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  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    The first novel I read that wasn’t for school but for my own enjoyment was “Rebecca”
    by Daphne du Maurier.
    I was 12 in 6th grade.

    No wonder I grew up with a ridiculously romantic idea of masculinity and love. 🙄

    I loved that book. I had no idea what it was about when I began reading it. I didn’t know what a Gothic novel was or anything so the whole thing took me by surprise
  • nossmf
    nossmf Posts: 14,652 Member
    When I was very young, I never spoke at first, not even just trying out words. My mother worried I was developmentally delayed, until one day I spoke an entire sentence (three words, but still). Guess I just didn't want to speak until I had something to say.
  • honey_honey_12
    honey_honey_12 Posts: 16,479 Member
    When I was in grade school (except grade 1,2 in Spain, Greece)we lived on a small creek.
    I spent almost all my outdoor fun down in the creek.
    My friends and I would dam it up to make a pool.
    We’d catch crawdads, see who could find the biggest one.
    Built forts, so many forts!
    That was so much fun.
    Later on when I was older, that’s where I’d sneak a cigarette.
    After it was paved, I drove my car down into it, drove for miles. 🤯
    I’m so thankful that creek was there.
    😂
    I was crazy
  • Revolu7
    Revolu7 Posts: 1,043 Member
    I have very little in common with those i associate with now.....i have nothing in common with those I associated with in my past. And i dont think this is a bad thing
  • honey_honey_12
    honey_honey_12 Posts: 16,479 Member
    This will probably sound petty but for me, after almost 40yrs I found it very empowering.
    My ex husband raised his voice and started talking to me in way I didn’t like. (Phone call)
    I raised my voice and shut him down instantly. 😡🤐
    I’m pretty sure he was considering the different outcomes if he just continued and realized I now have the upper hand in our relationship and I will not take his B.S.

    When we were married, we’d have butted heads and fought.
  • nossmf
    nossmf Posts: 14,652 Member
    My best friend is a guy I barely knew in high school, while all my old high school buddies have been left in my past, haven't contacted any of them in 20+ years.
  • Revolu7
    Revolu7 Posts: 1,043 Member
    I have 2 dishwashers in my kitchen. I thought when i built the kitchen it may be cool and convenient.....but it has been totally unnecessary and kind of foolish thing to do. But, should i ever see myself having large social gatherings ill be ready for lots of dirty dishes. ......
  • crazyhorse8
    crazyhorse8 Posts: 894 Member
    Revolu7 wrote: »
    I have 2 dishwashers in my kitchen. I thought when i built the kitchen it may be cool and convenient.....but it has been totally unnecessary and kind of foolish thing to do. But, should i ever see myself having large social gatherings ill be ready for lots of dirty dishes. ......

    I am envious you have two! Thanksgiving and Christmas meal making inevitably make more than one dishwasher full of dishes! I hate doing them by hand anymore.
  • honey_honey_12
    honey_honey_12 Posts: 16,479 Member
    If I was married and my husband had a MFP account with a bunch of ladies as friends and they all flirted back and forth, he would need to rethink how much he wanted to be married to me.
    If I’m not enough then we shouldn’t be married.

    If I was married, I would not visit the community forums or flirt with the handsome men on the sight.

    I don’t mean to sound like I have a stick up my *kitten* but that’s the way I feel.
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    Revolu7 wrote: »
    I have 2 dishwashers in my kitchen. I thought when i built the kitchen it may be cool and convenient.....but it has been totally unnecessary and kind of foolish thing to do. But, should i ever see myself having large social gatherings ill be ready for lots of dirty dishes. ......

    This is great.. especially when we have the big mfp get together at your place 😃
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    edited March 2023
    If I was married and my husband had a MFP account with a bunch of ladies as friends and they all flirted back and forth, he would need to rethink how much he wanted to be married to me.
    If I’m not enough then we shouldn’t be married.

    If I was married, I would not visit the community forums or flirt with the handsome men on the sight.

    I don’t mean to sound like I have a stick up my *kitten* but that’s the way I feel.
    Would it be hard for you to give up the interaction? I feel like it might be difficult for some people.

    eta: it’s me. I’m some people
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    I’m so old I learned to type on a manual typewriter and I learned double entry bookkeeping by hand in a workbook
  • glassyo
    glassyo Posts: 7,891 Member
    I’m so old I learned to type on a manual typewriter and I learned double entry bookkeeping by hand in a workbook

    Selectrics rocked my world in high school :)
  • honey_honey_12
    honey_honey_12 Posts: 16,479 Member
    If I was married and my husband had a MFP account with a bunch of ladies as friends and they all flirted back and forth, he would need to rethink how much he wanted to be married to me.
    If I’m not enough then we shouldn’t be married.

    If I was married, I would not visit the community forums or flirt with the handsome men on the sight.

    I don’t mean to sound like I have a stick up my *kitten* but that’s the way I feel.
    Would it be hard for you to give up the interaction? I feel like it might be difficult for some people.

    eta: it’s me. I’m some people

    You mean if I remarried?
    Yes, it would be hard to quit.
    Since the ex and I separated 11yrs ago, MFP has been my social life.
    I would feel compelled to quit though.



  • honey_honey_12
    honey_honey_12 Posts: 16,479 Member
    No way on god’s green earth i would remarry.
    😖
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    If I was married and my husband had a MFP account with a bunch of ladies as friends and they all flirted back and forth, he would need to rethink how much he wanted to be married to me.
    If I’m not enough then we shouldn’t be married.

    If I was married, I would not visit the community forums or flirt with the handsome men on the sight.

    I don’t mean to sound like I have a stick up my *kitten* but that’s the way I feel.
    Would it be hard for you to give up the interaction? I feel like it might be difficult for some people.

    eta: it’s me. I’m some people

    You mean if I remarried?
    Yes, it would be hard to quit.
    Since the ex and I separated 11yrs ago, MFP has been my social life.
    I would feel compelled to quit though.


    No way on god’s green earth i would remarry.

    😖
    Thank you for the complete answer and the hilarious follow up 😂

  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    glassyo wrote: »
    I’m so old I learned to type on a manual typewriter and I learned double entry bookkeeping by hand in a workbook

    Selectrics rocked my world in high school :)

    I still double space after a period.
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    Sometimes I do self sabotaging things when other people piss me off. I’m only recently becoming consciously aware of this so hopefully it will be less of a problem in the future
  • honey_honey_12
    honey_honey_12 Posts: 16,479 Member
    nossmf wrote: »
    My family has been in the military every generation since at least the Civil War (we think earlier than that), and my son is now in Army basic training to keep the tradition alive.

    This is amazing! 🥰
    Thank you to your family of brave, patriotic soldiers!
  • honey_honey_12
    honey_honey_12 Posts: 16,479 Member
    I’m so old I learned to type on a manual typewriter and I learned double entry bookkeeping by hand in a workbook

    I still have ours. 😊
    (I noticed there is no typewriter emoji 😂)
  • TwitchyMagee
    TwitchyMagee Posts: 4,579 Member
    I’m so old I learned to type on a manual typewriter and I learned double entry bookkeeping by hand in a workbook

    I still have ours. 😊
    (I noticed there is no typewriter emoji 😂)
    If you squint the fax machine looks a little like a typewriter
  • duichaser
    duichaser Posts: 174 Member
    Apparently I need competition and peer pressure to stay motivated when it comes to working out and staying on track.
  • Alinouveau2
    Alinouveau2 Posts: 6,716 Member
    I've learned I kinda like cleaning my house. It takes far too long but I kind of enjoy the satisfaction of seeing it to from blah to sparkling. When I start working I'll hire a housekeeper but I hate how they always miss stuff you notice isn't super clean so maybe I should just keep doing it myself
  • honey_honey_12
    honey_honey_12 Posts: 16,479 Member
    I am a not a fan, at all, of all the Hallmark holidays.
    Why not treat everyone nice every day then we wouldn’t feel obliged to buy gifts for those we’ve taken for granted.
  • honey_honey_12
    honey_honey_12 Posts: 16,479 Member
    Although I don’t consider myself a pessimist, I have learned not to count my chickens before they hatch.
    Doing so just leads to heartache and trouble.
  • ___Soundwave___
    ___Soundwave___ Posts: 1,190 Member
    After a sudden death in the family a while ago I feel a nagging worry about how death sneaks up on you.. you don't know where you don't know when. One minute you are here the next not.. I think about when will my time be. 😔

    I used to think about this a great deal. Also, after a sudden death in the family.

    I've eventually come to think that it's OK. I have a suspicion that we'll all eventually become conscious again as someone else...but the end of a personal story is still bittersweet. Hopefully, like the end of a good book.