WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR JUNE 2023

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  • KetoneKaren
    KetoneKaren Posts: 6,412 Member
    edited June 2023
    Machka,

    May I please have that photo of the leaf insect? I would prefer that you send it to me rather than taking a screen shot.

    If that is agreeable, I’ll PM you my phone and you can text it to me.

    Karen in Virginia

    p.s. 😍 Your recent coloring 😍.

    There is a coloring club here. I might go once to see who is in it, but I may prefer to color as meditation rather than socialization.
  • KetoneKaren
    KetoneKaren Posts: 6,412 Member
    Heather,

    lovelovelove the artwork

    I’m so tickled for you that your son wants the abstract!

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    A warm welcome to the newbies.

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    Vicki, I keep meeting Nebraskans or people with ties to Nebraska - it’s gratifying to talk about my home state and meet people who know what I’m talking about.

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    Karen in Virginia
  • Joy1580vb
    Joy1580vb Posts: 441 Member
    Machka congrats on the weight loss. I'm still struggling with getting rid of my excess pounds. Just concentrating on smaller portions, no junk food and moving more. I think my gardening will help in that respect.

    I actually got through menopause with no major issues. Was not able to take HRT due to history of cancer (ovarian) in family.

    Rebecca congrats to your son. Amazing accomplishment to be proud of for sure. My brother had a career in the Navy. He went through Royal Rhodes Military College in Canada. Enlisted at age 18 and was able to retire with full pension at a very early age. Enjoyed his military career and still stays in touch with people he met when he first joined.

    Joy
  • pipcd34
    pipcd34 Posts: 17,279 Member
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  • lightstrongma
    lightstrongma Posts: 182 Member
    barbiecat wrote: »
    :) A thought about gratitude. Gratitude lists are frequently lists of new, exciting, special, memorable things and that's great, but it's important to me to be grateful every day for the usual things, the things I nearly take for granted, the things that I would miss if they were taken away. Some examples are my husband, my dog, my health, my house, my ability to think and reason, mobility, sight, hearing. There are so many.

    <3 Barbie in NW WA

    We have to count our Blessings Everyday! 🙏🏻
  • 1948CWB
    1948CWB Posts: 1,608 Member
    :)
  • kevrit
    kevrit Posts: 4,326 Member
    edited June 2023
    June 2023 Happiness

    Word of the year: Appreciate : today I appreciate watching funny animal videos.


    Exercise goals added
    Yoga 10 mins 3 times a week 0/15 (100%,100%,80%,73%,.1%)
    Walk 7,000 every day 2/30 (84%,86%,94%,93%,65%)
    6 min HIIT -1x a day start April 1- 1/30 (93%,0)
    Arm weights twice a week 1/10 (100%, 60%hurt my elbow, hurt my shoulder 30%,50%,0)
    Meditation: daily. 1/30 (82%(started Feb)94%,100%, 74%)

    1. cut back drinking and limit to 2 days a week. 2/8–(100%,100%,0%,0%,0)
    2. Average 7,000 steps a week. (7,700,100%-9851,100%—9526,100%—-9,559,100%, —8347,100%)
    3. Update budget every 2 weeks 0/2 —(100%,100%,100%,100%,100%)
    4. Contact close family every week (4x) 70/208—(100%,100%,100%,50%, 79% should be 103.2 by July 1)
    5. Contact Donat and sibs once a month (8x)40/94 (100%,100%,100%,100%,100%)
    6. Weigh less last day of month compared to first until I reach 140. Start at 178.6,176,174.2,173.4,175.4,174,(100%,100%,100%,0%,100%)
    7. Develop a journaling practice by aiming to journal at least 5 days a week. 3/15 (100%,88%,100,100%,100%,100%)
    8. Read 12 books at least this year. 20/12 (100%,100%,100%,100%,100%)
    9. Pay off credit card debt by January 2024 by making monthly payments to NDR/Reach Financial 6/12—(100%.100%,100%,100%,100%)
    10. Continue building emergency fund at SLFCU (min$25 a month)$25+$25+$71+700+25+25 +25 (100%,100%,100%,100%,100%)
    11. April started putting 4% on income in savings. 700,200,200 (100%,100%,100%)

    January Met —100%
    February met —-90%
    March met met —-90%
    April met——86.36%
    May met——-89%
    June met
    July met — met
    August met
    September met
    October met —
    November met—
    December met—



    1. Decide to look for what’s good every day this month. Started with friendly people.
    2. Say positive things in your conversations with others. I will try, but people annoy me.
    3. Re-frame a worry and try to find a helpful way to think about it. This will be about my son. Not sure how to re-frame it but will find a way today.
    4. Take a photo of something that brings you joy and share it.
    5. Think of 3 things you’re grateful for and write them down.
    6. Get out into green space and feel the joy that nature brings.
    7. Do something healthy that makes you feel good.
    8. Find joy in music: sing, play, dance, listen or share.
    9. Ask a friend what made them happy recently.
    10. Bring joy to others by doing something kind for them.
    11. Eat good food that makes you happy and really savor it.
    12. Write a gratitude letter to thank someone.
    13. Take a light-hearted approach. Choose to see the funny side.
    14. Share a happy memory with someone who means a lot to you.
    15. Look for something to be thankful for where you least expect it.
    16. Speak to others in a warm and friendly manner.
    17. Take time to notice things that you find beautiful.
    18. Look for something good in a difficult situation.
    19. Get outside and find the joy in being active.
    20. Rediscover and enjoy a fun childhood activity.
    21. Send a positive note to a friend who needs encouragement.
    22. Watch something funny and enjoy how it feels to laugh.
    23. Create a playlist of uplifting songs to listen to.
    24. Bring to mind a favorite memory you feel grateful for.
    25. Show your appreciation to people who are helping others
    26. Make time to do something playful just for the fun of it.
    27. Be kind to you. Do something that brings you joy.
    28. Notice how positive emotions are contagious among people.
    29. Share a friendly smile with people you see today.
    30. Make a list of the joys in your life and keep adding to it.

    RVRita
  • minicooper452
    minicooper452 Posts: 645 Member
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  • Whidislander
    Whidislander Posts: 3,820 Member
    Joy1580vb wrote: »
    Machka congrats on the weight loss. I'm still struggling with getting rid of my excess pounds. Just concentrating on smaller portions, no junk food and moving more. I think my gardening will help in that respect.

    I actually got through menopause with no major issues. Was not able to take HRT due to history of cancer (ovarian) in family.

    Rebecca congrats to your son. Amazing accomplishment to be proud of for sure. My brother had a career in the Navy. He went through Royal Rhodes Military College in Canada. Enlisted at age 18 and was able to retire with full pension at a very early age. Enjoyed his military career and still stays in touch with people he met when he first joined.

    Joy

    Nice! My husband still is in contact with some of his shipmates from his fist ship. He stayed in for 20. Its nice to have friends you have gone thru so much with. I have a friend I met back in 1988 when we were stationed in Japan. We met at the base laundromat and pal'ed around together for a year while husbands sailed on their respective ships. We are still best friends 35 years later, but have had no real direct visits. I am on Whidbey island in WA state, and she is in Connecticut. Hopefully one day.
    Rebecca
    Whidbey
    Wa
  • Whidislander
    Whidislander Posts: 3,820 Member
    Hello ladies.
    I'm sad today because my Aunt died. And I'm frustrated because my Dad announced he is going to the funeral but doesn't realize he can't go alone. I texted my sister who might have to come out and take care of mom so I can take dad to the funeral. We are waiting to hear when the funeral will be. Meanwhile my mom is claiming she can stay with her sister, but that leaves Teddy alone. Her sister has enough on her hands anyway. I'm hoping my sister can fly out from Tennessee. I guess it's normal for things to be jumbled at this point, but I'm rattled.

    Annie in Delaware

    Condolences on the passing of your Aunt. Big hugs!
    Rebecca
    Whidbey
    Wa
  • 1948CWB
    1948CWB Posts: 1,608 Member
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  • myvt9v4crh
    myvt9v4crh Posts: 391 Member
    <3

    Katla in Illinois
  • 1948CWB
    1948CWB Posts: 1,608 Member
    Lucy is a cutie!
  • Anniesquats100
    Anniesquats100 Posts: 3,292 Member
    Thank you Rebecca.

    Yes Lucie is cute! She looks to be Teddy's size.

    Annie in Delaware
  • barbiecat
    barbiecat Posts: 17,206 Member
    :)Lucy <3
  • cityjaneLondon
    cityjaneLondon Posts: 12,716 Member
    edited June 2023
    Day went really well, but I was totally knackered by the end! My son had a great time at the Van Gogh, which I think one or two of you have been to. Edie's cake was excellent - gluten free, of course - but we had trouble lighting the sparklers on top.
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    They had fun playing boules out in the newly mown garden with DH. All good. I took videos, which are very funny and will be a great memory.
    So, phew!!!!
    DH had a long phone call with his daughter this morning. She is distraught. The boyfriend had been cheating on her with an ex. Then dumped her. Nice one! She is off tomorrow on a holiday to Corsica with a girlfriend, so I hope she will be more sanguine when she gets back.

    I have a phone call booked for tomorrow morning with L.

    Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx
  • grandmallie
    grandmallie Posts: 10,099 Member
    Lucy is a cutie
    Heather- looks like everyone had a good time..
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    They had a good time at the zoo.
    Took Alfie down to visit Tom and Elena and Homie.. was there foe about 1/2 hr..they got a new dining set.. very nice and got the awning up out back. After having the tree was taken down..
    All well over there..
    Ordered stuff from Bath and body works .mostly for Christmas Presents.
  • pipcd34
    pipcd34 Posts: 17,279 Member
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  • lightstrongma
    lightstrongma Posts: 182 Member
    Amazing! Hugs and Prayers for Destiny!
  • myvt9v4crh
    myvt9v4crh Posts: 391 Member
    edited June 2023
    <3

    Katla in Illinois