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  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    My outward response to jealousy is to disengage

    I do this sometimes too
    My outward response to jealousy is to disengage

    i usually just give up immediately bc i dont have the heart/confidence of a competitor at all
    I think I have had the attitude that if I have to compete for it it’s not worth having and certainly in regard to people’s affections that’s probably true but I’m beginning to think there are some things that are worth striving and competing for.

    For me it depends on who it is and whether or not I believe that I have a right to feel that way about the situation.

    If I think that I don't, then it's disengage time, but if I think that I do, then I either try and push through it if I think it's irrational or I have to mention it to the person
    That is incredibly mature and rational. The last time I expressed jealousy over a person I was neither 😂. Thankfully it has been over 20 years since I have expressed anything like that




  • nonchalantxo
    nonchalantxo Posts: 630 Member
    I don't know when to shut up.
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    My outward response to jealousy is to disengage

    I do this sometimes too
    My outward response to jealousy is to disengage

    i usually just give up immediately bc i dont have the heart/confidence of a competitor at all
    I think I have had the attitude that if I have to compete for it it’s not worth having and certainly in regard to people’s affections that’s probably true but I’m beginning to think there are some things that are worth striving and competing for.

    For me it depends on who it is and whether or not I believe that I have a right to feel that way about the situation.

    If I think that I don't, then it's disengage time, but if I think that I do, then I either try and push through it if I think it's irrational or I have to mention it to the person
    That is incredibly mature and rational. The last time I expressed jealousy over a person I was neither 😂. Thankfully it has been over 20 years since I have expressed anything like that




    Oh I promise you that my follow through isn't always flawless 😂
    You’re just trying to make me feel better
  • nossmf
    nossmf Posts: 14,408 Member
    Reminds me of my childhood: early reader, articulate, disorganized, never had to do homework, barely had to study, then when *kitten* got hard lacked the discipline to do the work. I’ve spent years unlearning it.

    Ditto. High school valedictorian, perfect grades, no effort. First semester of college I treated class the same way, until I got that mid-term report card: 1.8 GPA, including failing my favorite class. Total wake up call. (Luckily this was mid-term...by end of term I'd pulled that 1.8 to 3.6 and never looked back.)
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    edited September 2022
    nossmf wrote: »
    Reminds me of my childhood: early reader, articulate, disorganized, never had to do homework, barely had to study, then when *kitten* got hard lacked the discipline to do the work. I’ve spent years unlearning it.

    Ditto. High school valedictorian, perfect grades, no effort. First semester of college I treated class the same way, until I got that mid-term report card: 1.8 GPA, including failing my favorite class. Total wake up call. (Luckily this was mid-term...by end of term I'd pulled that 1.8 to 3.6 and never looked back.)
    When I started college I was a severely depressed 17-year-old and I chose to sleep on park benches in 30° weather rather than go to class. Luckily I started getting my *kitten* together by moving out when I was 18, living in my own apartment, and earning my own money. Different paths but still good endings 😁
  • ermengarde22
    ermengarde22 Posts: 2,116 Member
    nossmf wrote: »
    Reminds me of my childhood: early reader, articulate, disorganized, never had to do homework, barely had to study, then when *kitten* got hard lacked the discipline to do the work. I’ve spent years unlearning it.

    Ditto. High school valedictorian, perfect grades, no effort. First semester of college I treated class the same way, until I got that mid-term report card: 1.8 GPA, including failing my favorite class. Total wake up call. (Luckily this was mid-term...by end of term I'd pulled that 1.8 to 3.6 and never looked back.)
    When I started college I was a severely depressed 17-year-old and I chose to sleep on park benches in 30° weather rather than go to class. Luckily I started getting my *kitten* together by moving out when I was 18, living in my own apartment, and earning my own money. Different paths but still good endings 😁

    i dropped out of high school but it all worked out

  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    nossmf wrote: »
    Reminds me of my childhood: early reader, articulate, disorganized, never had to do homework, barely had to study, then when *kitten* got hard lacked the discipline to do the work. I’ve spent years unlearning it.

    Ditto. High school valedictorian, perfect grades, no effort. First semester of college I treated class the same way, until I got that mid-term report card: 1.8 GPA, including failing my favorite class. Total wake up call. (Luckily this was mid-term...by end of term I'd pulled that 1.8 to 3.6 and never looked back.)
    When I started college I was a severely depressed 17-year-old and I chose to sleep on park benches in 30° weather rather than go to class. Luckily I started getting my *kitten* together by moving out when I was 18, living in my own apartment, and earning my own money. Different paths but still good endings 😁

    i dropped out of high school but it all worked out

    Life’s been good to us. Feels weird to say that but yeah

  • CoffeeNstilettos
    CoffeeNstilettos Posts: 2,593 Member
    edited September 2022
    If I see someone cry I automatically cry too, like I can feel their emotions.

    Sometimes I wish I could have surgery to remove my tear ducts
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    If I see someone cry I automatically cry too, like I can feel their emotions.

    Sometimes I wish I could have surgery to remove my tear ducts

    I think if you had them replaced with tiny flamethrowers, instead of being removed, that would be pretty *kitten* sweet

    You always think of the best body modifications
  • cowsfan12
    cowsfan12 Posts: 6,665 Member
    If I knew what I know no
    If I see someone cry I automatically cry too, like I can feel their emotions.

    Sometimes I wish I could have surgery to remove my tear ducts

    I think if you had them replaced with tiny flamethrowers, instead of being removed, that would be pretty *kitten* sweet

    but if she goes that route she’ll want to consider the eyebrows _ maybe permanent tattooed eyebrows or do they make a flame retardant eyebrow balm of sorts ?? In case she’d like to keep the natural look
  • CoffeeNstilettos
    CoffeeNstilettos Posts: 2,593 Member
    If I see someone cry I automatically cry too, like I can feel their emotions.

    Sometimes I wish I could have surgery to remove my tear ducts

    I think if you had them replaced with tiny flamethrowers, instead of being removed, that would be pretty *kitten* sweet


    Now that would be cool
  • _Dan1985
    _Dan1985 Posts: 310 Member
    edited September 2022
    Some times of the day, I think of myself as funny, cute, genuine, accomplished, stylish, self-aware, loyal, smart and happy.

    Other times of the day, I see myself as cold, weird, insecure, old, fat, damaged, immature, superficial, dumb, mean, creepy and a failure


    But I am working on it and getting better every day :)

    FWIW, I don't know you, but from what I've seen of your posts, you're comfortably the funniest person on MFP. Never change that.
  • happimess01
    happimess01 Posts: 9,073 Member
    _Dan1985 wrote: »
    Some times of the day, I think of myself as funny, cute, genuine, accomplished, stylish, self-aware, loyal, smart and happy.

    Other times of the day, I see myself as cold, weird, insecure, old, fat, damaged, immature, superficial, dumb, mean, creepy and a failure


    But I am working on it and getting better every day :)

    FWIW, I don't know you, but from what I've seen of your posts, you're comfortably the funniest person on MFP. Never change that.

    What a nice compliment, thank you. I’ll try :)
  • honey_honey_12
    honey_honey_12 Posts: 16,272 Member
    I no longer give a rat’s *** about football.
  • cowsfan12
    cowsfan12 Posts: 6,665 Member
    I no longer give a rat’s *** about football.

    Not a good day for the boomers
  • cowsfan12
    cowsfan12 Posts: 6,665 Member
    I think sometimes online, people forget how old I am and what that means.
    I’m 61, was a teenager in the 1970s.
    I packed a lot of party in those years, all my friends did.
    I’m so glad I had so much fun and was lucky enough to get through it without any serious problems.
    I’ve been around the block a few times. 🤣 js

    Ha - I woulda been the kid sneaking beers from your parties lol - what I did with my parents and aunts and uncles - but by the time I was 13 my uncles just gave me the beers 🍻

  • honey_honey_12
    honey_honey_12 Posts: 16,272 Member
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    I think sometimes online, people forget how old I am and what that means.
    I’m 61, was a teenager in the 1970s.
    I packed a lot of party in those years, all my friends did.
    I’m so glad I had so much fun and was lucky enough to get through it without any serious problems.
    I’ve been around the block a few times. 🤣 js

    Ha - I woulda been the kid sneaking beers from your parties lol - what I did with my parents and aunts and uncles - but by the time I was 13 my uncles just gave me the beers 🍻

    When I was little my dad would have me sneak him a beer (Schlitz) when my mom wasn’t looking.
    He always gave me the first sip. 😂
    I love the taste of beer.

  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    I used to believe that whenever possible everyone should own a navy suit (for interviews, etc) and a black suit (for funerals). I haven’t had a suit that fits me properly since my oldest was born almost 18 years ago and I’m not in a hurry to do anything about that.
  • cowsfan12
    cowsfan12 Posts: 6,665 Member
    I used to believe that whenever possible everyone should own a navy suit (for interviews, etc) and a black suit (for funerals). I haven’t had a suit that fits me properly since my oldest was born almost 18 years ago and I’m not in a hurry to do anything about that.

    I’ve never owned a suit as an adult 🤷‍♂️
  • ermengarde22
    ermengarde22 Posts: 2,116 Member
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    I used to believe that whenever possible everyone should own a navy suit (for interviews, etc) and a black suit (for funerals). I haven’t had a suit that fits me properly since my oldest was born almost 18 years ago and I’m not in a hurry to do anything about that.

    I’ve never owned a suit as an adult 🤷‍♂️

    i’ve never owned a suit ever
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    I used to believe that whenever possible everyone should own a navy suit (for interviews, etc) and a black suit (for funerals). I haven’t had a suit that fits me properly since my oldest was born almost 18 years ago and I’m not in a hurry to do anything about that.

    I’ve never owned a suit as an adult 🤷‍♂️
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    I used to believe that whenever possible everyone should own a navy suit (for interviews, etc) and a black suit (for funerals). I haven’t had a suit that fits me properly since my oldest was born almost 18 years ago and I’m not in a hurry to do anything about that.

    I’ve never owned a suit as an adult 🤷‍♂️

    i’ve never owned a suit ever
    You are both way more advanced than I am.

  • cowsfan12
    cowsfan12 Posts: 6,665 Member
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    I used to believe that whenever possible everyone should own a navy suit (for interviews, etc) and a black suit (for funerals). I haven’t had a suit that fits me properly since my oldest was born almost 18 years ago and I’m not in a hurry to do anything about that.

    I’ve never owned a suit as an adult 🤷‍♂️
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    I used to believe that whenever possible everyone should own a navy suit (for interviews, etc) and a black suit (for funerals). I haven’t had a suit that fits me properly since my oldest was born almost 18 years ago and I’m not in a hurry to do anything about that.

    I’ve never owned a suit as an adult 🤷‍♂️

    i’ve never owned a suit ever
    You are both way more advanced than I am.

    It’s on my bucket list - one day I’ll get one of those tailored joints - I’ll take your advice on the colors perhaps and get 2

  • ermengarde22
    ermengarde22 Posts: 2,116 Member
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    I used to believe that whenever possible everyone should own a navy suit (for interviews, etc) and a black suit (for funerals). I haven’t had a suit that fits me properly since my oldest was born almost 18 years ago and I’m not in a hurry to do anything about that.

    I’ve never owned a suit as an adult 🤷‍♂️
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    I used to believe that whenever possible everyone should own a navy suit (for interviews, etc) and a black suit (for funerals). I haven’t had a suit that fits me properly since my oldest was born almost 18 years ago and I’m not in a hurry to do anything about that.

    I’ve never owned a suit as an adult 🤷‍♂️

    i’ve never owned a suit ever
    You are both way more advanced than I am.

    It’s on my bucket list - one day I’ll get one of those tailored joints - I’ll take your advice on the colors perhaps and get 2

    not me, suits are for establishment types
  • tigrig
    tigrig Posts: 665 Member
    edited October 2022
    I'm honestly a big nerd. I like to read books, travel, be outdoors and use my kids as an excuse to still watch cartoons and read an occasional comic
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    I used to believe that whenever possible everyone should own a navy suit (for interviews, etc) and a black suit (for funerals). I haven’t had a suit that fits me properly since my oldest was born almost 18 years ago and I’m not in a hurry to do anything about that.

    I’ve never owned a suit as an adult 🤷‍♂️
    cowsfan12 wrote: »
    I used to believe that whenever possible everyone should own a navy suit (for interviews, etc) and a black suit (for funerals). I haven’t had a suit that fits me properly since my oldest was born almost 18 years ago and I’m not in a hurry to do anything about that.

    I’ve never owned a suit as an adult 🤷‍♂️

    i’ve never owned a suit ever
    You are both way more advanced than I am.

    It’s on my bucket list - one day I’ll get one of those tailored joints - I’ll take your advice on the colors perhaps and get 2

    not me, suits are for establishment types

    It’s just not a necessity. If you like em, fine. If not, fine.