WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR APRIL 2023
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Anniesquats100 wrote: »My new pants that I ordered online came in. The fit is exactly right, tapered but not skin tight. The material is odd. Instead of old fashioned soft absorbent cotton, it's a sleek stretchy synthetic called polyamide. Hmm. They feel like they would be hot for exercise. How can I tell if they breathe well? The basement is a little cool. I'm at 166 lbs. and my goal is 140 or so, so they may not fit by fall.
They are so much more trendy than the old basics. These are black with a subtle black on black camo pattern. Hmm. Maybe an update is a good thing.
Annie in Delaware
Eta: the reviews call them breathable. Worth a try, I guess. They are called joggers, which are looser than leggings.
Synthetic fabrics are better than cotton when exercising. Cotton holds the moisture (sweat) and stays wet, which can cause chafing and if you're exercising outside, hypothermia. Whereas synthetic fabrics dry quickly.
Unless I'm doing a casual walk, I don't exercise in cotton.
M in Oz3 -
Questions
1. Where are you on the chart above?
I feel like I've been in the Learning Zone since the mid-1990s ... 25-30 years.
2. Where would you like to be on the chart above?
Now ... I'd like to figure out what my comfort zone is and spend a bit of time there. Soon, I might want to move on to the Growth Zone. We'll see.
3. What is your comfort zone? How would you define a comfort zone?
Genuine question because I don't know anymore.
Machka in Oz1 -
Machka - This was coloured by me. It’s a design my machine drew and I coloured. I’m trying to learn the art of sublimation and I’m practicing.
Yours are beautiful. One problem with the infusible ink I have to use is the colour isn’t accurate until it’s heated. Just like glazes in ceramics, so sometimes my colour choices leave a bit to be desired.
Barbara - I sing frequently. Over the last few years I’ve enjoyed more music than I have since I was a teen. I have actually found tv very boring lately. Except for the musical type shows and documentaries of people I find interesting.
Barbie - my young coworker with three young girls is taking her girls to the movie this weekend. They are going to a theatre with reclining seats. She said she knows her and her husband will get a good nap in while the girls are entertained. She said it will be about a 250 nap but worth it.
I’m like you when I comes to movies I like to pause and rewind if necessary.
Lanette - it’s management that I’m referring to leaving. We do have a pretty stable workforce on the floor except in the kitchen. We have noticed that it’s hard to fill open positions everywhere right now though, especially nurses.
It sounds like you had a very productive day. Can’t wait to see your chicken coop.
Margaret - I should read that book.
Tina - dealing with cranky misters is difficult.
I hope this week is better for you.
Heather - great cups! I hope your sleepover went well.
Carla - I will definitely have to find that movie. Sounds like a good Sunday afternoon activity.
I have to say that the residents are extremely well taken care of and my boss is the kindest person with them. She reminds us all the time how we are guests in their home.
Kylia - I’m glad you realized it was meds. You always have so much stress, it’s no wonder you lost it with a headache on top of it all.
Hope you feel 100% soon.
Rosemarie - it’s good you are getting out and joining things. I heard a study the other day that doing group activities keep our brains healthier than doing things on our own.
Went to my honorary granddaughter’s first birthday today. I bought her a band in a box and her Mom loved it. I did tell her before it was opened that I would 100% return it with no hard feelings. It has maracas, a triangle, symbols, a tambourine, a clapper and another piece that I can’t remember the name of.
My daughter and I both bought her the same outfit, she bought it in size 12 months and I bought it in 18 months.
Here is my granddaughter holding her.
Tracey in Edmonton10 -
Prayers needed for my daycare girl's family. Her step grandpa who is a good friend of my dh's sent dh a suicide note and is not answering his phone. He hasn't been heard from since 5am-he didn't go to work and he left his wallet at home. Dh had to be the one to tell his parents. the guy's wife hasn't even contacted them. We are praying that he changed his mind after sending the text to dh but most likely he didn't.13
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dlfk202000 wrote: »Prayers needed for my daycare girl's family. Her step grandpa who is a good friend of my dh's sent dh a suicide note and is not answering his phone. He hasn't been heard from since 5am-he didn't go to work and he left his wallet at home. Dh had to be the one to tell his parents. the guy's wife hasn't even contacted them. We are praying that he changed his mind after sending the text to dh but most likely he didn't.
Prayers ... but I also hope that your husband has rung the police.1 -
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16. Go exploring around your local area and notice new things –maybe inside, forecast is too rainy/blustery.
Woo HOO! Over 10K steps so far today, for the first time since Dec 16 2022. No wonder I’m looking forward to bed. Read everyone but comments will be few.
Debbie prayer said for Ezie’s step grandpa and family.
Kylia glad you stopped those meds. What awful side effects. There’s got to be a better way to treat your heart issues that aren’t bothering you than worsening the migraines you already suffer. ((hugs))
Karen speaking of awful side effects, how’s your spouse doing?
Sorry, even though I read everything, I’m so sleepy I can’t remember all the responses I intended.04/15: Move: 2 sets PT with dumbbells, dog group, Lone Ranch beach stroll with T. steps:10047
Fuel: plants running count for week so far: almonds, asparagus, cashews, cranberries, ginger, peanut oil, pecans, rice-brown, tangerines, tea, wheat-cookies/matzoh/sourdough CI=1467
Live: Joe, readings, BP, start a load of laundry, Wt:134.9
Lighter, lovelies!
Barbara, the Southern Oregon Coastie AHMOD
2023: Be of good cheer. April: Move more, fuel better, live NOW.
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dlfk202000 wrote: »Prayers needed for my daycare girl's family. Her step grandpa who is a good friend of my dh's sent dh a suicide note and is not answering his phone. He hasn't been heard from since 5am-he didn't go to work and he left his wallet at home. Dh had to be the one to tell his parents. the guy's wife hasn't even contacted them. We are praying that he changed his mind after sending the text to dh but most likely he didn't.
Prayers ... but I also hope that your husband has rung the police.
Others got messages too. Everyone, including his wife's ex(they got along well), telling him where the car was but also telling him that he would make sure they never found his body, the pastor, his wife, one of his step daughters but not his other(Ezie's mom-he had issues with her because she said all he was was a step (as in step dad) to her and not a real dad) and his parents did not get one.
We are really praying that he just disappeared for a while and will eventually turn up back in the Philippines with his parents
His parents asked dh to go to where they found his phone and he asked me to go with him. We stood there for quite a while but most of the police were leaving and CHP declined to come out to help with the search because of the terrain and the homeless camp around there they felt it wasn't safe. They did have the helocoptor up with the infra red scopes looking and found nothing
Coast Guard came out and was searching in the water.
Dh thinks it is possible he just tossed his phone there and the drove to the marina and parked there, about a mile or so away. He could have taken the ferry from there- no one knows and no survelience cameras are around any of those areas.
The family thought he was going to work- got dressed and left for work at the regular time in work clothes. He did say goodbye to the ring camera on their door that he never does. He looked so sad, touching the door for a few extra seconds then blew a kiss to the camera and waved.9 -
Yesterday was restful and I intend today to be the same. Planning to pick up grandson and go visit eldest daughter after lunch.
Tracey: Love the tshirt design. Rats to your disagreeable boss.
Annie: You are doing a grand job with your parents. I know from experience how difficult it is to take on that roll reversal. Yay! For the new pants!
Kylia: So glad it was the meds. Just try and take care of YOU!
Allie: Miles is such a cutie pie. It’s good to know that Carmine has found a friend.
Heather: I love all the arty activities, and your experimental paintings.
Rebecca: ((( hugs!)))
Rosemarie: The movie group sounds interesting.
Machka:
1. I've been in the learning/growth zone for quite some time. It's scary at times, but I feel the fear and do anyway!
2. I'm exactly where I want to be.
3. I'm happy where I am, so I suppose I must be in my comfort zone!
Debbie: Prayers and hugs for that poor family.
Intentions for April:🔹Maintain weight < 140 (I have managed to stay at the lower end of the 140s)Intentions for today:
🔹Continue with Solid Habit development
📍Solid habits
📍general chores
📍active rest day
📍visit elder daughter after lunch.
Virtual (((hugs))) and 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 for all those those who need them.
🙋♀️ Miele failte to the newbies.
☘️ Terri
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Good morning ladies!
Tracey what darling children!
Debbie so sad. Especially not knowing. How old is the missing man?
Machka, I am mostly in my comfort zone. We have a routine. But I feel like it might be disturbed at any moment. My parents won't last forever.
Annie in Delaware4 -
Thank you all!
Debbie Prayers!
Machka I need to look at your chart on my laptop. Then I will know/question more.
Sitting on back porch enjoying sunshine, birds, and squirrels.
Kylia in Ohio2 -
Barbie, congratulations on your decision to buy an EV. Please let us know about which one you'll choose and why. I plan to drive my Subaru for many more years but EVs interest me.
Betsy in NW WA0 -
Debbie, Sad to hear about the probable suicide, a topic too near to my own heart. I am sad for the family, who will have to bear the knowledge and emotional fallout for the rest of their lives. Forever changed.
Barbara, My spouse feels much better after discontinuing some of her rxs. Her balance and gait have improved a little, but her hand tremor is unchanged. She reports less brain fog. We hope for continued improvement. Thank you for asking.
Tracey, I was once in a situation with a toxic subordinate who, for reasons unknown to me to this day, was being protected and enabled by upper management. I had to leave my position because they would not support me in firing her. It might have been because one of the Vice Presidents was her good friend. One of the other Vice Presidents told me they had all been enabling this toxic individual for years, and it was in my best interest to move on, since I had other good opportunities within the company, so I did. I know it isn’t the same for you, since you are the subordinate, but your company is keeping this toxic supervisor in her job, despite ample evidence that she is chasing good managers away. There has to be a reason for that. Sometimes it is best to move on, as unfair as it is.
Barbie, It is so fun to hear of your excitement about the new electric car.
Kim, Whew! Dodged a bullet. PT heroes.
__________1. Age: 68_________
2. Live: Near Richmond, Virginia
3. Work: Retired 14 months ago
4. Family: Married 3 1/2 years to wife Enid. Children/Grandchildren: Katie (Olivia & Phoenix) in Encinitas; Emerson & Michelle (LillyBell & Aurora “Rory”) in Moseley, VA near us; and Aaron & Andrea (Griffin & Jillian) in Midlothian, VA near us
5. Sports/activities: Aqua classes, Dog-Walking, Daily Meditation
6. Hobbies: Book Club, Woodcarving, Watercolor Painting, Embroidery, Music, Watching Movies
7. Season: Fall
8. Pets: Mabel & Molly, Yorkshire terriers
9. Holiday: Thanksgiving
10. Foods: Fresh Green Salads, Shellfish, Raspberries, Roasted Root Vegetables, Brie, Camembert, Dry-Roasted Macadamia Nuts, Peppermint Ice Cream, Carrot Cake, Root Beer Floats, PG Tips
11. Movies: To Kill a Mockingbird, 49, The Holiday, Titanic, Mrs. Doubtfire, Up, Dead Poets Society
12. Music: Classical, Carolina Shag/Beach Music, Instrumental Bluegrass, New Orleans Jazz
13. Books: To Kill a Mockingbird, The Source, The Good Earth, Cutting for Stone, The Little Prince
Today is going to be so fun!
Impromptu string quartet this afternoon after Sunday Brunch in the Bistro.
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Time to straighten the apartment and get in the shower!
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I love all of you.
Karen in Virginia
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Barbie, congratulations on your decision to buy an EV. Please let us know about which one you'll choose and why. I plan to drive my Subaru for many more years but EVs interest me.
Betsy in NW WA
We currently have a 2017 Subaru Forester with fairly low mileage so if we waited until we "needed" a car, it would be another decade. This is a delightful treat we have decided to give ourselves.4 -
I'm in all the zones! I do try to get out of my comfort zone, if it's feeling restrictive, but some of our routines and habits I just love. I used to be mostly in the fear zone when I was younger, but that has changed significantly in recent years. I am far less afraid of making mistakes than I used to be and that has freed me up to live in the learning and growth zones more often. Life is an adventure.
Seize the day!
Whatever you can do or dream you can, begin it; Boldness has genius, power, and magic in it.
Goethe
We all slept very well. The kids didn't come down until 7 am. The Full English Breakfast (menu on a chalk board) was fun and a success. I provided different fruit juices and Edie had the green one. I laid the table properly with napkins and a toast rack etc.
Getting them all to get dressed and packed was a struggle, but we all settled to crafts, with Bea working on her dog again and Edie and I sewing. Max played chess and cards with DH. Edie is creating a windmill and I finished a bell Christmas decoration! It goes nicely with my snowman.
Parents arrived back at 11 and we chatted over coffee. They said it was their best weekend ever.
So now relaxing. I will do some rowing, but I feel a nap coming on. Amazon are delivering some heart shaped porcelain dishes for painting another day. 😍
Still got to tidy up the table !!!!!!!
All worth it though.
Kylia - So glad you got that horrible migraine sorted. I have been deaf for the last few days with earwax (thankfully much better now) and I have been sooooo grumpy with DH. On Friday I ached all day and was really stiff. Not a happy bunny. The weather cleared and I woke up much improved. The deafness and tinnitus especially made me miserable (thinking of Beth).
Ugh. May we be healthy and free from pain!
Love Heather UK xxxxxx
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Debbie Prayers for the family 💕🙏💕1
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Heather: You do a really great job with crafts...the ones you do yourself and the ones with DH and the grands! You are an inspiration!
Machka: I am in a growth phase and need to re-define myself and find some new activities. Working with the animal rescue and joining the movie group are 2 new activities. I may also participate in a volunteer week end lunch program. That would be 3 new activities. That is probably enough that is new for now.
I did go to adult ed but skipped the service. The service can make me sad. It is a lovely day but it also feels lonely. I will have to make a to do list and take a nap and start the day over rested and ready to go!
Best,
Rosemary from Georgia5 -
my question about this is if your comfort zone is no longer can you go to any other zone?4 -
April 2023 Action for Happiness
Word of the year: Appreciate : today I appreciate birds singing.Exercise goals added
Yoga 10 mins 3 times a week 7/15(100%,100%,80%)
Walk 7,000 every day 14/30 (84%,86%,94%)
6 min HIIT -2x a day start April 1 23/60
Arm weights twice a week 3/10 (100%, 60%hurt my elbow, hurt my shoulder 30%)
Meditation: daily. 16/30 (82%(started Feb)94%)
PT— head. 4/17. Started 4/13/23
Hands 3/17
1. cut back drinking and limit to 2 days a week. 0/8–(100%,100%,0%)
2. Average 7,000 steps a week. 9867, 9491, (7,700,100%-9851,100%—9526,100%)
3. Update budget every 2 weeks 5/2 —(100%,100%,100%,100%)
4. Contact close family every week (4x) 28/158/ —(100%,100%,100%)
5. Contact Donat and sibs once a month (8x)35/64–(100%,100%,100%)
6. Weigh less last day of month compared to first until I reach 140. Start at 178.6,176,174.2,173.4 (100%,100%,100%)
7. Develop a journaling practice by aiming to journal at least 5 days a week. 15/20-(100%,88%,100)
8. Read 12 books at least this year. 15/12 (100%,100%,100%)
9. Pay off credit card debt by January 2024 by making monthly payments to NDR——4/12—(100%.100%,100%,100%)
10. Continue building emergency fund at SLFCU (min$25 a month)$25+$25+$71+700+25(100%,100%,100%,100%)
11. April started putting 4% on income in savings (100%)
Decided that if I do more than stated I will not grade higher than 100% 2/5/23
January Met —100%
February met —-90%
March met met —-90%
April met
May met
June met
July met — met
August met
September met
October met —
November met—
December met—
ACTIVE APRIL
1.Commit to being more active this month starting today. I commit to this by adding the exercises from the 6 minute book for over 60’s.15. Get active by singing today (even if you think you can’t sing). I can’t sing but will sing along with music anyway. Sang “When the ants go marching in” during my walk.
2. Spend as much time as possible outdoors today. Easy! LOL
3. Listen to your body and be grateful for what it can do. I do this during walking meditations every day.
4. Eat healthy and natural food today and drinks lots of water. Yogurt and raspberries for breakfast with 17 oz water bottle and coffee, more to come.
5. Turn a regular activity into a playful game today. Not sure. Joked with hairdresser while getting hair cut. Everyone was laughing and joining in.
6. Do a body-scan meditation and really notice how your body feels. I do this often in my meditations.
7. Get natural light early in the day. Dim the lights in the evening. Morning done. Will do in evening.
8. give your body a boost by laughing or making someone laugh. I will as soon as I can! Did this with friends.
9. Turn your housework or chores into a fun form of exercise. Hmmmm tbd
10. Have a day with less screen time and more movement. I’ll try.
11. Set yourself an exercise goal or sign up to an activity challenge. Already have goals: Yoga 10 mins 3 times a week, Walk 7,000 every day, 6 min HIIT -2x a day, Arm weights twice a week
12. Move as much as possible, even if you’re stuck inside. I will do. Vet this morning then normal day, so will be able to do this.
13. Make sleep a priority and go to bed in good time. Easy Peasy!
14. Relax your body & mind with yoga, tai chi or meditation. I will meditate and try to find time for yoga too. I did all I wanted to do.
16. Go exploring around your local area and notice new things. OOOH, this sounds like fun.17. Be active outside. Dig up weeds or plant some seeds
18. Try a new online exercise, activity or dance class.
19. Spend less time sitting today. Get up and move more often.
20. Focus on eating ‘a rainbow of multi-colored vegetables today.
21. Regularly pause to stretch and breathe during the day.
22. Enjoy moving to your favorite music. Really go for it.
23. Go out and do an errand for a loved one or neighbor.
24. Get active in nature. Feed the birds or go wild-life spotting.
25. Have a ‘no screens’ night and take time to recharge yourself.
26. Take an extra break in your day and walk outside for 15 minutes
27. Find a fun exercise to do while waiting for the kettle to boil (or pan of water.)
28. Meet a friend outside for a walk and a chat.
29. Become an activist for a cause you really believe in
30. Make time to run, swim, dance, cycle or stretch today
RVRita
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