Why do you think you are single?
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Idk maybe I’m codependent or to motivated towards change? 😆 🤔1
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BasedGawd412 wrote: »Antisocial and 100% comfortable with my own company.
Same. Although i've been going out & trying new things lately. 🤔 #CityGirlSummer 🤣0 -
Cutemesoon wrote: »nighthawk584 wrote: »What's wrong with being single? I've been for years.
Same. Although i've been going out & trying new things lately. 🤔
#CityGirlSummer 🤣
Yay for new things! Share your adventures!0 -
CaptainFantastic01 wrote: »Cutemesoon wrote: »nighthawk584 wrote: »What's wrong with being single? I've been for years.
Same. Although i've been going out & trying new things lately. 🤔
#CityGirlSummer 🤣
Yay for new things! Share your adventures!
Ok. Well I've been on 3 vacations since April & I'm getting ready for my next one. I've had so much fun meeting new people & experiencing new things. I've really come outta my shell. To the point where my friends are surprised. 😂 As soon as the summer is over, I'll go back to my normal, hibernating self tho. 🤷🏾♀️
How has ur summer been?2 -
Cutemesoon wrote: »CaptainFantastic01 wrote: »Cutemesoon wrote: »nighthawk584 wrote: »What's wrong with being single? I've been for years.
Same. Although i've been going out & trying new things lately. 🤔
#CityGirlSummer 🤣
Yay for new things! Share your adventures!
Ok. Well I've been on 3 vacations since April & I'm getting ready for my next one. I've had so much fun meeting new people & experiencing new things. I've really come outta my shell. To the point where my friends are surprised. 😂 As soon as the summer is over, I'll go back to my normal, hibernating self tho. 🤷🏾♀️
How has ur summer been?
My summer has been chaotic1 -
CaptainFantastic01 wrote: »According to some guy from this website it’s because I’m a pudgy nerd who can’t fight.
Is the guy who said that a perfect specimen? Does he have tons of women lining up at his front door? I bet not.
You're a good person and you'll find what you've been looking for when the time is right. 💙6 -
BasedGawd412 wrote: »Antisocial and 100% comfortable with my own company.
I think you have to be able to be happy alone with yourself before you can be happy with someone else 🤷♀️1 -
LiftingSpirits wrote: »CaptainFantastic01 wrote: »According to some guy from this website it’s because I’m a pudgy nerd who can’t fight.
Is the guy who said that a perfect specimen? Does he have tons of women lining up at his front door? I bet not.
You're a good person and you'll find what you've been looking for when the time is right. 💙
Agree 100%
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2,3,4. I do have trust issues (from past relationships and things I went through in the Middle East for 2 yrs when I was deployed) because some of my insecurities are tossed back in my face like being sober for 9 yrs has been one thrown back at me, not too keen on how I look. I have tried to open up in the past and that was also thrown in my face, so I work on me, and make sure all my kids have what they need and that I am there for them. Sorry if I am long winded about answering this.3
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Because I’m happier that way...
And I should add, so are my exes 😁3 -
nighthawk584 wrote: »What's wrong with being single? I've been for years.
If you've tried both, and you prefer one or the other, I think that's a perfectly valid statement.
My issue is, I've only ever been single. I don't have anything to compare it too.2 -
mattig89ch wrote: »nighthawk584 wrote: »What's wrong with being single? I've been for years.
If you've tried both, and you prefer one or the other, I think that's a perfectly valid statement.
My issue is, I've only ever been single. I don't have anything to compare it too.
Hmmm. Compare suffocation to breathing fresh air. Do you need to be smothered with a pillow to know that you like breathing?
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I’m so only kidding. LOL LOL.
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forestfreek wrote: »I’m so only kidding. LOL LOL.
Not 😂
You're pretty spot-on haha0 -
forestfreek wrote: »mattig89ch wrote: »nighthawk584 wrote: »What's wrong with being single? I've been for years.
If you've tried both, and you prefer one or the other, I think that's a perfectly valid statement.
My issue is, I've only ever been single. I don't have anything to compare it too.
Hmmm. Compare suffocation to breathing fresh air. Do you need to be smothered with a pillow to know that you like breathing?
I thought a relationship was like dating your best friend? Where both people are equal.4 -
mattig89ch wrote: »forestfreek wrote: »mattig89ch wrote: »nighthawk584 wrote: »What's wrong with being single? I've been for years.
If you've tried both, and you prefer one or the other, I think that's a perfectly valid statement.
My issue is, I've only ever been single. I don't have anything to compare it too.
Hmmm. Compare suffocation to breathing fresh air. Do you need to be smothered with a pillow to know that you like breathing?
I thought a relationship was like dating your best friend? Where both people are equal.
I can’t even bring myself to say anything cheeky or sarcastic to this. It’s just so sweet and hopeful....
So the answer is - yes, ideally that’s the way relationships should be 🤗
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mattig89ch wrote: »forestfreek wrote: »mattig89ch wrote: »nighthawk584 wrote: »What's wrong with being single? I've been for years.
If you've tried both, and you prefer one or the other, I think that's a perfectly valid statement.
My issue is, I've only ever been single. I don't have anything to compare it too.
Hmmm. Compare suffocation to breathing fresh air. Do you need to be smothered with a pillow to know that you like breathing?
I thought a relationship was like dating your best friend? Where both people are equal.
That's how they ALWAYS start out and if you are lucky you end up married for over 60 years like my parents were and passed away a month apart.. Not for me but bless them.5 -
Cause I have a complicated relationship going on...
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@Resistive - 🤗Cause I have a complicated relationship going on...
Here’s to hoping you get it sorted out.
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forestfreek wrote: »mattig89ch wrote: »forestfreek wrote: »mattig89ch wrote: »nighthawk584 wrote: »What's wrong with being single? I've been for years.
If you've tried both, and you prefer one or the other, I think that's a perfectly valid statement.
My issue is, I've only ever been single. I don't have anything to compare it too.
Hmmm. Compare suffocation to breathing fresh air. Do you need to be smothered with a pillow to know that you like breathing?
I thought a relationship was like dating your best friend? Where both people are equal.
I can’t even bring myself to say anything cheeky or sarcastic to this. It’s just so sweet and hopeful....
So the answer is - yes, ideally that’s the way relationships should be 🤗
And...that's not what happened with your part partners?0 -
forestfreek wrote: »mattig89ch wrote: »nighthawk584 wrote: »What's wrong with being single? I've been for years.
If you've tried both, and you prefer one or the other, I think that's a perfectly valid statement.
My issue is, I've only ever been single. I don't have anything to compare it too.
Hmmm. Compare suffocation to breathing fresh air. Do you need to be smothered with a pillow to know that you like breathing?
Some people get off on oxygen deprivation. Just saying.
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mattig89ch wrote: »forestfreek wrote: »mattig89ch wrote: »forestfreek wrote: »mattig89ch wrote: »nighthawk584 wrote: »What's wrong with being single? I've been for years.
If you've tried both, and you prefer one or the other, I think that's a perfectly valid statement.
My issue is, I've only ever been single. I don't have anything to compare it too.
Hmmm. Compare suffocation to breathing fresh air. Do you need to be smothered with a pillow to know that you like breathing?
I thought a relationship was like dating your best friend? Where both people are equal.
I can’t even bring myself to say anything cheeky or sarcastic to this. It’s just so sweet and hopeful....
So the answer is - yes, ideally that’s the way relationships should be 🤗
And...that's not what happened with your part partners?
I’d try not to let other peoples’ experiences shape your reality.....although you said you’ve always been single.
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I'm single because of one word.....and I hate it! Cancer!! #fckcancer9
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Back4Aminute wrote: »Im not buuut if i was it would be coz guys like me fall harder than girls like you!
Doubtful. I have never met someone who falls faster and harder than me (phrasing police... There's a gem for you)0 -
mattig89ch wrote: »forestfreek wrote: »mattig89ch wrote: »forestfreek wrote: »mattig89ch wrote: »nighthawk584 wrote: »What's wrong with being single? I've been for years.
If you've tried both, and you prefer one or the other, I think that's a perfectly valid statement.
My issue is, I've only ever been single. I don't have anything to compare it too.
Hmmm. Compare suffocation to breathing fresh air. Do you need to be smothered with a pillow to know that you like breathing?
I thought a relationship was like dating your best friend? Where both people are equal.
I can’t even bring myself to say anything cheeky or sarcastic to this. It’s just so sweet and hopeful....
So the answer is - yes, ideally that’s the way relationships should be 🤗
And...that's not what happened with your part partners?
I’d try not to let other peoples’ experiences shape your reality.....although you said you’ve always been single.
Its more that I try to learn from other people's failures and successes. ofc, not everyone's experience will be like mine. And ofc, I will make different mistakes then others. But the more knowledge I have going into something, then better off I think I'll be. If nothing else, having plans in place help me to feel more relaxed (and maybe a tiny bit more confident).0 -
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Self Worth Issues.....They really do block people out.3
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