WOMEN AGES 50 + FOR FEBRUARY 2018
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Evelyn - I would think that breaking my wrist would probably end up, one day, giving me problems. I know what you mean about a broken rib. I broke #11 (one right under my left breast and it occasionally catches.
Becca - Many prayers for you and you hubbie for complete healing and maybe a moved up surgery. When you get the money mayb you could exchange the red rug forma teal one or one with teal and yellow in it since your chairs are a color that would go with anything. I have mostly browns, beiges, and rust to wine. I pretty much have to stay within that family of colors. My rug has a midnight-blackish color in it and I would like for Louis to paint our dining room chairs and the back of the 3 barstools that color, just to put a color in there. I'd light to be able to afford a new kitchen counter top to be able to change it to a neutral color. The have him paint the cabinets two different colors - while on top, then a much darker color on the bottom cabinets. Right now our kitchen has just been painted a grayish-sage green which is sort of neutral and the same color that is also in the rug.
Barbara - When I say 'rotating door' I am think like some in a hotel and/or bank. They have 4 sections to come in and out of and when someone is coming out as you are trying to step in, it is almost like trying to run into a jump rope that is swinging around to double-Dutch jump with 2 or 3 others. You have to judge where the rope is (coming and going around) to get that small window of space to jump in and start jumping immediately or else you will hit or get hit by the rope. Usually the doors are very heavy and it helps if someone is opposite from you in the door as it turns.
Allie - Hang in there. Personally I don't believe in Mediums - not in Ouiji Boards, or palm readers. But, that is just my religious beliefs. It just goes against what I have been taught. But, if it makes you think of another place to look, the go for it.
I haven't had much appetite or desire to sit and drink enough liquids; but if the scales show I have gained a little, I will blame it some my splint and heavier clothes since it has been colder than we have expected for the weather at this time of year in this area of the state.
Enjoying time with our youngest son who came to go hunting with a group of his friends; which probably was a weekend of drinking since it has been raining all weekend.
Welcome to all the newbies.
{{{{{HUGS}}}}} to all that need them.
Lenora1 -
What I see around me 15 minutes into my walk.
RV Rita8 -
Allie I don't believe in mediums or the stuff you're doing to find your father's will but I do believe that if you relax and take it easy, the answers will come. Good luck. By the way, do your children know how to find your will?4
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Becca: Hugs and Prayers for you and your dear husband.
Hope everyone has a relaxing Sunday.
Martha
Eastern Oregon3 -
Stats for last week:
Not as good as the previous week, but still better than when I started:
Worked out by walking 3 mph for 4.42 hours last week which is 37.86 average exercise walk time a day.
Ate 3.86 veggies a day on average
2.29 fruits a day on average
75.06 oz of water a day average (goal here is 74.4 oz a day)
Total steps: 61,862 steps total or 26.51 miles walked last week with an average of 8,837 steps a day.
GOALS:
Water: 186/20=9.3 cups or 74.4 oz a day.
7000 steps = 3 miles
DAILY GOALS:
3 miles (7,000 steps)
9.3cups (74.4 oz) water
4- 1/2 cup servings veggies
3 - 1/2 cup servings fruit
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Hi Ladies,
Was able to get a 40 min. walk in today. Now relaxing with a cup of coffee. Think I'll take a nap with my puppy later as my knee is acting up from the rainy weather. My knee really gives me a hard time when it's damp or humid. I'll check in tomorrow. Have a great rest of the day.
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Lisa: Great article on body fat! Thank you for sharing.
(((Becca:))) Sending good thoughts your way! I hope your DH gets everything he needs, asap.
DSIL & DBIL have been here a few days and just left for home. They'l be stopping by their daughter's work to drop off something that she needs and will leave from there. I hope they have an uneventful road trip home. I especially enjoyed DSIL's company this time.
I have a riding lesson later this afternoon. It has been weeks since I visited Arrow because I was sick and then travelling. I hope I remember which end of the horse is the front. My teacher promised to bring her baby horse today. I hope that happens.
Katla in beautiful NW Oregon
“Our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is always to try just one more time.” Thomas A. Edison
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It’s been pouring here at the Jersey Shore all day and yet, an unseasonably warm 55 degrees! I really wanted to get out for a 30 minute walk but I don’t foresee that happening. My Fitbit is only at 2,600 steps for the day.2
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pstegman888 wrote: »Hi, ladies – I have been lurking for so long, I feel like a stalker! Been using MFP for about 2 years, and lost about 50 pounds – but after a flareup of a chronic health condition, a wonky knee, and reduced activity coupled with increased/unhealthy eating, I’m up about 25 pounds. Determined to take it off and more, but could use some accountability and Pip’s boot.
I’m 64 (how did THAT happen?!), single, retired, living in South Central Pennsylvania USA, and although this may sound contradictory, I am healthy other than having a chronic health condition that can flare up periodically, limiting my strength and stamina. Lately, I’ve had a wonky knee on the right side, so that’s a little restrictive as well. So with all that, I have to rely more on my nutrition plan to restrict caloric intake, than on exercise to use up the excess. I probably have a total of 50-60 pounds to lose to get to a healthy weight, but am taking it in 10-pound increments so as not to get overwhelmed.
Reading your daily activities has been inspiring and hopefully will give me that kick I need to be consistent. I am in awe of the consistent dedication of Barbie, Pip, Heather, Michele, Mary, and some of you other ladies, and it obviously pays off. It paid off for me in the past – I just got out of the habit and lost my way for a while. I have a small dog so I do some walking around the neighborhood, and some at-home exercises, but since I recently moved, I haven’t yet gotten back to the gym. I need to do more pre-planning of meals and dedicating a period of time to exercise, instead of my recent catch-as-catch-can way of doing things.
So here’s to getting back on track, and a healthier happier future!
- Pat in PA
All it is, habit. Still strappin on da boot... start slow. A lot of times I don’t want to workout in the morning b4 5 fricken a.m., but I do, I may not workout as hard as I do on other days but I do something., just habit3 -
coastalgosgal wrote: »This is some other rocks the artist has painted. Cool huh!?
Becca
Can't seem to sleep or be alone in my apartment in
Oregon
Hugs girlfriend. I used to sleep at an angle, couldn’t sleep on my side and if I slept in his side, I could smell him and made me miss him more. That’s when I started doing dangerous stuff4 -
Well all for not,didn't find anything except a few more paper stocks...im going to take a nap and then try and do some cleaning around here..3
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Sitting here watching the Olympic channel. It's not really tha exciting. To me, they are just showing small
portions of the different games. I'm glad USA has a couple of medals. They said during the procession of nations that Germany would lead in medals and as far as gold they are. But I think Norway is leading for totals. They showed a little bit of figure skatinbut I think it was last nights. Wow this commentators voice is boring.
One thing I have seen in watching and listening is that these people for different nations speak better English than the illegals here in the US. I know some of the figure skaters from different countries train in the US so that would help them with thier English. Also in golf, many and I mean many of them live here, usually down in Florida.
Becca, you and your husband as in my prayers. I can't imagine what you are going through. Hugs dear friend.
I can't remember who was talking about their hysterectomy scar not healing and thus had to have it heal from inside out. That was my gold standard for a surgeon. If we had a surgical patient who had a very festering incision, if an on call surgeon, especially a new one, asked for a forceps and opened it up and let all that puss come out and then just let it heal from inside out, he was top notch I'm my eyes. After Charlies ileostomy, he had a little place at the top of his incision that was festering so the surgeon opened it up and it had to pack that little tiny area until it healed. I had to pack it twice a day. After about 2 weeks it was healed but Charlie calls it his second belly button.
When I get up in the morning, my fingers feel better but the moment I start using them the pain starts. I am so tired of this.
Heather, I haven't seen any athletes from Great Britian or United Kingdom. Are their some there or th station I am watching just isn't featuring them? I think the Winter Olympics belong to the Nordic countries and Germany.
Love you guys, Joyce, Indiana1 -
Joyce - I don't watch the Winter Olympics, but I believe one of ours came 7th in the Skiathlon. We usually are placed highly in the sliding things on trays etc., especially women.
For me it's just a pain that it occupies the BBC daytime channels and disrupts my normal programmes. Grrrrrrrrrr!
Must do some typing tomorrow.
Love Heather UK xxxxxxx1 -
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stephlong0124 wrote: »Hey Ladies. I just recently turned 51 in January. I've struggled with weight for most of my adult life. I've tried everything and was successful with losing but then I get bored or frustrated and I go off the diet and gain back more weight than I lost. I am currently 219 and back in October I had a total knee replacement surgery done so I've been very limited. Because of my knee my movement has been limiting and the last three years is where Ive gained the most. But in the last year I've gained 30 pounds alone. I am tired all of the time, I am post menopausal. I want to feel good, sleep good and know that my heart and mind will be healthy for a long time. I'm scared to death that I am not going to be successful. So any support is much appreciated. Thanks.
Hi Steph. I am new as well, though a couple years older than you. We can be successful and support is so important!3 -
Terry & Katla, thank you for the welcomes This morning I weighed in at 139; that is the first time I've been under 140lbs in over a year. Good feeling. We went walking with our 11 yr. old at the mall and lapped around about 4 times but my fitbit is still only pushing 8000 steps for the day & now I'm tired.. Hope everybody had a good weekend.4
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Becca,sending all good thoughts for your DH & you.I can keep busy in the datime,but when alone at night,brain refuses to
think of anything else.Then I fall asleep & wake up till it’s daylight.Will they let you stay with him overnight?
Took a spell to do some cleaning today.WOW....ended up doing 3 days work
.Paying for it now & keep checking the clock.....is it bed time? Oh,well...tomorrow
Will be a lazy day.
DH has been fighting a flu or virus this last wk,no appetite at all. Cooked several things he likes......no tomato products in anything.Mostly soft,easy food to digest.
Someone mentioned sisters being close. Our 2 DDs live in diff states,have families & work,but they are each others best friends.They are great ppl & we are so proud of them & our only Grdaughter.She is super close to family.
Had a dreary foggy,rainy day.I’m off to read a while before off to dreamland.5 -
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Well I bolted to the most recent posts! - Is it mid Feb already? fog is lifting and I am the heaviest EVER. Stressfull year - put on 20 plus clear to see how I mamage my stress. I am 54 or is the 55? no still 54 til December lol Feel better already. Living in the present and thats what I got to work with - Im on day 3 of a 12-day Wild Rose cleanse and a bit moody. My goal is to finish this cleanse and walk 30 min a day. After day 12 I will decide a new 2 week goal - baby steps!3
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Garfield wannabe: Lol - We replaced the regular pocket door into our kitchen with this screen door years ago to allow the house air to circulate but to keep the cats out of the kitchen.
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Rye - I love seeing your gorgeous kitties! How are your outside visiting kitties doing? And how are YOU feeling? Better, I hope!
Allie - if your dad indeed did have a will - did you know for sure? (sorry, you probably said and I skipped right over that post), is there any chance he would have told a friend or coffee pal about it? Are there any bills/correspondence from attorneys in his files-which might be a clue as to who would have done it for him? You have probably racked your brain for all possibilities. Good luck.
Becca - sending good thoughts to you and your DH tonight. and ((((HUGS))))!!
Wendy - hope you are finding things to keep your visitors busy. Maybe the weather will clear up and you can spend time outside!
Pip - Lenny was so lucky to have you in his life. And now you and Kirby have each other. Such a love story!
Lenora and Joyce -- sending hugs your way for quick healing!! So glad you are able to post here!
Lanette
Chilly SW WA State3 -
Took a hour and a half nap,made myself a nice dinner and watched the movie Sing.. very cute... working up in Hartford tommorow... Don't like it much but do what my boss asks...4
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Just joined MFP and looking for few groups to follow. I love all the posts here! What a strong group of powerful women! So my February goals include:
Signing in to MFP daily
Going to yoga class 2-3 times/wk
Walking 2-3 times/wk
Staying positive7 -
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Rye - I love seeing your gorgeous kitties! How are your outside visiting kitties doing? And how are YOU feeling? Better, I hope!
Allie - if your dad indeed did have a will - did you know for sure? (sorry, you probably said and I skipped right over that post), is there any chance he would have told a friend or coffee pal about it? Are there any bills/correspondence from attorneys in his files-which might be a clue as to who would have done it for him? You have probably racked your brain for all possibilities. Good luck.
Becca - sending good thoughts to you and your DH tonight. and ((((HUGS))))!!
Wendy - hope you are finding things to keep your visitors busy. Maybe the weather will clear up and you can spend time outside!
Pip - Lenny was so lucky to have you in his life. And now you and Kirby have each other. Such a love story!
Lenora and Joyce -- sending hugs your way for quick healing!! So glad you are able to post here!
Lanette
Chilly SW WA State
I am very blessed. As much as I loved Lenny, I am a true believer of everything happening for a reason. It may not make sense at the time but if u pay attention, it will come to you. Lenny had to die so I can meet Kirby. It kills me but it’s true6 -
Hugs everyone! ERCP planned for tomorrow afternoon. Probably staying overnight tomorrow. At the hospital here now. I have a roll away bed for me! He is doing well. Wanted me to help him wash his nawty bawdy bits! Haha! His eyeballs are still so yellow!
Becca4 -
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So, I just typed a huge introduction post and it got deleted.
So...I'm going to try to recoupe...
Been using MFP for several weeks.
Chronically ill and totally disabled for over 11 years. Lost my career, have been penniless since.
Too many illnesses to get into. Some are common some are rare, they affect my neuro, endocrine, and immune systems.
Artist, naturalist, writer, rebel, hedonist.
Husband and I are on the outs for over 2 yrs, live in a tiny cabin in Colorado. Isolated and friendless.
I have been proactive, and am totally wholistic in taking care of myself.
But I'm struggling.
I've been eating some form of restricted diet for over a decade.
I'm f@#king sick of it.
Last year my menopausal hormones went wacko, and all illnesses got 10x worse. Fertility test said I'm about a year away from full menopause.
I've been eating very wholistic, reduced calorie diet and healthy, no junk since Dec 31, but due to Hashimotos disease and endocrine issues, I'm barely losing.
Tonight I hit the wall hard and decided to try to find some real, intelligent support, so this is my 1st post in this forum.
I want a damn gluten free pizza. I'm sick of stuffing my face with vegetables. I'm a foodie. The vegetable thing has gotten old.
Today I struggled all day to prep and make healthy food for myself, yet it never seems good enough. And now I'm exhausted and in pain.
So I want a damn pizza. I don't need sugar. No chips. Just pizza.
I want this all to end. I've seen 32 doctors, received hardly ANY help. And totally conflicting dietary advice! I need to lose weight. Exercise causes post exertional malaise.
Where's my Roadster to Mars?? I'm ready. Or else, I would LOVE to just be able to stop eating and never want food again.
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grnwoodtree, Welcome. We are glad you are here. You definitely have a big pile of challenges. I hope you'll keep coming back. This is a friendly and supportive group and you may find suggestions here that will work for you. You will at least find other women to talk to and create a warm community for yourself. You aren't the only one who wishes for a way to get off this endless hamster wheel. Hang in there.
Becca, Best wishes to you and your husband on his surgery. Glad you are there with him. It sounds like he hasn't lost his sense of humor.
Didn't accomplish much today except walking the dogs, folding laundry, taking a nap, and riding the bike while watching figure skating on TV.
Barbie from beautiful, cold, sunny NW Washington4 -
Grnwoodtree, make yourself a pizza! You sound so OVER it all and depressed. Do what you need to in order to become strong mentally. Whatever your system can tolerate, gluten free or coconut flour or vegan cheese, just get something as close to PIZZA into you. And then for the next six days eat your veggies. We can't be perfect 100% of the time. We need to give ourselves a break now and then.
Sisters, I am having a mini-break right now from the visitors. They are visiting some other people then returning to our place tomorrow night. I have tried to cope as best I can but it throws me so out of my routine. I feel like it might takes weeks for me to be able to focus and knuckle down again. I am making the best of it, as I always do, but it is draining and disruptive for me. I have actually set up a secret spot in my craft room and put an armchair, kettle, cups, mochachino sachets, my journal and current books. There I can start my mornings with no interruptions. This has worked out well for me!
It really annoys me, some of the things they do such as insulting my daughter, the one who has just come out of emergency surgery and is still recovering...because her room was untidy, and also warned her not to touch the cheese they had bought which was in the fridge!.(My daughter was furious and barely able to contain herself from answering back), back handed insults to me such as going on and on about her step-mother's house which is full of cats and the dog has chewed the carpet etc. Well so is our house. They live here. You don't. And trying to manipulate me into paying for things when we go out...such as 1. not having any cash and the place doesn't take foreign credit cards 2. being very slow to pull out the purse and waiting for me to step forward to buy the drinks, food etc. 3. Assuming that I am paying for her ticket into the movies that she wanted to see! Always making sure that I am the first one to reach the cash register then standing back as if she doesn't have to pay!
This person has 10 times more money than me. Probably 100 times! AND she knows we are particularly broke at the moment and can't afford to fix the van etc. There was no offer to pay for gas as I drove her all around the past two days. I wonder why she is like that, but she always does it so it is deeply ingrained. I bought groceries and wine and made them a nice dinner the first night (and my hubby ended up doing all the dishes by himself the next morning while I was out feeding the animals) but then when she wanted to go to the supermarket the next day, I just walked around and didn't get a shopping cart or buy anything. If I have a cart, she just adds her stuff to it and then I end up paying for it all. Didn't trick me this time though. I went through 3/4ths a bottle of wine just to take the top off my anxiety. And SHE is the better one of the pair. Luckily I managed to stay as far away from him as possible.
They are actually going to be returning a third time, over the next two weeks, so this is an ongoing saga that I must try to eject from my head. I am venting. But now I am done. LOL I am going to focus on my goals now.
Drink much more water. Reduce sugar intake. Eat the same breakfast and lunch every day. (This has never happened but I think it would be good to try to achieve it.) Increase my kettlebell workouts.
Wendy10
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