WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR MAY 2019

1356749

Replies

  • okiewoman510
    okiewoman510 Posts: 1,313 Member
    Happy May Ladies!!

    Thanks for the fresh start Barbie!! We appreciate you more than you know.

    Okie
  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,582 Member
    teklawa1 wrote: »
    Welcome to May. Thank you Barbi for the new thread. Wishing everyone well this month.

    My goals for May are to log food daily and get in the habit of logging before a single bite. 😉 It works so well but I get lazy. This will be my last month in Washington until fall. I’ll head back to Alaska at the end of May. I won’t have internet and I’ll miss connecting with this community daily.

    And I’ll miss my husband but he doesn’t like my summer life and prefers to remain in Washington. He used to visit for a couple weeks each year but about 10 years ago he decided living without electricity and indoor plumbing was too difficult. So he stays home and takes care of the house and yard and I go back home with Ella and come back around freeze up. . It works for us, but his friends tease him that we haven’t really been married for 26 years because I’m gone for a third of each year. :-)

    Have a good day everyone. It’s sunny and warm today already. Spring is such a pleasure.
    Betsy in NW Washington

    What's in Alaska? Peace and quiet? :)

    I lived without electricity, indoor plumbing, etc. etc. ... completely off the grid for my first year in Australia, and that was enough for me. If I were to go off the grid again, I'd do it differently. It's a lot of work!!

    M in Oz
  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,582 Member
    Hello everyone, do you have a notion of how many people are on this thread?
    In the past I've been on threads with 4-10 people or so. It seems like way more here. It seems like some of you guys know one and other really well. It'll take a while to get to know everyone.



    In the interests of getting to know each other ... (we haven't done this in a little while) ... a question for everyone here ...

    Who are you?


    I am Machka.

    Machka is actually a nickname I've had for about 17 years and I use it on and off forums. When I was going through my divorce from my first marriage, I wanted to create something of a new identity for myself and so I chose a name to use on cycling forums. I'm Serbian and love cats, so Machka is the Serbian word for cat ... I also liked the name because it includes parts of my birth names. For reference, Machka is pronounced something like: Match-ka. It's a hard "ch".

    My husband and I "met" on a cycling forum first, and then in person on a very long bicycle ride in France called the Paris-Brest-Paris in 2003. So he knew me as Machka first, and still calls me Machka.

    I am Canadian-Australian. I was born in Canada and lived all over western Canada, and then moved to Australia in 2009. I became a citizen on April 2, 2016. My husband is Australian and we met in person in France (as I mentioned above), started our relationship in 2005, then had a long distance relationship until I moved in 2009. However we were married in Canada in 2008 in a very quiet ceremony on a dock on Lake Annette near Jasper, after cycling a century (100 mile ride). :)

    I was nearly finished my Bachelor of Education, so I stayed in Canada, and he returned to Australia.

    Unfortunately, in early 2009 there was a massive bushfire in Victoria, Australia and my husband's home and many of the surrounding places were wiped out. About 175 people died in that fire. It was devastating! My husband narrowly escaped with his life ... he left his place as it was going up in flame. 3 months later I moved into the area. There were no places to live, but fortunately his boss offered us a very rustic shack on the back of the orchard property ... so we lived about 2 km off the grid for my first year in Australia. I learned to cook over an open fire! And to haul water and firewood and everything. When I was able to get a job, it was in bushfire recovery.

    When the area had more or less "recovered", we were a bit burnt out, so to speak, so we popped everything into storage and did a Round-The-World trip for 8 months in 2012. Then in 2013 we moved to Tasmania where we've been since.

    I work full time, attend uni part time working toward my Master's degree in IT, and am my husband's carer after his workplace accident in 2018.

    I'm also a long distance cyclist (although there hasn't been much of that in the past year), and love being active: walking, running, rowing, weights, etc. etc. etc. :)


    So that's me in a [rather large] nutshell.


    Who are you? :smiley:
  • teklawa1
    teklawa1 Posts: 678 Member
    Rory,, so good you’re in a boot and can drive. So good on the recumbent bike. 😉

    Kim, yes I suction dredge in Alaska from breakup to freezeup. My husband says someone has to be brain dead or born to it to do what I do. Funny. I’ve been doing it all of my life and enjoy my summers. Sometimes my adult children and/or grandkids join me.

    Betsy in NW Washington
  • ginnytez
    ginnytez Posts: 1,398 Member
    So much added here in one day. Good seeing people set goals for the month and keep working.

    Who am I? Still trying to figure that out.

    64, will be 65 in November. Widowed nearly 4 years ago (we were married 29 years). Two sons and a step son. Oldest son and step married to beautiful women (and while they are physically beautiful, I am referring more to their spirit). 5 grandkids.

    Still work in an executive position which keeps me busy. Not sure when I will retire. Actually still having fun. Still working on getting used to being on my own. Grief is such a strange process, but it does get better. This weight loss journey is part of me redefining myself and taking care of me. I am enjoying my life and am trying different things slowly.

    Ginny
  • PurpleSparkles85
    PurpleSparkles85 Posts: 44 Member
    Evening, ladies,

    See, I knew there was something off. Someone I know showed me how to reset some things on my goals, and VOILA, there was a 500+ calorie difference. I think an update that I wasn’t aware of shifted things on me: that’s happened before. Maybe a blessing—this horrible cold is killing my appetite so I may be able to shift into this new calorie level easier than I thought I would. Thanks for all of the reminders, that will help too. What a lovely bunch this is💜

    Let’s see, who am I? I’m a nurse, married to a doctor for 34 years. I’m a mom of 3: two sons, 32 and 31 y/o and a daughter, 20 y/o. She is adopted from Guatemala, and fits right in with the guys because my husband is Spanish. I’m Polish, none of them look anything like me! John and I are originally from the Chicago area and after a few moves made our way to the Home of the Corvette, been here 27 years this month. I finished my Master’s degree a year ago, and cannot get a teaching or staff development position. So, we are all in school, on 3 different schedules—just like old times! My oldest son will be married 2 years next month. Love my DIL to pieces. The chaos of last year with my daughter trying to go back to live with her birth family, some may remember, but it is better and she is still home with us. My husband was retired by his anesthesia group at Christmas, 2013, the week we moved into our new house. We will both have degrees in medical billing and coding, we finish about 4 months apart. We will be off traveling again, once we can do the billing and coding remotely— have computer, can travel and work! Depending on where we hire on, we may have to spend some time in an actual facility. I have a big family and between them all there are 10 other nieces and nephews, so I still spend a lot of time in Chicago. My Mom is 80, very healthy but my dad died in 2000, my father in law in 2010 and I never met john’s mom. We have 2 of the silliest dogs on the planet: a 3 yr old Havanese (who to this day cannot drink water without nearly drowning) and a 9 yr old Yorkie that we rescued right off of the street (who thinks she is the size of a bull mastiff, belches like you wouldn’t believe after eating, and barks at anything in the dark, including my daughter’s car parked in the driveway). They wrestle and run laps several times a day and you just have to get out of the way. If i ever figure out again how to post a picture, I will.

    Thanks for starting this, Machka!

    Kathy in KY, where it is almost time for the Derby
  • drkatiebug
    drkatiebug Posts: 1,975 Member
    Ginny, I am also 64, will be 65 on Oct 27 so very, close to the exact same age. I’m sorry for the loss of your husband.
  • PurpleSparkles85
    PurpleSparkles85 Posts: 44 Member
    And I forgot: I was 60 in August.
    Kathy
  • PurpleSparkles85
    PurpleSparkles85 Posts: 44 Member
    My girls: Chula up on her favorite perch, Anela laying down. (Chula is Spanish for cute, Anela is Hawaiian for angel
  • rubyslipperss1
    rubyslipperss1 Posts: 31 Member
    Forgot to mention that I live in Houston, TX.
  • KetoneKaren
    KetoneKaren Posts: 6,412 Member
    Kim The feather patches are wonderful. That photo is so pleasing.
  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,582 Member
    spikeyhair wrote: »
    I'm 74 in 2 weeks, born and bred in Liverpool UK married for 54 years in June

    :open_mouth::love:

    spikeyhair wrote: »
    We are both retired, I was a College librarian.

    My dream job! :)


    M in Oz

  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,582 Member
    Review ... (Distances include cycling + walking + a bit of rowing)
    Mar-15 … 489.8 km (304.3 miles) = 38 hours 4 min
    Apr-15 … 491.94 km (305.6 miles) = 43 hours 6 min
    May-15 … 361.81 km (224.8 miles) = 35 hours 50 min
    Jun-15 … 569.53 km (353.9 miles) = 41 hours 53 min
    Jul-15 … 230.7 km (143.35 miles) = 32 hours 45 min
    Aug-15 … 211.3 km (131.3 miles) = 28 hours 8 min
    Sep-15 … 306.7 km (190.6 miles) = 35 hour 2 min
    Oct-15 … 441.82 km (274.5 miles) = 47 hours 43 min
    Nov-15 … 660.21 km (410.23 miles) = 60 hours 41 min
    Dec-15 … 499.91 km (282.8 miles) = 54 hours 56 min
    Jan-16 … 864.79 km (537.35 miles) = 65 hours 36 min
    Feb-16 … 470.53 km (292.4 miles) = 40 hours 39 min
    Mar-16 … 917.73 km (570.2 miles) = 66 hours 13 min
    Apr-16 … 417.83 km (259.6 miles) = 40 hours 23 min
    May-16 … 267.09 km (165.9 miles) = 36 hours 10 min
    Jun-16 … 552.1 km (343 miles) = 54 hours 48 min
    Jul-16 … 709 km (440.5 miles) = 60 hours 41 minutes
    Aug-16 … 775.9 km (482.1 miles) = 54 hours 52 minutes
    Sep-16 … 371.3 km (230.7 miles) = 32 hours 20 min
    Oct-16 … 649 km (403.3 miles) = 49 hours 46 min
    Nov-16 … 403 km (250.4 miles) = 52 hours 16 min
    Dec-16 … 511.05 km (317.55 miles) = 52 hours 2 min
    Jan-17 … 741.9 km (461.0 miles) = 70 hours 3 min
    Feb-17 … 600.5 km (373.1 miles) = 57 hours 30 min
    Mar-17 … 1113.2 km (691.7 miles) = 78 hours 25 min
    Apr-17 … 1181.9 km (734.4 miles) = 76 hours 45 min
    May-17 … 426.6 km (265.1 miles) = 39 hours 21 min
    Jun-17 … 575.7 km (357.7 miles) = 41 hours 53 min
    Jul-17 … 714 km (443.7 miles) = 52 hours 23 min
    Aug-17 … 475.8 km (295.6 miles) = 38 hours 41 min
    Sep-17 … 455.5 km (283 miles) = 41 hours 25 min
    Oct-17 … 647.1 km (402.1 miles) = 57 hours 19 min
    Nov-17 … 427.0 km (265.3 miles) = 50 hours 4 min
    Dec-17 … 553.5 km (343.9 miles) = 52 hours 12 min
    Jan-18 … 590.2 km (366.7 miles) = 57 hours 49 min
    Feb-18 … 826.9 km (513.8 miles) = 57 hours 35 min
    Mar-18 … 582.01 km (361.6 miles) = 50 hours 11 min
    Apr-18 … 176.23 km (109.5 miles) = 29 hours 47 min
    May -18 … 167.6 km (104.1 miles) = 29 hours 08 min
    June-18 … 349.9 km (217.4 miles) = 36 hours 58 minutes
    July-18 ... 324.2 km (201.5 miles) = 24 hours 26 minutes
    Aug-18 ... 210.1 km (130.6 miles) = 25 hours 59 minutes
    Sep-18 ... 261.7 km (162.6 miles) = 25 hours 11 minutes
    Oct-18 ... 230.8 km (143.4 miles) = 30 hours 15 minutes
    Nov-18 ... 216.8 km (134.7 miles) = 30 hours 3 minutes
    Dec-18 ... 285.2 km (177.2 miles) = 37 hours 49 minutes
    Jan-19 ... 241.6 km (150.1 miles) = 27 hours 2 minutes
    Feb-19 ... 175.5 km (109 miles) = 19 hours 8 minutes
    Mar-19 ... 170.3 km (105.8 miles) = 28 hours 21 minutes
    Apr-19 ... 160.3 km (99.6 miles) = 25 hours 4 minutes

    Goal: More than April. Actually, it looks like I kinda need to step up my game. I haven't cracked 30 hours of exercise in a month yet this year!! Health ... I need health!!


    Wednesday, 1 May 2019 … 1.4 km walking + 0.0 km cycling + 0.0 km rowing + 4 flights of stairs
    Thursday, 2 May 2019 … 4.2 km walking + 0.0 km cycling + 0.0 km rowing + 4 flights of stairs


    2019 Monthly May
    Walking Distance (km): 5.6
    Walking Time (min): 70.0
    Cycling Distance (km): 0.0
    Cycling Time (min): 0.0
    Flights Stairs Climbed Number: 8.0
    Flights Stairs Climbed Time (min): 6.4
    Rowing Distance (km): 0.0
    Rowing Time (min): 0.0
    Other Distance: 0.0
    Other Time: 0.0

    Totals
    Total Distance (km): 5.6
    Total Distance (miles): 3.5
    Total Time (min): 76.4
    Total Time (hr): 1:16:24
  • bananasandoranges
    bananasandoranges Posts: 2,410 Member
    midday checkin
    I awoke at 4a m to finish something
    at 1pm it feels like late in day.

    yesterday
    ✔️ 1. weighed
    ✔️2. tracked all yesterday
    ✔️ 3. 30 min exercise
    ✔️4. five minutes meditation
    ✔️5.Spend at least 2h on long term writing project
    ✔️ 6.produce at least 2 pages per day
    x 7. Take care of at least one short term (1 pagish) writing or administrative task/bill
    ✔️ 8. At least 15 min/day filing/cleaning. 1+ hour. yes
    ✔️ 9.average 1100 calories net.

    so far today
    - 1. weighed
    - 2. tracked all so far I think so
    not yet 3. 30 min exercise d
    not yet4. five minutes meditation a
    not yet5.Spend at least 2h on long term writing project c
    not yet 6.produce at least 2 pages per day
    ✔️7. Take care of at least one short term (1 pagish) writing or administrative task/bill. yes, much more than 1 page
    not yet 8. At least 15 min/day filing/cleaning. 1+ hour. yes b
    - 9.average 1100 calories net, let's see


    • Overall Feeling: medium
    • Tracking : medium, I weighed breakfast then stressed getting home. I'm not sure if I forgot something (like a chocolate square)
    • Exercise: not yet
    • 1100 calories net : already at 900+at 1pm. Gonna be a veggie evening? Salad, green beans, condiments and a lean protein?
    • Long term writing: good yesterday, it's working out with good corrector
    • Short term writing/admin : was up in wee hours listening to typescript for 3+ hours and taking notes.glad that's over.
    • Bright Spots today : I think I may have tracked all even if I was and am feeling pretty anxious

    Today im grateful for
    1. it's working out with corrector
    2. checked almost all of yesterday
    3. I have to leave work I worked on this morning to others to do next steps
    4. green earl gray tea
    5. I'm able to stop somewhat even though I'm feeling pretty anxious
  • bananasandoranges
    bananasandoranges Posts: 2,410 Member
    NYKaren, are you retiring soon, or planning for early retirement or something?
    I've been teaching for ages. though it's a vocation I've been thinking I might like to move onto something else. I have sometimes thought teaching is good to do for just part of a career. my brother left tech and went into teaching at around 50. I have mostly taught. the idea of not teaching appeals to me.

    Kate I think I might have liked being a librarian. did you like it? where in Greece and spain do you go?

    Kim Awesome about the nice hotel and travel buddy. Lovely wedding gifts. I was thinking when going to an event like that I don't hesitate to hunker down in my room when I need to. hopefully there will be something or someone really worthwhile to connect with. so sorry about your brother and what you went through with him.

    Hi Ruby, I'm new too, just 1 week old on this thread.

    Tracey congratulations on weight loss and maintenance. I hope you get a job you like soon. what field are you looking into?

    Connie great news about your health!

    Machka. thanks for the question.

    I checked in and then read up backwards and saw this recurring "who am I" question as a notable pattern! (lol!)

    I'm gonna come back to that.

    At present I'm mostly gonna whinge. I need to blow off a little steam. I'm feeling super stressed at present. I'm 55, a teacher. was a union rep last year; am still following up on some union stuff today and it stresses me out as the direction is not upright.
    when I was young I would just leave if I didn't like something about a place, but at 55 it's less simple and also the economy is less good then in my youngun days.

    though nothing super stressful happened, going to deal with this union thing today (I also had to wake up very early to listen to typescript and correct very erroneous minutes (the direction omits and twists things around).

    So back home at 11ish to send something, some little mindless sweet eating (but still can maybe stay on track today) I had some dairy free coconut ice cream and a GF chocolate chunk cookie m&s, not a huge thing. but also good breakfast and an egg and lean meat for lunch.

    I feel pain and chills and tired partly from stress, partly maybe from getting up so early.
    I tend to feel chills when I feel stressed and want to crawl into bed.

    I would like to chill after an intense long morning but my correctors are expecting to hear from me today.
    also I'm stressed because the cheaper, less qualified one is available and I have to cancel out on the also good but less specialised and slightly more expensive (but not very expensive) one.

    I would like to take a nap but need to contact the one I'm cancelling on and get some work done to send to the one I'm not cancelling on.

    looking at my undone list, checking off some of that might make me feel good. 5 minutes meditation, then cleaning, then walk, then only the 2h will remain.

    I think if I wasn't on this thread I would have had a mini indulgence. as it is I maybe caught myself in time. I'll see.

    I enjoy reading your "who am I?"s and want to take the time to read them a few at a time.

    thanks
  • Jen8000LM
    Jen8000LM Posts: 8 Member
    Happy "May Day" plus 1!

    Great day to hit the "reset" button for me. I started tracking and exercising in August. It has taken me all this time to lose 10 lbs, but I am ok with that. The problem now is that I have not been faithful tracking and 3 lbs. have crept back. Urghhhhhhh! I know that if I don't get back to my routines of exercising and tracking, I will gain it all back.

    Goal for this month is to lose the 3 lbs. that I gained. I know what I need to do--I just need to do it! Have a great day ladies!
  • Machka9
    Machka9 Posts: 25,582 Member
    Thanks for all your support.

    I have heard nothing from the letters I sent.

    Way too early to hear anything.

    You'll get one of two reactions:

    1) The letter will be considered one of many complaint letters which will either be ignored along with hundreds of others or you'll eventually get a formal letter thanking you for your letter and telling you they'll take it under consideration. If you get this kind of response, it will likely take 2-3 weeks, at least, because there are likely a pile of them to do and the office person might send out a dozen a day or something.

    2) They'll consider it important enough to give you a real response, but in order to do so they'll have to send your letter to the lawyers and let the lawyers come up with a legally appropriate response. That'll take at least a month, probably more like 2 or 3 months.


    Be patient! If you're going to get a good response from them, it will be a while.


    M in Oz