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What does a woman mean when she says "your so sweet"?

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  • Posts: 657 Member
    girls are hard work. lol
    I'm a girl and I don't understand half my logic.


    lol
  • Posts: 6,998 Member
    You're coated in sugar.
  • Posts: 3,418 Member
    girls are hard work. lol
    I'm a girl and I don't understand half my logic.

    How should we understand girls when even girls don't understand their own logic
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  • Posts: 319 Member

    How should we understand girls when even girls don't understand their own logic

    beats me!
    I'd like to think we make up for it though.. lol
  • Posts: 1,301 Member
    Wait, My wife says I'm sweet all the time, in those exact words "you're so sweet" so what does that mean?

    Rigger
  • Posts: 1,937 Member
    She's means it's never gonna work out, lol! We should just be friends!
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  • Posts: 319 Member
    dude you're married so you're not friendzoned

    agreed! also.. you have to ask is she saying that after you do something she doesn't like? is it sarcastic? now.. is she saying this after you do something nice for her? then it could be code for "lets have sex" ..
  • Posts: 18 Member
    Wait, My wife says I'm sweet all the time, in those exact words "you're so sweet" so what does that mean?

    Rigger

    It means I think you're sweet! Because you are...Love you babe :love:
  • Posts: 587 Member
    Really does depend, but most of the time, you just got friend-zoned andshe doesnt wanna hurt your feelings by saying she isnt interested.

    See when I say it it means, you're an awesome dude and I'm totally into it.
  • Posts: 42 Member
    Depends on girl to girl. I use it as a compliment. Wether I was interested or not, if you were a nice guy I would tell you so. Lol, I'm pretty sure I said that to my husband many times before we started dating (: Us girls are all confusing, we can't even figure each other out so good luck to the guys who try lol. Thats why we are always fighting.
  • Posts: 385 Member
    OH NOOOOO....I've recently gotten back in touch with a guy from my past and he really is a sweetheart! I didn't realize I was "friend zoning" him by calling him sweet?? I meant it as a compliment.

    How to back-pedal out of this one???
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  • Posts: 3,832 Member
    I just told hubby that today -- but he was cleaning the bathrooms so he deserved that and the kiss that accompanied it.
  • Posts: 688 Member
    It means just that - you're sweet. You're a nice person, and what you said was a nice thing to say, even if she may not believe it. It's a good thing.

    ^ exactly

    It just means that she finds you sweet, you must understand the meaning by the context I suppose.
    If you're complimenting her and she appears anxious, or reluctant, she might not be feeling the same, or she might just be uncomfortable in receiving compliments and doesn't feel like returning them.
    If she doesn't know you so much she might want to be nice to you, but without exaggerating...
    It really depends on what you're telling her and how she acts in return.

    By the way I've never really told that to a simple friend and I've never answered a compliment calling someone sweet (except women) because I feel like it's ambiguos myself, even if I'm the one saying it. I never tell "you're sweet" to my best friends because the relationship is much funnier and I only say that to my loved one because I know he's the only one who can really understand.

    Sometimes women use it to push someone else away but it still takes some guts to call someone sweet, so it might be a good thing.
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