What does a woman mean when she says "your so sweet"?

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  • CarmenSRT
    CarmenSRT Posts: 843 Member
    Depends on the woman and the situation. I use it when someone does something nice and unexpected for me.
  • MyChocolateDiet
    MyChocolateDiet Posts: 22,281 Member
    I always asked myself what's the real meaning of "your so sweet"


    Can anybody shed some light please

    Whenever you always asked yourself this...did sex follow? Yes or no? Therein lies your answer.
  • crandos
    crandos Posts: 377 Member
    she wants you. bad. stalk her relentlessly until she gives in. she's playing hard to get.

    Yea pretty much this man
  • SoViLicious
    SoViLicious Posts: 2,633 Member
    You're sweet
  • Candi_land
    Candi_land Posts: 1,311 Member
    You're so sweet=would not bang.
  • debbash68
    debbash68 Posts: 981 Member
    Bad times.....
  • SwitzEngine
    SwitzEngine Posts: 3,418 Member
    I always asked myself what's the real meaning of "your so sweet"


    Can anybody shed some light please

    Whenever you always asked yourself this...did sex follow? Yes or no? Therein lies your answer.

    nope
  • TheRainQueen
    TheRainQueen Posts: 43 Member
    Really does depend, but most of the time, you just got friend-zoned andshe doesnt wanna hurt your feelings by saying she isnt interested.

    That's my understanding too :sad:

    Not always.. I say it when you are really sweet. No other meaning is there. By the way you seem so sweet.:bigsmile:

    I completely agree. I say what I mean and it is always a compliment because it means the person is sweet and has probably flattered me. Honest and direct communication is difficult for a lot of people. I think if it's an non-genuine "oh but you are a nice person" and they literally say words like nice, polite, friendly, sweet and there are no other characteristics then yeah, i guess that could be friend zone.
  • VixenArgentum
    VixenArgentum Posts: 91 Member
    If I say that to somebody, it's because they're obviously trying to do something to gain my favor, and I don't know what to say that isn't insulting, when after all, they did do something nice.

    I say it when I want the person to go away, too, since it's a great conversation ender. I mean, there's nothing else to be said!

    I'm not very sociable in person, so this gets used a lot.
  • Luckee_me
    Luckee_me Posts: 1,425 Member
    unless you are currently hitting it, it means you probably never will.

    This.
  • pcastagner
    pcastagner Posts: 1,606 Member
    Either means you are not getting any, OR it means you volunteered to sleep in the wet spot.
  • Alatariel75
    Alatariel75 Posts: 18,349 Member
    friend-zone-o.gif
  • britttttx3
    britttttx3 Posts: 458
    Perhaps if you're saying really nice things, she is just saying you're really nice
  • labeachgirl
    labeachgirl Posts: 158 Member
    It depends... I've recently said it to a guy I'm interested in, he did something really thoughtful for me and it surprised me.
  • Mr_Excitement
    Mr_Excitement Posts: 833 Member
    Hmm. What has it meant in the past?

    I'm guessing it's a sign on the highway to Friendship Town. Is that about right?
  • bmskid
    bmskid Posts: 153 Member
    Boo I hate this kind of thing.

    I live in the south, where they say "Bless Your Heart" all the time. It can EITHER mean, "I wish you well" or it can mean, "Rot In Hell"...

    You're sweet, for normal people who can own up to their feelings, SHOULD mean, "I appreciate the nice thing you just did/said."

    But I'm assuming these other people are correct, and that it's a bad deal there. Might never know.
  • BonnieandClyde29
    BonnieandClyde29 Posts: 1,026 Member
    It means she is considering if she likes you or not. Your so sweet can either mean she is friend zoning you ooor she is considering whether or not she would want to take that further than just friends.

    I said that to my husband before we started dating because he was very sweet, but i didn't know if i wanted to date him or not because he wasn't really my type, aaand well now were married! Just depends on if she wants to take a chance or not
  • Nessalee77
    Nessalee77 Posts: 78 Member
    Nope, now that I'm older, sweet is what I look for in a man. To me it means they're kind and in touch with their feelings, and just generally nice, genuine guys.

    I had to be careful with the last guy I dated, because I wanted to call him sweet all the time, and I thought it would come off a bit condecending. He was also hot, so I made an effort to call him sexy instead :)
  • xxghost
    xxghost Posts: 4,697 Member
    She thinks you're sweet.

    I say that to my boyfriend when he does something nice for me. I mean it in a romantic way.
    I also say it to good guy friends when they compliment me. Its friendly.

    So it can go both ways.
  • anemoneprose
    anemoneprose Posts: 1,805 Member
    Nope, now that I'm older, sweet is what I look for in a man. To me it means they're kind and in touch with their feelings, and just generally nice, genuine guys.

    I had to be careful with the last guy I dated, because I wanted to call him sweet all the time, and I thought it would come off a bit condecending. He was also hot, so I made an effort to call him sexy instead :)

    agree w this; if women = younger, prob a diss. if older & battle-worn, maybe it's a plus.
  • horsewhisper91
    horsewhisper91 Posts: 456 Member
    It can also depend on the tone that is used with saying this.
    But generally when I say it, it means you are kind or thoughtful.
  • Nessalee77
    Nessalee77 Posts: 78 Member
    Nope, now that I'm older, sweet is what I look for in a man. To me it means they're kind and in touch with their feelings, and just generally nice, genuine guys.

    I had to be careful with the last guy I dated, because I wanted to call him sweet all the time, and I thought it would come off a bit condecending. He was also hot, so I made an effort to call him sexy instead :)

    agree w this; if women = younger, prob a diss. if older & battle-worn, maybe it's a plus.

    Older and Battle-worn - at first I read that and was like "Hey! I'm not battle worn!" But then I thought about it and yeah... I kinda am :)
  • MyChocolateDiet
    MyChocolateDiet Posts: 22,281 Member
    it depends on if she just licked you or not?
  • basillowe66
    basillowe66 Posts: 432 Member
    You are alwayus going to be at most a friend
  • Heather_Rider
    Heather_Rider Posts: 1,159 Member
    idk.. ive used it in the flirting sense.. when i was too shy to just come out & say "lets frick already!!" but.. im kind of shy.. lol

    Is she batting her eyes when shes saying it? Or keeping her distance? Is she touching your arm? Laughing at your jokes? Or giving you short answers?
  • Sparkle_Princess
    Sparkle_Princess Posts: 926
    It means she is considering if she likes you or not. Your so sweet can either mean she is friend zoning you or she is considering whether or not she would want to take that further than just friends.

    Just depends on if she wants to take a chance or not
    You're sweet, for normal people who can own up to their feelings, SHOULD mean, "I appreciate the nice thing you just did/said."

    This is how I see it and how I respond 95% of the time. 5% I'm friendzoning that person.
  • shadow2soul
    shadow2soul Posts: 7,692 Member
    I'm going to say that it really depends on the person.

    I can't think of a single time that I've used that phrase and meant anything other than the person was nice/thoughtful/etc. I said it numerous times to my husband back when we were just dating (usually because of some thoughtful thing he did). I still say it when he has done/said something nice/thoughtful. I use it as a compliment.

    I
  • Velum_cado
    Velum_cado Posts: 1,608 Member
    Just ask her: "My so sweet what?"
  • MinMin97
    MinMin97 Posts: 2,674 Member
    You're nice but not her type.She's not interested.
    ^^^^^
    It kinda sounds like she means this.

    If a woman says of a man, "He's cute!" now THAT is likely a very good sign.
  • NarneyK
    NarneyK Posts: 264 Member
    I think it all depends on the situation/conversation/person etc. What was the context? Did you go out of your way to help her in some way or did you pay her a compliment? If it was offering help, then she probably just means you are a nice person in general. If you offered her a compliment, then it will depend on her and how she interacts with people. Like others said, she might just be a shy type and doesn't really know how to react to compliments or she wants to get you to bugger off without hurting your feelings.

    The next time she says this, ask her if she wants a taste. Best & easiest way to clear this up. :bigsmile:

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