WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR DECEMBER 2018
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morning ladies~
I slept for a long time , I needed it...working 10-5 today and then off for 4 days into the new year.. and then we open up under new ownership..I pray that 2019 is alot better than 20183 -
Good Morning! Nothing like dealing with computers this early in the morning. I set up my new laptop last night, then my DH reminded me that his wasn't working with fitbit. I have now spent my hot tub time getting his all fixed up. He can do a few things on it, but limited sight makes it harder (and stubbornness). Trust me when I say he can find things on ebay, amazon, and the ford store just fine. He is getting better, but somethings are beyond his understanding at this point. He still has a flip phone and refuses to go to a new style that might have features to assist him. Why does he need them he says, he has me.
I will catch up on reading one of these days. As I said life has been crazy since September. I have to get ready for work now, but will hopefully get a chance to update y'all as I will be off work from 2 pm Saturday until 9 am on Wednesday with NO plans. YAY!
My Christmas was awesome. From the short glimpse, it looks like everyone else's was too. No plans for New Years that I know of. My youngest daughter and her family are staying home this year. Our friends that usually come over have been sick for the past month! They can't come over unless healthy. Quiet one at home. Maybe SIL will come up.
Have a great day! Make the best choices you can. Smile at strangers!
Man, I have missed you all!
Kylia in Rainy and Grey Ohio4 -
Morning, afternoon and evening, everyone,
Kylia - so good to see you back!
Mary - good to see you, too, and I'm so sorry for your losses. You've been missed! And Shep is just beautiful.
Rori - glad you're taking advantage of what's near you. I think of you often.
Michele in NC - the pics were beautiful.
Allie - I hope the new year brings peace and joy, to you and to all of us.
To all who are new - welcome! In a few days, Barbie will start another thread, as we start a clean slate each month. She'll post the link on December 31. Look forward to seeing you here and in the new year! Tell us what name you prefer to be known as, and where we can place you... and step into the conversation wherever you choose.
I have been reading all along, not posting the last few days, as I went into my own limited form of hibernation, I guess. A three-hour nap yesterday afternoon seems to have finally topped me up on my sleeping tank, whatever that means.
Enjoyed the time with family who came in on Sunday, stayed until Christmas morning, very low key, no special celebrations, just pleasant and undemanding. Sat down and played Cards Against Humanity with them both evenings and laughed until our faces hurt. It was fast, furious, but don't play it if you can't handle a dirty word, 'cause it uses all of them. A lot.
Our 25-year-old son purchased his nonrefundable ticket yesterday to go to Coos Bay, OR, for school. He leaves March 24. He chose where to go, he chose what field he wants to study, he's building his own future instead of letting anyone say, "Go here, go there." He chose to start at community college level, which I think is a good idea--he was a "barely got by" student in high school, and I think a slightly less demanding introduction to the next phase of education is a very good idea. From there, he plans to go to Oregon State University in Corvallis for fermentation sciences. He's going back on the GI Bill, so everything paid for, and Oregon schools don't differentiate between in-state and out-of-state tuition, one reason for his choice. Plus, he graduated from high school there, and still has friends there. His divorce will also be final the first week of January, and I think he feels as if he's shedding his burdens, one by one, to go into the next phase free of old baggage. Proud of him--it was barely a year ago that I was on the phone trying to talk him out of the dark place he'd fallen into, and was scared we'd lose him.
Don't think I'm a saint about all this, though. My patience is thinning rapidly, and I swear, if I hear his detailed plan one more time for how he's going to do all this, I may run from the house screaming and clutch the nearest fencepost to keep from strangling him. As positive as everything he's doing is, and as much as I love him, I'm ready for him to go... And I'll miss him, too. It's possible that the essence of being a parent (or just a grown-up) is being able to have two completely opposing ideas in your head and only expressing one of them.
Gained the same five pounds back that I've been battling for months, and just got my eating back under control these last two days, and took one back off. Just trying to get to the new year without going up a size at this point. Remembering once more that control starts now, not the next meal, not Monday, not January 1. Now.
Love y'all!
Lisa in AR9 -
exactly Lisa you expressed my parenting sentiments and how I am feeling about my food intake lately. So better choices start now, not Jan 1. Glad the cheesecake I made is all gone (how it disappeared so quickly is a mystery ).
Lots of puttering today, happy that I slept in this a.m. now on to the second cup of coffee.
NYKAREN0 -
I was doing weight watchers but got nowhere and my three months where up. Didn’t want to waste more money. Joining Tops. Good support a lot cheaper. Will be my weigh in accountability once a week. I starting tracking with my plate. They don’t have a group like this for woman fifty and over. I think I will try this app. For health reasons I really have to get serious about eating healthier!5
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Good morning! Happy Friday! I am enjoying the spoiler tutorial. I have never tried it, but I should before I forget what exactly to do. I am sure I post photos that not everyone wants to look at (my daycare crafts and activities). I will never put Joaquin in a spoiler, though. Just as I would hope you all would never put your biggest loves in a spoiler (human or animal). Waaaay too special for that!
Okie- I got a giggle over your warning about "gross stuff" under the spoiler. YOu do know that posting those words is like encouragement to people like me?! I just had to look and I must say, I was disappointed. lol I expected a mangled foot. It was an impressive sized blister, I am sure! Long ago, I saw an issue of Sports Illustrated that showed photographs of athlete's bodies (different body parts); just to show the crazy things that happen to their bodies due to their profession. Like they showed a ballet dancer's feet (not pretty), a runner's feet (also not pretty), a gymnasts hands (not pretty), a boxer's face (not pretty)...it really put things into perspective. We expect athletes to have this remarkable body (and as a whole they do) but there is always something that ends up bearing the brunt of all of that physicality. I remember when I first started running, I lost toe nails! I had read enough that I knew that was a possibility, so when it happened, I was thrilled! Like I was now in some crazy exclusive club! Yea!
Kylia - Welcome back!
Rori- Your winter get away sounds fantastic! Two hours away, is pretty close!
Margaret- I love your little snow doves! So adorable!
Rebecca- Your GI Joe on the scooter reminds me of that movie Welcome to Marwen. I haven't seen it yet, but probably will rent it when it comes out on dvd.
Heather- I think writing this next segment of your memoir is going to be harder than the last. You have reached those formative years. BUT I am SO happy you have a new town to explore and hopefully take you out of the past and bring you some peace and gratitude for where you are now! (I am not saying your aren't grateful now; just that when we get depressed/blue sometimes we need visual reminders as to how wonderful things are for us) I am glad you have that!
Machka - Love the boxing day kitties! lol
Talked to daughter Lauren yesterday, Joaquin's ear infection never fully went away and it is back again, full force! Poor baby. She sent me a picture of them having breakfast at Starbucks on Christmas Eve morning and I messaged her that he looks sick. She replied back that he is fine. Two days later he has a 102 fever. She now says she is just going to send me photos of him so I can diagnose him. lol You mamas know how it is, when you just look at a child's eyes and you can see that they aren't feeling great?! Yeah. That look. Anyway, he is now on a stronger antibiotic. Fingers crossed this kicks it out of his system.
Here he is taking a ride in the stroller, through the neighborhood to look at Christmas displays.
Now to try the spoiler for something non-joaquin:
Let's see if this old dog learned something new. ttfn xoxoxo KJ (Kelly)
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I loved this one when I saw it!
Okie
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Awwww how adorable ...
I went and fed my DFIL still in bed on oxygen and seems I am the only one he will listen to
I am keeping Tom a breast of it all and he is worried.. told him to relax and he will be back tomorrow night.. I got it covered....3 -
Llllll0
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Let's try AGAIN2
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The family visiting. DH and I are on the far right. Son Kris and his wife with five kids in the middle. Wonderful GD (Kristoffer ‘s oldest) with her husband on the far right. Ella is missing from the picture.
Have had fun. Everyone leaves on Sunday morning. We’ll be ready to go back to our quiet life but I’ve thoroughly enjoyed. DH not as much but he has been an amazing good sport.
Betsy in NW Washington5 -
YEA...it worked!!! Here are the other three trees
Thanks Barb
Michele in NC2 -
I’m still around. Just not been feeling well. Going to docs having tests. Digestive problems causing flu-like symptoms. Spent Christmas Day in bed.
On a lighter note, snowing here in Roswell. Big change from the 80 degrees on Christmas Day!
RV Rita in snowy Roswell New Mexico
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I’m still around. Just not been feeling well. Going to docs having tests. Digestive problems causing flu-like symptoms. Spent Christmas Day in bed.
On a lighter note, snowing here in Roswell. Big change from the 80 degrees on Christmas Day!
RV Rita in snowy Roswell New Mexico
Kevrit I see your in Roswell ....be still my heart. I happen to be from N.Mexico born in Roswell raised in the Valley, my mom Lives in Ruidoso as well as my sister and brother and there families. I'm also part Mescalero, I was just there last summer. It is my land, and my people. How I miss it.3 -
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Rori: I like the sound of your winter plans. Have a good time with your DH. :bigsmile:
Tracey in Edmonton: I’m sorry to hear you’ve been having chest pains. They sound worrisome. I’m glad that you’re going to the doctor.
Beth near Buffalo: I’m sorry to hear that your dog has health problems. I hope for good news. :flowerforyou:
Heather: Your KitchenAid Mixer and clock are an amazing color match! Our KitchenAid Mixer is a twin to yours except that it is dark blue rather than light blue. We don’t have a matching clock. It would be fun, though.
Vicki GI NE: It sounds as though the store manager is a pill. I hope your DH weathers the situation without too much trouble. :flowerforyou:
Michele: I thought I had lots of Christmas Trees, but I think you’re the champion. They’re all beautiful!!!
I’ve been told that those of us with summer birthdays are more vulnerable to day length depression in winter. I’m sure it is true in my case. We have seven Christmas Trees up this year. Five are little fakes, and two are living trees in pots. One of the fakes is also a music box. I’ve had that one since childhood. The rest have been acquired during the course of my marriage. All are lighted except the music box. Having them up during the darkest days of winter does a great job keeping the long dark nights brighter & chases my wintertime blues away.
Katla in Beautiful NW Oregon
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Hi all!
Loved reading all your news and seeing all your photos.
Michele - You have a BIG house and you really go to town on the decs. No wonder you want people there to enjoy them.
I am yearning to take down my decs, apart from a few string lights that I like, and get back to my more minimal style. Not minimal enough for me , but I can survive it for DH's sake.
Yes, KJ, I am finding it hard. I was a very unhappy early teenager. A Mixed Up Kid. (Remember those?)
Yes, we do have a pebble beach. The nearest beautiful sand beach is Littlehampton.
Went out today with my Portsmouth friend to a highly recommended vegetarian restaurant. Well, I can truly say it was AMAZING. Not cheap, but Wow! Definitely going there again. Terre a Terre.Brighton. You can see the menu online. I consumed a lot of calories, but I had done my exercises and we walked around a lot afterwards. I have fish soup tonight, so not too bad.
DH offered to go out for a curry tomorrow night, but the best Indian restaurant (veggie again) is closed. May try Persian. But I really feel like a HOT curry. :noway:
Nice to see my friend. I am so lucky.
Love Heather UK xxxxxxx2 -
Getting ready to go pay our taxes. Ugh. Been puttering around getting ready for company.
SueBDew in TX3 -
Feel like a one armed paper hanger these days with the season, shift work and new twin grandsons. Will have more time after jan 7.
Stay focussed.
Karen2 -
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Ugh.. we are under new ownership and he hasn't wasted anytime...think he is going to be a micro manager and wants to sit down with each one and have a resume In hand.. I am sunk... like I need this .. when it rains it pours.4
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grandmallie wrote: »Ugh.. we are under new ownership and he hasn't wasted anytime...think he is going to be a micro manager and wants to sit down with each one and have a resume In hand.. I am sunk... like I need this .. when it rains it pours.
Go with a positive attitude. So many people like you. Of course the new doctor will like you, too.3 -
I survived my line dance class today. I slept well last night, cut the dog walking short, took a short nap, and taught the class. Fortunately there were no new students so there wasn't a lot of extra instruction needed. Jake fixed ravioli for lunch and soon we'll all lie down for a nap.
Barbie6 -
Michele, Your decorations are beautiful. Andy your a fast learner. Now you know how to do the "spoiler". One of the great things about this thread is that when someone asks a question, there are lots of people ready to help with answers.2
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grandmallie wrote: »Ugh.. we are under new ownership and he hasn't wasted anytime...think he is going to be a micro manager and wants to sit down with each one and have a resume In hand.. I am sunk... like I need this .. when it rains it pours.
I know how you feel, my group was outsourced, and the new management team moved me from head cook, I used to order plan menus, etc, last Jan I went in the hospital and was out for 7 weeks, when I came back, they made me a cashier. With no raise as they told me I'm capped out. And it's only business. I was sad, depressed taking what I loved, but I know I will bloom . I do love talking to people and loving people, my deep faith has kept me. I am grateful I still have a job, with benifits medical and a 401 regardless. Sometimes it is still hard to shine. Without feeling betrayed.
Hi ladies, so many wonderful people here, thank you for the friend invites, I wrote a big nice note this morning, and lo and behold, I hit the done button in the upper right again. 😡 I just turned the tablet off did my house work. And moved on knowing I would be back. ....please extend my learning curve😂
I love the Christmas decor, I love the soft lights the glow, the gift of hope in dark times (winter blues). So many wet and cold days. But every day from here the light gets longer😀😊makes me happy.
Now to learn name's glad roll call isn't a must, I see new names to me. Love and prayers to everyone😄4 -
I'm busy getting everything prepared for my son and daughter-in-law to arrive from Minnesota. However, with all the snow that they had in Chicago the planes are late leaving from Chicago to Minnesota and they need to get on one of the planes this is coming from Chicago. Therefore, I won't see them until after 10 PM maybe even midnight!! Then tomorrow early afternoon we leave and drive to Las Vegas! I took Shep to a different boarding facility where he is going to get very pampered! I checked him in and immediately he was surrounded by the two young ladies attending the front desk. The one I normally take him to is full. The one he is at now was highly recommended over his other one. It is a little more expensive but they do spoil him there! He will be getting a peanut butter filled Kong or an ice cream cone before bed every night! I hope he doesn't expect that when he gets home LOL!!
Mary from Arizona7 -
hr HIIT today. The PLAN for tomorrow is to do Leslie Sansone’s Walk you Way Slim DVD. See, we have to leave at the un-godly hour of about 5 (yes, a.m.) to pick Jess up at 6:15. I won’t exercise before we leave and I know me, if I don’t do it first thing in the morning, it doesn’t get done. So it might very well not get done. Oh well…
Barbara, did I miss some trees? We have 7 in total. I’m going to have to look at the pictures. I bet I forgot to take pictures of the trees that are upstairs (there are four). I know I forgot to take a pic of our main tree.
We REALLY scaled back on the outdoor decorations. It was so bitterly cold then we were rushing to get them up before the snow came (we got about 10”)
Karen – yes, that is the death star. And the tree skirt lights up so that you see what looks like stars and then two what look like light sabers
We did see some outdoor displays and Vince’s reaction was “guess we have a lot of work for next year”. He’s thinking that even before Halloween if we can get the inside decorated then we can take down the Halloween decorations and work on the Christmas ones
Lisa – love reading your posts. You have such great insight
Kelly – I was disappointed in okie’s “gross”, too. It wasn’t gross. I remember one time I took Bryan to the pediatrician. I said “something’s wrong”. He checked Bryan out, everything was fine but he said “I’ve learned that if the mother says ‘something’s wrong’ something is wrong” and, sure enough something (I don’t remember what) was wrong.
YEA – putting the other three trees in a spoiler worked. Thank you, Barb. I made the tree skirt that’s under the main tree (there’s a train in the background) and the one of the penguins
Colby called last night (remember, he and Jess are in Idaho with his family). They went skiing and she got a migraine. She was disoriented so he took her to the emergency care. They gave her some meds and she’s back at his house. Our theory is that her roommate is now going to school in Nebraska and Jess is worried about getting a new roommate and if not will she have to pay all the rent? Colby said they went to visit Machala (the roommate) so we think this added to the stress. Plus, she’s probably not sleeping well. She’s supposed to come home tomorrow. I know that she usually gets stressed on airline flights so I’m guessing that they’ll give her some sort of anti-anxiety med. She’s not supposed to drive so I’m thinking that she’ll want to spend NYE in Virginia, so Colby will most likely have to drive her to VA and then bring her back. I just don’t think she will want to spend NYE with her parents.
Shadow is exploring the downstairs right now. It’s safe, we’re upstairs which means “those other cats” are upstairs.
Micheller – a friend of mine from grade schooo lives in Ruidoso, or at least that’s the last place she lived that I know of.
Katla – none of our Christmas trees are live trees. Our concern is that one of the cats might climb it (that’s never happened) and get sap on their fur and then rub up against a cabinet. So we just opted to get artificial trees
Went to Lowe’s Hardware because that’s where Vince thought he got certain storage totes only they didn’t have any so went to WalMart. They had them, so he probably bought them there only he forgot.
Michele in NC
Who will be going to bed early tonight since we have to get up so early tomorrow
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This is a reminder for myself, but thought someone else could use it as well.
I’m on my way to a wedding!
Tracey in Edmonton
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grandmallie wrote: »Ugh.. we are under new ownership and he hasn't wasted anytime...think he is going to be a micro manager and wants to sit down with each one and have a resume In hand.. I am sunk... like I need this .. when it rains it pours.
One of my best directors wanted us to present our current resume at each annual performance review. He said it was a good thing for both him and me to go over it ... helped him keep on top of my new skills ... helped me be aware of my current skills and what I might need.
That's part of the reason I keep upgrading.
M in Oz5
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