WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR AUGUST 2018

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  • pipcd34
    pipcd34 Posts: 17,277 Member
    Aaa
  • okiewoman510
    okiewoman510 Posts: 1,316 Member
    edited August 2018
    Terry - I like the jewelry but I LOVE the dog!

    Barbie - I hope that time and the steroids are helping you get some relief.

    Rebecca - I would have smacked my husband for scaring me!

    Rye - I hope your anxiety is manageable and you are able to enjoy your visit. My Mom has a sister that she doesn't speak to. I speak to her (my Aunt). I told them both that I didn't want to hear anything about the other one, that I wasn't getting in the middle and it wasn't my issue. That has worked for many years now.

    Heather - I hope you get some answers soon on the house. I too need to go through all the paper in my house and purge a BUNCH! Maybe after I read about you doing it for a while longer, I'll get inspired to do the same!

    It is TTOM for me, and I all I am wanting to do is eat!! Theoretically, that isn't a problem. I really could stand to gain a few lbs. In practice, much harder for me to do. If I don't log, I can eat anything and everything in sight. If I am logging, I tend to stick to my normal foods in not much larger quantities. For instance, last weekend we went to Lupe Tortilla's for beef fajitas. I ate the steak, a bit of guacamole and charro beans (I would have had grilled asparagus, but they forgot to put the order in so they brought it to go and I had it the next night with my salad). When we went there a few weeks ago, I wasn't logging for 4 days and I ate chips and queso (a normal serving), 1/2 a tortilla (they have huge tortilla's, I've always split them in half) and some cheese and sour cream on my fajita. I ate reasonable amounts of anything I wanted for the four days and after about a week of eating my normal way again, I was back at the weight I started at. This should tell me that I can eat what I want (within reason) and end up back where I want to be, heck below where I want to be. I think I am going to have to not log for a bit and just weigh myself to make sure I am staying on track to try to gain a few lbs. I think part of my holdup is that I like having some play room in case we go somewhere for a weekend or something. I don't know, I'm weird.

    Okie
  • 1948Peachy
    1948Peachy Posts: 1,511 Member
    Okie: I don't understand what you are saying. Are you trying to gain weight because you are too thin? Or, or you at the best weight for you and don't want to gain?
  • okiewoman510
    okiewoman510 Posts: 1,316 Member
    Peach - I need to gain a few lbs. I am about 5 lbs under the bottom of my maintenance range. While I know that I need to gain, I am finding it very hard to put that into action.

    Okie
  • 1948Peachy
    1948Peachy Posts: 1,511 Member
    Okie: If you feel well at the weight you are in and feel like you look great, I would not worry about it. :)
  • wildhorsewendy
    wildhorsewendy Posts: 563 Member
    Morning Sisters, it's Day 5 of my second fast. I am still a couple pounds away from my Happy Place so will try to hold on a little longer but I'll see how I go today.

    Kellie, there is a lot of things to interest kids of all ages here. LOL. I am the biggest kid of all.

    Lisa, it's a very good idea to not drive more than four hours at a time. Driving when you are tired is a recipe for disaster. The act of focusing and keeping your eyes on the road and traffic is very tiring and add that on top of bad sleep and a stressful day...well, I probably wouldn't even try to drive four hours.

    Rye, I feel for you! Family stress and husband's friends stress, not much to look forward to. I think you are going to just have to quietly nurture yourself. When you've had a gutsful of being social, you will have to excuse yourself and take yourself for some time out. Sit in your car and nap, or read a magazine. Tell your husband you want him to drop you off at the local swimming pool for some exercise. You have a right to some fun on your break, you work hard too, so stand up for yourself and schedule in Me Time. Being in New Zealand, I have had to socialize solely with my husband's family and friends, so I know a lot of what you have to go through. I have learned to make up an excuse and take a break from them all. We have spent nearly every Christmas with people I have nothing in common with who purposely try to make me feel small or simply ignore me. I have learned to either drive a separate vehicle so I can leave when I've had enough, or put my bike on the truck so I can take off on that, or arrive late on purpose so I don't have to spend so many hours with them etc. It's harder for you since you can't just drive off if you feel like it. Protect yourself!

    Pip, you've been so stressed at work, that's probably why you got sick. Look after yourself with lemon and honey drinks and chewable vit C and as much early to bed rest as you can manage.

    Terry, I have been thinking about you a lot and wondering how your are. That necklace is truly special.

    Lenora, I do not put up with any painful or invasive medical exams either. Good on you for letting the doctors know they can't treat you like a piece of meat.

    Have a great day everyone!

    <3 Wendy
  • ljdw99
    ljdw99 Posts: 360 Member
    :)
  • csofled
    csofled Posts: 3,022 Member
    :)
  • Katla49
    Katla49 Posts: 10,385 Member
    Wendy: Your MIL reminds me of my own, who passed away many years ago. She was horrid to me from the day I married her son until she was very ill and having hospice care at home. The last time I saw her, I'd taken her DGD over for a visit. It was during that trip that she apologized to me. A few weeks later DMIL passed away. I sincerely doubt that you've earned poor treatment from your MIL, and sympathize. :flowerforyou:

    Heather: Finally! Forward motion on your new home. YAY!!! :star::flowerforyou: :star:

    Katla in Beautiful NW Oregon
  • grandmallie
    grandmallie Posts: 10,098 Member
    well I am home from work. and in jammies.. watching tv
  • wildhorsewendy
    wildhorsewendy Posts: 563 Member
    Katla, thanks for understanding. MIL from Hell is bad enough, but I haven't even mentioned SIL, married to my husband's only sibling. She is pretty much my exact opposite and her house is so "perfect" that you can't even relax in it for fear you might spill a drop of wine or get a speck of dust on something. She is totally self-absorbed and uninterested in me, my children or my life, so after I have made an effort to ask about her life, that's it for our conversation. LOL I just end up drinking wine until I'm sick. Better to make an excuse and leave early! Glad we only see them once a year usually, that's enough! The boredom kills me and I really want to go ride my horse or walk my dog or read a book or ANYTHING but sit there listening to them discuss things that have absolutely no relevance to me. PASS. <3 Wendy
  • Katla49
    Katla49 Posts: 10,385 Member
    <3
  • pipcd34
    pipcd34 Posts: 17,277 Member
    stats for the day:

    bike ride hm 2 gym- 7.51min, 12.1amph, 141mhr, 1.5mi= 101c
    TREADMILL walk- 50min, 94ahr, 114mhr, 0-5incline, 3.0-3.5sp, 2.78mi= 257c
    apple watch- 274c
    ride gym 2 dome- 6.36min, 13.4amph, 132mhr, 1.4mi= 83c
    apple watch- 59c
    walk sta 2 wk- 10min, 119mhr, .5mi= 63c
    apple watch- 550c
    walk wk 2 sumn sta- 61c
    apple watch-
    bike ride dome 2 hm- 20.41min, 7.5amph, 25mi= 184c
    apple watch-

    total cal 749
  • exermom
    exermom Posts: 6,531 Member
    Did a DVD for the rebounder. The plan for tomorrow is to do Bernadette Giorgi’s Just “B” Live foam Roller DVD. This is a new one for me and I’ve always wanted it so I’m excited to try it.

    There is a cat who evidently is someone’s pet who came by. Very friendly. We tried to trim his/her nails, but this must be an outdoor cat because it got VERY upset. Guess it never got its nails trimmed before. Now we don’t see it anywhere around. Vince fed it some of our dry cat food and I gave it water. Guess if we see it the next few days we’ll put out something to let its owner know that its OK and that we don’t have a problem with it being here

    Terry - welcome back! I’m so sorry for everything you’ve gone thru. I can understand your feeling. Think about how pleased you dh will be once you’ve lost the weight. You CAN do this and we’ll be right by your side every step of the way

    KJ – wishing the best for you. I’m glad you’re getting this looked at

    Debra – you’re doing great! Tell us what evofit is. Never heard of it

    Lil… - prayers

    Pip – get better soon. You know your body better than anyone else.

    One time we stayed at a hotel that didn’t have a fitness room. That is one thing that I really missed. I can live without a refrig or microwave, but I really missed the fitness room

    KJ one time we gave up our seats on the airplane and in return got 5 free round trip tickets to anywhere in the lower 49. That doesn’t happen today!

    Lenora – I’ve already mentioned to the instructor that music would be great, but nothing’s been done. Told her how it really helped me. Maybe it’s time to mention it again. Loki has been doing this (peeing on the bed) even if for weeks there hasn’t been another cat here. No, it’s not that it’s the introduction of another cat and he’s “marking his territory”. I’m mainly looking for something that will deter him from peeing on the bed (actually, any of the cats, at one time we thought it was Lexi who was peeing). It’s ONLY on the beds, but never on our bed.

    Terry – what beautiful jewelry you make

    Okie – I’ll be more than happy to give you a few of my pounds 

    Michele in NC
  • barbiecat
    barbiecat Posts: 17,204 Member
    Carol, I don't like social gatherings at all and avoid as many of them as possible. We eat our big meal at noon and have enjoyed that. I hope it continues to work well for you.

    Lenora, I deactivated my Facebook account in June and haven't missed it at all. I've received some good e mails jokes from you and have enjoyed them a lot.

    Terry in VT, I'm glad to see you back and hope that this is the beginning of a new life for you. Sometimes it takes a huge lightning bolt to get the process started. Stick with us so we can encourage and support you.

    Heather, I'm glad to see that there is a bit of progress in the paperwork for your move. When we were waiting for news on our last house sale, I got busy like you did with de-cluttering and the time passed, things were discarded, and the sale happened.

    Family, I have no family and Jake's family is many states away so we have no family events to deal with. I feel fortunate to not have that to worry about. Jake speaks to his brothers and his grown children on the phone from time to time, but I'm not involved.

    I'm still not moving as well as I want to. I'll take Prednisone for two more days and then report to my doctor for further direction.

    <3 Barbie from NW Washington

  • ryenday
    ryenday Posts: 1,540 Member
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  • kymarai
    kymarai Posts: 3,702 Member
    Michelle I was going to ask if you had plastic covers on the mattresses. For whatever reason, all my cats would pee on plastic when I was growing up. Bean bag chairs, mattress covers, even plastic drop clothes. I hope the spray works for you.
  • grandmallie
    grandmallie Posts: 10,098 Member
    Morning ladies
    Didn't get alot of sleep,that's what I get for having ice tea after 6
    Supposed to go to a pig roast this afternoon after work.but it's supposed to be raining..so will probably not go,but taking my DD and DGD to see the Lion King tonight.
    I can't wait to watch my granddaughters face as she watches it.i saw it 10 yrs ago and it was phenomenal....
  • kymarai
    kymarai Posts: 3,702 Member
    Good Saturday! Am caught up reading, but no time to comment. Grandson's first football game after work yoday.
    Hugs! Prayers! Congratulations!
    <3
    Kylia
  • KetoneKaren
    KetoneKaren Posts: 6,412 Member
    Rebecca Is Suki a Bengal cat? She is beautiful.

    Heather The success you are having with getting rid of things in a satisfying manner is inspiring. I like that so many things are going to someone who specifically wants them, rather than just to a thrift shop where they may lay neglected and unappreciated, or to the dump. I can hardly imagine who would want books and CDs. Who did you get to take them? And I am encouraged about all the doilies and embroidery I have - crafting clubs, of course! We don't have an active Freecycle group here, but we do have a local "Hoarders" group that sells barters gives buys donates things to nearby people, so maybe I will try that out with something to give away as a dry run before I really jump into it.

    Heather, are you in contact with Penny? It seems like a long time.

    Karen in Virginia
  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,616 Member
    edited August 2018
    Heather, are you in contact with Penny? It seems like a long time.

    Karen in Virginia

    I was just thinking of her today too ... wondering how she was.

    I actually started thinking of her exactly a week ago ... we had gotten ourselves settled at the symphony when the people next to us came in and one whipped out a photo book ... of the far north at a time of year when the sun only came up for an hour or so a day. They were saying it was brighter than you'd expect ... the moonlight, I suppose. :)


    M in Oz

  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,616 Member
    Review ... (Distances include cycling + walking + a bit of running)
    Mar-15 … 489.8 km (304.3 miles) = 38 hours 4 min
    Apr-15 … 491.94 km (305.6 miles) = 43 hours 6 min
    May-15 … 361.81 km (224.8 miles) = 35 hours 50 min
    Jun-15 … 569.53 km (353.9 miles) = 41 hours 53 min
    Jul-15 … 230.7 km (143.35 miles) = 32 hours 45 min
    Aug-15 … 211.3 km (131.3 miles) = 28 hours 8 min
    Sep-15 … 306.7 km (190.6 miles) = 35 hour 2 min
    Oct-15 … 441.82 km (274.5 miles) = 47 hours 43 min
    Nov-15 … 660.21 km (410.23 miles) = 60 hours 41 min
    Dec-15 … 499.91 km (282.8 miles) = 54 hours 56 min
    Jan-16 … 864.79 km (537.35 miles) = 65 hours 36 min
    Feb-16 … 470.53 km (292.4 miles) = 40 hours 39 min
    Mar-16 … 917.73 km (570.2 miles) = 66 hours 13 min
    Apr-16 … 417.83 km (259.6 miles) = 40 hours 23 min
    May-16 … 267.09 km (165.9 miles) = 36 hours 10 min
    Jun-16 … 552.1 km (343 miles) = 54 hours 48 min
    Jul-16 … 709 km (440.5 miles) = 60 hours 41 minutes
    Aug-16 … 775.9 km (482.1 miles) = 54 hours 52 minutes
    Sep-16 … 371.3 km (230.7 miles) = 32 hours 20 min
    Oct-16 … 649 km (403.3 miles) = 49 hours 46 min
    Nov-16 … 403 km (250.4 miles) = 52 hours 16 min
    Dec-16 … 511.05 km (317.55 miles) = 52 hours 2 min
    Jan-17 … 741.9 km (461.0 miles) = 70 hours 3 min
    Feb-17 … 600.5 km (373.1 miles) = 57 hours 30 min
    Mar-17 … 1113.2 km (691.7 miles) = 78 hours 25 min
    Apr-17 … 1181.9 km (734.4 miles) = 76 hours 45 min
    May-17 … 426.6 km (265.1 miles) = 39 hours 21 min
    Jun-17 … 575.7 km (357.7 miles) = 41 hours 53 min
    Jul-17 … 714 km (443.7 miles) = 52 hours 23 min
    Aug-17 … 475.8 km (295.6 miles) = 38 hours 41 min
    Sep-17 … 455.5 km (283 miles) = 41 hours 25 min
    Oct-17 … 647.1 km (402.1 miles) = 57 hours 19 min
    Nov-17 … 427.0 km (265.3 miles) = 50 hours 4 min
    Dec-17 … 553.5 km (343.9 miles) = 52 hours 12 min
    Jan-18 … 590.2 km (366.7 miles) = 57 hours 49 min
    Feb-18 … 826.9 km (513.8 miles) = 57 hours 35 min
    Mar-18 … 582.01 km (361.6 miles) = 50 hours 11 min
    Apr-18 … 176.23 km (109.5 miles) = 29 hours 47 min
    May -18 … 167.6 km (104.1 miles) = 29 hours 08 min
    June-18 … 349.9 km (217.4 miles) = 36 hours 58 minutes
    July-18 ... 324.2 km (201.5 miles) = 24 hours 26 minutes

    Trying to do a bit more in August.


    Wednesday, 1 August 2018 ... 1.4 km walking + 4 flights of stairs
    Thursday, 2 August 2018 ... 2.2 km walking + 6 flights of stairs
    Friday, 3 August 2018 ... 0.8 km walking + 10.2 km cycling indoors with Zwift + only 2 flights of stairs
    Saturday, 4 August 2018 0.9 km walking + 2 km running + 18.27 km cycling indoors with Zwift


    2018 Monthly August
    Walking Distance (km): 7.3
    Walking Time (min): 91.3
    Cycling Distance (km): 28.5
    Cycling Time (min): 69.0
    Stairs Climbed Number: 12.0
    Stairs Climbed Time (min): 9.6


    Totals
    Total Distance (km): 35.8
    Total Distance (miles): 22.2
    Total Time (min): 169.9
    Total Time (hr): 2:49:51