What does a woman mean when she says "your so sweet"?

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  • ravensfitnessjourney
    ravensfitnessjourney Posts: 247 Member

    It means she won't have sex with you. Ever.

    Never ever.

    Not true! I tell my boyfriend he is sweet all of the time and I even said that before we were dating and I was definitely interested. I guess it depends on the context of the situation. For instance, if you're complimenting her and the only thing she EVER says back is "you're so sweet" then it's likely she is not interested in you because there is no reciprocation. But if you're giving her more of a one-sided compliment - like you told her she did a great job on an exam or had a great run... etc - then it is perfectly acceptable for her to say you're sweet. She genuinely thought it was a nice compliment. That's my logic.. none of us can say with certainty though, everyone is different.
  • TallGlassOfQuirky
    TallGlassOfQuirky Posts: 282 Member
    When I tell my boyfriend "You're so sweet," I say it because he has said or done something incredibly sweet.

    I have told men that before for the same reason, but also in the hopes of friend-zoning them. It's the nice way of doing it.
  • MercuryBlue
    MercuryBlue Posts: 886 Member
    Depends. Maybe you're sweet. Or maybe she is saying that because she's not interested in you romantically and wants to politely let you know that you're a friend and not someone she wants to date.


    I can't remember ever telling a guy I was interested in that he was "so sweet"- only the ones I knew liked me, that I didn't want to be romantically involved with. If I liked a guy, I'd find other, more direct ways of complimenting him. Heck, even now, I don't ever call my husband "sweet". Kids and little old ladies, maybe, but not him. If he does something nice for me, I just thank him and give him a smooch.
  • Barbellgirl
    Barbellgirl Posts: 544 Member
    I think it really depends on the lady. I may tell a guy that when he did something for me or said something nice. It really depends on the on context too. Did she say "you're so sweet, but....?" If so, she's trying to let you down easy.
  • IronmanPanda
    IronmanPanda Posts: 2,083 Member
    It means you're not getting any.
  • CharlotteTheCoffeeLover
    CharlotteTheCoffeeLover Posts: 1,205 Member
    You're so sweet.... Probably means your a nice guy ... But i agree with Lenora....depends on girl saying it
  • missbp
    missbp Posts: 601 Member
    When I tell someone "you're so sweet", I am generally saying, You are a sweet person. It is meant as a complimentary comment. In my case it is not a blow off. Being sweet is a good thing. I think.

    MB
  • MyaPapaya75
    MyaPapaya75 Posts: 3,143 Member
    I say it when I can't think of any other way to respond to a compliment. Still rather new at learning to accept them. So it doesn't automatically mean friend zone.
    This.....
  • BattleTaxi
    BattleTaxi Posts: 752 Member
    I always asked myself what's the real meaning of "your so sweet"


    Can anybody shed some light please

    It means she won't have sex with you. Ever.

    LOLOLOL!!!
  • Ldbg289
    Ldbg289 Posts: 236 Member
    For me it could either be a response to a compliment or I am trying to let them down easy.
  • TheLuSir
    TheLuSir Posts: 1,674 Member
    Friend zone.
  • beautifulwarrior18
    beautifulwarrior18 Posts: 914 Member
    I always asked myself what's the real meaning of "your so sweet"


    Can anybody shed some light please

    Well the real meaning is you're so sweet...jokes :)

    She probably means that she thinks you're sweet or she probably wouldn't say it.
  • BeccaBollons
    BeccaBollons Posts: 652 Member
    So am I the only one thinking of "dumb and dumber"?

    "Dude, what does mine say?"
    "Sweet. What does mine say"
    "DUDE..." Etc
  • IronmanPanda
    IronmanPanda Posts: 2,083 Member
    So am I the only one thinking of "dumb and dumber"?

    "Dude, what does mine say?"
    "Sweet. What does mine say"
    "DUDE..." Etc

    Isn't that, "Dude, where's my car?"
  • MORECHABLIS
    MORECHABLIS Posts: 164 Member
    You're so sweet means.... The Man isn't getting to be getting 'any' at the end of the date... :happy:
  • SwitzEngine
    SwitzEngine Posts: 3,418 Member
    So am I the only one thinking of "dumb and dumber"?

    "Dude, what does mine say?"
    "Sweet. What does mine say"
    "DUDE..." Etc

    lol
  • TavistockToad
    TavistockToad Posts: 35,719 Member
    I always asked myself what's the real meaning of "your so sweet"


    Can anybody shed some light please

    Nice but don't want to bang....
  • blah2989
    blah2989 Posts: 338 Member
    I agree, "youre so sweet" is usually you are nice, but not my type = friends. But saying That is so sweet, and following it up with I wish my bf would be like that or that is so sweet and brushing your hand, = interested. :D
  • BrendaLee
    BrendaLee Posts: 4,463 Member
    Some girls just like telling you you're sweet...if you're being sweet. Not everything has hidden meaning.
  • IronmanPanda
    IronmanPanda Posts: 2,083 Member
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  • Stump_Likker
    Stump_Likker Posts: 2,059 Member
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    too funny
  • MrsFowler1069
    MrsFowler1069 Posts: 657 Member
    Nope, now that I'm older, sweet is what I look for in a man. To me it means they're kind and in touch with their feelings, and just generally nice, genuine guys.

    I had to be careful with the last guy I dated, because I wanted to call him sweet all the time, and I thought it would come off a bit condecending. He was also hot, so I made an effort to call him sexy instead :)

    agree w this; if women = younger, prob a diss. if older & battle-worn, maybe it's a plus.

    Older and Battle-worn - at first I read that and was like "Hey! I'm not battle worn!" But then I thought about it and yeah... I kinda am :)


    Lol Yeah, I had the same reaction. It happens, no? :)
  • Fit_NYC_
    Fit_NYC_ Posts: 1,389 Member
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    hahahaha... that is exactly what it means...
  • MrsFowler1069
    MrsFowler1069 Posts: 657 Member
    You should stop reading so much into it and just get to know her better...maybe. Not all women are the same. Good luck. :)


    I agree completely. Stop guessing and get to know her. Either way, "You're so sweet" is way better than, "You're a jerk."
  • hookilau
    hookilau Posts: 3,134 Member
    I always asked myself what's the real meaning of "your so sweet"


    Can anybody shed some light please

    In what context please?
  • Myhaloslipped
    Myhaloslipped Posts: 4,317 Member
    Sometimes a girl says that because she means that she doesn't want the guy to take it personally, but she just doesn't feel any chemistry with him. Chemistry just isn't something you can control. It's a really hard thing to say to a nice guy.
  • Myhaloslipped
    Myhaloslipped Posts: 4,317 Member
    It does depend on the context though. For example, I say that to my boyfriend alot, but obviously I'm interested in him because I'm his girlfriend. lol.
  • VpinkLotus
    VpinkLotus Posts: 849 Member
    I tink it may be intimidating for a girl to just come out and say she digs you, "you're sweet" is a safe, general way to tell you she thinks your awesome without putting too much out there. It's widely used Girl code for "You're so sweet that I want to make out with you right now."
  • MrsFowler1069
    MrsFowler1069 Posts: 657 Member
    i wish women wouldn't use code words/phrases


    Well, I think this can be said of many people of both genders. However, I personally have said this to my husband many times...and heck, I married the guy....
  • Dreaaa
    Dreaaa Posts: 319 Member
    girls are hard work. lol
    I'm a girl and I don't understand half my logic.

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