WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR AUGUST 2020
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Katla - I used to be petrified of thunderstorms, I don’t know why. When our girls were little my husband drove truck. I didn’t want them to be scared like I was, it wouldn’t do to have three of us scared, so I pretended I wasn’t scared. They don’t bother me as much now as they used to unless they are severe but I still worry through them.
Typing this reminded me of a time when my Grandson (Jonah) was 2, my husband was working out of town and my daughter and Grandson were visiting. It was a pretty strong storm, my husband had texted to see how we were making out. Before I could answer he texted again and said “sucks that Jonah has to be the man of the house already”. My faking when they were little didn’t work for my eldest, my youngest loves a good storm though.
I’m enjoying all of the bra stories, I was well endowed at a young age and have never liked them. If I could, I would have a reduction.
I wash all of my clothes in cold water as well. That’s all I ever remember my Mom using and she had the whitest whites. We didn’t have running hot water in the house growing up so that’s all she could use.
Sharon - I was always ashamed of my boobs too. It’s hard when that’s all you feel you have going for you.
I have laughed way too much tonight at all of the stories in bras and boobs. Thank you all!
Yvonne - thank you. I’ll post a picture another picture.
This is still not finished, it needs to have a bow put in on the crack to make sure it doesn’t crack more and it needs its finish put on. He did beautiful work, if you zoom in on the picture you will see that the burning is all little dots.
Tracey in Edmonton11 -
There are issues, but there always are, xfinity is not able to figure out why our tv is not connecting up. Then the pod was supposed to be at the facility this morning. Well, it’s not. Ugh...
Drive by this furniture place. Found a loveseat matching chair, boxspring all for $800 bucks! That will will get delivered on 17th. No extra cost, if it doesn’t fit the apartment like we thought. The guy can take it back. No xtra cost or restocking fee. Full refund. ....9 -
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Over 600,000 people here in Connecticut ans my poor girlfiend wirh 3 small kids car was stolen right out of her driveway as no one has power...ugh7
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Good Wednesday,
Stick on nip covers are awesome. I use them a lot both summer and winter. I will say a good thing about winter is that I have so many layers on that I am braless most of it (even at work) . Bra required at work in the summer 😞
So I had a fancy grilled cheese for dinner last night. Something about that meal stole my energy and I was GRUMPY. Walking into my kitchen to find ANTS didn't help, but weren't the cause. I haven't had ants in years. Ugh. Got them before they got too far. Sprayed home defense inside and out.
I love all the memories that are shared. Y'all are inspiring !
No doctor appointments today. Just wait on all test results. Shoulder feels better today.
Hugs to all!
Encouragement for everyone's journeys!
Smiles cause they are contagious!
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Kylia in Ohio3 -
Kylia I am feeling like I have missed out never trying the nip covers. Somehow I felt if had them I would go nuttier than ever, trash all my bras, and join a burlesque group.4
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Tracy Your hubs does very nice work. Slabs like that are hard to season without cracking. I love working with wood especially from trees I fell and I sawed myself. My elbows got so bad I had to give it up. I still have my small shop as it was and about the time I had an interest in selling off all the tools and wood, the Chinese had to send us a virus that put the quietus on that. Those bow inserts look awesome and I once did them on purpose when using slabs for furniture. I miss the smell of wood shaving curling up from my mini plane.1
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I'm trying to think of a way to celebrate my husband's 65th birthday.
(If you want to know a little bit more about him and us, see my About Me spoiler in my first post in this thread ... page 1 I think ).
He doesn't want to go to a restaurant but I might be able to arrange take away.
I'm thinking of making Lava cake. One of my specialties.
I'd kind of like to get him a gift but have no idea what. We usually celebrate these things by traveling, treating ourselves to an event, and cycling but we can't do much of that these days.
M in Oz
For a start, I got him a small collection of gardening books I got at a used bookstore - specifically about growing veggies and about growing veggies and things in containers. Most of his garden is a container garden.
M in OzI'm Machka and I am in Tasmania, Australia.
Some of my favourite hobbies/sports/activities include:
-- cycling
-- walking
-- hiking
-- running
-- reading
-- working on my website
-- photography
I bake, but don't cook, sew, knit, garden, etc.
Most of my day is spent working with health data, "attending" university (online now) working toward a Masters in IT, doing homework, and spending time with my husband (who suffered a severe traumatic brain injury 2 years ago) and new kitty, Rhody.
My husband is not able to work anymore, so one of his main activities is gardening. He works at that at his own pace and we've got quite a lovely garden of flowers, fruit and veggies.
This is Rhody ... an all black, 10-month old "domestic" who joined us just 3 months ago.
I joined MFP in February 2015 and promptly lost 15 kg, took a 1-month break, then lost another 11 kg. By Christmas 2015, I was down to a weight I hadn't seen in quite a few years ... since my early 30s.
In 2016, 2017 and the early part of 2018 I maintained while increasing my cycling. My sport, within cycling, is ultradistance cycling: Audax, Randonneuring, 24-hour races, etc.
Here's me in 2016 in Brisbane, QLD a couple days after cycling a 300 km event in 18 hours including all breaks.
In late 2017 and early 2018, my husband and I were in great shape and feeling good. We were cycling events and on our own and building up the distances in the hopes of going to France in 2019 to ride the Paris-Brest-Paris 1200 km event. We met on a Paris-Brest-Paris in 2003, and the 2019 one was going to be a bit of an anniversary trip.
And then on March 22, 2018, my husband had a very bad accident at work ... and life changed. He was in a coma for 3 weeks and post traumatic amnesia for 7 weeks and in hospital for 100 days. Then, a year after the accident, he had a tonic clonic (grand mal) seizure which set him back. He'll never fully recover but he's doing better then they originally predicted.
He is cycling again but gets very tired so can't cycle consistently or for long distances.
Because cycling is something we've always done together, this means I'm not cycling the ultra long distances at this point either. In an attempt to boost my exercise we've set up a home gym, and I've got into running again. I hadn't run since I was in my late teens!
But all the time sitting at the hospital and dealing with the aspects of care for my husband, plus working, plus attending university has taken its toll on my weight and I don't look like that picture above anymore! This year I have maintained my weight but I'd really like to lose a bit.
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cityjaneLondon wrote: »Machka - How is your sense of smell coming on? Are things tasting different?
Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx
Prior to the surgery, I had a mild sense of smell and reasonable sense of taste.
Coffee, for example, is bitter. Chocolate is sweet/bitter. But I have trouble with the nuances which smell offers. For me, there's not much difference between the smell of dark chocolate and milk chocolate ... perhaps dark chocolate is a little more bitter/sweet and milk chocolate is a little more sweet/bitter.
As far as smell goes, my sense of smell has been really good when picking up "bad" things like mould, staleness, or when things are off, but less good when detecting other things unless they are quite strong.
Since the surgery, things are the same.
Except! I get these incredibly intense blasts of smell every now and then. I'll be going along in a nice neutral way and all of a sudden it's like being hit in the face and completely enveloped in smell! That will last for several minutes and then it goes away.
For three days now, someone at work has had curry. It smell so very good, but so very intense that I have to leave the office.
I've read that it can take 3 months before everything settles.
Machka in Oz
Regarding the senses of smell and taste ...
Loss of Smell or Taste After Traumatic Brain Injury
https://msktc.org/tbi/factsheets/loss-smell-or-taste-after-traumatic-brain-injury
As air enters the nose, it triggers certain nerves. These nerves bring information to a part of the brain called the olfactory bulb. That information then goes to the part of the brain that creates our sense of smell. Loss of smell may result from damage to the lining of the nose or nasal passages. Other causes may be injury to the nerve that carries smell sensation from the nose to the brain (olfactory nerve) or harm to parts of the brain that process smell. Other possible causes are infections, toxins, and medicines.
Smell and taste are part of an overlapping sensory system. "Flavor" comes almost entirely from the nose. Smell and taste are directly related because they both trigger the same nerves. Taste receptors on the tongue and nerves in the nose work together to tell us about the air we breathe and the food we eat.
In my case, my limited sense of smell likely has/had to do with the nasal passages.
In my husband's case, it's his brain. He used to have a good sense of smell and taste, and misses it now. I could bake something really nice for him for his birthday, and may do, and he'll tell me it's good but he won't be able to taste it.
Texture is very important now and so are appearance and memory. If a food looks good or looks the way it is supposed to or how he remembers it ... and if the texture seems right ... then it's OK.
Interestingly, however, he "feels" taste. Apparently salt feels different in the mouth than sugar.
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Machka That link is to VEDA and is based in Portland, Oregon. I was a bit saddened that in recent years they have changed and some of their info doesn't honor the work of Dr. Epley and Dr. Black. For the most part, VEDA still has great info. Once the great neuro-otologist scientists were gone, the ENT's of lesser education and dedication took over the Portland scene and are trying to make a name for themselves and they reject all the patient's records from Epley and Black and want to redo all testing resulting in expenses that very few can afford. VEDA just follows their lead and it seems they have taken some vestibular disorders therapy back 30 years instead of advancing it. In 2011 I wanted to get another steroid dip infusion and I was told that the new docs required all new testing and they would make their diagnosis which might overturn that of Dr.s Epley and Black and they no longer used the Epley/Black drip method. None of that set well with me. It was all about making money, boosting their egos, not science, and not helping the suffering. Dr. Timothy Hain used to have a very informative webpage but I cannot find it anymore.
Good, advise for Sarah to find a vestibular doctor in her area and get their opinion if this persists. I also say go on the diet and have vitamin levels tested and take necessary vitamins and stay active and discuss antiviral therapy with a PCP and try for 6 months and see if that helps. It won't hurt.1 -
Bloodwork results in. Everything looks good but.....wbc is low again and
Cholesterol up to 251! Good hdl is 93 which is fine, but bad has gone up 31 points. Triglycerides were in normal range but higher. Doctor says I need to change diet to stay off statins. How is it I get to a good weight for me and have cholesterol problems-smh. Xray on shoulder today. More research on eating. Any suggestions on foods helpful. Must be quick and easy as I am still working......Thank you in advance!
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Kylia shaking her head in Ohio2 -
Kylia Yes, your doc is right, stay off those statins. I would suggest trying to remove all fats from your diet except things like olive oil and good fats. Also, take 2 flaxseed oil capsules 3 times a day and vitamin E oil capsules twice daily. My friend got her cholesterol down and is off statins using just the flaxseed oil. The heart is a muscle and those statins cause muscle soreness and cramping. They can kill you before the cholesterol will. Substitute one of your meals (maybe noon) with a quality protein shake. Flaxseed oil, girl, pop those flaxseed oil caps, and feel that bad stuff sliding on down away from your heart. It acts as a lube in the arteries.1
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"Get to do"s and "chose well"sChose well: Tumble to groomer, PA followup appt, line dance class, email SDAO re meeting change notice requirements.Altruistic August
Bonus: BiMart.
Get to do: T’ai Chi, Freddie’s, clean something, practice new dances (Turning Tables, Nothing but You, Shake it like that, Larger than Life, Here I Go Again/Mama Mia, Real Deal, Get it Right); transplant bean, make garlic almonds for Barb and Dan; prep potato area and raised beds for beets, carrots, parsley root, parsnips, radishes and sow; finish weeding drive, continue weeding flower bed, mulch flowerbed; Freddie’s for complete series TDAP <$48, get Shingrix vaccine. Reward: inventory seeds, plan fall cool season garden, order replenishments. Sunday board meeting reminder, board meeting prep,
4: Ask someone how they feel and really listen: will ask Joe and a friend Wednesday.
5: Spend time wishing for others to be free from suffering: easy peasy, part of daily prayers.
Katla some of the gals at line dancing report similar bean struggles. They’re not liking our foggier and cooler-than-normal summer so far. And then there are the deer :devil: Your sunscreen comment and the topless/nude/bra stories remind me of the second worst sunburn I ever got. Was wearing an underwired two piece and sleeping in the sun. It was angled so it hit those crescents normally shaded. Didn’t blister, quite, but was pretty bad. Wearing bras was agony until it healed.
Machka Zwift! Yes that’s what I was thinking. Sounds like you’ve long had this set up. Is there some treat from past rides you could re-create for your husband’s birthday gift instead? A weekend away somewhere peaceful?
Kylia Owwww! Hoping the cortisone shot works well for you.
KJ “keeps them from dangling to knee level” Exactly!
Lisa Brava for the NSV! 34 Long ROTFLMAOWMP!
Heather sending good vibes for your brother’s surgery Thursday.
Allie running and black eyes, that was my excuse too! Glad to hear you weathered the storm ok. Never tried the stick on ones, was afraid they came with tassels
Faye “…making a mammogram feel like happy hour with the girls” :laugh:
Rita propane delivery guy? :O
Welcome back @ajr050969!
Karen in VA gorgeous deck, hilarious cartoons!
Tracey pretending not to be scared, how brave you were for your daughters. Brava! Mama suggested breast reduction more than once. I researched it a bit and they lost me at “first we slice off your nipples…” Like you and Sharon I developed early and was horribly ashamed. Took a terrible toll on my posture that persists to this day.
Dr joined PA during follow up to go over ABI test results (mild peripheral vascular disease) and positive fecal occult blood test. Starting daily Miralax tomorrow and 10 mg atorvastatin soon as the pharmacy calls. Follow up on the poop test in 3 months, pvd at annual in Feb. Not great but not unexpected. Good news the Alendronate and BB&B have turned the tide and I’m no longer osteoporotic, only osteopoenic. And I’ve only gained 1 lb since Jan, much better than a quarantine 15.
Finally a little sleepy, hope to get another 2 hrs in before getting ready for T’ai Chi.
Lighter, lovelies!
Barbara, the Southern Oregon Coastie AHMODAugust: better than July.
daily: steps>5491=4266 vits=5 log=4 CI<CO=2 CI<250<CO=1 Tumble & Shadow 5=2 mfp=3 outside=1 up hill=1
wkly: T’ai Chi or BB&B x3=1 rx=1 dance=1 clean 30 mins=
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Bloodwork results in. Everything looks good but.....wbc is low again and
Cholesterol up to 251! Good hdl is 93 which is fine, but bad has gone up 31 points. Triglycerides were in normal range but higher. Doctor says I need to change diet to stay off statins. How is it I get to a good weight for me and have cholesterol problems-smh. Xray on shoulder today. More research on eating. Any suggestions on foods helpful. Must be quick and easy as I am still working......Thank you in advance!
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Kylia shaking her head in Ohio
Lots of veggies!
Have a look at the Mediterranean Diet. The way I eat is probably closest to that and it seems to me to be fairly well-balanced. I do make various substitutions such as eating chicken instead of fish and I don't drink alcohol.
There are various descriptions, and it's not an exact thing (not like keto). Have a look at several sites, but this is a nice description complete with a pyramid ...
https://www.helpguide.org/articles/diets/the-mediterranean-diet.htm
Oh and exercise!! Get out for at least a walk just about every day.
M in Oz3 -
Machka Zwift! Yes that’s what I was thinking. Sounds like you’ve long had this set up. Is there some treat from past rides you could re-create for your husband’s birthday gift instead? A weekend away somewhere peaceful?
Barbara, the Southern Oregon Coastie
We are hoping to get away for a night or two toward the end of the month during spring break.
If all goes well, that will be a joint celebration: my husband's birthday, his sister's birthday, and our anniversary.
We'd like to go up north for a cycling weekend too, but it depends on my course and assignments.
Machka in Oz3 -
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Morning, afternoon and evening, all...
Chugging along here in the wilds of Arkansas. Nursing my left knee. They replaced the right one a year and a half ago, and told me at the time that the left was bone-on-bone. This morning, it feels like it. Probably horsing that walk-behind mower around yesterday as I mowed and cleaned up the ditch near the road that leads into the culvert under the driveway. Very steep on both sides, and very twisty for a knee that's not happy to begin with.
I'm working through this as I write, so apologies if the following seems to be a little scattered.
The knee puts me in a quandary this morning... As of this morning, I've lost six pounds now in five days... I guess it's the combination of working outside for a couple hours each day, plus a half hour on the elliptical, plus coming off my July-long stall. I'm just three pounds from being under 200..
I don't want to lose the current momentum, but I'm also trying not to treat this as another diet. While I've parroted the words before, I'm finally making strides to constructing this way of eating into a permanent lifestyle. Not a "get down to 140 pounds" with no answer for "then what." Mainly because the "then what" was always..."then gain it all back, with a few pounds on top of it."
My "then what" has changed to "and then keep doing this for the rest of my life." That does not go with the mindset of "no matter how much my knee hurts, I'm going to go out and do some yard work, so the scale will show lighter again tomorrow." The lifestyle change says, "Take a day off, ice the knee, and get back out there tomorrow. The seventh pound will still come off, as will the others, it will just take a bit longer."
Still thinking,
Thanks for listening to me ramble,
Lisa in AR6 -
Well Connecticut got slammed over 960,000 people without power ,trees,limbs,poles wires down everywhere..my town looks like a bomb went off.. going to take days of not weeks to get things back to normal...
Went doan and picked up Homer,he hasn't gone to the groomers yet because of his teeth so has lots of fur and Tom didnt want him to hot,i have AC so he is snoozing on my bed..
Dont know if I will be working at all this week..3 -
Jake's video appointment with the cardiologist was a great success yesterday. He was stressed all morning in anticipation of it but at least we didn't have to get up extra early, drive for 90 minutes, take a ferry, take a taxi, and wait in the waiting room then repeat all the travel afterward. All the tests showed that his heart continues to do as well as it has been for the last few years. The next appointment will be video again in February.
Barbie in NW WA4 -
Sarah It just occurred to me that your vertigo may be hormone related! Vertigo in women during menopause is not that uncommon and with hormones changing this can cause endolymph to surge and make life unpleasant. Vertigo and a hot flash can really put the quietus on an old girl's adventures. I remember one lady in our old vestibular group that had vertigo after childbirth that suddenly disappeared and then again appeared with a vengeance at the onset of menopause. Might be worth getting your hormones checked and balanced. Hormones may not directly cause vertigo, but they affect other functions that can. Don't let any doctor tell you that hormones have no relationship to vertigo in women during menopause. They do and it is an easy fix compared to other reasons.1
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dellafayefox wrote: »Sarah It just occurred to me that your vertigo may be hormone related! Vertigo in women during menopause is not that uncommon and with hormones changing this can cause endolymph to surge and make life unpleasant. Vertigo and a hot flash can really put the quietus on an old girl's adventures. I remember one lady in our old vestibular group that had vertigo after childbirth that suddenly disappeared and then again appeared with a vengeance at the onset of menopause. Might be worth getting your hormones checked and balanced. Hormones may not directly cause vertigo, but they affect other functions that can. Don't let any doctor tell you that hormones have no relationship to vertigo in women during menopause. They do and it is an easy fix compared to other reasons.
What's the "easy fix"? I have had vertigo a couple days before every period since about 2010 and my hot flashes are a horrible mix of dizziness, nausea, prickly painful skin and then the heat. Every single one of them ... several times a day especially if I'm stressed. In fact stress can trigger a whole set of them in a row.
I know it's hormones. My doctors and gynaecologic oncologist know it's hormones ... but unfortunately there is no easy fix.
M in Oz3 -
Grandmalie That is terrible. A few months ago we had a sudden storm that took down lines here and only a few thousand affected, but it took a week to get my power going. I bought a small generator for lights and fans and also to keep the freezer and refrigs going. It ran 24/7 and after power was restored I couldn't get the sound out of my mind for days. It was only a small area but looked like a war zone. Trees down on houses and cars and power poles knocked down. The wires were so bent they put up all-new lines. One of the down lines caused a fire and that really added to the drama. I went around the neighborhood with my little Sthil chainsaw and did limbing so the boys with there big saws could get to the big stuff. I had to sharpen some of their chains as most of them had never sharpened a chain and our local saw shop was swamped. It was fun being a timberjill again. Now some of them call me the old chainsaw chick. I hope your area gets lots of help getting back to normal if that is even possible.2
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Went out in the sun and walked down to the harbour Fish Market with my trolley. Only bought a piece of haddock fresh, but came back with huge frozen prawns, frozen squid with tentacles, lumpfish roe, fish soup, blinis, smoked mackerel, and my favourite wildboar chorizo. I have had to put that somewhere I can't see it because I really can't resist it. I might cut it in half to share with my son, who is as helpless in the face of it as I am. At least that way we neither of us will eat the whole thing.
Stopped off at the deli on the way home for arugula, Italian salami, baby vine tomatoes, asparagus and cucumber. Mask wearing, hand sanitising. Lots of distance.
Tonight I'm roasting a marrow and having it with ragu and a sprinkling of parmesan and arugula. Did I ever tell you how much I love arugula. :laugh: Just had some for my afternoon snack with cottage cheese and half an avocado.
It's going to get HOT by Friday. Boo!
Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx2 -
Inspired by the awesome haircut that PIP got, I took scissors in my own hands and once again administered a hair selfie. Here is evidence why a partially blind, shaky handed, stiff-necked, mirror dyslexic, wavy-haired, bra talk exhausted, Covid pro stylist denied, old Ms medical smartypants, nutty than an almond grove, tacky dressing, scant bikini loving, former beach walking but never a hussy, advanced years skinny assed broad (oxymoron?) should not take matters in her own hands.
Faye with hair of gray
Mid Columbia River walker
but never a guy stalker
headed out for sunray
Thinking about going back to wearing shorty shorts and high cropped tank top
Maybe getting a tattoo that would qualify as a tramp stamp ..... NOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Allie: Sorry to hear about the theft of your friend’s car.
Kylia: I’ve had trouble with ants this year, too. A combination of Raid ant traps and German Thyme vanquished them. The ant traps came with the instructions to deploy all the ant traps at once. I haven’t seen an ant in my house in a few weeks, now. Keeping my fingers crossed that they stay gone.
Machka: The gardening books make a wonderful gift. :flowerforyou:
Karen in VA: Did you do well in the storm? DS and DDIL came through it without damages. It was a relief to hear from them. :bigsmile:
Barbara: The deer are no longer pestering my beans, as far as I know. They did their damage before and have not been here in the last while. I’m surprised that others are having some of the same problems as I’ve had this year. I managed to get flowers to bud, but bean production is low. I’ll see how the new planting comes along. I planted them behind the first two rows. I suspect there will be plenty of time before the first fall frost, usually about October 24. :smilie:
Lisa: I have knee challenges, too, but they are not as serious as yours. My injury was an over use problem caused during a riding lesson. (Not my current teacher.) That teacher directed me to post at a trot the same direction for an hourlong lesson. I went to a knee surgeon & have one surgery scar. The surgeon I visited after the first surgery declined to do a second surgery. He prescribed exercises for the weak knee and said that taking off pounds was the best thing I could do for myself. Now I need to keep the pounds off, and that is its own challenge. :ohwell:
Its a beautiful Morning. We have another bright, bright sunshiney day. :bigsmile:
Katla in Beauftiful NW Oregon
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I'll be turning 50 next year and I really want to finally get a handle on my weight and my health. I've made steps over the last year to get into some healthy habits and I'd love some support from people my age in similar situations. Single mom of teenagers, working from home and going bonkers with all this isolation!
Mantra for August is "Every moment is a fresh beginning."
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Ginger Welcome and I say great decision and your 50's are a great time to get in shape. Get out and walk to help with the bonkers. The main ingredient in fitness is dedication and having the drive to get strong. You can do it!! You have discovered a great bunch of fun and knowledgable ladies here. The best ever glad to have you join us.
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Faye
mid-Columbia River Oregon4
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