WOMEN AGES 50 + FOR FEBRUARY 2018
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Good morning all! Happy Friday! I don't know about you, but my Friday's are always happy. Feeling a little drained this week after having a Mardi Gras party, a Valentine's party, and today a Chinese New Year party. Add the news of the Parkland shootings and I think I am in emotional overload, heading into an emotional crash tonight or tomorrow. My eating the past couple of days have been carb heavy (pastas, potatoes and rices are my comfort foods). Time to bounce back into protein and veggie land.
Welcome new ladies- I know you will find much support/advice here. These women are great at giving you "real life" advice on all aspects of health/aging. Menopause, divorce, exercise with limited mobility or injuries, realistic goals, life relationships...they have helped me through many ordeals and we all know that weight loss/healthy living has to start in your mind. Feel free to jump in and offer advice, support, a kick in that pants whenever you feel necessary!
Jerilyn-Love the advice you gave to Michelle on elliptical v treadmill. When I was going to the gym, my trainer always said, "it doesn't matter what gives the best calorie burn; use the machine you love, that way you are more likely to stick with it". Sorry to hear about your marriage problems. Sending hugs and good vibes for peace and discernment in the decisions you have to make.
Kerri- Welcome! I can tell by reading your post, that you are a woman with strong heart and strong mind. Your focus and goal setting/achieving is inspirational. I hope we can help you find balance and support that you need and please keep us posted on your marathons, etc. We love to hear about all of those activities that keep our friends young and vibrant!
Dana- Welcome back! So sorry to hear about your winter of trials! So many things to deal with. Sorry about your mom's passing and your sister being so underhanded and horrible. Glad you have moved into a healthy frame of mind and are back with us. Sending you lots of love and hugs!
Lisa-Congrats on the news of SIL coming back and your release back into the "wilds" of your own life! lol I am sure your daughter is just feeling the emotion of losing the support she has gotten from you and her dad. Speaks volumes to what having you there has meant to her.
Well, have to get ready for my day. Love and hugs to all! ttfn xoxoxo KJ (Kelly)6 -
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Good morning. Having one of those days where you don’t know where to look....or what to think.
Westerville,Oh having funerals for 2 beloved policemen,the horrible news from Florida,
where our Grdaughter & BF lived untill moving North just 2 wks ago.
I had a virus that lasted wks & kept returning.So when DH got sick,thought it was same thing.
Then he seemed worse each day & I insisted he see the Dr.
Diagnosis was virus & use ibuprofen as needed.
Next morn he was even worse.
Talked it over,went to hospital emergency at 9:30am.
No flu,no virus........but my heart Dr ordered tests & will see him again this morning.
He had/has too much fluid in his lungs.
Meds stated working right away & within 2-3 hrs was feeling better.
For a guy who was basically never sick,never in hospital......he had 2 gall bladder surgeries in Dec,stent removal
early this month & now this.
Trying to keep the thought out front of how blessed he has been health wise.
He’s kind of bewildered about what goes on in the hospital.Doesn’t know
one test from another.He called at 5am to tell me they took more blood.
Had a long day yesterday.....got home at 6:30.We live just 5 minutes from Drs & hospital.
Please excuse the TMI......just needed to get it out. Pat in Ohio
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Pat in Ohio - sending (((HUGS))) to you and your DH - please keep us posted. So glad you are only 5 minutes from the docs and hospital. Glad he is feeling better with the meds!
Lanette
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Hi ladies,
Jeri Lynn, you are not the only one in the group that have either grappled with divorce or are contemplating/going through a divorce. We can be a great support to you. We are a safe supportive group for wherever any of us are in our lives. This group is not all about divorce. I think you are probably right that the weight gain is part of the process. Good for you going to the gym. Exercise will help with the stress. The only advice I can give is start researching things now so you are prepared. I was blindsided and wished I could have been more prepared.((Hugs))
BrendaEldridge, welcome to the group. Yes, there is a lot of love here. We are a chatty group but very supportive both weight wise as well as life in general. Tell us a little bit about yourself and what you would like us to call you. Also, if you feel comfortable, let us know where you are from as it helps with remembering who everyone is. Your February goals sound good to me.
Sunkist796, Good for you trying out different things to see what fits. I think that’s what we all do. Good luck with your training.
Blackburn23, sorry to hear about your surgery. I’m sure once you finish PT you will be feeling better. I’ve had thumb surgery for arthritis so know a bit of what you are going through.
Joyce, happy birthday! (did I miss that somewhere?) I leave the frosting for last too. And I had cake too for my birthday (you hae too, it’s mandatory, right?)
Janet, loved your DD card.
Sharon, glad you have a date for your injection. Hope it will help. Good for you telling “her” that you aren’t free the next few days. Sorry to hear about your aunt and that she is in such pain. Palliative care should help with that as it is end of life care and they try to make the person as comfortable as possible. When it rains it pours with SIL’s aunt slipping too. ((Hugs))
NYKaren, Oh how I wish I could go with you. Send us lots of pictures so we can live vicariously through you!
Lisa, 10.5 lbs is wonderful! Smart woman to plan and pack your food. I’m routing for you hitting Onederland! Rah! Rah!
Kelly,3 parties! No wonder you are tired and reaching for comfort food.
(((Pat))) let us know how things go.
Terry feeling better in VT
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Good morning everyone! Happy Friday.
Kerri--I will be 50 in July so right before you! I am trying to embrace it and love your attitude.
Lisa--Congratulations! That is awesome!
Pat--Sorry to hear about everything going on. Hang on.
I am so glad the weekend is almost here. This has been a crazy week. On top of the normal crazy work schedule, I also had other meetings after work to try to squeeze in there. This morning I see I am having furnace problems again after having it repaired twice in the last few months. May be time for a new one. Ugh.
I'm trying to get refocused on diet/exercise as I've fallen off the routine a bit the last several months. This week I focused on eating right each day and made sure to exercise in some form everyday as well. Bought a heart rate monitor to better track my calorie burn so I can drop the 13 pounds I put back on (was about 16 earlier this week so I am on a roll!). Have to stay motivated over the weekend as that is definitely harder for me to stay on track then.
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Give your feet time to heal. A month will pass pretty quickly. Do what you can, but be safe in how you do it. I know we were raised to push through the pain and keep moving, I just read a book called Just Move: A New Approach to Fitness After 50" which has made me re-evaluate the way I exercise. James Owen's suggests that the focus should be on creating functional fitness and the goal should be to develop the strength, balance, and coordination to stay healthy and active into old age. So many exercise books and magazines are targeted to younger adults rather than older adults. I exercise more frequently in my 50s than I did in my 20s, but don't see the same results. I get discouraged when I compare myself to the 20 and 30 somethings. This book reminded me that I need to focus on what my body can do here and now and the goals I have for my 60s and beyond. Don't look back, look forward!
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Granny hairs 2: chin wax (Michele), plucking (Terry), electrolysis (Evelyn) which hurts less? I'm such a wimp!
Freddie's had bags of cookie mix reduced to $0.39, and yes I checked the expiry date. Dashed home from Ash Wednesday service and baked a batch to take to the RFPD board meeting. Got their early, waited. checked email, meeting cancelled as chair was recovering from surgery after a fall. Wish I'd read the email sooner, was a bad plan to meet on St. Val's/Ash Wed anyway, imho. Somehow ate 4 cookies before I got home. Yikes! Put the rest in the freezer to take next time. Only way to keep from eating them all ;}
Rye "a completely empty building... lifeguard took off" ? :noway: Not only rude but such a safety/liability issue. Please be sure the organization's leadership knows what happened. Grrr.
Allie your soft heart is doing you a disservice. Please reconsider. Agree with Sharon, judge should make Tom or his lawyer reimburse you for wages lost due lawyer's no show, but judge can do nothing if you don't go to court.
Evelyn thanks for your understanding post to Allie, you are right on point. Hope the Chiro can give your back some relief.
Machka medals WOW! How do you feel about the class/test? Thanks for helping Michele with FB.
Barbie we love the DVR for fast forwarding through commercials
Heather lemon pancakes = crumpets? Will look for Korean Gochugan paste to spread on chicken thighs and parsnips as I'm not a big turnip fan and have never seen duck legs at our grocery. Walking burpees :noway:
Janetr Kettlebells and cardio, well done! "...find eggs we DIDN'T hide" Naughty gma!
Beth thanks for the Shepherd reminder.
pip lovely fireplace pic, love the pooches, thought the same thing about Lanette's "Happy VD"... Naughty us!
Lanette I was not offended, it was my own thoughts that were naughty
Penny Sorry the applause was inappropriate/distracting. They probably couldn't help themselves, you all were so very good!
Cheri "...perfect as you are"
Pat in PA loved your duathlon story, love it when people act right.
Lisa "... mixed cakes performed..." what an image! :laugh:
Yvonne your advice to Allie is right on point!
Vickie welcome back on track. Baby steps.
Mary +$1500 MRI penalty for having insurance? SMH
Terry owww. Can you tolerate cranberry juice?
Becca "not the kind where they show who did it in the beginning..." ditto sister.
Joyce Thanks for the pic and story of cuddly melody and Mozart and Melody. Hoping they heal as well as warm your freezing fingers.
DJ sending healing thoughts to your dear friend. Will she still be able to move near you?
Pstegman PupPup kissy baby!
Sharon Good for you going to Service Canada. Wow! $400/month is a big motivator! What is the next step on to the disability challenge?
Lisa yikes! So glad you were able to nurse laptop back to life.
NYKaren safe travels, enjoy Rome! Can you see how green my eyes are?
Rita best of you? I think not. The best of you is your walking, your photos, your smile. Give that ol' stress pip's boot!
Laura do you take supplements before or after eating?
Yvonne Onderland? Hooray!!!
KJ snorted my tea reading your story. OWW but thank heavens for email
Welcome Ann, JL, Laura, DL in TX, Vickie in N.Cali and all others I missed.
DL in TX If I start my day with oatmeal or cereal, I need a nap after. Protein is better for me first thing but since I do NOT like eggs (Sam, I am) the protein is either in yoghurt, cottage cheese, a smoothie or veggie "sausage".
WAY behind in posts but time to meditate, shower and get ready T'ai Chi.
Mindful hugs to all,
Barbara, the Southern Oregon Coastie AHMOD.
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Pip: I love your fire. I feel the warmth!
Joyce: I'm sorry that you've had such serious problems with your hands and dexterity. It doesn't seem fair that you lost your MFP name due to typing problems. I hope MFP comes to your rescue. I asked DH for advice on a way for you to talk to your ipad and have it produce text. It is possible. DH says to go to settings on your ipad, then general, & open accessibility. The first line under accessibility is called voice over. DH says to play with it and figure it out. It might be a big help to you. Keeping my fingers crossed for your success. (((HUGS)))
Vickie in N California: Welcome to a great group of supportive women. Jump in and post when you have something to say or a question to ask. :flowerforyou:
Lanette: I'm a fan of Doctor Pol, too. :bigsmile:
Rori: Congratulations on your rapidly coming retirement. I hope you will love your new life! Make sure to do things for your own pleasure in addition to the things you do with & for your DH. :flowerforyou:
blackburn23: Welcome!
janetr: Love your ee card--"Losing weight should be like losing your virginity. Once you lose it you can never get it back--" :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
Allie: I agree with Okie Woman and everyone else who advises you to take care of your needs. You don't owe Tom a thing. :noway:
I've been busy & distracted the past few days and have missed quite a few posts. This evening I'm watching the AKC dog show--luckily I had it recorded. I still don't know who won, but I expect that I will soon enough. My beloved Keeshonden are a very long shot. I've never seen one win at the AKC out side of the breed grouping. They have wonderful personalities and are cute, lovable companions--in my opinion.
Katla in beautiful NW Oregon
"Start where you are. Use what you have. Do what you can." - Arthur Ashe
Awwwwww thanks gurl!!!!2 -
Laura from snow country..... I like your thoughts...every day is a new start. If I was off the program yesterday, I can start fresh today and build on my successful days.
Have a good day and weekend everyone,
Betsy visiting in Arizona
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Yo peeps
Welcome new peep-erssss
I don’t talk much here but I’m with u in spirit. Got a question for me just ask.
I’m the resident boot strapper on-er. I’ll give you a swift kick if u need it to get u back in gear
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Lanette - I wouldn't think the elliptical would be great for your feet. There is a lot of rolling onto the balls of your feet. Is there a recumbent bike at the gym? Or a rower? Punching forward into the air is guaranteed to get your heart racing and can even be done sitting down. Kettlebell swinging? That is great cardio.
Couldn't decide what to do for my bonus calories today, so I put a nature programme on the TV and did some exercises from Thinner This Year. Managed about half an hour. I will be running tomorrow. I finished my second running book last night.
Chinese Chicken with Mushrooms tonight with flat green beans. Noodles for DH. We will share half a bottle of Fino sherry.
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To those who send friend requests, don't be hurt when I don't respond. I don't use MFP that way.4
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Braced the daughter with the fact that, when her husband comes home, we're leaving. Went about as well as could be expected. Tears, anger, slammed and locked door. Confrontations are not my favorite. She's got the long weekend to think about it.
Sigh.
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Barbara in S OR - regarding granny hairs.... sometimes I have a stray appear where I can't see to pluck, or have heavier hairs on my upper lip - I have found it is easiest just to grab the razor and dry shave it off. Just takes a second. Glides over the skin and doesn't appear to irritate it (on me, anyhow). Then rub some nice face cream all over it. Makes hairs disappear for weeks and weeks.
If the hairs were darker, or if I had a beard like DH, I would probably go a different route.
Good for you freezing the cookies! I'd probably have good luck with that if they were frozen in my BFF's freezer across town, lol.
Lanette
SW WA State
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Wendy: I donated my fat clothes to the senior center thrift store. I vowed never to need them again, and I haven't. The exception is one pair of yoga pants. They're too loose, but when my main pair is in the wash they occasionally get the job done.
Sharon in Lethbridge: A massage is a wonderful gift to receive. You are a good friend to Wendy. :flowerforyou:
Pat in OH: I'm so glad your DH finally got a doctor to really look at his situation rather than pawn it off as a virus.
kristingjertsen: I think this is brilliant, "I just read a book called Just Move: A New Approach to Fitness After 50" which has made me re-evaluate the way I exercise. James Owen's suggests that the focus should be on creating functional fitness and the goal should be to develop the strength, balance, and coordination to stay healthy and active into old age." Yoga does this for me.
Barbara: Re chin hairs--I've tried all three options. Electrolysis was most expensive and the hairs seemed to come back despite repeated treatments. Waxing was temporary & I burned my skin with the hot wax. Now I pluck as needed. :grumble:
The Keeshond got fourth in group at the Westminster Dog Show! Yay!!!! This is the best finish I've seen for a Kee at the AKC dog show in NYC.
Katla in beautiful NW Oregon
"So many of us believe in perfection, which ruins everything else, because the perfect is not only the enemy of the good; it's also the enemy of the realistic, the possible and the fun."
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Two days of rain in the desert?? Didn’t rain for 2 months.-now 2 days straight—-strange. No walks, no stores around, just quiet boring day. Maybe I’ll go back to bed for the day.....
RV Rita4 -
Did the elliptical for a little bit and then did a step DVD. Not sure what time we're leaving for Daytona tomorrow so not sure that I can get a workout in.
Lanette - when Vince retired it took him a while to get used to things. At first the minute I'd get home he'd be all ready to tell me about his day. I just wanted to decompress but I understood that he didn't have anyone to talk to all day. The he started telling me how to cook and how to load the dishwasher. I'd only been doing it for 23 years, don't ja think I know how to do it. Finally, I just said to him "go downstairs, just go downstairs". now he has hobbies so he goes his way and I go mine and we meet for dinner....lol
Heather - I use the elliptical for my HIIT also, mainly because it's gentle on the knees.
Kerri - welcome! Good for you retiring! I've heard of too many people who wait for retirement, retire, and then drop dead -- didn't even get to enjoy their retirement. How sad! I'm curious like Wency...what is your exercise routine? Do you have any limitations?
Lisa - I think you have the right idea...stay until your son returns, give him a little while to settle in, then go. You deserve it. What a great loss!
Patty - my deepest sympathis on the passing of your husband. I can't imagine.
Kim - as far as Pete's future dreams, I'm just afraid he's in for somewhat of a shock. Buying a home is not exactly cheap. Then again, wouldn't surprise me if his mother bought it for him. What's going to happen when the day comes that she's no longer here to pay his bills???? Well, not my problem
I'm thinking that for a few days I may not log, just make healthy choices. My girlfriend is coming down, we're going out meeting some of our friends down here. Boy, it seems like EVERYONE practically is moving to FL....lol
Jeri Lynn - so sorry to hear about your marriage.
Brenda - welcome. Great goals,
A friend just invited me to go to the Biltmore with her when we get back. Should be nice. Vince isn't intersted in going, I didn't think he would be. But I'm up for it. That day I was originally planning to go to the water aerobics class, but I'll just do something at home.
blackburn - we don't really care how much you post, but that you post and let us know what's going on
Did 2 loads of laundry, mainly because it is so warm that I put on a sleeveless top. Vince said that tomorrow and Sun are supposed to be about the same and I didn't have any sleeveless shirts to match the only pair of shorts that I have so I need to wash the jean and black pairs at least. So while I'm doing some, I might as well do them all. Afterwards, I'll probably go in the pool
It was really nice to be playing the canasta last night. Unfortunately, I was at a table with 8 people. It seemed to go so slow. But I did have questions and no one seemed bothered by that fact. I was afraid someone would be. I may go back next week, too. Then I probably can't play again until next year.
Allie - agree with Mary, too.
Sharon - sorry to hear about your aunt
Pat - hope everything works out for your dh. (((HUGS))))
Joyce - add me to the list of people who must have missed your birthday, but warm wishes just the same.
Barbara - many times I put cookies in my freezer, too
Michele who is going to get the clothes out of the dryer and then go to the pool4 -
LisaInNCNow wrote: »Braced the daughter with the fact that, when her husband comes home, we're leaving. Went about as well as could be expected. Tears, anger, slammed and locked door. Confrontations are not my favorite. She's got the long weekend to think about it.
Sigh.
Lisa in NC
Lisa - it just occurred to me that soon you'll be "Lisa in AR" .
Sorry your daughter isn't taking it too well. I can understand her being upset about losing the babysitting service, but with her DH back home, seems there would be too many adults in the house. I hope she'll be glad to have him back home again and they can get back to their lives as a family.
Have a great trip out in "Dana country"!
Lanette
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kristingjertsen wrote: »Give your feet time to heal. A month will pass pretty quickly. Do what you can, but be safe in how you do it. I know we were raised to push through the pain and keep moving, I just read a book called Just Move: A New Approach to Fitness After 50" which has made me re-evaluate the way I exercise. James Owen's suggests that the focus should be on creating functional fitness and the goal should be to develop the strength, balance, and coordination to stay healthy and active into old age. So many exercise books and magazines are targeted to younger adults rather than older adults. I exercise more frequently in my 50s than I did in my 20s, but don't see the same results. I get discouraged when I compare myself to the 20 and 30 somethings. This book reminded me that I need to focus on what my body can do here and now and the goals I have for my 60s and beyond. Don't look back, look forward!
At the gym where I attend, the trainers talk a lot about "functional fitness." They will often say things like, "This move will help you get off the floor." "This move will help you recover when you trip, so you might not fall all the way down to the floor." I really appreciate that.
Felicia, two weeks of the training experience down -- one more to go!
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Good Friday morning. My DD from CO came in last night on her way to see our GD at college. She will come back by on Sunday night.
PAT- so glad your hubby got the care he needed. He is very lunch that this is his first time in hospital. I hope he continues to improve.
LISA- when I read your comment about hiking in the rain , it reminded me of when we first live in England. We would plan trips or outings for the weekends and if it was raining, we would stay home. After a few months, we got some wellingtons and off we went. Enjoy your weekend.
KERRI- you have inspired me already by your commitment to do what you can. You DO have a great coach to help you with your training. My only physical limitation is my age and actually that shouldn’t’ matter. I am retired so time is not an issue like it is for working gals. Might need to get in touch with Pip to get myself right again. Lol
ALLIE- although I have no experience in divorce proceedings, I have been on this thread for years reading your posts. It always confounded me that Tom would treat you so badly and you would just try harder to do everything around the house. You are naturally a kind and loving person who wants to help everyone with no expectations. Someday you will see how valuable you are and hopefully you will find someone to honor and cherish you.
JOyCE- did I miss your birthday too? If so, wishing you a belated Happy Birthday. .
Suebdew in TX2 -
Barbara in S OR LOL! my word for 2018 is "Pluck"!
I pluck as needed. I was burned/abraded under an eyebrow once when getting waxed, Nair for the face stings, I never tried electrolysis. Sometimes I shave some granny hairs when I am in a hurry, but they do come back faster than when plucked. If you use an astringent on your face before plucking it doesn't hurt as much.
Joyce Happy Birthday???
Karen in Virginia2 -
Just downloaded another book about running. Obsessed? Me?
Heather UK xxxxxxx4 -
Thank you all for your loving advise...I will do all I can to get what I can from Tom...but I can only get so much with our house remortgaged there isn't alot to get from that ,and the house in Florida either but will get what I can and will get 1/2 401k and beneficiary on life insurance ..so I am set with that.4
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Hi again,
Tha KS for the kind words and thoughts on my first post here. Right after that, after Wendy said to have a damn pizza, I said, hell, I'm going to.
I took a 3day break from this diet thing, Tues-Thurs, had two different gluten free pizzas (Extreme Pizza-always good; Papa John's-really not so good). Gluten free pizza is always a size small, so that's probably good for me.4 -
I don't know what happened but my message was cutoff and posted while I was still typing. And I'm too tired to type it all again......3
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I'm in love with Dannon's Light and Fit Strawberry Cheese Cake yogurt! Just saying....
My DH and I have been doing the heavy meal at lunch after a light breakfast. I have lost 1 lb which for me is great!
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Ann, good for you refocusing on diet and exercise. Weekends are harder for me too.
Kristingjertsen, I like “Don’t look back, look forward”. Words of wisdom we all could use.
Lisa, good for you taking the bull by the horns and talking with DD. She has been so use to you being there that she probably got mad when she found out she couldn’t use you anymore. Guess she will just have to step up to the plate which is what mom's do mom. I’m sure they will do fine. They did it before you moved in.
Going to just chill this weekend and try and stay off my feet. My ankle hurts from the walking I did with DD on Monday. Started again today to get back on track. I usually make it until I get home then all he!! brakes loose. Trying to visualize what I want to do when I get home. Maybe soak in the tub while DH makes dinner. It's hard to eat in the tub. Then when I get out, dinner will be ready. That's the plan anyway. Pip, I definitely need a big kick in the *kitten* please.
Terry
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