on the table in the lobby. When I see them, I always think of you. The various items they've collected have been peanut butter. canned tuna, oatmeal, and Cheerios. They also have two barrels for miscellaneous contributions and a locked box for cash donations.

    Awe Barbie, its nice to be thought of! I appreciate you!!! Hugs!!
    Becca
  • jmkmomm
    jmkmomm Posts: 3,247 Member
    Simguess more ally never thought what the definition of a city is. I think we are a city. We do have hospitals, no cathedral bum a y Catholic Churches. Our area has a Vatican appointed Bishop. We are the Hub bub of our area here. We are called the tri state and everyone in the tri state comes to us for medical care, the mall, stuff like that.

    Maschca, you put a question mark of the 3 year nursing school.mto me that's the best kind. Here in the states it is called a diploma degree although we no longer have them. But in our 3 years, it was mostly hospital based learning. 1st danof classes we were over in the hospital. Granted it was just learning how to talk to patients amd get usd to the sounds amd smells but we were there. M sister started out at a 4 year degree and at the end of her first year they had never been in a hosptial. Sincewe were a teaching hosptal, we would have students from 3 different schools of nursing. So,e two year and sme four. The four year students would learn how to give an enema but had not learned how to place a bedpan.

    Some of you had need talking yesterday about health care. We had a health care fair today. All of it was free. They did all the tests that can be from a droplet of blood which usually covers the glucose, cholesterol and triglycerides. They also did height and weight,moody fat, B/P and gave free flu and pneumonia shots. I know our local Sam's club has frequent health fairs, so,e are geared to men and some women and some are general. So there are many opportunities in cities to get things done.

    Don't forget to put your clocks back tonight! And if you do it, change your batteries on your smoke alarms.

    Joyce, Indiana
  • drkatiebug
    drkatiebug Posts: 1,975 Member
    Just popping in to say this about prom. The way it is funded varies among schools, but around here, the juniors have fundraisers and ticket sales to pay for prom and host it, while the seniors are the guests of honor and don’t pay for tickets. You can only attend if you are a junior or senior or a date of a junior or senior. I don’t know if other schools have this limitation or not.
  • LisaInAR
    LisaInAR Posts: 2,020 Member
    Morning, all...

    Literally went to sleep sitting straight up last night while my husband was in the bath. I remember him coming to bed, and that was about it for me. But... we made it as far as Canton, NC, a little lumber mill town in the mountains. Went out to eat at a place called the Southern Porch, and had some amazing food - shrimp and grits for me, Corey had something beefy, I forget what it's called.

    Happy birthdays and other celebrations, sorry I've been so inattentive. Been reading every night (except last night) but too wiped out to remember anything for more than a few seconds.

    Michele - thank you so much for the invitation to stop - but with driving both vehicles and our own mutual exhaustion, we're in that mode where we just want to be where we're going. Not good company! I'm letting Corey sleep in until 6 a.m. this morning, as sunrise is at 7 a.m. Learned yesterday not to try to drive in the dark of the early morning.

    For more about that, and for pics of the journey, you can find them at a blog I started after we left called Coffee and Egg. I'll be posting pics there this morning, early. I tend to start blogs at major transition points in my life.

    And for those who want to know more about mums, here's a site with a number of them. I was a duchess in the Homecoming parade the year I was a senior, and there's a picture somewhere of me in my formal gown with a mum. These corsages have gotten crazier and bigger over the years, and at some point, the guys started wearing them as "garters" around their upper arms, as well. That was a new one on me. Flower shops honestly make a major chunk of their income for the YEAR at Homecoming time, building these things. I love my home state, but we're weird about some things. OK, a lot of things.

    Love y'all,
    Lisa, Now in NC
  • Lagopus
    Lagopus Posts: 1,016 Member
    edited November 2017
    Katla - Judging from its name alone, I live in a city, as Longyearbyen means Longyear City. :laugh: That's a bit of a stretch for a burg with a population of 2000, but we DO have a hospital and an Olympic-size swimming pool.

    Barbie - About your dog-walking friend's offer to drive you to and from classes so you don't have to rent a car for Jake's trip - Now there's an example of good karma! :flowerforyou:

    Terry - Glad to hear more sunshine in your voice! t113002.gif About Thor's good pecs... I recently read one of those silly click-bait lists on my computer, this one about astounding transformations celebrities have pulled off in the course of their work, and Thor was mentioned. For every film, the actor had to do crazy weight training and eat protein bars all the time.

    Busy me this weekend. Hubby and I went to our grandson's birthday party yesterday. He loved the stuffed toy we got him (a baby seal in an ice cave). In the evening we went out to dinner with my husband's best friends from high school. (One of them was the diabetic I mentioned the other day.) For a couple years, those four guys did everything together!

    I ordered the grilled octopus and it was heavenly! Served with tiny boiled baby potatoes in a touch of melted butter and chervil leaves, green beans, and aioli. Limited myself to just one glass of white wine and came away from the meal a tiny bit heavier but with memories that will live on my taste buds for a long time.

    Hubby heads off to Oslo for his conference tomorrow and I start on the teaching week from hell. Tuesday and Thursday will be worst, when I'll be preparing for or in front of students from 8 am to 8 pm. Ugh!
    /Penny, earning a living, currently not at thet07190.gif
  • cityjaneLondon
    cityjaneLondon Posts: 12,696 Member
    DJ - This is what I found.
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    FYI - Brighton also has two universities. My younger son went to the original one, SUSSEX, (the county) which is famous for its 60s architecture by Sir Basil Spence. The newer one, called Brighton, used to be a polytechnic (technical education), but in later years they have all converted to universities. Both campuses are together up in the Downs and next to the football ground.

    Having some dim sum that I bought the other day for lunch. I have it with chilli sauce. :D They are 40 calories each.

    Love Heather UK xxxxxxx


  • SophieRosieMom
    SophieRosieMom Posts: 3,647 Member
    Lisa - I am so glad you started a blog about your journey. Gave me the willies when you and Corey got separated. Happy that the end is in sight for you. Humidity and green galore! Welcome to your next adventure. <3 Thanks for sharing it with us.

    Karen in NY - great that you were able to arrange your day and spend time with your DH today. 6 years is not too early to start planning for retirement, that's for sure. I thought I had ours planned out early then the closer it got, started going to retirement seminars and fine tuned it. How is your eczema? (I think it was you, lol.) Hope it's fading away!

    Heather     - good to hear your younger DH has a gal-pal. Did you say he has Asberger's or a type of autism? Reminds me so much of my nephew. Smart as a whip but very sensitive and isn't good at reading other people.
    By the way, did you let your Hove kids know you are considering moving there again and if so, how did they take it?

    Dana - great to hear from you! Glad you had a good visit with DD and looks like a bang-up Halloween. EEK lol. Let us know how that homeopathic treatment works for your neuropathy - good luck with that. Bet Bob and Dolly missed you a lot. I know we did!

    Rye - wow, that's some MUM!! Now that looks like a good side business for any of you crafty gals. Janetr? You like working with ribbons and sequins! <3:D

    Pip     - good luck to you and Kirby! Run like the wind!!

    Allie - rest up! WOW that was some trip. OK, I missed the part about what you took your dad to in VA - what was the event?

    So.... the weather forecast said possibility of 2" to 5" of snow after midnight this morning. I don't see any, and it's 40 degrees out. Barbie? Sue? Evie? Maybe it's all up north. We did have some slushy snow yesterday, didn't stick at all and just made the deck slippery. :#

    My brain is wired to daylight savings time so I was up at 3 am, catching up with you ladies and the world.

    Yesterday when I did my strength training, I actually did a few goblet squats just to see what it was all about. I'd been holding off with the kettle bell as my lower back had been hurting a lot. Feeling lots better, so I'll venture on with it a bit. I've been watching more videos.

    My dear young (she's 45) BFF has had debilitating migraines for the past several years. They are so bad, she even ends up at the ER several times a year. She has been tested, poked, CT scanned and you name it. Tried allopathic medicine, naturopathic, even medical pot. She's OK for a week or two then wham. Likely related to perimenopause. She works 3/4 time and is busy, busy, busy after work and on weekends.

    I thought about her... and realized she reminds me so much of the "weekend" headaches I would get at her age. Busy all week then somehow the "let down" of a weekend would trip something. I made it through with neck exercises, Dramamine (before I discovered Triptans), relaxation techniques = self - hypnosis.

    After menopause they did get a lot better, tho now sinus is the trigger.

    So, do any of you have experience with the "weekend migraines" and if so, what worked for you?

    Have a good day!

    Lanette
    SW WA State
  • klanders30
    klanders30 Posts: 2,569 Member
    Lanette can't believe you guys are getting snow. Thanks for asking about my "eczema/"...no improvement unfortunately after a week with steroid cream and antibiotic. I have a followup next week and in december I'm going to an allergist. I am still convinced this is wheat rash, but who knows. still itching in NY, KAREN
  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,595 Member
    jmkmomm wrote: »
    Maschca, you put a question mark of the 3 year nursing school.mto me that's the best kind. Here in the states it is called a diploma degree although we no longer have them. But in our 3 years, it was mostly hospital based learning. 1st danof classes we were over in the hospital. Granted it was just learning how to talk to patients amd get usd to the sounds amd smells but we were there. M sister started out at a 4 year degree and at the end of her first year they had never been in a hosptial. Sincewe were a teaching hosptal, we would have students from 3 different schools of nursing. So,e two year and sme four. The four year students would learn how to give an enema but had not learned how to place a bedpan.

    I wasn't sure whether my mother's 3-year nursing program was a degree or called something else. Anyway, she took her nurses training in the early 1960s. She did a number of months in different areas like wards, operating, and emergency, and really liked emergency.

    As a teenager, I used to read her medical texts. I found it all fascinating and did quite well in Biology. My mother was pleased when I finally got a job within the Health Department a few years ago. :)

    Machka in Oz
  • barbiecat
    barbiecat Posts: 17,194 Member
    :) It's snowing again this morning. Lighter than Friday morning. The snow from Friday was almost gone last night but now we have a new light blanket of white. The dogs love it. Bessie likes to eat it. We won't notice the time change until sunrise when we'll have more of our usual walking in the light instead of dark (sunrise yesterday was 8:04).

    :)Lisa, your traveling sounds exhausting. When we traveled with our RV we stopped only at truck stops and RV parks. Jake had a long falling out with a friend because the friend wanted us to come to his house in Chicago and we just wanted to get past Chicago on the freeway and get to the RV park in a small town to the north.
  • grandmallie
    grandmallie Posts: 10,087 Member
    Lanette
    Took him to his 65 college reunion..and he had a blast..I have to admit I had a great time too.just the drive was hard darn close to 10 hrs down and the same back and I did all the driving ..I did not want my dad behind the wheel as he does not pay attention and he slept alot.
  • Marcelynh
    Marcelynh Posts: 974 Member
    The term homecoming is used because Homecoming is the first game played at a schools home stadium after coming back from their first away game at another school.
  • csofled
    csofled Posts: 3,022 Member
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  • Katla49
    Katla49 Posts: 10,385 Member
    Kim: I love the idea of painting a mailbox and filling it with garden tools for your friend. What a nice way to keep some essential tools on hand at the garden and protected from the elements. :heart:

    Dana: I love the witch costume and the photos of your grand children. What fun! :smiley:

    bjmcq: I am so glad that you haven't given up on yourself. CICO is the road to success--Calories In v Calories Out. When I was in the active losing phase of this, I used measuring devices to measure portions consistently. Now I let myself guestimate, but the tools are still at hand should I need them. I have a food scale and three sizes of dishers. Good luck with this and welcome back! :flowerforyou:

    Barbie: I'm glad your friend has offered to take you to dance class so that you and Jake don't have the extra expense of renting a car during his trip to Seattle. :heart:

    Becca: The food bank does fabulous work. We contribute our beverage cans and bottles to the one here in our town. They have volunteers who return them for the bottle/can deposits and that gives them some extra cash to get things needed by their clients. For those who live in states without a bottle bill, Oregon enacted this law years ago to encourage recycling. Every beverage container for things like beer and soft drinks has a 5 cent deposit that the customer pays at the check-stand. When the empty beverage container is returned, they get the deposit back. This adds up to quite a bit of money over time. Several other states and Canadian Provinces also have adopted this law. The cans and bottles are recycled rather than going into a landfill. It is so positive that I wonder why it hasn't been adopted everywhere. :heart:

    Machka: Your beach pictures make me long to visit the beach here--except that you're going into summer and we're in the fall/winter season.:star:


    Today is fallback day for our clocks. All of the electronic clocks adjust themselves but our watches and Grandmother Clock have to be adjusted manually. DH's watch stem seems to have frozen and he can't adjust his. I tried, too, without luck. We'll have to take it to a jeweler today. :ohwell:

    Katla in beautiful NW Oregon

    Heather posted a quote similar to this that I wanted to use, but I couldn't recall it quite right. I went online and found this one.

    "So many of us believe in perfection, which ruins everything else, because the perfect is not only the enemy of the good; it's also the enemy of the realistic, the possible and the fun."
  • cityjaneLondon
    cityjaneLondon Posts: 12,696 Member
    Machka - Tasmania looks so beautiful. I would love to visit some day and be guided round the National Parks.

    Lanette - It is my elder son who has the anxiety. He has never been diagnosed with Aspergers, but he is very obsessive and didn't have friends as a child. But he is very sensitive. <3 He used to be an triathlon coach, was incredibly fit and won 2 county prizes for his coaching. His depression and the medication put a huge amount of weight on him. He has always been MUCH happier when he has a girlfriend. :D

    Karen - I know you are right. It just feels as if a switch went off after my younger son was born and I went into postnatal depression. (It was only just over a year since the stillbirth) Strangely, in the newspaper yesterday there was a report on schizophrenia maybe being an auto immune disease. :o They are doing trials with treating patients with MS drugs. Very interesting. There is so much in our physiology that we don't know about yet. In my family runs severe depression and, in my ex's, schizophrenia.

    Much love to all, Heather UK xxxxxxx
  • ryenday
    ryenday Posts: 1,540 Member
    edited November 2017
    Suebdew & KJ I am not far! The location I mentioned is MiL place ( she wants to be rid of some stuff like a hideous China set that none of my nieces claimed from her and I’m probably going to be recruited to organize things) just south of us. We are in Tarrant County - south Ft. Worth. So a short stone’s throw north - or in Texas terms: practically neighbors.

    I’d love to meet up with folk except for my big limitation: I can’t drive - thus people would have to come in to Fort Worth nearby or somewhere there is direct public transportation to which I can access. It is generally too much hassle for folks (which I totally understand- people often choose to live outside DFW- Arlington so they need not drive in our traffic!). But if people were interested I live not far from the Ft. Worth zoo area and TCU university/ hospital area so there is a lot of stuff locally and of course, Ft. Worth downtown ( Sundance Square environs) is easy for me to get to.

    The thing I miss most about Chicago is downtown, I must say. Any and ALL Shopping needs could easily be met in Chicago downtown, and even when I didn’t work downtown I would schedule days to go there to do stuff. Ft worth downtown has good restaurants but little in the arts/shopping.

    KJ if your plan is to be driving by Chicago at first light – that’s a good plan for a weekend day. However you will be running into rush-hour traffic if you were talking about a weekday. You might want to think about that.

    Lisa stay safe on the rest of the trip! I know it is just projecting my limitations and insecurities- but your trip scares the willies out of me!

    Rori The zucchini soup makes me want to go make some! I’m in soup making and freezing mode at the moment ( perfect high filling/low calorie nutritional food for my ‘fast’ days).

    Kim Creative, thoughtful, personal: just a fantastic gift that I’m sure your friend will totally love!

    Thor & Movies it irritates the husband, but I generally don’t like to see movies, especially action movies in the theater. I get so bored during ‘action sequences’ that I try to only watch them at home with a book or tablet in my lap. So I won’t be enjoying Chris Hemsworth in Thor this weekend. Unusually I’m going to the movies next weekend — I’m very excited for Kenneth Brannaugh’s version of Murder on the Orient Express.

    The weather is crazy - 88 degeees yesterday I think. :(. I’d eagerly take the snowy weather - my hot flashes are going into extreme territory the past few days and the heat doesn’t help. These extreme hot flash times do seem to follow a 32 ish day cycle - which was pretty much my unmedicated cycle. So hormones, obviously...

    Cin Cin a tutti

    Rye

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