Cliques
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I don't really see cliques. I rarely post outside of chit chat and the fun and games. I do spend a lot of time reading in the other areas, but I still have more to absorb than deal there. I think theres a large group of the "above you" posters that seem to never wander outside of that (myself included), but if you've ever been in there they clearly love everyone. It's like the 60's.
Still fairly new here myself and everyone has been nothing short of welcoming and hospitable. I do see some "pass-over", but have chalked that up to being people who know each other better.
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What exactly is a clique? If it's just a group of friends interacting is that bad? I guess if it's exclusionary or a hunting pack mentality it's bad, but I honestly don't see any dangerous people here.4
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Will_Workout_for_food wrote: »DeadliftsAndSprinkles wrote: »Will_Workout_for_food wrote: »
Yep no clique here. Team doritos onlyrickswifey83 wrote: »Will_Workout_for_food wrote: »theres team doritos, and then theres others
Team Doritos all the way! I don't have clique but I have the Doritos crew and my Swolemate Bestie
But i see massive amounts of cliques on this forum. Ill root for the underdogs
Can you give examples of the cliques that you see? I don't see "massive amounts."
I definitely see mostly the same people who will comment on the same kind of topic, but I don't view them as cliques.
Maybe everyone has diff opinions on what cliques is. But to me, i can write one comment and no one would giv a sh1t. Another person can write the same exact thing and all their buddies ( or to me , their “group” )will come out and have a 5 hour chat about it
Its why i dont even care to post much. Some peoples posts will get overlooked. Others will always get a response cause they r more popular
I can definitely say ive seen this. Guess you could debate the whys. But as a mod said the other day...groups, groups. Groupies...lol or something along those lines. But i think only the cliques will get that statement.
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Can someone jump me in one of these cliques?1
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lisawolfinger wrote: »There is an air of exclusiveness in many areas. Anytime a few or group of people make others uncomfortable, you are a clique. Though I can appreciate "being on here a long time" and inside jokes based on past experiences, take those elbow rubbing thoughts offline and email each other directly...spare the new folks. Many of them are looking for diet, nutrition and exercise support, which is as much emotional as anything. If they want another place to feel like a social out cast, Facebook serves.
Takes little effort to notice a "group" who seem to always hoover on certain topics or pounce on new posters and ideas not in the "norm". Can avoid them, once you know their MFP Ids but God help you if one those "cliques" descends on your post. If they can even stay on topic instead of drawing it off onto some obscure word someone not in their mind set stated.
Yes...there are cliques and some are pretty darn vicious. Kindness, even when you don't agree with someone or acknowledgement of a new face with just the slightest shout out of a "hi" would change the face of MFP rapidly and the cliquiness of it all.
Is this in reference to all of mfp or chit chat specifically?0 -
In general I would say this place is most enjoyable if you understand that
1. Most people in chit chat are being silly and not intending anyone any harm
b. There are no secret inside jokes. Just things that happened before you came along. Don’t begrudge long time users the experiences they had together before you came along. Just ask what it’s about. When I first came around, half of my posts were “I don’t get it “ and someone always explained.
2. Lots of things look like inside jokes but aren’t. I say dumb things to people all the time as though we’ve known each other for years. Other times to people I know well I’ll make a joke about something that probably looks like an inside joke when really I’m just saying the most ridiculous thing I can think of, knowing that they’re going to roll with it.
G. 9 times out of 10, the posts that get glommed onto are either troll posts or they are posts that people don’t ever revisit. The longer you’re here, the more you will become aware of these transient posters. They’ll start a thread, never to return. It turns into a playground for that reason.
4. I’m only still itemizing things because no list is complete unless you have four items8 -
caco_ethes wrote: »In general I would say this place is most enjoyable if you understand that
1. Most people in chit chat are being silly and not intending anyone any harm
b. There are no secret inside jokes. Just things that happened before you came along. Don’t begrudge long time users the experiences they had together before you came along. Just ask what it’s about. When I first came around, half of my posts were “I don’t get it “ and someone always explained.
2. Lots of things look like inside jokes but aren’t. I say dumb things to people all the time as though we’ve known each other for years. Other times to people I know well I’ll make a joke about something that probably looks like an inside joke when really I’m just saying the most ridiculous thing I can think of, knowing that they’re going to roll with it.
G. 9 times out of 10, the posts that get glommed onto are either troll posts or they are posts that people don’t ever revisit. The longer you’re here, the more you will become aware of these transient posters. They’ll start a thread, never to return. It turns into a playground for that reason.
4. I’m only still itemizing things because no list is complete unless you have four items
Man nipples4 -
george5911 wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »In general I would say this place is most enjoyable if you understand that
1. Most people in chit chat are being silly and not intending anyone any harm
b. There are no secret inside jokes. Just things that happened before you came along. Don’t begrudge long time users the experiences they had together before you came along. Just ask what it’s about. When I first came around, half of my posts were “I don’t get it “ and someone always explained.
2. Lots of things look like inside jokes but aren’t. I say dumb things to people all the time as though we’ve known each other for years. Other times to people I know well I’ll make a joke about something that probably looks like an inside joke when really I’m just saying the most ridiculous thing I can think of, knowing that they’re going to roll with it.
G. 9 times out of 10, the posts that get glommed onto are either troll posts or they are posts that people don’t ever revisit. The longer you’re here, the more you will become aware of these transient posters. They’ll start a thread, never to return. It turns into a playground for that reason.
4. I’m only still itemizing things because no list is complete unless you have four items
Man nipples
It’s like you can see into my soul1 -
caco_ethes wrote: »george5911 wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »In general I would say this place is most enjoyable if you understand that
1. Most people in chit chat are being silly and not intending anyone any harm
b. There are no secret inside jokes. Just things that happened before you came along. Don’t begrudge long time users the experiences they had together before you came along. Just ask what it’s about. When I first came around, half of my posts were “I don’t get it “ and someone always explained.
2. Lots of things look like inside jokes but aren’t. I say dumb things to people all the time as though we’ve known each other for years. Other times to people I know well I’ll make a joke about something that probably looks like an inside joke when really I’m just saying the most ridiculous thing I can think of, knowing that they’re going to roll with it.
G. 9 times out of 10, the posts that get glommed onto are either troll posts or they are posts that people don’t ever revisit. The longer you’re here, the more you will become aware of these transient posters. They’ll start a thread, never to return. It turns into a playground for that reason.
4. I’m only still itemizing things because no list is complete unless you have four items
Man nipples
It’s like you can see into my soul
just following your lead0 -
Teamleslie wrote: »Can someone jump me in one of these cliques?
@kinetixtrainer2 she wants to be jumped, you seem like a solid candidate0 -
mustacheU2Lift wrote: »Will_Workout_for_food wrote: »DeadliftsAndSprinkles wrote: »Will_Workout_for_food wrote: »
Yep no clique here. Team doritos onlyrickswifey83 wrote: »Will_Workout_for_food wrote: »theres team doritos, and then theres others
Team Doritos all the way! I don't have clique but I have the Doritos crew and my Swolemate Bestie
But i see massive amounts of cliques on this forum. Ill root for the underdogs
Can you give examples of the cliques that you see? I don't see "massive amounts."
I definitely see mostly the same people who will comment on the same kind of topic, but I don't view them as cliques.
Maybe everyone has diff opinions on what cliques is. But to me, i can write one comment and no one would giv a sh1t. Another person can write the same exact thing and all their buddies ( or to me , their “group” )will come out and have a 5 hour chat about it
Its why i dont even care to post much. Some peoples posts will get overlooked. Others will always get a response cause they r more popular
I can definitely say ive seen this. Guess you could debate the whys. But as a mod said the other day...groups, groups. Groupies...lol or something along those lines. But i think only the cliques will get that statement.
She was referring to starting private groups. You can do that on MFP. It is part of the forums but you have to be invited to join the group. I understood her point because of what I said but that would be truly excluding people.
And that’s the real reason those groups don’t take off. Because ultimately chit chat is entertaining because it’s so many different personalities.1 -
george5911 wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »george5911 wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »In general I would say this place is most enjoyable if you understand that
1. Most people in chit chat are being silly and not intending anyone any harm
b. There are no secret inside jokes. Just things that happened before you came along. Don’t begrudge long time users the experiences they had together before you came along. Just ask what it’s about. When I first came around, half of my posts were “I don’t get it “ and someone always explained.
2. Lots of things look like inside jokes but aren’t. I say dumb things to people all the time as though we’ve known each other for years. Other times to people I know well I’ll make a joke about something that probably looks like an inside joke when really I’m just saying the most ridiculous thing I can think of, knowing that they’re going to roll with it.
G. 9 times out of 10, the posts that get glommed onto are either troll posts or they are posts that people don’t ever revisit. The longer you’re here, the more you will become aware of these transient posters. They’ll start a thread, never to return. It turns into a playground for that reason.
4. I’m only still itemizing things because no list is complete unless you have four items
Man nipples
It’s like you can see into my soul
just following your lead
And yet I don’t see your nipples
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mustacheU2Lift wrote: »Will_Workout_for_food wrote: »DeadliftsAndSprinkles wrote: »Will_Workout_for_food wrote: »
Yep no clique here. Team doritos onlyrickswifey83 wrote: »Will_Workout_for_food wrote: »theres team doritos, and then theres others
Team Doritos all the way! I don't have clique but I have the Doritos crew and my Swolemate Bestie
But i see massive amounts of cliques on this forum. Ill root for the underdogs
Can you give examples of the cliques that you see? I don't see "massive amounts."
I definitely see mostly the same people who will comment on the same kind of topic, but I don't view them as cliques.
Maybe everyone has diff opinions on what cliques is. But to me, i can write one comment and no one would giv a sh1t. Another person can write the same exact thing and all their buddies ( or to me , their “group” )will come out and have a 5 hour chat about it
Its why i dont even care to post much. Some peoples posts will get overlooked. Others will always get a response cause they r more popular
I can definitely say ive seen this. Guess you could debate the whys. But as a mod said the other day...groups, groups. Groupies...lol or something along those lines. But i think only the cliques will get that statement.
She was referring to starting private groups. You can do that on MFP. It is part of the forums but you have to be invited to join the group. I understood her point because of what I said but that would be truly excluding people.
I get why she was saying it. Hence my joke.0 -
I’m pretty new here and I wouldn’t say I’ve noticed cliques.
What I see are people who know each other and have inside jokes and conversations. But that just comes with time and being an active poster.
Will there be people you “clique” with more, sure. I’m sure you may be more active on certain members posts as compared to others. In my opinion this is normal behavior and doesn’t upset me to see.3 -
mustacheU2Lift wrote: »Will_Workout_for_food wrote: »DeadliftsAndSprinkles wrote: »Will_Workout_for_food wrote: »
Yep no clique here. Team doritos onlyrickswifey83 wrote: »Will_Workout_for_food wrote: »theres team doritos, and then theres others
Team Doritos all the way! I don't have clique but I have the Doritos crew and my Swolemate Bestie
But i see massive amounts of cliques on this forum. Ill root for the underdogs
Can you give examples of the cliques that you see? I don't see "massive amounts."
I definitely see mostly the same people who will comment on the same kind of topic, but I don't view them as cliques.
Maybe everyone has diff opinions on what cliques is. But to me, i can write one comment and no one would giv a sh1t. Another person can write the same exact thing and all their buddies ( or to me , their “group” )will come out and have a 5 hour chat about it
Its why i dont even care to post much. Some peoples posts will get overlooked. Others will always get a response cause they r more popular
I can definitely say ive seen this. Guess you could debate the whys. But as a mod said the other day...groups, groups. Groupies...lol or something along those lines. But i think only the cliques will get that statement.
She was referring to starting private groups. You can do that on MFP. It is part of the forums but you have to be invited to join the group. I understood her point because of what I said but that would be truly excluding people.mustacheU2Lift wrote: »mustacheU2Lift wrote: »Will_Workout_for_food wrote: »DeadliftsAndSprinkles wrote: »Will_Workout_for_food wrote: »
Yep no clique here. Team doritos onlyrickswifey83 wrote: »Will_Workout_for_food wrote: »theres team doritos, and then theres others
Team Doritos all the way! I don't have clique but I have the Doritos crew and my Swolemate Bestie
But i see massive amounts of cliques on this forum. Ill root for the underdogs
Can you give examples of the cliques that you see? I don't see "massive amounts."
I definitely see mostly the same people who will comment on the same kind of topic, but I don't view them as cliques.
Maybe everyone has diff opinions on what cliques is. But to me, i can write one comment and no one would giv a sh1t. Another person can write the same exact thing and all their buddies ( or to me , their “group” )will come out and have a 5 hour chat about it
Its why i dont even care to post much. Some peoples posts will get overlooked. Others will always get a response cause they r more popular
I can definitely say ive seen this. Guess you could debate the whys. But as a mod said the other day...groups, groups. Groupies...lol or something along those lines. But i think only the cliques will get that statement.
She was referring to starting private groups. You can do that on MFP. It is part of the forums but you have to be invited to join the group. I understood her point because of what I said but that would be truly excluding people.
I get why she was saying it. Hence my joke.
Guys, guys.. can you take this conversation elsewhere? We’re trying to talk about man nipples here0 -
CoffeeAndContour wrote: »mustacheU2Lift wrote: »Clever_User_Name wrote: »mustacheU2Lift wrote: »Interesting...i guess Wed have to define clique. Im definitely a loner in these here parts.
Loner clique then
Pretty much and im ok with that
Taking members applications currently. Must be weird. @SurfyPantsResurfaced if she comes back
I miss her
I know ...chatted with her the other day and shes doing good. Just enjoying life like she does.1 -
mustacheU2Lift wrote: »CoffeeAndContour wrote: »mustacheU2Lift wrote: »Clever_User_Name wrote: »mustacheU2Lift wrote: »Interesting...i guess Wed have to define clique. Im definitely a loner in these here parts.
Loner clique then
Pretty much and im ok with that
Taking members applications currently. Must be weird. @SurfyPantsResurfaced if she comes back
I miss her
I know ...chatted with her the other day and shes doing good. Just enjoying life like she does.
Why did she leave?0 -
caco_ethes wrote: »george5911 wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »george5911 wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »In general I would say this place is most enjoyable if you understand that
1. Most people in chit chat are being silly and not intending anyone any harm
b. There are no secret inside jokes. Just things that happened before you came along. Don’t begrudge long time users the experiences they had together before you came along. Just ask what it’s about. When I first came around, half of my posts were “I don’t get it “ and someone always explained.
2. Lots of things look like inside jokes but aren’t. I say dumb things to people all the time as though we’ve known each other for years. Other times to people I know well I’ll make a joke about something that probably looks like an inside joke when really I’m just saying the most ridiculous thing I can think of, knowing that they’re going to roll with it.
G. 9 times out of 10, the posts that get glommed onto are either troll posts or they are posts that people don’t ever revisit. The longer you’re here, the more you will become aware of these transient posters. They’ll start a thread, never to return. It turns into a playground for that reason.
4. I’m only still itemizing things because no list is complete unless you have four items
Man nipples
It’s like you can see into my soul
just following your lead
And yet I don’t see your nipples
But I provided a great demonstration of exactly what you are describing. If you must, you know where to go. I don't wish to muddle your educational thread here with such debauchery.0 -
caco_ethes wrote: »mustacheU2Lift wrote: »CoffeeAndContour wrote: »mustacheU2Lift wrote: »Clever_User_Name wrote: »mustacheU2Lift wrote: »Interesting...i guess Wed have to define clique. Im definitely a loner in these here parts.
Loner clique then
Pretty much and im ok with that
Taking members applications currently. Must be weird. @SurfyPantsResurfaced if she comes back
I miss her
I know ...chatted with her the other day and shes doing good. Just enjoying life like she does.
Why did she leave?
I dont want to speak for her. Not over mfp drama as some people will jump to assume. But shes adorable as ever.2 -
I’m pretty new here and I wouldn’t say I’ve noticed cliques.
What I see are people who know each other and have inside jokes and conversations. But that just comes with time and being an active poster.
Will there be people you “clique” with more, sure. I’m sure you may be more active on certain members posts as compared to others. In my opinion this is normal behavior and doesn’t upset me to see.
See, someone woo’d this. That’s the sort of thing I don’t get. Some people are just salty and there’s no changing that. Are you trying to drive a newish person into hiding? Sheesh. Cheer up or go away1 -
caco_ethes wrote: »mustacheU2Lift wrote: »Will_Workout_for_food wrote: »DeadliftsAndSprinkles wrote: »Will_Workout_for_food wrote: »
Yep no clique here. Team doritos onlyrickswifey83 wrote: »Will_Workout_for_food wrote: »theres team doritos, and then theres others
Team Doritos all the way! I don't have clique but I have the Doritos crew and my Swolemate Bestie
But i see massive amounts of cliques on this forum. Ill root for the underdogs
Can you give examples of the cliques that you see? I don't see "massive amounts."
I definitely see mostly the same people who will comment on the same kind of topic, but I don't view them as cliques.
Maybe everyone has diff opinions on what cliques is. But to me, i can write one comment and no one would giv a sh1t. Another person can write the same exact thing and all their buddies ( or to me , their “group” )will come out and have a 5 hour chat about it
Its why i dont even care to post much. Some peoples posts will get overlooked. Others will always get a response cause they r more popular
I can definitely say ive seen this. Guess you could debate the whys. But as a mod said the other day...groups, groups. Groupies...lol or something along those lines. But i think only the cliques will get that statement.
She was referring to starting private groups. You can do that on MFP. It is part of the forums but you have to be invited to join the group. I understood her point because of what I said but that would be truly excluding people.mustacheU2Lift wrote: »mustacheU2Lift wrote: »Will_Workout_for_food wrote: »DeadliftsAndSprinkles wrote: »Will_Workout_for_food wrote: »
Yep no clique here. Team doritos onlyrickswifey83 wrote: »Will_Workout_for_food wrote: »theres team doritos, and then theres others
Team Doritos all the way! I don't have clique but I have the Doritos crew and my Swolemate Bestie
But i see massive amounts of cliques on this forum. Ill root for the underdogs
Can you give examples of the cliques that you see? I don't see "massive amounts."
I definitely see mostly the same people who will comment on the same kind of topic, but I don't view them as cliques.
Maybe everyone has diff opinions on what cliques is. But to me, i can write one comment and no one would giv a sh1t. Another person can write the same exact thing and all their buddies ( or to me , their “group” )will come out and have a 5 hour chat about it
Its why i dont even care to post much. Some peoples posts will get overlooked. Others will always get a response cause they r more popular
I can definitely say ive seen this. Guess you could debate the whys. But as a mod said the other day...groups, groups. Groupies...lol or something along those lines. But i think only the cliques will get that statement.
She was referring to starting private groups. You can do that on MFP. It is part of the forums but you have to be invited to join the group. I understood her point because of what I said but that would be truly excluding people.
I get why she was saying it. Hence my joke.
Guys, guys.. can you take this conversation elsewhere? We’re trying to talk about man nipples here
You could start a private group for that
Pipe down Karen0 -
caco_ethes wrote: »I’m pretty new here and I wouldn’t say I’ve noticed cliques.
What I see are people who know each other and have inside jokes and conversations. But that just comes with time and being an active poster.
Will there be people you “clique” with more, sure. I’m sure you may be more active on certain members posts as compared to others. In my opinion this is normal behavior and doesn’t upset me to see.
See, someone woo’d this. That’s the sort of thing I don’t get. Some people are just salty and there’s no changing that. Are you trying to drive a newish person into hiding? Sheesh. Cheer up or go away
Is @SwannySez lurking around?
If he woos this he is.2 -
caco_ethes wrote: »I’m pretty new here and I wouldn’t say I’ve noticed cliques.
What I see are people who know each other and have inside jokes and conversations. But that just comes with time and being an active poster.
Will there be people you “clique” with more, sure. I’m sure you may be more active on certain members posts as compared to others. In my opinion this is normal behavior and doesn’t upset me to see.
See, someone woo’d this. That’s the sort of thing I don’t get. Some people are just salty and there’s no changing that. Are you trying to drive a newish person into hiding? Sheesh. Cheer up or go away
Is @SwannySez lurking around?
Nah, I checked2 -
caco_ethes wrote: »I’m pretty new here and I wouldn’t say I’ve noticed cliques.
What I see are people who know each other and have inside jokes and conversations. But that just comes with time and being an active poster.
Will there be people you “clique” with more, sure. I’m sure you may be more active on certain members posts as compared to others. In my opinion this is normal behavior and doesn’t upset me to see.
See, someone woo’d this. That’s the sort of thing I don’t get. Some people are just salty and there’s no changing that. Are you trying to drive a newish person into hiding? Sheesh. Cheer up or go away
It was weeks before I realized woo was bad...2 -
mustacheU2Lift wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »mustacheU2Lift wrote: »CoffeeAndContour wrote: »mustacheU2Lift wrote: »Clever_User_Name wrote: »mustacheU2Lift wrote: »Interesting...i guess Wed have to define clique. Im definitely a loner in these here parts.
Loner clique then
Pretty much and im ok with that
Taking members applications currently. Must be weird. @SurfyPantsResurfaced if she comes back
I miss her
I know ...chatted with her the other day and shes doing good. Just enjoying life like she does.
Why did she leave?
I dont want to speak for her. Not over mfp drama as some people will jump to assume. But shes adorable as ever.
Good to know 1 -
george5911 wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »I’m pretty new here and I wouldn’t say I’ve noticed cliques.
What I see are people who know each other and have inside jokes and conversations. But that just comes with time and being an active poster.
Will there be people you “clique” with more, sure. I’m sure you may be more active on certain members posts as compared to others. In my opinion this is normal behavior and doesn’t upset me to see.
See, someone woo’d this. That’s the sort of thing I don’t get. Some people are just salty and there’s no changing that. Are you trying to drive a newish person into hiding? Sheesh. Cheer up or go away
It was weeks before I realized woo was bad...
That’s true, I forget the website doesn’t have the trollface0 -
caco_ethes wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »mustacheU2Lift wrote: »Will_Workout_for_food wrote: »DeadliftsAndSprinkles wrote: »Will_Workout_for_food wrote: »
Yep no clique here. Team doritos onlyrickswifey83 wrote: »Will_Workout_for_food wrote: »theres team doritos, and then theres others
Team Doritos all the way! I don't have clique but I have the Doritos crew and my Swolemate Bestie
But i see massive amounts of cliques on this forum. Ill root for the underdogs
Can you give examples of the cliques that you see? I don't see "massive amounts."
I definitely see mostly the same people who will comment on the same kind of topic, but I don't view them as cliques.
Maybe everyone has diff opinions on what cliques is. But to me, i can write one comment and no one would giv a sh1t. Another person can write the same exact thing and all their buddies ( or to me , their “group” )will come out and have a 5 hour chat about it
Its why i dont even care to post much. Some peoples posts will get overlooked. Others will always get a response cause they r more popular
I can definitely say ive seen this. Guess you could debate the whys. But as a mod said the other day...groups, groups. Groupies...lol or something along those lines. But i think only the cliques will get that statement.
She was referring to starting private groups. You can do that on MFP. It is part of the forums but you have to be invited to join the group. I understood her point because of what I said but that would be truly excluding people.mustacheU2Lift wrote: »mustacheU2Lift wrote: »Will_Workout_for_food wrote: »DeadliftsAndSprinkles wrote: »Will_Workout_for_food wrote: »
Yep no clique here. Team doritos onlyrickswifey83 wrote: »Will_Workout_for_food wrote: »theres team doritos, and then theres others
Team Doritos all the way! I don't have clique but I have the Doritos crew and my Swolemate Bestie
But i see massive amounts of cliques on this forum. Ill root for the underdogs
Can you give examples of the cliques that you see? I don't see "massive amounts."
I definitely see mostly the same people who will comment on the same kind of topic, but I don't view them as cliques.
Maybe everyone has diff opinions on what cliques is. But to me, i can write one comment and no one would giv a sh1t. Another person can write the same exact thing and all their buddies ( or to me , their “group” )will come out and have a 5 hour chat about it
Its why i dont even care to post much. Some peoples posts will get overlooked. Others will always get a response cause they r more popular
I can definitely say ive seen this. Guess you could debate the whys. But as a mod said the other day...groups, groups. Groupies...lol or something along those lines. But i think only the cliques will get that statement.
She was referring to starting private groups. You can do that on MFP. It is part of the forums but you have to be invited to join the group. I understood her point because of what I said but that would be truly excluding people.
I get why she was saying it. Hence my joke.
Guys, guys.. can you take this conversation elsewhere? We’re trying to talk about man nipples here
You could start a private group for that
Pipe down Karen
I absolutely want to start this private group now and invite everyone. Can you imagine the shock when people who have never conversed with me get a message asking them to join the private group "Man nipples"?
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caco_ethes wrote: »I’m pretty new here and I wouldn’t say I’ve noticed cliques.
What I see are people who know each other and have inside jokes and conversations. But that just comes with time and being an active poster.
Will there be people you “clique” with more, sure. I’m sure you may be more active on certain members posts as compared to others. In my opinion this is normal behavior and doesn’t upset me to see.
See, someone woo’d this. That’s the sort of thing I don’t get. Some people are just salty and there’s no changing that. Are you trying to drive a newish person into hiding? Sheesh. Cheer up or go away
Perhaps it's someone thinking the "woo" is a good thing? I dunno.
The only issues I really have is what I mentioned early on in the thread.2 -
caco_ethes wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »mustacheU2Lift wrote: »Will_Workout_for_food wrote: »DeadliftsAndSprinkles wrote: »Will_Workout_for_food wrote: »
Yep no clique here. Team doritos onlyrickswifey83 wrote: »Will_Workout_for_food wrote: »theres team doritos, and then theres others
Team Doritos all the way! I don't have clique but I have the Doritos crew and my Swolemate Bestie
But i see massive amounts of cliques on this forum. Ill root for the underdogs
Can you give examples of the cliques that you see? I don't see "massive amounts."
I definitely see mostly the same people who will comment on the same kind of topic, but I don't view them as cliques.
Maybe everyone has diff opinions on what cliques is. But to me, i can write one comment and no one would giv a sh1t. Another person can write the same exact thing and all their buddies ( or to me , their “group” )will come out and have a 5 hour chat about it
Its why i dont even care to post much. Some peoples posts will get overlooked. Others will always get a response cause they r more popular
I can definitely say ive seen this. Guess you could debate the whys. But as a mod said the other day...groups, groups. Groupies...lol or something along those lines. But i think only the cliques will get that statement.
She was referring to starting private groups. You can do that on MFP. It is part of the forums but you have to be invited to join the group. I understood her point because of what I said but that would be truly excluding people.mustacheU2Lift wrote: »mustacheU2Lift wrote: »Will_Workout_for_food wrote: »DeadliftsAndSprinkles wrote: »Will_Workout_for_food wrote: »
Yep no clique here. Team doritos onlyrickswifey83 wrote: »Will_Workout_for_food wrote: »theres team doritos, and then theres others
Team Doritos all the way! I don't have clique but I have the Doritos crew and my Swolemate Bestie
But i see massive amounts of cliques on this forum. Ill root for the underdogs
Can you give examples of the cliques that you see? I don't see "massive amounts."
I definitely see mostly the same people who will comment on the same kind of topic, but I don't view them as cliques.
Maybe everyone has diff opinions on what cliques is. But to me, i can write one comment and no one would giv a sh1t. Another person can write the same exact thing and all their buddies ( or to me , their “group” )will come out and have a 5 hour chat about it
Its why i dont even care to post much. Some peoples posts will get overlooked. Others will always get a response cause they r more popular
I can definitely say ive seen this. Guess you could debate the whys. But as a mod said the other day...groups, groups. Groupies...lol or something along those lines. But i think only the cliques will get that statement.
She was referring to starting private groups. You can do that on MFP. It is part of the forums but you have to be invited to join the group. I understood her point because of what I said but that would be truly excluding people.
I get why she was saying it. Hence my joke.
Guys, guys.. can you take this conversation elsewhere? We’re trying to talk about man nipples here
You could start a private group for that
Pipe down Karen
I absolutely want to start this private group now and invite everyone. Can you imagine the shock when people who have never conversed with me get a message asking them to join the private group "Man nipples"?
Need you some nipples?0 -
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