WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR MAY 2020
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Amber I am so sorry!!!! It sounds like the same group who is causing havoc up here. Someone saw a man just like you described set a fire. There are cars of people with no plates or stolen plates who are causing some of the problems here. Last night the curfew was enforced and we did not have the problems. Yes there were some peaceful protesters what they do not understand is they are being used by this element that only wants to cause pain and destruction for their own agenda that has nothing to do with honoring George Floyd. I was cheering and clapping on how our state handled themselves. If someone was hurt it was because they were out past curfew. No one was killed. This is the reason to have police. To maintain order without loss of life. So proud of our state and city leaders, police, and national guard.
Many people came out the day of the destruction to start cleaning up. It is like our town was hit by a natural disaster except this was man made.
My prayers is this carries over tonight too. I am for another couple nights of curfew!4 -
Snowflake1968 wrote: »Lisa - I am so envious of your clothesline. I don’t understand why so many HOA’s, condo associations, etc do not allow clotheslines. I hope that one day all of this getting back to simpler times, better environmental impacts, etc will bring back the clothesline for summer at least. I do not like towels and jeans on the line though.
Kelly - Woohoo! Congratulations!
Katla - I bet you are right. Those “remember that time” memories are the best usually! You painted a pretty picture in my mind with your words.
Rebecca - I am as fussy as your son when he was young. I wouldn’t even drink the protein shakes. I don’t like anything resembling a milkshake. This is one of the reasons I can’t go to a nursing home. I am leaving explicit instructions for my girls. Although my youngest seems to know me very well. She does those “how well do you know your Mom” quizzes on Facebook and nails it every single time.
Amber - My grandchildren have learned to like some new food throughout this pandemic too. I feel this has really changed their little personalities. The first time we saw them a couple or three weeks ago they seemed more mature. The saddest though is that they give air hugs and air kisses now and stop to ask if they can hug me or come near me.
Michele - I had to stifle a giggle at Denise’s reaction to a gift for PJ with her birthday card. I know how she feels.
My Grandson was born on my birthday I’m 2011. In 2012 a parcel arrives from my parents to my house. I open this huge box that is filled with gifts for Jonah. My Mother had sent me a card and a newspaper as there was a picture of my nephew in it. I have complained about that ever since. I didn’t begrudge Jonah and he was their first great Grandchild to boot, but I do bring it up a lot. I think partially as that was my last birthday that my Dad was alive.
Last night our youngest came for a social distance visit. She visited on our deck that she helped build for 6 hours. It was so nice, she was talking about her fear and excitement of being first time home owners, told us the plans she has for decorating. It was just a beautiful visit and I shake my head at the remarkable young woman she is. So incredibly happy and has a husband that takes her feelings, needs and wants into consideration before any decisions are made. I am amazed at these two and so proud of them.
Today our eldest daughter and Grands came for a visit. My daughter and I worked on a part of a project that she wants for her house. She is making a command centre. It is going to have the weekly menu, chore charts for the kids, backpack space and inspirational quotes. I can’t wait to see it all come together. My eldest daughter has struggled all of her life to be tidy. She has always strived for it but if things get behind even one day it always seem to snowball on her. Since schools and stores closed she has been working her way through her house from top to bottom. She has all 3 bedrooms, the upstairs bath and hallway, the playroom and part of the living room finished and daily she tidies the ones she previously did. She seems to be more fun with the kids, not just the disciplinarian. Her husband is a wonderful man, but he is the fun parent and it has bothered her. Again I am so proud of her. I just had such a great evening and day that I can’t stop gushing. I am so blessed and grateful.
We are training our eldest Navy son, (that we room with), to care for us. We are being sneaky so he doesn't realize it.💖
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Barbara, the Southern Oregon Coastie AHMOD, good idea! I need to start buying those "onesies" prunes in individual packets, one a day like a vitamin! I think I said "Norwegian Lutheran" !💖
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trucker743 wrote: »Pat in Ohio, lovely African violet! Is the second one an azalea of some sort, or possibly a rhododendron?
Lanette and Rebecca, that was a thriller for sure. I remember sitting in front of the tv well after the astronauts had gone to bed just staring at the lander and that flag. Spellbound for hours. I just had a really tough time digesting it.
It was a bit like when I went to a Martin Luther King Day celebration when my daughter was in 2nd grade. The kids were all holding hands and singing “We Shall Overcome”, and I burst into tears of joy as I saw many races all singing together and being friends in the classroom. All I could think of was how I’d see “I Have A Dream” come to pass. Of course we have devastating news like the rioting and that horrifying death, but I do know things have changed. I remember separate everything, and segregation of schools and voter suppression being a commonplace in the South
Sharon, Up Too Late, Near Seattle
Hugs my fellow Washingtonian! The news is definitely disturbing, but just like any news these days, take it in, but don't mull it around too much. We have a group of extremists that are inserting themselves into peaceful protests in most every major city. They are not from the cities, nor do they represent the mindset of most Americans. Violence does not beget more violence. Its not a normal course of action. Have faith that we will all rise above this madness.💖 hugs!
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Richmond will be under curfew from 8pm to 6am starting tonight. Looting, vandalism targeting police headquarters, police cars, GRTC bus, and local businesses. Perhaps the saddest was extensive damage done to an inner city dentist's office. All the windows smashed and much damage done to the building. Dr Adams, the dentist owner, has take care of an underserved population, especially children, for the last 30 years. It's senseless.7
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My vertigo has made itself known again.😢 Just enough to make my head feel like its not attached!
I made a tortilla meal this morning. I had hit my 20 hr mark so I pretty much wanted to eat my arm off. I sauteed beef kielbasa sausage, taking it all out of the pan. I fried 3 whipped eggs and a handful of shredded cabbage. As it was frying, I added some diced tomatoes with sweet onions, and some black sliced olives. I turned it over so it wasn't runny or anything, adding some fresh spinach and put a lid on it to wilt it. I baked a hash brown patty in the oven and sliced it up. Plating it, I used the tortilla and put the egg mixture with spinach and a handful of sausage, then some hash brown down the sides. I sprinkled some Mexican shredded cheese and warmed it all in the microwave, and rolled it up. Then I promptly handed it to my Navy son that came into the kitchen!!! Haahaa! I ate a similar one an hour later. Sometimes I get so excited to eat, I just kinda turn off.
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Im home,didnt even bring everything in from the car,Jean didnt get home till 4 .she wanted mom asleep so she wouldn't have to deal with her,she fed her and gave her her pills and that will be it..a the interaction with her mother.. sad isnt it?..
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Margaret- Someone lit a parol Officer on fire 🔥 here.
Arrested only 6 people mainly minors.
Amber Tx
Hubby saw I’m fading fast tired so tired so family car drive they trip to McDonald’s y Starbucks for sugar y caffeine’s. JR not getting any caffeine ! He gots his fries 🍟 y a tiny piece of cookie
Now to wait for JR to fall asleep 🛏.
Looks like rain here praying it pours! Can’t riot in Texas storms!3 -
I'm not commenting on the country's unrest because, like Katiebug, I just can't. I keep flinching away from it--can't change it, can't fix it, can't bear it.
So... it's been a terrific day here in the country. Worked in the yard all morning - Corey burned the brush we cut down a month ago, but it's been too wet to burn until now. While he did that, I yanked the weed-stop (black material that is supposed to stop the weeds) out of one of my front flower beds, and will get the other one tomorrow morning. Useless mess, the crabgrass went through it like a hot knife through butter. Won't do that again, will just leave enough room between the plants to use a grubbing hoe to weed, and keep it that.
Am cooking again, tonight is grilled fajita chicken and rice. Only comes out to about 690 calories for the entire dish, and feeds two with leftovers. Odd to be cooking again. I don't much, as Corey's the cook on a day-to-day basis.... but my head is completely here, so I feel like I can--I'm not thinking about what I have to get done tomorrow, I'm just here. Present.
See you in June!
Love y'all,
Lisa in AR
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I love the “view from my window” photos. Thank you for sharing. My id photo on mfp is sunrise from my window.
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I can't believe my sister wants to come visit my elderly parents in the middle of a pandemic. Just because economic pressure is forcing things to reopen doesn't mean the risk is gone. So reckless! She would be flying from TN to Baltimore then driving to Delaware. And bringing her grandson who is a noisy boisterous child. I really want to just hide until all of this goes away.6
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Anniesquats100 wrote: »I can't believe my sister wants to come visit my elderly parents in the middle of a pandemic. Just because economic pressure is forcing things to reopen doesn't mean the risk is gone. So reckless! She would be flying from TN to Baltimore then driving to Delaware. And bringing her grandson who is a noisy boisterous child. I really want to just hide until all of this goes away.
Does your state have a self isolate rule when coming in from another state? In New Brunswick where my Mom is if you go to the province from any other place you must self isolate for 14 days.
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Yes they do have a self quarantine rule for out of state people today, but a lot of the rules change tomorrow and I can't find whether that does or not.1
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Annie, Can't you and your parents tell your sister that she is not welcome to come now. We told everyone that no one is welcome to come to our house. My husband is 74 years old with multiple high risk factors and he told his children that if they were to come to the house, he wouldn't let them in. 2
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Destructive Protests ... there are no words ...
Amber ... is there a possibility that you would have to flee your home due to protester violence? Did I understand that right?
Pat in Ohio ... good to see you posting!
Rita ... cute little jumper!
Kelly ... I've seen the face masks with the clear inserts. They would be helpful, but others would have to wear them for me to be able to lip-read and most of my interactions with the public at this time are limited/random.
Heather ... I've been thinking about the stewed fruit and yogurt you mention from time to time. I know you make your own yogurt ... I do too. What exactly does DH do with stewed fruit? Are you cooking down whatever you have on hand? Is he adding anything to the fruit? I'm trying to get my husband to move away from ice cream and mentioned yogurt and fruit and he was interested!
My son was to drive back to Nashville (which saw destruction) tomorrow, but his dad and I have asked that he stay home a few more days until we see how the violence plays out. Traveling through these major cities where there's so much violence has us worried. He thinks we're worrying too much, but has agreed that a couple more days away from his apartment is going to make much of a difference. I'd really like him to agree to having his dad travel with him, but he's not keen on the idea. I'm also concerned because he has an expired temporary license plate on his car (long story) and my overactive imagination is conjuring up all kinds of scenarios about that and they don't end well.
Slowly getting the pool up and running. As we've gotten beyond the ripped cover and debris dumping into the pool, we've also found other problems ... tile falling off the spa walls, split equipment pipes, broken covers. It's going to take all summer to get it back in shape. Michele ... do you use an automatic pool vacuum? If so what brand. I'm getting tired of cleaning the pool.
Today I participated in a virtual baby shower for a friend's son and daughter-in-law. It was a lovely way to spend a few hours on a Sunday afternoon.
Just received a town emergency message that our little town/village 20 miles outside of Buffalo is on curfew and that there are reports of active vandalism occurring. Officials are concerned for businesses and homes. Sheer insanity.
Beth near Buffalo
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Then new thread is ready for June. I am impressed that I got it done since I mostly have no idea what day it is.
https://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/discussion/10798633/women-ages-50-for-june-2020#latest3 -
Beth- Thought we would have to they drove up y down on loud blow horns yelling y honking when we checked the news saw violence in other areas. Got lucky our area last night was just screaming protestors who didn’t damage.Hopefully tonight nothing or just yelling. Some areas had busted windows on homes near the Alamo area. My father-in-law bravely went downtown this morning to give us an update give estimates to anyone needing one for insurance reasons. He said it was disaster area. We have bags packed but live down a 1 way out area would be hard to get out we live in a dead end spot. So far nothing on the news hopefully the expected sprinkles off y on today y tonight they’ll reschedule. Let’s hope it pours rain 🌧. Curfew tonight starts at 10pm.
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I decided that even though the visit is not my decision, I should provide some facts to my sister. So I found the governor's guidance for phase one of the reopening, and sent her the relevant parts like avoid leisure travel, vulnerable people like my parents remain on lockdown, people from different households keep six feet apart, and still masks in public. I texted it might not be the best time for a visit. She said ok, but I don't know what she means by that. But I stood up for myself and gave her facts, and that's all I can do.
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@Sharon Monkey mind is "unsettled; restless; capricious; whimsical; fanciful; inconstant; confused; indecisive; uncontrollable".https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Monkey_mind I had more of the anxiety and the other woman alone said she couldn't stop her thoughts was always busy busy in thought even when alone in confinement.
@Margaretturk I'm so sorry you and your son had to go through that with the police. That seems horrible to me. When I was a teen lived in a working class mostly white neighbourhood and it was known that the police would often beat up and possibly worse, working class white teens they caught drinking beer. People said most of the police were trouble makers when teens and just went to the other side of fighting. Here I have a friend who's s.o, is a policeman from the West Indies. I think it was probably just one option of job for someone not into school. he's very kind and was able to take early retirement at around 55, and now drives a van for handicapped people. he seems to be very good at this more caring profession and is glad not to deal w the stress of being a cop.
@Machka and @Suzi I would not do a phd at this point if not working in higher ed or some other specific goal. it's stressful. and a lot of work. and in a few decades we'll no longer be there. there is something to be said to be moving up the ladder to become director (thus a possibly interest in phd for you), women are often hesitant to do so, but then if you are introverted I wonder if that would make you happy. I have most definitely heard that phd is not seen as a plus for some jobs. I have a friend who's an artist and cameraman for weddings etc, and she does NOT put her phd in her cameraman CV/resumé. also in sciences it can make person look more abstract and less pragmatic, (im told) and in arts also it can make artist look like researcher and not artist (I'm told by artist w phd who's a tenured teacher). Like what famous visual artist has a phd? (writers, surely there are many; and people in all sorts of sciences including political sciences). I have some friends who have said their Phds had not served them at all. I'm not sure if it's so black and white. funnily enough we don't use the phd letters and I'm a bit adverse to that. definitely ill at ease, about resentment from family about me having a higher degree
@Heather thanks for understanding how hard it is for solos (or some of us) at present. I have a couple of solo friends who love the confinement, one is introverted and often tired and has too much travel at her work and is intending to change jobs soon ; and the other is big into meditation so loves the sort of more introverted situation of most everyone. She regrets the move to partial deconfinement, but she is 65, has been retired since before 40 (sold jewellery and then retired very early) spends weeks in hermitages and things like that.
bumps/rash, I'm thinking it might be spider or other little bug bites. I live in a 500 sq meters on 6th floor w long balcony and wall of 2/3 window-doors giving onto the balcony. I keep them open very much of the time, so with a few plants inside and outside it's quite conceivable and probable that some bugs get in. it doesn't seem to be spreading like a rash usually does. Also I went to parks 2x this weekend, on Sunday I lay on the grass. I'll keep an eye on its development. since I had bumps during confinement and my GP thought it could be serious and I had an online appointment with dermatolist at her suggestion who prescribed medication (3x a day for a week, but have to start very fast for effectiveness) in a rush for shingles and then lab test of bump showed it not to be shingles....I'm hesitant to run to the dr again. When older there is always this or that to check out. I'll keep an eye for now.1 -
I went for my 5k run this morning.
I woke up debating it, because my knee has been stiff for a few days now, but I am really missing both the running and the seafront. Didn't go out all weekend. It will be too hot for running after lunch.
So, I decided to strap it up as the sports physio had shown me. Did that and went out.
Oh joy! I am so glad I did. It was as if the Hoveites had reclaimed the promenade and the beach. Just the locals out there, running, walking, swimming, canoeing. Blue, blue, sparkling calm sea.
The only small downside was that the tourists, grrrrrr, had piled their trash up beside the bins and the breeze had blown it across in some places. Most of it had already been cleared up though.
I was so happy to be out there and I don't think my knee was any the worse when I got back. I then did half an hour of rowing to top up my calories and will add a couple of hundred after lunch.
What a great start to the day.
The car is being serviced today. We don't have to have an MOT at the moment because of the crisis, but they are doing the services now. Because DH opted for the 5 year service they come and collect the car, do the service, valet it, and bring it back.
We have not used the car since Dec 31st, except for running it once a week to top up the battery and driving a short distance to unstick the brakes. It just sits there burning money. 
If DH didn't need it to get to the cricket (one day 
) we could get rid of it. I haven't driven since we moved here.
Well, on with my memoir. Sending love and hugs to all.
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On the drive home from son's saw two cars with no license plates. I reported both of them. I think this is part of what it will take. Neighbors and neighborhoods joining together to put a stop to this. Again I wish I could share that picture from Facebook where people brought bags and bags of groceries to help those who lost their grocery stores.1
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Just looked outside rained last night good means Riots got rained out I needed the sleep
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Amber I wish I could come down there and just give you a big hug, and we could cry together.
Son told me yesterday how grateful he is I am there for him. I told him too how grateful I am to have him in my life. Brought me to tears.
Healing is not a straight path. Rather there are twists and turns. Setbacks and triumphs. What pulls me forward is Love. In all that is happening I believe in this Love. Looking at the sign Believe I bought at Christmas time. I keep it up year round. I have to admit it has not always been easy to keep that thought. Perhaps that is why I keep it up to remind me it will always be there whether I am ready to hear its message or not.
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Margaret- Big air hug sent your way.
Do we have racist cops in my city? Of course but not many are white. Whites a minority here.
Are we a huge white population?? Nope their a minority here. We’re about 65% Hispanic 20% white bunch of other. Asians make the highest pay then Hispanics (says white but Hispanics are white in our drivers license y census categorized) in our city. We’re a dark colored city . So we thought they’d skip us guess not. Most of our Blk population is Blk Hispanics which makes them Hispanic. So why we got hit is still beyond me. Our precinct that was racist towards hubby has already received a complaint by his bosses (Hispanic owned Buisness with the one white son in law that’s lazy). They actually do stuff here when a brown man or woman makes a complaint.
Let’s hope tonight it rains or they skip it.Seeing nothing being done in the Floyd case definitely is fueling this..Why the other 2 cops have not been charged with something looks badly.
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