JUST FOR TODAY -- One Day at a Time .... Daily commitment thread for 2019
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JFT 7/6/19 Fridayyyyyyyyyy even though it's grey trying to rain
1. Log all food & drink
2. Stay under calorie target
3. Take at least 5500 steps I'm delighted with this one as I haven't been walking as much as I wanted to over the last few days
4. Stay focused and have fun
Fun afternoon planned with my sister, niece & nephew. I love family time
JFT 8/6/19 Saturday
1. Log all food & drink
2. Stay under calorie target
3. Take at least 5500 steps
4. Stay focused and have fun
It's already a good day. Spoke with my mum, who lives abroad this morning, and made plans for when we visit them in a few weeks3 -
JFT 6/8
30 minutes swim or yoga
stay within calories
take time for self care today
Drink water
My Dad left early this morning. He makes me anxious and uncomfortable and of course I love him but he is a bit of a narcissist so can be overly critical and self centered. Plus he expects my attention the whole time and it's just a lot of stress. He also basically abandoned me (My Mom always took care of me so I was not abandoned-but he was a deadbeat Dad) literally all of my teenage years and he rarely paid child support even before that. He never changed his lifestyle to accommodate having kids and was a completely emotionally absent father in all the ways. And now he visits me once a year and criticizes my husband, me, my kids, my lifestyle in really backhanded ways and the worst part is that I just don't know how to stop it from happening because if I say anything I'll never see or hear from him again and I don't want that either. So I basically just suffer through his visits with a smile on my face yet snap at my family and stress myself out the whole time. The only bright side is that he only stays for 2-3 days tops.
Luckily for me my Mom is awesome and lives near me and we have a great relationship. She is a total counterbalance. Anyway, he left early this morning and I feel like I can breathe a little today and unwind. The good news is that I did not emotionally eat while he was here-made healthy choices and stayed within calories for the most part. Still got in my exercise too! The bad news is that by the afternoon of each day I poured myself wine to cope. No regrets. It's the only way I can cope with his visits.11 -
Checking in from Friday
1. Draft project. Therapy exercises: lunges, push-ups, ankle lifts, plank. Balance practice. Feed cats. Meds. Tea! Log 1 item. Post JFT. Pack lunch. LOG.
2. Leave for park by 8:45. 5k steps by 1:00, 10k by 4:00, 15k by 7:00, 20k by 10:00.
3. No extra snacks! Read articles for project.
4. Meds. Shower. Bed. No alarm. Next Thursday is lunch with A; need to set time.
JFT Saturday
1. Type project. Therapy exercises: lunges, push-ups, ankle lifts, plank. Balance practice. Feed cats. Meds. Tea! Log 1 item. Post JFT. Pack lunch. LOG.
2. Leave for park by 8:45. 5k steps by 1:00, 10k by 4:00, 15k by 7:00, 20k by 10:00.
3. No extra snacks! Read Predictably Irrational. Design graphic organizers.
4. Meds. Shower. Bed. No alarm. Next Thursday is lunch with A; need to set time.
Scale goalsEnd of 2017: 174.6
End of 2018: 189.2
January 2019: 186.0
February 2019: 187.0
Today: 193.8
Ongoing plans/ideas behind the cut1. Purchases: Go to Mac store and see if they can retrieve the files off the iMac. Look for an "ugly Christmas sweater" and a long-haired doll at thrift stores. Practice French braiding. Go to used bookstore and look for Design for How People Learn (Julie Dirksen), On Writing (Stephen King), Dying for a Paycheck (Robin Hardman), The Prince (tr. Tim Parks, Russell Price, or Robert Adams), The Secret Adversary (Christie).
2. E2: What should the controlling ideas be in a study of world literature? Review world lit options. Create vocabulary lists for each unit that come from the texts used: Animal Farm, Julius Caesar, Wes Moore, I Am Malala. Find a way to incorporate changing words from one part of speech to another. Students need to know how to review multiple sources and synthesize information in order to draw a conclusion. Need practice with the difference between transitions and overlapping (at end of paragraph - "another issue is Y" vs "there are other issues besides X"). Quit using "in conclusion" and "I believe" and other writing-about-my-writing phrases. Confusion between direct/indirect objects and prepositional phrases. Use the UDHR and the Declaration of Independence to study paraphrasing; use that to front-load Machiavelli and how to deal with challenging texts. Confusion between everyday / every day and similar constructions.
3. E1: Need practice with quoting & paraphrasing sources, identifying claims that would need support, use of last names for reference, and capitalization practice (common/proper nouns, titles). Difficulty using possessive nouns in their own writing. Honors: practice subject/object pronouns (my friend and I / my friend and me). Poetry: Revise "Songs are Poetry" handouts.
4. Curriculum Development: Writing mini-unit. Review scholarly research on 5PE. (I think I can have this as an intro to the research unit so that they also get exposure to how quotes are integrated and cited.) Parallel structure; use of emotional language, specific detail. Use "Write About a Pebble" lesson from Atwell. How long should each unit take? Do research on characteristics: curiosity, persistence, resilience, creativity, responsibility, optimism, courage, integrity, authenticity, leadership, self-awareness, humility, compassion - others? Include grammarly check on essays! Review assessments. What is the purpose for each unit? What should the controlling ideas be in a study of world literature? Review world lit options. Schedule assessments for Fall 2019; plan out return times. Align assessments with OW units.
5. Professional Development: Write blog post weekly. Comment on 3 posts each week -Tu Th Sun? Check with PSC. Talk with Z about articles and/or conference proposals. NOTE: ATTEND POST FLEX DAY RATHER THAN PRE FLEX DAY. Upload summer project checklist July 1.
6. Medical: Dentist. Onco. PCP. Call to set up checkups with Dass (October). GET MAGAZINES FOR COLLAGES FROM DOCTORS.
7. Theater: Audition for Mamma Mia???
8. House: Mineral oil on tile spots. Check with D about ceiling and taking items to the dump.
9. Fun: Open beading on Thursdays. Coloring at library on Tuesday. Put jewelry away.
WFTY: Climbing.
I am SO glad I'll have a shorter shift tomorrow. Goodness, where did my time go? It's already almost time to leave. And it's raining, and supposed to storm throughout the day, so there's a good chance I'll get to deal with grouchy customers. *sigh* I hope I have enough food packed to last me until 10 PM. It should...3 -
Good morning all! Thank you for the advice and support with the house and inspection. We are having a roofer come out early next week to give us a free estimate on what all needs to be done and the costs involved.
We are hoping maybe we can make some kind of negotiations with the seller. He is older and just lost his wife a year ago, they have a lot and I mean A LOT of stuff in their house and it's all things she decorated with that he is still very emotional about. He had mentioned the less stuff he has to pack and move the better, so we are hoping maybe he would be willing to help us out with the roof if we offered to take care of anything he didn't want and told him he could just leave it. It is a lot of work for him to do and he mentioned his grandson who is staying with him hasn't been helping at all, so his granddaughter came over to try and help. We will see, I guess it all depends on the roof cost and everything else. I'll keep you posted!
In the meantime I'm trying not to stress about it, but it's really hard. I was talking to my mom on the phone about it for less than five minutes and in that time managed to inhale 4 cookies, totally mindlessly 🙄. I offset some of the damage with a long walk but it still ended up being another maintenance day.
I just want to be back on that hot streak I had where I could tell I was making tons of progress! I'll get there.. I'm determined to get there..
Anyways I hope you all have a great Saturday!
Yesterday 6/7:
1. Give Rukia her a.m. pills 😁
2. Stay within calorie goal😞
3. Finish work at 5:15😞
4. Walk after work😁
5. Seriously now..get prescription refilled!!!!!!!!!😞
6. Look into traffic course for my ticket, deadline is approaching!😞
JFT 6/8:
1. Give Rukia her a.m. pills 😁
2. Stay within calorie goal
3. Seriously now..get prescription refilled!!!!!!!!!
4. Look into traffic course for my ticket, deadline is approaching!
5. Get a minimum of 6,000 steps
6. Look into home owners insurance
7. Do workout5 -
Yesterday I was way over again. I am really having a tough time sticking to my meal plan. I think it's a combination of interpreting my fatigue as hunger and trying to feel better by snacking. This weekend I'll try grabbing a zero calorie beverage - tea, sparkling water, decaf coffee as my snacking. Fortunately we don't have any treats in the house. Has anyone had success with Green Tea? During the day I usually just drink water but maybe mixing it up will help.
JFT 6/8/19
Stick to my meal plan of 1600 calories
Eat fruit or veggies as my snacks
Get some activity in ?? get outdoors!
No snacking or wine after dinner
Have a great weekend everyone.3 -
JFT - Friday June 7 - Determined
2.5L of water - 👿
Calories in green, Log Accurately - 👿
Walk 1 Mile - 👿
Squats - 40
5 Fruits and Veggies - 5/5
Only 1 evening Snack - 👿
5 something at bathroom break - 🙂
Something on commercials - 👿
Write in Journal - 🙂
Do not disappoint myself, be conscious of my choices - 👿
JFT - Saturday June 8 - Determined
2.5L of water
Calories in green, Log Accurately
Walk 1 Mile
Squats
5 Fruits and Veggies
Only 1 evening Snack
5 something at bathroom break
Something on commercials
Write in Journal
Do not disappoint myself, be conscious of my choices
Well I had a poor day yesterday meeting any of my health goals but had a pretty good day for getting some stuff done for the wedding. A new technique I was trying that wasn’t working finally came together for me and another technique that I was unsure about worked well. I can’t complain about that.
We didn’t get the wall fixed so we could hang the bathroom door like I wanted, but I’ve been promised today. It better happen as I’ve cancelled the Grands from coming this weekend because of it.
I received a call yesterday from a job I applied for at the beginning of May. It was for an office coordinator position at a local nursing home. That position has been filled but they have an office assistant position so I am going for an interview on Wednesday. I really can’t start right away now because I have so many commitments, but I’ll worry about that if I’m offered a job.
I have weighed myself daily this week since I got back from the lake but have not recorded it once. I am so frustrated, my weight has fluctuated between 185-177 everyday. I don’t know how to trust my scale, it’s where it is on the floor that makes it change. I think I need to buy a new one. It’s a cheaper digital one that I use.
I am going to write down the weights I can remember this week in my excel sheet. I should update the 10 day challenge too I guess.
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@Snowflake1968 I feel your pain with these digital scales, I can weigh myself 6 times in a row and get a different number every time 😭. Good luck to you on your interview!2
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Argh, got struck by the weekend curse!
Ive only ate 1600 calories, so 400 over my 1200! But thats still under maintainence.
I just dont feel satisfied!!!
I also have about 2000 calories "banked".
Although i wanted to ask, any of you who look at your calories over a week, is 2000 banked too many? Because wouldnt that mean ive basically not eaten for 2 days?
I need to STOP eating now. No more food for me tonight!
I will resist. I will resist. I will resist. I will resist.5 -
Snowflake1968 wrote: »I just have to tell you how my swimming lesson went last night. Last weeks was cancelled because the smoke in the air caused the sprinkler system to go off in the rec centre so it’s been 2 weeks. I swam laps the first 1/2 hour and then my instructor told me we were going to dive. I did it TWICE! Then he said ok, I think you’re ready to get up on the diving block and just walk in. I did it, without flailing around like a fish out of water (haha) when I touched bottom. I just went down and came back up! I am so thankful my friend bought this set of lessons. I wish she had been able to join me.
I remember when you started these lessons. Oh my gosh! I'm so proud of you and how far you have come! You are a great example to me about overcoming anxiety. We are capable of doing so much more than we think, and you are proof. Awesome story, and I thank you for sharing!3 -
So ive been thinking, i was wondering why its took me nearly all of 2019 to get back on track, and how my depression affected me and how i wasnt being the person i used to be, and i came across this...
Its a snippet of something Jim Carrey (of all people!) has said when he was describing what depression was like for him..
"You should think of the word ‘depressed’ as ‘deep rest.’ Your body needs to be depressed. It needs deep rest from the character that you’ve been trying to play.”
I dunno, it kind of helped.
I think @HEGoddard0928 might like it, youve been trying so long to keep things together for you and Matt and you said you were relapsing a bit and struggling. You're just tired of it! (Not tired of Matt lol, its not his fault) but just the whole situation, you know?
I think this quote hits the nail right on the head! I tend to get depressed when life just overwhelms me. I close off from everyone and everything and then after my brain has rested, I'm good to go again. Perfect analogy. Thanks for sharing Bex!2 -
@snowflake1968 I weigh daily and use the app Happy Scale to record weights, it smooths out the blips and gives a nice visual of progress (or otherwise!).
@Bex953172 you CAN resist ...have you been doing operation red cup today? Stop thinking about banked calories - in my mind you are tempting fate!
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ZizzyBumble wrote: »Saturday 8 June
Log accurately
Stay in the green
5 fruit and veg
Fitbit excercise goals
Jan challenge
Feb challenge
Mar challenge outside gardening for several hours
Apr challenge Garden no longer resembles a jungle
May challenge
Jun challenge
It's not supposed to rain all of today so I will get into the garden and deal with some of the weeds. Plenty of indoor tasks to do if it does rain!
Hope you all have a good day
I've had a good day and met all my goals. Tomorrow won't be so easy as I am going to my parents after lunch and staying overnight.
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Argh, got struck by the weekend curse!
Ive only ate 1600 calories, so 400 over my 1200! But thats still under maintainence.
I just dont feel satisfied!!!
I also have about 2000 calories "banked".
Although i wanted to ask, any of you who look at your calories over a week, is 2000 banked too many? Because wouldnt that mean ive basically not eaten for 2 days?
I need to STOP eating now. No more food for me tonight!
I will resist. I will resist. I will resist. I will resist.
I really don't know much about calorie counting, but I will share something I learned from the Half Size Me podcasts. Heather (the host) suggests if you get off track and aren't sure what your optimal calories are, take 2 weeks and try to just maintain your weight right where it is. Log every bite and just try to keep your weight steady. At the end of the week or two, look at the average amount of calories you were able to eat daily without gaining and that is your optimal number of maintenance calories. To begin losing then, subtract 100-150 calories from your maintenance number and try to stick around that for a nice slow sustainable steady loss. To lose faster, maybe subtract 200 calories from your maintainance number. I found that for me, 1200 calories is not enough and I eat everything in sight because it is just not sustainable. My maintenance number is about 1600 calories with very minimal activity.
Just sharing because it made sense to me. Changing our lifestyle habits and being able to maintain the loss once we reach it is one of the hardest parts of losing and keeping weight off!
I think 1200 calories is probably not nearly enough calories for all the running around that you do! I think if you split those 2000 banked calories over the number of days they were banked, you'd probably find you can eat 1400 to 1500 calories a day easily with no activity.
But again, I've not been real successful, so maybe I'm just full of *kitten*. LOL!4 -
It's already 4:00 pm here and I'm just hopping on. I slept so hard last night...fell asleep about 9:30 and didn't get up until 10:45 this morning! OMG. What is happening with that? I hate losing half of my day off because I'm sleeping. That feels like pure laziness, but I swear I just did not wake up until then. I think there has to be something weird going on in my body to make me this fatigued every single day. But I'm hoping that it is because I've been so lax in my health and lifestyle journey that my body is rebelling. I was able to give up sugar over Lent and I lost 8 lbs in less than 6 weeks. But then life started happening and I've gone totally backwards. Today, I am trying to start over, but those words sound hollow to me because I say that to myself every single day and still end up eating ice cream. I feel like giving up, but I have such a dislike of how my clothes fit right now and how I feel right now that I absolutely never will. I will succeed. I just need to want it bad enough, and today I do. All it takes is one good day to get the ball rolling, and today just might be that day.
Sorry for the whine. Just helps to put it in writing sometimes. Even though it's late, I'm going to post goals.
Just for Saturday:- Journal every single bite - Good, Bad & Ugly
- HYDRATE
- 15 minutes outside
- Activity
- Self Care: Give myself a pedi and take time to use lotion on my dry skin
- Declutter an area or collection of items for 15 minutes
- Package serving-sized baggies of grab-n-go healthy snacks
- <29g of added sugar
- Meditate | Podcasts | Inspirational Readings | Read or watch movie with DH tonight
- Set alarm for tomorrow so I don't waste another day this weekend. (I'm really pissed about this!)
2019 WOY: Tenacity / Tenacious
Positive Thought: I'm healthy and I'm content with where I am in life right now. Feeling content is a really nice feeling.
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@cschmitz110515 Did you walk the Bellin today? Is that the 10k you referred to? How did you do? It's pretty hot out there!
Are you going to see Paul McCartney tonight at Lambeau? We would love to, but we didn't get tickets.0 -
PackerFanInGB wrote: »@cschmitz110515 Did you walk the Bellin today? Is that the 10k you referred to? How did you do? It's pretty hot out there!
Are you going to see Paul McCartney tonight at Lambeau? We would love to, but we didn't get tickets.
Yes, this morning I walked in the Bellin 10K along with > 8,000 runners/walkers. Finished in 1:29:54 and average pace of 14:29 min/mile. I was 82 out of 223 in my sex/age group. Typically in a 10K I walk a faster second half but my split time was 44:13, meaning my first half was faster this time. With a clear blue sky & temps low 70s, the sun just beat on me this year and that definitely slowed me down.
Here's something funny: According to my Fitbit, first I was on the elliptical 29 min. then running 27 min. LOL ~ I don't run. Finally Fitbit had me walking 34 min. when I slowed down a bit. All that for total calorie burn of 931 (which I do not sync to MFP). According to the MFP database for my pace and time, I only burned 551 calories. That's why I don't take the numbers in my food / exercise diary as gospel b/c there are so many variables. But it was a good time again. And I was so happy to share the event with my youngest brother and his wife, and she was kind to hold my stuff when I needed it & took photos of us.
No tickets to see Sir Paul tonight and glad about it. I had enough crowds at the race, and no energy left, even though I had a nap this afternoon.
I didn't post goals for 2 days but I have gone back to post food (G/B/U) yesterday and today. Back to JFT goals tomorrow. Sunday, plan to walk dog before church, she was so sad when I left wearing walking clothes this morning without her.1 -
Have to keep up with my June challenge .... but a crazy busy weekend.
But kept my "inner goals", even though I forgot to post them. My biggest problem is still the water. So need to get out that red cup!
Went to a garden club tour this morning of this most beautiful yard .. so many native wildflowers, and birds everywhere! So when I got home, mowed our yard, which takes me 2 hrs, and then weeded and worked in my flower beds ... so I spent from 1pm until 5:30 pm working in the yard!! Then took our daughter to the book store tonite .. so totally exhausted. But ... I have to post on here!!
So goals tomorrow
1. go to the gym
2. red cup challenge
3. mindful eating
4. clean house2 -
Bex953172 - oh boy, kids sure like to keep you cleaning. Keep at them soon they’ll figure out how to help instead of destroy.
How true that description of depressed is. I know that I get depressed when I’m not being true to myself and meeting my own needs. Putting everyone else’s first.
Maryrobinson40- I hope your knee heals fast.
Nlmackey98 - I hope the cake turned out well. What a kerfuffle getting it done! At this point there no backing out though or a bride would be without a cake!
Littleblackskirt- I hadn’t heard of Jaffa cakes here in Canada before, but looked them up and apparently it’s my lack of a sweet tooth that made me not know about them.
The rain had me down yesterday too, I was a little grumpy and a lot sleepy.
Cschmitz110515 - Good job on the 10k. I would like to register to do one of these days.
Ginny - I started swim lessons last year for the first round. I have learned so much and my goal was to be able to swim laps. I can do that now and I am hoping that I will be able to go at least once a week to keep up with it.
I learned Thursday night after missing last week that it is something you have to keep up with regularly.
PackerfaninGB - I need to figure out what I want to accomplish next. I have said for at least 20 years I wanted to take swim lessons. I think next I may attempt guitar.
I think posting so late in the day with your goals is a good start. I bet on other days you said “why bother” to yourself. I like the idea of the maintenance trial.
Mytime6630 - that’s a lot of calories burned.
I didn’t get this posted this morning because as I was reading and taking my notes, Rodger asked me if we could go to Home Depot to get the things we needed to do the wall and door. We got back home around 11 and started working. We didn’t stop until 7 tonight. We took the old 70’s trailer paneling down. Took the old door down and got the drywall on and mudded. We also got all of the casings back on except one piece. Tomorrow I’ll paint and Monday we’ll install the door.
My 1st cousins great granddaughter has been battling cancer for two years. She is considered cancer free right now but doesn’t have her last chemo until September. She is 4. Today she received her make a wish. Her wish was for a camper for her family. She was so sweet when she realized what was happening. My eyes filled with tears. @hegoddard0928 there was a picture of her with Sidney Crosby taken 2 springs ago, she put her stuffed cat in the Stanley Cup.
Last night I was thinking of what to say in my speech for the wedding. I started thinking of Kaitlyn in her wedding dress and it reminded me of all the years she played bride. I started crying them too. I don’t know how I’ll get through this without crying like a baby.
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Morning all. Sounds like we are all having busy weekends and very productive! @snowflake1968 - reading about your cousin’s great granddaughter made me emotional! What a lovely thing that she wished for something for her whole family. Well done on the swimming and your ongoing plan to set new goals! Hope the home improvements go well. @cschmitz110515 - yay on the 10k!
@PackerFanInGB - your body is definitely trying to tell you something. Take the much-needed rest, you’ve had a lot of health stress recently. I know what you mean about the sugar. My Lent without it was actually fairly easy and I generally feel better without it.
Hope everyone else is well and having a lovely weekend. Hugs to you all x2 -
Goal update. Yesterday was pretty good. Got most of my list done and today will be busy so writing it all down will be helpful!
Saturday goals recap:
- morning workout ✅
- wrap present and get L to write card for party ✅
- leave by 10 ✅
- running shop for new trainers ✅
- house clean ✅
- laundry ✅
- kids homework ✅
- sweep patio and front steps if rain stops!❎ it stopped raining but mad winds meant sweeping would be even more futile than usual!
- bed by 10❎
Sunday goals:
- proof-read colleague’s reports
- wrap present for P party
- complete online forms for new gym and get passes for kids
- Warrior class 9:30
- shower and take kids to new gym to try it out
- buy card for P party
- P to party for 2:30
- change bedsheets, sweep steps and patio
- put away laundry
- bed by 9:30
Have a great Sunday everyone x3
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