What does a woman mean when she says "your so sweet"?

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  • pastryari
    pastryari Posts: 8,646 Member
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    If I say you're so sweet, it's cause I think you're sweet... :huh:
  • RN514
    RN514 Posts: 1,107 Member
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    If I say you're so sweet, it's cause I think you're sweet... :huh:

    Yep, This.
  • kit_katty
    kit_katty Posts: 994 Member
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    I'm going to say that it really depends on the person.

    I can't think of a single time that I've used that phrase and meant anything other than the person was nice/thoughtful/etc. I said it numerous times to my husband back when we were just dating (usually because of some thoughtful thing he did). I still say it when he has done/said something nice/thoughtful. I use it as a compliment.

    Same! Thank you!
  • AlongCame_Molly
    AlongCame_Molly Posts: 2,835 Member
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    i wish women wouldn't use code words/phrases

    I think context does matter. I might respond with a "you're so sweet" to a guy I was interested in, if, well, ya know, he was actually being sweet.


    Best thing to do: avoid "code words/phrases" yourself. Be direct. Say "I think you're extremely pretty, and I'd love to take you out for drinks/dinner. Are you free next Friday?" If she says no, shrug it off and move on. If yes, then high five.
  • pastryari
    pastryari Posts: 8,646 Member
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    i wish women wouldn't use code words/phrases

    I wish people wouldn't assume that the entire gender does the exact same things.
  • TyTy76
    TyTy76 Posts: 1,761 Member
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    I had a girl tell me I was sweet last night.

    I had sex with her shortly after that.


    *shrugs*
  • Miss_Meliss86
    Miss_Meliss86 Posts: 372 Member
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    i wish women wouldn't use code words/phrases

    I wish people wouldn't assume that the entire gender does the exact same things.

    ^Thank you!!

    I tell my boyfriend he's sweet quite often. I did it before we started dating and I still do it. Some people aren't direct with what they mean, others are. This is the case for BOTH men and women. If you aren't sure, just ask that person directly.
  • Miss_Meliss86
    Miss_Meliss86 Posts: 372 Member
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    I had a girl tell me I was sweet last night.

    I had sex with her shortly after that.


    *shrugs*

    Not once, but twice!! :drinker:
  • Miss_Meliss86
    Miss_Meliss86 Posts: 372 Member
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    i wish women wouldn't use code words/phrases

    I wish people wouldn't assume that the entire gender does the exact same things.
    it's more of a female thing

    Please tell me where this comes from. Enlighten us on how your generalizations toward a specific gender hold true.

    It's s**t like this that just makes the stereotypes persist. :grumble:
  • MyChocolateDiet
    MyChocolateDiet Posts: 22,281 Member
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    You drink a lot of pineapple juice:wink:
    :laugh:
  • suziepoo1984
    suziepoo1984 Posts: 915 Member
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    It means just that - you're sweet. You're a nice person, and what you said was a nice thing to say, even if she may not believe it. It's a good thing.

    ^^This..atleast thats what i mean when i tell someone that..but then i never give away fake compliments :tongue:
  • Juliejustsaying
    Juliejustsaying Posts: 2,332 Member
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    it means she wants to lick the wrapper....

    well thats what I mean..

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  • RivenV
    RivenV Posts: 1,667 Member
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  • amandzor
    amandzor Posts: 386 Member
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    It means she won't have sex with you. Ever.

    Never ever.
  • Jersey_Devil
    Jersey_Devil Posts: 4,142 Member
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    It means she won't have sex with you. Ever.

    Never ever.

    but she'll have sex with your best bud!
  • Tony_Brewski
    Tony_Brewski Posts: 1,376 Member
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    You're
  • RJ0524583
    RJ0524583 Posts: 30
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    Has anyone mentioned the use of the word 'sweet' to describe something awesome?

    Maybe a girl (or guy) would say someone's sweet after they jump 10 cars on a motorcycle. That ****'s pretty sweet, yo.
  • fitplease
    fitplease Posts: 647 Member
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    Usually, she means you are sweet, aka kind, aka nice.

    What do guys mean when they say that? :smile:

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