Messages from creepers :-/

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  • cowsfan12
    cowsfan12 Posts: 6,176 Member
    renydo2 wrote: »
    So is it just me or is this creepy?
    When I see someone that has 85 friends and they are all of the opposite sex - I think that's weird.
    Whether it be a guy or girl - thoughts?

    What would a non creepy ratio be?? My current chick to dude ratio is 70/30 - creepy or no creepy??
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    renydo2 wrote: »
    So is it just me or is this creepy?
    When I see someone that has 85 friends and they are all of the opposite sex - I think that's weird.
    Whether it be a guy or girl - thoughts?

    I used to think so but now I think it depends. Some people are just more comfortable with the opposite sex.
  • renydo2
    renydo2 Posts: 2,153 Member
    :D - no creepy - just think that surely you would find someone or more - that you would want to be friends with of the same sex - just for support and to support if that's what you really signed up to do - and have fun with - get opinions from - seek advice from - you know - real life *kitten*
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    renydo2 wrote: »
    :D - no creepy - just think that surely you would find someone or more - that you would want to be friends with of the same sex - just for support and to support if that's what you really signed up to do - and have fun with - get opinions from - seek advice from - you know - real life *kitten*

    That probably works for you 🙂
  • MrAcavano
    MrAcavano Posts: 197 Member
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    1sphere wrote: »
    Guys also get creep messages from (gay) guys. In case you’re wondering, females aren’t the only victims

    Guys (straight/gay?) also get creep messages from women (straight) too. I think a lot of us know that......there are some THIRSTY women on here.

    Apparently not thirsty enough. What does a person have to do to get a creeper?
  • renydo2
    renydo2 Posts: 2,153 Member
    1sphere wrote: »
    renydo2 wrote: »
    So is it just me or is this creepy?
    When I see someone that has 85 friends and they are all of the opposite sex - I think that's weird.
    Whether it be a guy or girl - thoughts?
    It's a game.

    It's like pokemon. But without pokemon.

    don't know much about pokemon except that my boy used to collect and trade them like i did baseball cards - but i get your point
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  • cowsfan12
    cowsfan12 Posts: 6,176 Member
    MrAcavano wrote: »
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    1sphere wrote: »
    Guys also get creep messages from (gay) guys. In case you’re wondering, females aren’t the only victims

    Guys (straight/gay?) also get creep messages from women (straight) too. I think a lot of us know that......there are some THIRSTY women on here.

    Apparently not thirsty enough. What does a person have to do to get a creeper?

    Headless torso pic bro -
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  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    renydo2 wrote: »
    So is it just me or is this creepy?
    When I see someone that has 85 friends and they are all of the opposite sex - I think that's weird.
    Whether it be a guy or girl - thoughts?

    I accept everyone, and hardly ever send fr myself... Regardless, about 90% of my mfp's are women...

    It ain't my fault, nor by design 🤷🏽‍♂️...

    Also, while I accept everyone I'm openly reluctant to accept guys (although I do) because I feel sometimes they just want to go through my mfp list and then delete me... I've seen it happen
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    renydo2 wrote: »
    So is it just me or is this creepy?
    When I see someone that has 85 friends and they are all of the opposite sex - I think that's weird.
    Whether it be a guy or girl - thoughts?

    I accept everyone, and hardly ever send fr myself... Regardless, about 90% of my mfp's are women...

    It ain't my fault, nor by design 🤷🏽‍♂️...

    Also, while I accept everyone I'm openly reluctant to accept guys (although I do) because I feel sometimes they just want to go through my mfp list and then delete me... I've seen it happen

    In a past life same but switch the genders
  • XxFunctionalStrengthxX
    XxFunctionalStrengthxX Posts: 2,466 Member
    renydo2 wrote: »
    So is it just me or is this creepy?
    When I see someone that has 85 friends and they are all of the opposite sex - I think that's weird.
    Whether it be a guy or girl - thoughts?

    I accept everyone, and hardly ever send fr myself... Regardless, about 90% of my mfp's are women...

    It ain't my fault, nor by design 🤷🏽‍♂️...

    Also, while I accept everyone I'm openly reluctant to accept guys (although I do) because I feel sometimes they just want to go through my mfp list and then delete me... I've seen it happen

    In a past life same but switch the genders

    Is why it's exceptionally rare for me to send a request, as I really only add people I communicate with regularly. It's probably just as rare for me to get a FR because of it. :p
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    renydo2 wrote: »
    So is it just me or is this creepy?
    When I see someone that has 85 friends and they are all of the opposite sex - I think that's weird.
    Whether it be a guy or girl - thoughts?

    I accept everyone, and hardly ever send fr myself... Regardless, about 90% of my mfp's are women...

    It ain't my fault, nor by design 🤷🏽‍♂️...

    Also, while I accept everyone I'm openly reluctant to accept guys (although I do) because I feel sometimes they just want to go through my mfp list and then delete me... I've seen it happen

    In a past life same but switch the genders

    Is why it's exceptionally rare for me to send a request, as I really only add people I communicate with regularly. It's probably just as rare for me to get a FR because of it. :p

    Oh no, i mean i got at least one fr from a woman who was trying to scope out my FL and my interactions with them.

    You should send out more FRs.
  • XxFunctionalStrengthxX
    XxFunctionalStrengthxX Posts: 2,466 Member
    renydo2 wrote: »
    So is it just me or is this creepy?
    When I see someone that has 85 friends and they are all of the opposite sex - I think that's weird.
    Whether it be a guy or girl - thoughts?

    I accept everyone, and hardly ever send fr myself... Regardless, about 90% of my mfp's are women...

    It ain't my fault, nor by design 🤷🏽‍♂️...

    Also, while I accept everyone I'm openly reluctant to accept guys (although I do) because I feel sometimes they just want to go through my mfp list and then delete me... I've seen it happen

    In a past life same but switch the genders

    Is why it's exceptionally rare for me to send a request, as I really only add people I communicate with regularly. It's probably just as rare for me to get a FR because of it. :p

    Oh no, i mean i got at least one fr from a woman who was trying to scope out my FL and my interactions with them.

    You should send out more FRs.

    Yep, I kind of understood that part. But, even so, I'm still limiting on who I send/receive FR's with.

    If you don't really interact with someone, or plan to, why bother? It's like these people with massive friend's lists on FB.
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    renydo2 wrote: »
    So is it just me or is this creepy?
    When I see someone that has 85 friends and they are all of the opposite sex - I think that's weird.
    Whether it be a guy or girl - thoughts?

    I accept everyone, and hardly ever send fr myself... Regardless, about 90% of my mfp's are women...

    It ain't my fault, nor by design 🤷🏽‍♂️...

    Also, while I accept everyone I'm openly reluctant to accept guys (although I do) because I feel sometimes they just want to go through my mfp list and then delete me... I've seen it happen

    In a past life same but switch the genders

    Is why it's exceptionally rare for me to send a request, as I really only add people I communicate with regularly. It's probably just as rare for me to get a FR because of it. :p

    Oh no, i mean i got at least one fr from a woman who was trying to scope out my FL and my interactions with them.

    You should send out more FRs.

    Yep, I kind of understood that part. But, even so, I'm still limiting on who I send/receive FR's with.

    If you don't really interact with someone, or plan to, why bother? It's like these people with massive friend's lists on FB.

    I have two rules for FB: 1. I must know you irl

    And 2. You must not annoy me too much

    My mfp rules are much stricter
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    renydo2 wrote: »
    So is it just me or is this creepy?
    When I see someone that has 85 friends and they are all of the opposite sex - I think that's weird.
    Whether it be a guy or girl - thoughts?

    I accept everyone, and hardly ever send fr myself... Regardless, about 90% of my mfp's are women...

    It ain't my fault, nor by design 🤷🏽‍♂️...

    Also, while I accept everyone I'm openly reluctant to accept guys (although I do) because I feel sometimes they just want to go through my mfp list and then delete me... I've seen it happen

    In a past life same but switch the genders

    Is why it's exceptionally rare for me to send a request, as I really only add people I communicate with regularly. It's probably just as rare for me to get a FR because of it. :p

    Oh no, i mean i got at least one fr from a woman who was trying to scope out my FL and my interactions with them.

    You should send out more FRs.

    Yep, I kind of understood that part. But, even so, I'm still limiting on who I send/receive FR's with.

    If you don't really interact with someone, or plan to, why bother? It's like these people with massive friend's lists on FB.

    I have two rules for FB: 1. I must know you irl

    And 2. You must not annoy me too much

    My mfp rules are much stricter

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  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    renydo2 wrote: »
    So is it just me or is this creepy?
    When I see someone that has 85 friends and they are all of the opposite sex - I think that's weird.
    Whether it be a guy or girl - thoughts?

    I accept everyone, and hardly ever send fr myself... Regardless, about 90% of my mfp's are women...

    It ain't my fault, nor by design 🤷🏽‍♂️...

    Also, while I accept everyone I'm openly reluctant to accept guys (although I do) because I feel sometimes they just want to go through my mfp list and then delete me... I've seen it happen

    In a past life same but switch the genders

    Is why it's exceptionally rare for me to send a request, as I really only add people I communicate with regularly. It's probably just as rare for me to get a FR because of it. :p

    Oh no, i mean i got at least one fr from a woman who was trying to scope out my FL and my interactions with them.

    You should send out more FRs.

    Yep, I kind of understood that part. But, even so, I'm still limiting on who I send/receive FR's with.

    If you don't really interact with someone, or plan to, why bother? It's like these people with massive friend's lists on FB.

    I have two rules for FB: 1. I must know you irl

    And 2. You must not annoy me too much

    My mfp rules are much stricter

    giphy.gif?cid=ecf05e477dbef38ef84f2139327a83867287412ca6d1cc69&rid=giphy.gif

    Mfp rule # 1. You must be hot
  • XxFunctionalStrengthxX
    XxFunctionalStrengthxX Posts: 2,466 Member
    renydo2 wrote: »
    So is it just me or is this creepy?
    When I see someone that has 85 friends and they are all of the opposite sex - I think that's weird.
    Whether it be a guy or girl - thoughts?

    I accept everyone, and hardly ever send fr myself... Regardless, about 90% of my mfp's are women...

    It ain't my fault, nor by design 🤷🏽‍♂️...

    Also, while I accept everyone I'm openly reluctant to accept guys (although I do) because I feel sometimes they just want to go through my mfp list and then delete me... I've seen it happen

    In a past life same but switch the genders

    Is why it's exceptionally rare for me to send a request, as I really only add people I communicate with regularly. It's probably just as rare for me to get a FR because of it. :p

    Oh no, i mean i got at least one fr from a woman who was trying to scope out my FL and my interactions with them.

    You should send out more FRs.

    Yep, I kind of understood that part. But, even so, I'm still limiting on who I send/receive FR's with.

    If you don't really interact with someone, or plan to, why bother? It's like these people with massive friend's lists on FB.

    I have two rules for FB: 1. I must know you irl

    And 2. You must not annoy me too much

    My mfp rules are much stricter

    #2 right?


    My FB rules are prohibitively restrictive: Don't use it. ;)
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    renydo2 wrote: »
    So is it just me or is this creepy?
    When I see someone that has 85 friends and they are all of the opposite sex - I think that's weird.
    Whether it be a guy or girl - thoughts?

    I accept everyone, and hardly ever send fr myself... Regardless, about 90% of my mfp's are women...

    It ain't my fault, nor by design 🤷🏽‍♂️...

    Also, while I accept everyone I'm openly reluctant to accept guys (although I do) because I feel sometimes they just want to go through my mfp list and then delete me... I've seen it happen

    In a past life same but switch the genders

    Is why it's exceptionally rare for me to send a request, as I really only add people I communicate with regularly. It's probably just as rare for me to get a FR because of it. :p

    Oh no, i mean i got at least one fr from a woman who was trying to scope out my FL and my interactions with them.

    You should send out more FRs.

    Yep, I kind of understood that part. But, even so, I'm still limiting on who I send/receive FR's with.

    If you don't really interact with someone, or plan to, why bother? It's like these people with massive friend's lists on FB.

    I have two rules for FB: 1. I must know you irl

    And 2. You must not annoy me too much

    My mfp rules are much stricter

    giphy.gif?cid=ecf05e477dbef38ef84f2139327a83867287412ca6d1cc69&rid=giphy.gif

    Mfp rule # 1. You must be hot

    Ut oh.....
  • MelG7777
    MelG7777 Posts: 14,251 Member
    renydo2 wrote: »
    So is it just me or is this creepy?
    When I see someone that has 85 friends and they are all of the opposite sex - I think that's weird.
    Whether it be a guy or girl - thoughts?

    I accept everyone, and hardly ever send fr myself... Regardless, about 90% of my mfp's are women...

    It ain't my fault, nor by design 🤷🏽‍♂️...

    Also, while I accept everyone I'm openly reluctant to accept guys (although I do) because I feel sometimes they just want to go through my mfp list and then delete me... I've seen it happen

    In a past life same but switch the genders

    Is why it's exceptionally rare for me to send a request, as I really only add people I communicate with regularly. It's probably just as rare for me to get a FR because of it. :p

    Oh no, i mean i got at least one fr from a woman who was trying to scope out my FL and my interactions with them.

    You should send out more FRs.

    I swear! I said this on my wall a few weeks ago. I don’t think people got what I was saying. I think people do that to me?? Seems like mostly females and then all of a sudden you see “New Female Friend is friends with......a bunch of people on my FL, mostly guys” I don’t know if it’s necessarily bad but I do find it curious. Maybe the guys are happy about it. Who knows.
  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    renydo2 wrote: »
    So is it just me or is this creepy?
    When I see someone that has 85 friends and they are all of the opposite sex - I think that's weird.
    Whether it be a guy or girl - thoughts?

    I accept everyone, and hardly ever send fr myself... Regardless, about 90% of my mfp's are women...

    It ain't my fault, nor by design 🤷🏽‍♂️...

    Also, while I accept everyone I'm openly reluctant to accept guys (although I do) because I feel sometimes they just want to go through my mfp list and then delete me... I've seen it happen

    In a past life same but switch the genders

    Is why it's exceptionally rare for me to send a request, as I really only add people I communicate with regularly. It's probably just as rare for me to get a FR because of it. :p

    Oh no, i mean i got at least one fr from a woman who was trying to scope out my FL and my interactions with them.

    You should send out more FRs.

    I swear! I said this on my wall a few weeks ago. I don’t think people got what I was saying. I think people do that to me?? Seems like mostly females and then all of a sudden you see “New Female Friend is friends with......a bunch of people on my FL, mostly guys” I don’t know if it’s necessarily bad but I do find it curious. Maybe the guys are happy about it. Who knows.
    I don’t mind sharing friends. It can be fun sharing jokes if you can see everyone’s wall. Especially since I take almost nothing here seriously. But sometimes there’s shade. Kwim?
  • MelG7777
    MelG7777 Posts: 14,251 Member
    MrAcavano wrote: »
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    1sphere wrote: »
    Guys also get creep messages from (gay) guys. In case you’re wondering, females aren’t the only victims

    Guys (straight/gay?) also get creep messages from women (straight) too. I think a lot of us know that......there are some THIRSTY women on here.

    Apparently not thirsty enough. What does a person have to do to get a creeper?

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  • magnusthenerd
    magnusthenerd Posts: 1,207 Member
    I'd suspect the women sending men creepy messages on MFP is probably higher than a lot of other platforms. As a diet site, the user base is going to be skewed towards women. There is a tendency in populations with higher female to male ratios, women become bolder.
  • MelG7777
    MelG7777 Posts: 14,251 Member
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    renydo2 wrote: »
    So is it just me or is this creepy?
    When I see someone that has 85 friends and they are all of the opposite sex - I think that's weird.
    Whether it be a guy or girl - thoughts?

    I accept everyone, and hardly ever send fr myself... Regardless, about 90% of my mfp's are women...

    It ain't my fault, nor by design 🤷🏽‍♂️...

    Also, while I accept everyone I'm openly reluctant to accept guys (although I do) because I feel sometimes they just want to go through my mfp list and then delete me... I've seen it happen

    In a past life same but switch the genders

    Is why it's exceptionally rare for me to send a request, as I really only add people I communicate with regularly. It's probably just as rare for me to get a FR because of it. :p

    Oh no, i mean i got at least one fr from a woman who was trying to scope out my FL and my interactions with them.

    You should send out more FRs.

    I swear! I said this on my wall a few weeks ago. I don’t think people got what I was saying. I think people do that to me?? Seems like mostly females and then all of a sudden you see “New Female Friend is friends with......a bunch of people on my FL, mostly guys” I don’t know if it’s necessarily bad but I do find it curious. Maybe the guys are happy about it. Who knows.
    I don’t mind sharing friends. It can be fun sharing jokes if you can see everyone’s wall. Especially since I take almost nothing here seriously. But sometimes there’s shade. Kwim?

    Definitely. I kind of see it as...they see some pretty awesome, encouraging people who like to interact. And they want in. Usually anyway.
  • XxFunctionalStrengthxX
    XxFunctionalStrengthxX Posts: 2,466 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    renydo2 wrote: »
    So is it just me or is this creepy?
    When I see someone that has 85 friends and they are all of the opposite sex - I think that's weird.
    Whether it be a guy or girl - thoughts?

    I accept everyone, and hardly ever send fr myself... Regardless, about 90% of my mfp's are women...

    It ain't my fault, nor by design 🤷🏽‍♂️...

    Also, while I accept everyone I'm openly reluctant to accept guys (although I do) because I feel sometimes they just want to go through my mfp list and then delete me... I've seen it happen

    In a past life same but switch the genders

    Is why it's exceptionally rare for me to send a request, as I really only add people I communicate with regularly. It's probably just as rare for me to get a FR because of it. :p

    Oh no, i mean i got at least one fr from a woman who was trying to scope out my FL and my interactions with them.

    You should send out more FRs.

    Yep, I kind of understood that part. But, even so, I'm still limiting on who I send/receive FR's with.

    If you don't really interact with someone, or plan to, why bother? It's like these people with massive friend's lists on FB.

    I have two rules for FB: 1. I must know you irl

    And 2. You must not annoy me too much

    My mfp rules are much stricter

    giphy.gif?cid=ecf05e477dbef38ef84f2139327a83867287412ca6d1cc69&rid=giphy.gif

    Mfp rule # 1. You must be hot

    Can't be strict on those rules, you added me.
  • PaperDoll_
    PaperDoll_ Posts: 32,857 Member
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    renydo2 wrote: »
    So is it just me or is this creepy?
    When I see someone that has 85 friends and they are all of the opposite sex - I think that's weird.
    Whether it be a guy or girl - thoughts?

    I accept everyone, and hardly ever send fr myself... Regardless, about 90% of my mfp's are women...

    It ain't my fault, nor by design 🤷🏽‍♂️...

    Also, while I accept everyone I'm openly reluctant to accept guys (although I do) because I feel sometimes they just want to go through my mfp list and then delete me... I've seen it happen

    In a past life same but switch the genders

    Is why it's exceptionally rare for me to send a request, as I really only add people I communicate with regularly. It's probably just as rare for me to get a FR because of it. :p

    Oh no, i mean i got at least one fr from a woman who was trying to scope out my FL and my interactions with them.

    You should send out more FRs.

    I swear! I said this on my wall a few weeks ago. I don’t think people got what I was saying. I think people do that to me?? Seems like mostly females and then all of a sudden you see “New Female Friend is friends with......a bunch of people on my FL, mostly guys” I don’t know if it’s necessarily bad but I do find it curious. Maybe the guys are happy about it. Who knows.
    I don’t mind sharing friends. It can be fun sharing jokes if you can see everyone’s wall. Especially since I take almost nothing here seriously. But sometimes there’s shade. Kwim?

    Definitely. I kind of see it as...they see some pretty awesome, encouraging people who like to interact. And they want in. Usually anyway.

    I’ve been adding all your friends and including a message saying you told me to. 😏
  • PaperDoll_
    PaperDoll_ Posts: 32,857 Member
    I'd suspect the women sending men creepy messages on MFP is probably higher than a lot of other platforms. As a diet site, the user base is going to be skewed towards women. There is a tendency in populations with higher female to male ratios, women become bolder.

    Truth. And their sick fetishes start to come out. What’s all this about “leg day” and “arm day”? 🙄
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    PaperDoll_ wrote: »
    I'd suspect the women sending men creepy messages on MFP is probably higher than a lot of other platforms. As a diet site, the user base is going to be skewed towards women. There is a tendency in populations with higher female to male ratios, women become bolder.

    Truth. And their sick fetishes start to come out. What’s all this about “leg day” and “arm day”? 🙄

    "Everyday is Leg Day... if you do it right."

    ~ some girl from my gym
  • PaperDoll_
    PaperDoll_ Posts: 32,857 Member
    Motorsheen wrote: »
    PaperDoll_ wrote: »
    I'd suspect the women sending men creepy messages on MFP is probably higher than a lot of other platforms. As a diet site, the user base is going to be skewed towards women. There is a tendency in populations with higher female to male ratios, women become bolder.

    Truth. And their sick fetishes start to come out. What’s all this about “leg day” and “arm day”? 🙄

    "Everyday is Leg Day... if you do it right."

    ~ some girl from my gym

    Must be more females at your gym 🤷‍♀️
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