WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR JULY2022

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  • wizzywig
    wizzywig Posts: 1,246 Member
    :)
  • KetoneKaren
    KetoneKaren Posts: 6,412 Member
    I know Machka was starting a new job, but this is a long time for her to stay away, even so. :/

    Karen in Virginia
  • suebdew
    suebdew Posts: 1,298 Member
    ❤️
  • pipcd34
    pipcd34 Posts: 17,246 Member
    97
  • GodMomKim
    GodMomKim Posts: 3,703 Member
    edited July 2022
    I am not surprised that Machka has not been around, she tried to care for us by reminding us of the forum rules and she was treated poorly. Words are powerful and can be hurtful.

    Kim
  • exermom
    exermom Posts: 6,517 Member
    Worked today then the soup kitchen. Afterwards I needed to stop by Lynette’s to give her some coupons then to WalMart. Then Food Lion for chicken. The price of Vince’s gatorade has gone up!

    They were saying at the soup kitchen that the numbers (they serve) are up. At first I thought it was because this is the end of the month, but another lady thinks it’s because food is so expensive that people are coming for a free meal and applying that money towards the gas or electric. Isn’t that sad?

    It’s really raining cats and dogs right now. Glad I got the mail earlier

    Lisa – I’m so sorry you won’t get to see your grands.

    Carla – doesn’t it feel so so good when you finally get a/c back?

    Got my walk in after dinner.

    Jess and Colby are here. I didn’t know it, but she has some sort of pot luck tomorrow at NC State. I got chicken, Vince will grill it and it can be frozen. They’re making the pasta salad right now.

    Painted the second and last coat of the black on the snail. Now just to do touchup and then have it fired.

    Michele NC
  • fanncy0626
    fanncy0626 Posts: 7,152 Member
    Beth sorry to hear about your dad 💞 I know how hard it is to have missed seeing him by such a short time 💞 Prayers for you and your family 💞

    💞 Mary from Arizona/ Minnesota
  • GodMomKim
    GodMomKim Posts: 3,703 Member
    Mary, I hear you. But just so you know I did take your comments personally although you directed them at Machka. And I felt, and still feel that we are all adults and make our own decisions is fine IF the only person affected by that decision is you. BUT if this forum was shut down because we are not following the rules, those decisions made by each adult now has an affect on all of us. The possibility of losing this forum would have a negative affect on me. It took me a few days after your comments to decide if I would stay or leave. For now I am here, but only for as long as I feel that we are a community willing to look out for one another, as that is what this forum gives me is a feeling of community. Making decisions that could affect our community without regard for the community will ruin that feeling for me.

    Kim in N. California - needing and valuing community
  • GodMomKim
    GodMomKim Posts: 3,703 Member
    Oh Beth,

    (((((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))) Thinking of you and your family and sending thoughts of strength and peace.

    Kim in N. California
  • Snowflake1968
    Snowflake1968 Posts: 6,945 Member

    bwcetc wrote: »
    My 93 year old dad passed away Thursday afternoon. Unexpectedly given his recent bout of good health. I missed seeing him before he passed by 10 minutes. Entered ER room as nurse was turning off the monitors. Making arrangements. Family dynamics to deal with. I’ll post again later. Exhausted.

    Beth - I’m so sorry. Hugs and prayers to you and your family.

    Tracey in Edmonton

  • OregonMother
    OregonMother Posts: 1,664 Member
    bwcetc wrote: »
    My 93 year old dad passed away Thursday afternoon. Unexpectedly given his recent bout of good health. I missed seeing him before he passed by 10 minutes. Entered ER room as nurse was turning off the monitors. Making arrangements. Family dynamics to deal with. I’ll post again later. Exhausted.

    I'm so sorry, Beth.
  • Snowflake1968
    Snowflake1968 Posts: 6,945 Member
    Heather - that sounds like a beautiful day for a beautiful outfit.
    What a busy but great day for the family.

    Lisa - I hope your Ex SIL is at least civil. I agree I wouldn’t want that drive with the kids either, but I’m sure it’s a spiteful reason for him.
    We are to get some rain this evening and because of the heat I’m looking forward to it as well.

    Barbie and Lisa - count me in with the “trouble limiting myself”. It’s so hard to not do what we’ve always done.

    Annie - if he rescheduled due to work you at least know he’s not a bum. 😂. Hope Wednesday goes well.

    Carla - I received an email today from the lady I Interviewed with telling me we would talk on Tuesday.
    I never want AC until those few nights a year that it’s 32C. Last night sucked!

    Sue - how wonderful for your Grandson to do that for you. I need to get some lights replaced on my car too. I should do that tomorrow.

    Kim - I agree. I think the same thing. I would probably stay away too.

    Some of you might remember that in 2019 my daughter graduated from her hairdresser course. She was doing her apprenticeship when Covid hit and she had decided by that point she really hated doing it. Her husband told her she didn’t have to go back so she found other employment. She still cuts her husband’s, father’s and nephews hair. She will do colouring on women and trims but not doing anymore than trims for cutting.
    Anyway, today DH went to get his hair cut and as she was cutting they had a nice visit. She told him that they had done the math and with her doing all of Brodey’s cuts her student loan would pay for itself in 10 years. Then they figure if she does their children’s hair depending on when they come it will be paid around 7 years.
    When DH told me this I literally spit the water I had just drank out. Those two have a way of seeing the positive in everything.

    Tracey in Edmonton

  • fanncy0626
    fanncy0626 Posts: 7,152 Member
    edited July 2022
    GodMomKim wrote: »
    Mary, I hear you. But just so you know I did take your comments personally although you directed them at Machka. And I felt, and still feel that we are all adults and make our own decisions is fine IF the only person affected by that decision is you. BUT if this forum was shut down because we are not following the rules, those decisions made by each adult now has an affect on all of us. The possibility of losing this forum would have a negative affect on me. It took me a few days after your comments to decide if I would stay or leave. For now I am here, but only for as long as I feel that we are a community willing to look out for one another, as that is what this forum gives me is a feeling of community. Making decisions that could affect our community without regard for the community will ruin that feeling for me.

    Kim in N. California - needing and valuing community

    What coment did you take personally? The "let the moderators moderate to avoid conflict"? Or the last one of tonight? You need to reread my comments because nothing I wrote was mean spirited or an attack in any way! I was just voicing my opinion. Go all the way back to July 7th. When this topic came up. You need to look at what started this. Me and others reacted to a post. But, our opinions do matter.
  • grandmallie
    grandmallie Posts: 10,086 Member
    Morning ladies
    Its 1 am and im awake.
    Beth - so sorry to hear about your dad.. it so very hard losing a parent..my deepest condolences.
    Im going to try and get some more rest as i have to drive to New Hampshire today...I did alot of what i needed to do yesterday.
    Im hoping Machka is ok and nothing has happened to either her or her husband..I know she is busier than a one armed paper hanger with hives.
  • skuehn48
    skuehn48 Posts: 3,040 Member
    <3
  • cityjaneLondon
    cityjaneLondon Posts: 12,693 Member
    Beth - I am sending you strength as you go through yet another deep loss. Just lots of love to you and your family. Take some time for yourself if you can. <3

    Yes, Machka, I hope you come back. I appreciate your caring for us and using your professional expertise to keep this thread alive and healthy. You are valued and I have learnt a lot. <3

    Lovely day today. I think I will be going for a run first thing, before the Parkrun people have a chance to mow me down. :p

    I didn't edit yesterday, when it was on my schedule. I don't feel good about that. Can't decide whether to do it today, outside my schedule, or wait until Monday. Thinking Monday. ....... Yes, Monday. :D:p>:) Adulting sucks. :p

    Love to all those carrying heavy burdens. Not all burdens are visible.

    Heather UK xxxxxxxx



  • ginnytez
    ginnytez Posts: 1,400 Member
    Beth-thinking of you with loss of father. Such sadness. He did live a long life.

    Tracey-fingers crossed for interview. I agree your daughter does find the positive in things! I do think it was good she could evaluate if it were really for her and change sooner-nothing worse than feeling locked into a job/profession.

    Going to be relatively cool today for end of July-just around 80-so that's good.

    I also hope all is well with Machka. She added much to the group. I think she is active in other parts of MFP. Wishing her the best.

    Saturday morning after pay day-time to balance check book. Also going to start updating all passwords and setting up new email address-getting too much junk mail in account I have had for years. Blocking contacts doesn't help with all of it. Any suggestions welcome.

    Take care all,

    Ginny in Ohio
  • KetoneKaren
    KetoneKaren Posts: 6,412 Member
    Beth,

    I am so sorry your father is gone, and sad for you that you didn't get there before he passed. It's so poignant. ((Gentle hug))

    Karen in Virginia
  • Anniesquats100
    Anniesquats100 Posts: 3,285 Member
    Beth, my condolences on your father's passing. Wishing you comfort as you grieve. Take care of yourself!

    Machka we miss you!

    Annie in Delaware
  • okiewoman510
    okiewoman510 Posts: 1,313 Member
    Beth My condolences to you and your family. I will keep you all in my prayers.

    Okie in the TX Hill Country
  • SophieRosieMom
    SophieRosieMom Posts: 3,645 Member
    If anyone is still looking for more plants to add to their "30" list, I happened onto some yesterday - luckily drought tolerant.

    Rose of Sharon - Mine is getting ready to bloom. I did pick off a few buds and leaves and added them to a frittata last night. I couldn't detect a lot of flavor, but it was something green and not unpleasant. :D;) Here's a Martha Stewart post, she references it being edible about halfway down:

    https://www.themarthablog.com/2018/08/my-flowering-rose-of-sharon.html

    Borage is also blooming in my garden - the flowers are edible and taste a little like cucumber with a hint of sweetness. I had to shoo the bees aside but there were plenty of blooms for all of us. The flowers were a nice addition to my salad.

    Martha has a big list!

    https://www.themarthablog.com/2008/07/edible-flowers-in-my-garden.html

    Lanette B)
    SW WA State
  • barbiecat
    barbiecat Posts: 17,191 Member
    :'(<3Beth, I'm so sorry for your loss.
  • LisaInArkansas
    LisaInArkansas Posts: 2,878 Member
    Beth - Thinking of you and your family. I'm so sorry for your father's passing.
  • pipcd34
    pipcd34 Posts: 17,246 Member
    bwcetc wrote: »
    My 93 year old dad passed away Thursday afternoon. Unexpectedly given his recent bout of good health. I missed seeing him before he passed by 10 minutes. Entered ER room as nurse was turning off the monitors. Making arrangements. Family dynamics to deal with. I’ll post again later. Exhausted.

    So sorry for your loss
  • 1948CWB
    1948CWB Posts: 1,590 Member
    edited July 2022
    (((Beth and Beth's Mom))) So very sorry! You have worked so hard to see that your parents would be together in a safe place. Prayers for you all.

    Lanette ~ Rose of Sharon...I planted those all around my screened in back porch and have enjoyed them greatly all these years. Unfortunately, over the last year, they have not gotten the sun they need and have leaned way over. Son cut the leaning branches for me. I have a large one hanging over our back fence by the driveway and it is lovely. Didn't know you could eat the petals.

    Seeing the destruction by the flood in Kentucky makes me feel so bad for those people. I hope Kylia's property there was not affected.

    Kelly KJ ~ Thank you and the other parents for all you are doing for the little girl's family. I know they will appreciate it.

    Another rainy day in Georgia!
    Carol

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