WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR SEPTEMBER 2022
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Tracey - All hail to Princess Micki!!! Ain't she great!
I have a tiara like that I bought for my 70th on the ship. I still have it in my bedroom on top of my bowl of necklaces.
This morning, Bea and Max are coming over for a playdate. Edie is playing a football match. After that a friend's mum is taking her and her friend to a Brighton and Hove Women's football match at the Amex stadium.
My son is picking them up before 12 as Bea has a party to go to.
My DDIL is on a deadline to finish her book, hence the childminding. It's about recovery after trauma. (She's a clinical psychologist)
Only five weeks tomorrow until our next cruise. I want to finish my memory boxes and get started on the next book by then. It's going to be my collected poetry with a bit of context thrown in. The complexity of grief interests me especially.
I've been sleeping upstairs the last few nights as DH has a bad cold. I haven't caught it yet, but I expect to. I thought I would give him room to cough and splutter. Now I will take him a cup of tea.
Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx
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I was looking for a photo for Bea of my cats that I had as a child. I couldn't find the one I know I have of Oscar, but I came across this one of Dinky. He wasn't our cat, he was next door's, but he adopted us. This photo of me is the only one I have of the worst 8 months of my life when we lived in Harrow. I wrote about it in Me I Am. I do think I look quite terrible. Poor Dinky was run over not long after this by a coal lorry.
Around this time my little brother went missing and didn't come home from being out all day playing. The police were called and went out looking for him in their cars. He came home by himself. I find it amazing now that we were left to roam outside all by ourselves. In London. My brother would have been just seven years old.
Love Heather UK xxxxxx
We planted our bulbs in the big pot outside the dining room this morning with Bea. Max looked on. Tulips and mini daffodils. There were lots of crocus bulbs in the soil that didn't flower last year. We replanted them.
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I'm down a whole 3 kg (6.6 lbs) from my heaviest weight ever which I hit in mid-August.
Congrats on your weight loss Lisa!
Machka in Oz
The last 6 weeks or so have been great for weight loss for some reason. I made a few small changes, and the weight has been coming off. I wouldn't have thought small changes would have done it, but here we are. I hope it continues!
Today, I spent about an hour in the garden, digging mostly. I'm making a bit of progress digging the trench that will become my dry stream. It's a little bit slow going because I had planted a number of things in that garden last spring, and they're coming up this spring. So I was transplanting freesias as I went.
Then we went to a local fresh fruit and veg market for ... fruit and veg! And a couple other things.
And it was nice enough out that we got a bicycle ride in.
This coming week is a 5-day work week for me. I much prefer the shorter weeks I've had for the past 3 weeks. However, it will give me more time to climb stairs.
Machka in Oz
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KetoneKaren wrote: »Heather and all,
The news about Josephine the ballerina is tough. Josie is in good spirits, but her lung tumors (metastases from the spinal tumor) have been stubborn, preventing a stem cell transplant that MD Anderson had hoped to perform if the chemo/radiation treatments could shrink the tumors by 30% first. So now they are going to St Judes in hopes of being in a trial. Josie keeps her spirits up, and is still the sweetest girl ever.
Karen in Virginia
That is unfair ... and I hope she gets the help she needs at St Judes.
M in Oz
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cityjaneLondon wrote: »His attitude to entertaining is completely different to mine! I want everything to be easy, and prepared ahead, so I don’t have to be slaving over a hot stove at the last minute, and can can drift around cooly in nice clothes, and he likes to be performing acrobatics with grill tongs and juggling multiple dishes! Very manly! He was a professional chef for a while in his student days, but has always been keen and knowledgeable.
The table setting though leaves a lot to be desired. In the end I set it, but with odds and ends of old mats and cutlery.
The cake was fabulous, and he makes his own honeycomb.
I'm inspired to try it next weekend. Have any of you made it? Kim?
Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx
My entertaining style is to invite people to a restaurant, preferably a restaurant with a variety of options: meat dishes, vegetarian dishes, etc.
M in Oz
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Just had to inject here for those sharing their entertaining styles... I don't have one. Mine is "Go away before I sic the dog on you."6
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I hardly ever entertain these days, only family and best beloveds very, very occasionally. A restaurant is much preferred, but prices are getting astronomical recently.
The week after next we are having one of DH 's old friends and his wife to lunch. They live a long way away, but are visiting friends in the vicinity. I couldn't think where to take them - they are old and very traditional, so I said I would provide a picky lunch, with cold chicken, meats, hummus, falafel, salad, dressings etc and fill your own rolls/wraps. I hope I can manage that without driving myself nuts with perfection anxiety. We can walk down to the sea afterwards for excellent ice cream from Marrocco's.
My heart sank when DH said they were coming, but I have rallied!
Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx7 -
M – good luck on your test. When are you going for it? Which medications are your husband on?
Michele NC
The problem with getting those MRIs is that I will have to decide on a doctor, get my information transferred to that doctor, have an appointment with that doctor and convince that doctor that I want 2 MRIs. It may take a bit of time.
He's on two different epilepsy medications as part of the transition. He's also on medications for his heart and brain.
M in Oz
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Ii spent the day yesterday with DH. We sat outside and enjoyed the company of others. I hope that he will join me in the apartment in the near future. Wish me luck and DH will be able join me in the apartment.
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Katla, Such good news that your DH is able to sit outside! I hope he is able to come back to the apartment soon! That would be so good!1
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Autumn sprite.
Love Heather UK xxxxxx7 -
Morning ladies
Boy that nyquil knocks you out and it works,im not stuffy anymore.. but I did close the windows.
Have to pick up some groceries.. and then will be back.
Right now Tracy and Kyle have no back up.. and ,I feel kind of stuck ..I love Miles ,but can't plan anything because of the schedule until he is at least preschool age.2 -
Ii spent the day yesterday with DH. We sat outside and enjoyed the company of others. I hope that he will join me in the apartment in the near future. Wish me luck and DH will be able join me in the apartment.
I miss him.
How great that you are spending time with him and that he's feeling better.0 -
Katla, Good news about your husband!
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Heather I love the autumn sprite! How sweet is that?
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I have communicated more with Josephine's mom. Josephine is 12 now. I asked if I could look for anything for her as I downsize, and she asked me to start a box of any interesting items for her to look at. I have craft items, dolls, books, and other things she might find interesting. Should be fun!
Karen in Virginia8 -
My entertainment style is a blend of careful planning and total panic. I don't do it enough to have any confidence. There was a time when I could have my friends over for coffee and feel okay, but that was twenty years ago.
I'm irritated with caregiving this morning. I made a really nice meatloaf earlier this week and my mother got it out and left the leftovers out on the counter all night.
Then she was carrying trash out to the garage, down two steps, and she picked up the newspapers too. I told her to make two trips but she ignored me. There's nothing I can do when she is being stubborn. I was waiting to do her pills so I could go back to sleep.
I cook dinner because her memory and thinking is so bad that she is dangerous in the kitchen. Every once in awhile she asks me if I cook because I like to cook. I say I cook to make it easier for her. She is grateful but she doesn't acknowledge her own limits. And there's no way to independently measure how much she can do safely. I know her doctors have encouraged me to take on tasks. It's just hard some days.
Thanks for listening to me whine.
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KJLamore- Wrap the watermelon’s in newspaper and put them on the windowsill. I am originally from New England and that is what we did with our tomatoes and other fruits and vegetables that didn’t ripen before the weather turned cold. Brown paper bags work as well. Good luck saving those two watermelon’s!0
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It has been a rough few years since I have posted. I am sure that is true for many of us.
Besides the worldwide pandemic, I retired in January 2020, then my husband died of a heart attack and stroke on March 2, 2020 followed by my son dying on September 15, 2021 from a gun accident.
The day I retired I weighed 162 pounds. This morning I weighed 141.
Despite the tragedies and the stress of COVID I am grateful for my friends in the real world and my women’s camping group, Sisters on the Fly. They pulled me through.
Now I am grateful I (finally) found this group again to help me through the the last 20 pounds.
When I started my fitness pal in 2008 I weighed 176 pounds. It’s been slow, but steady. I tell people it’s not a diet, it’s a lifestyle change.13 -
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Praying for Josie, Karen. She is a tough cookie.
OMgosh jam0525, I'm sorry for your losses! Glad you found us.
Cheering out Vikings today!
Love and Blessings, Carla, in MN1 -
Heather ~ The photo of you holding the cat reminds me of your Bea! Also, very cute sprite photo.
Karen ~ Prayers for Josephine. She has been through so much.
Machka ~ Congrats on your weight loss.
Chilly in Georgia this morning and some light rain! Good day to be inside.
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Jam0525 - What terrible losses. I am so sorry. I cannot imagine.
We had an utterly delicious kedgeree this evening. We both adore it.
Quiet day scheduled for tomorrow. DH is going to cook his signature chicken stew. I will finish excavating Memory Box 1. I can see a bunch of letters to look through, but should get it done.
I've ordered some gluten free suet to make a Christmas Pudding for my son. We are invited there for Christmas, but I'm helping out with a few dishes. Gluten free stuffing, pudding, and bread sauce, plus the mashed swede and carrot I've already made and frozen. I'm just so grateful not to be entertaining. I can make everything ahead of time.
Brighton and Hove won their women's football match. Edie was watching in person, so I'm sure that made her happy.
Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx4 -
Happy Sunday Ladies!
Karen - hope your brother's SS# debacle is getting sorted out. Thanks for the pix of Olivia & Mom & update on Josephine. Kids seem to take these things in stride better than adults. One of my favorite books, no longer in print as far as I know, is titled "What was good about today" about a family whose daughter went through cancer treatment, eventually died, and how the child was a source of strength for everyone.
Lisa - sending good thoughts your way. I think your doormat might look like the one I want to get:
Kelly - glad to hear Tim is going forward with getting insurance. Crossing fingers your exam comes out OK. I thought for sure whoever wrote the song "I enjoy being a girl" had to be a guy, lol. Nope, a girl - Pat Suzuki. Maybe she had a hysterectomy at 30 or something. And good luck to your so regarding the job - sounds like a neat one.
Heather - Oh my word that cake looked great. Both of your boys are uniquely talented.
Rosemarie - I wasn't surprised that you are getting a lot of steps caring for your husband. Before I retired and had a "desk job" I'd get nearly 10,000 steps a day just running to grab files and use the copy machine. I've been a lot more sedate since then if I don't get after myself. Glad your son came
Carla - your joy with the IT improvements at your workspace is awesome. Very happy for you and your IT buddies. You've got it made.
Debbie - your wedding dress was gorgeous, what a beautiful photo. Keep on walking, girl. It's good therapy.
Tracey - hope your daughter is getting over the crud & Sue in WA, hope your daughter just has a run of the mill crud.
More silver linings to having Covid:
Anosmia. (loss of sense of smell). Started in earnest yesterday. It was great, I couldn't smell the catbox as I cleaned it out. I peeled and chopped a whole cup of garlic, couldn't smell a thing. I'm making honey fermented garlic. The house must smell like an Italian kitchen! And I made salmon chowder for supper. Didn't have to smell the stinky salmon - I really don't mind the smell though. If my DH was here he would have been gagging, lol.
Shake the Sugar - I didn't have any sugary treats in the house and couldn't go out to get any, so a win/win. The last thing my system needed to contend with was an overload of junk sugar. I didn't even miss it. I did have a couple pieces of buttered toast with a little honey and that was fine.
Immune system tune-up. After being in semi-isolation for the past few years to keep from catching any crud that DH might pick up from me, my immune system T & B cells and other bug-killers, who had been off lounging on some beach somewhere, were yanked back and immediately sent to the front lines this past week and had to retrain a lot in the trenches. They have stepped up. And now that they are at the top of their game, they will be on full alert for any other colds, viruses or similar nasty actors. It's not all about antibodies. They go away when the game is over but this support crew has to be ready for the next one. From what I understand anyhow.
Keeping my walking buddy at bay: I've come to the conclusion she's addicted to walking or me or both. She saw me walking early Weds AM (day 2) I just needed to get out of the house for 10 minutes and get fresh air. I was hoping no one saw me. About ten minutes after I got back in the house, I get the text "I saw you walking - how about we walk tomorrow at 7?" It caught me by surprise, I said OK. I realized later after I talked to my doc who gave me strict orders to NOT overdo it, just rest rest rest for the next week, that I wasn't thinking straight - I was in the middle of Covid- covid brain! and tried to text her to cancel. Freaking phone wouldn't let me text her. Message unsent. Tried 4 times. I can see the cell tower and her house from my driveway. This happens a lot. I tried the next morning, finally got through right before she'd be winging toward my place. I was exhausted, getting thoroughly ticked, and really wanted to be in bed instead of dealing with it.
Well, I've had a lot of time to think. This illness has made me finally realize that I get to take control of my time, my priorities, my health, my schedule. I know this sounds like a given, but handing this over to others - like how I'd adjusted everything to care for DH as time went by - was insidious. And walking with her on a fairly regular during the pandemic and his illness was a respite. We grew to be good friends, and we both needed each other and probably stayed pretty well on an even keel because of it.
But I'm not tied to his schedule anymore. I'm kind of tied to Rosie the schnauzer's, and I like that. She's not real demanding.
So as Heather would say, time to reset my boundaries. Figure out what I want them to be. Looking forward to getting my energy back and spend time with folks other than those just who live on my block.
Ok time to draw this epistle to a close for now, lol.
Welcome new ladies! And a big congrats to all of you who are getting your exercise and steps in! I think I'll pull a Tai Chi DVD off the shelf and get a little slow balance training in.
Make it a fabulous day!
Lanette
SW WA State
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It has been a rough few years since I have posted. I am sure that is true for many of us.
Besides the worldwide pandemic, I retired in January 2020, then my husband died of a heart attack and stroke on March 2, 2020 followed by my son dying on September 15, 2021 from a gun accident.
The day I retired I weighed 162 pounds. This morning I weighed 141.
Despite the tragedies and the stress of COVID I am grateful for my friends in the real world and my women’s camping group, Sisters on the Fly. They pulled me through.
Now I am grateful I (finally) found this group again to help me through the the last 20 pounds.
When I started my fitness pal in 2008 I weighed 176 pounds. It’s been slow, but steady. I tell people it’s not a diet, it’s a lifestyle change.
Jam - So very, very sorry to hear what you've gone through since your retirement. Do you have any other children? Several of us have lost our husbands in the past couple years.
I am so grateful you have your "Sisters on the Fly" group. And very happy you are back with us. Do you have a nickname and where are you from - state, region, etc.? You might have posted this already - my apologies, sometimes I'm a sporadic reader here. Many hugs!
Carla - I forgot to mention, I put the flag out this morning. It's Gold Star Mother's Day. Pray for peace, ladies.
Lanette
Sunny SW WA State6 -
I am hoping that DH will be healthy enough to come home with me. He has done very well in his current facility, and I am hopeful. Our daughter has been a blessing. Today she is taking her daughter to the doctor.4
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Hi Gals,
Jam0525 – Wow, what a tough go… welcome back – we are a good support group…
Heather – I looked up Kedgeree it sounds great. What type of smoked fish do you use?
Katla – so happy for you and DH
Entertaining – I love to do it…. I try to keep the house picked up so at any time I can do about 15 minutes of a quick vacuum and a bit of pickup and good to go. For me that is part of the joy of not having too much stuff – no collections, very limited “dust-ables” (stuff that is just for pretty and ends up just needing dusting) I even limit the number of pictures on the walls, as those frames need to be dusted. I also keep a collection of stuff in the pantry and freezer that lets me put together a quick meal if I need to. I do love a pretty table, to that end, I have everyday dishes that all match, flat wear that is nice, and matching glass wear. My dishes are white with a vine of ivy around the edge, 3-4 tablecloths that blend, a vase, a couple of flowers from the yard and a sprig of ivy from where the neighbors ivy grows over the fence..and it’s done. I am also happy to cook while someone is here, if they have just shown up or called with just a short bit of notice, If I have time I do things ahead. I also meal plan for me, about 1 week in advance, and since I cook for just me I try to make enough for 3-4 servings which means I can always make the next planned meal early for last minute company.
Smiles Kim in sunny N. California
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SophieRosieMom wrote: »Happy Sunday Ladies!
More silver linings to having Covid:
Anosmia. (loss of sense of smell). Started in earnest yesterday. It was great, I couldn't smell the catbox as I cleaned it out. I peeled and chopped a whole cup of garlic, couldn't smell a thing. I'm making honey fermented garlic. The house must smell like an Italian kitchen! And I made salmon chowder for supper. Didn't have to smell the stinky salmon - I really don't mind the smell though. If my DH was here he would have been gagging, lol.
Shake the Sugar - I didn't have any sugary treats in the house and couldn't go out to get any, so a win/win. The last thing my system needed to contend with was an overload of junk sugar. I didn't even miss it. I did have a couple pieces of buttered toast with a little honey and that was fine.
Immune system tune-up. After being in semi-isolation for the past few years to keep from catching any crud that DH might pick up from me, my immune system T & B cells and other bug-killers, who had been off lounging on some beach somewhere, were yanked back and immediately sent to the front lines this past week and had to retrain a lot in the trenches. They have stepped up. And now that they are at the top of their game, they will be on full alert for any other colds, viruses or similar nasty actors. It's not all about antibodies. They go away when the game is over but this support crew has to be ready for the next one. From what I understand anyhow.
Keeping my walking buddy at bay: I've come to the conclusion she's addicted to walking or me or both. She saw me walking early Weds AM (day 2) I just needed to get out of the house for 10 minutes and get fresh air. I was hoping no one saw me. About ten minutes after I got back in the house, I get the text "I saw you walking - how about we walk tomorrow at 7?" It caught me by surprise, I said OK. I realized later after I talked to my doc who gave me strict orders to NOT overdo it, just rest rest rest for the next week, that I wasn't thinking straight - I was in the middle of Covid- covid brain! and tried to text her to cancel. Freaking phone wouldn't let me text her. Message unsent. Tried 4 times. I can see the cell tower and her house from my driveway. This happens a lot. I tried the next morning, finally got through right before she'd be winging toward my place. I was exhausted, getting thoroughly ticked, and really wanted to be in bed instead of dealing with it.
Well, I've had a lot of time to think. This illness has made me finally realize that I get to take control of my time, my priorities, my health, my schedule. I know this sounds like a given, but handing this over to others - like how I'd adjusted everything to care for DH as time went by - was insidious. And walking with her on a fairly regular during the pandemic and his illness was a respite. We grew to be good friends, and we both needed each other and probably stayed pretty well on an even keel because of it.
But I'm not tied to his schedule anymore. I'm kind of tied to Rosie the schnauzer's, and I like that. She's not real demanding.
So as Heather would say, time to reset my boundaries. Figure out what I want them to be. Looking forward to getting my energy back and spend time with folks other than those just who live on my block.
Ok time to draw this epistle to a close for now, lol.
Welcome new ladies! And a big congrats to all of you who are getting your exercise and steps in! I think I'll pull a Tai Chi DVD off the shelf and get a little slow balance training in.
Make it a fabulous day!
Lanette
SW WA State
Hope you feel better soon.
My son had Covid the same time I did, almost 2 yrs ago, and he still can't smell most things.(or at least the last time I asked him he said he couldn't). He was really tired for about a week I was told(I was quarantined at mom's/too exhausted to even think about driving the backroads for over an hour to get home for the first 3 weeks)
His girlfriend also had it, tired for the week but that was it. She was staying here because her parents didn't want her at their house. We all got it from my parents on Christmas day.
Everyone gets different side effects. The two biggest ones were extreme exhaustion that last over 3 weeks for me and then my hair started falling out- lost what seemed to be about half of it.
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