WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR AUGUST 2023
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Lannette and Ginny HUGS to both and wonderful advice. I am the only one of my Philippines circle of friends divorced. All of them considered it. My advice to them was similar to yours. My ex and I remain friendly, had really good times together, but we're both much happier apart. My friends have made theirs work. I get so aggravated with my current DH, but my life wouldn't be better without him. So I try to look for his good qualities more often.
Love all you ladies and your supportive nature!
Kylia in Ohio
This discussion has really hit home. I left my first DH once he got physically abusive after about 10 years. Prior, he had been only verbally (he was/is bi-polar). When he wasn’t in his manic mode he was great. I told him I would stay IF he got therapy. He went once, they put him on medication, and when the medication ran out, 1 month later, he claimed to be healed and refused to get more or go back to therapy. I got a restraining order then divorced him. 10 years with no real change did me in. My current DH is verbal but if I draw the line or stand up to him, he backs right down (like a puppy getting disciplined). Like Lannette, I’ve complained about him but put up with it because of all the ‘life’ we have lived together, moves, 2 bankruptcies, health issues, fun time exploring when we had a boat, traveling (not enough if it were up to me), etc. I think about leaving sometime but think, will I be better off? Would I be happier alone? The answers are probably not. I look at my mother and grandmother’s who also had rough marriages that they stuck through. Once they were/are alone the depression set in. I don’t want that to be me. I have too many emotional issues with a husband that would exacerbate if I was alone. I realize this when I travel alone. I feel it then. So don’t travel alone much, even though I love it. Stay or go, it is an individual decision. I think I’ll stop complaining about him and just try to accept him. He’s not perfect, but I doubt I would find anyone who is. I’m too fussy and don’t want to get in another abuse relationship and start all over again.
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Terri thanks for sharing those pics.
Kim your “one pan” story :laugh:
Lisa “napocalypse” that word. “…put your cast iron pans in the dishwasher” oh nooo! Yours to Debbie, well said.
Tracey air dry vs towels, that make sense… especially how grimy our dishtowels get when used as hot pad, counter wipe, hand dryer, etc. etc. etc. :} Thankful your DSIL did what he did. No doubt those 5+ hours in the car together were most desperately needed.
Ginny and Lanette ((hugs)) thanks for sharing your stories. More (((hugs))) Apple cider vinegar? Might be just the ticket for the excess cider we press at church
Annie praying for you and Teddy.
Carol so sorry for the tech trouble.
Allie looking forward to hearing about your cruise!
Heather OWW! Any idea what is triggering the rogue thigh?
Debbie how does cutting back the daikon help get bigger ones?
Margaret your “organized enough” impact is inspiring.
Rita no one deserves to be abused. Brava for leaving husband #1 and for standing up to #2.
Today’s (8/10) gratitude: that I recognized the smell of propane when I went in the kitchen to refill my tea. The adzuki beans had boiled over and put out the flame. They’re in the crockpot now…08/09: Move: 2 sets PT w/x&a, dogs to powerline. Steps:5108Time to get up and do PT,
Fuel: sugar in vs mfp=-10 CI=1742 CO=510
Live: Joe, readings, BP, play with plants, two loads laundry, Wt:132.1
Later, lighter, lovelies!
Barbara, the Southern Oregon Coastie AHMOD
2023: Be of good cheer. August: Move more, fuel better (less sugar), live NOW
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Had a HORRENDOUS storm the other night. Tornado warning and all. Tornadoes are not common at all around here. Trying to get caught up. We were without Internet for over 24 hours. Fortunately, we did have electricity, some people didn’t have that.
Wednesday did a body pump DVD. Jess’ friend and her family will be here tomorrow. They are leaving Sat. to go to the condo. They’re staying there while they take their kids to Disney. Then they’re going on a cruise.
Heard they hired this one gal for the ceramics. Honestly, I think this was the worst choice they could have made. I’m sure she sold herself in that she has a kiln, she pours, so they felt they didn’t have to train her as much. But...she’s constantly going away for weeks on end, every time you talk to her she has some sort of medical problem, she talks and talks and talks. Honestly, there are times when I don’t want to start a conversation with her because I’d never get anything done. I guess we shall see what the future brings. At least it’ll be open.
A tree was hit by lightening right by our development and the road was closed right after our development. Even tho there was a “dead end” sign, this one lady asked me “does this road go to Startown” I could only think “what part of ‘dead end’ don’t you understand” but I just said “no”. Then she asked me where it does go. I just said “around” because it’s a circle. Some people! We live on Redmon COURT but you wouldn’t believe the people who drove up our road. Didn’t the word “court” give you a clue that this doesn’t intersect with another road????
Tracey – glad the smell wasn’t anything serious
Barbara – yea for being below 130. Wish I could get there
Lanette – congrats to Galdys. One more……. Pretty soon they all will be laying
kylia – our Roomba upstairs is named “Buzz” (as in Buzz Lightyear) and the one downstairs is “Hubble”. The robotic cleaner for the pool is “Rover”. Good luck with your Sharkie
Welcome all newbies
Heather – love all your pictures
We’re having music bingo at our house Tuesday with the theme being songs from the 60’s and 70’s. They’re asking for desserts only (this probably means that I’ll have a lot of leftovers – garbage here they come!). What I’m thinking of doing is making brownies and putting some oregano on top. What do you all think? Remember those “special” brownies in the 60’s????
Add Vince to the group of men who blame everyone and everything else for their mistakes. He’s always right. Most times I just thank God for my diminished hearing....lol
Debbie – I hear ya about the cooking. How I wish I could make certain foods but I know that I’ll be the only one who’ll eat them. I do try to adjust recipes (spices for me, none for Vince) but you can’t do that with everything. And Vince is the same way...the minute I clear out a spot, he fills it up. But he doesn’t want to throw anything away, which makes it interesting since I’m getting to be more and more of a minimalist
Lanette – I really enjoy my job because it’s only 3 or 4 hours/day. I’m not looking for any more. No stress, BTDT. They are very flexible which I really appreciate. I try to do my best. OK, I may not be getting paid big bucks, but I’d rather live without a lot of stress and not get paid a whole lot. It feels so good for the first time ever to know that if I wasn’t working, food would still get bought, mortgage would still be paid.
I love my air fryer lid for my IP. I’m thinking that might make a good gift for christmas for Jess. The only thing is that you can’t make a whole lot at once. I don’t know if you will be able to make enough for her and Colby. Gotta think on this
Heather – that soda bread looks delish
Margaret – FIL went to University of Missouri at Rolla
Vicki – good for you on speaking up to your boss
Annie – (((HUGS for you and Teddy)))
Debbie – I wouldn’t mind at all coming over to eat
Carol – sure hope the ortho doc can help you
Christine – I get that “if everyday were like today” and I just laugh. No way on this green earth would I weigh what they say I would. If I did, I’d look and feel like c***. Our pool is a salt water pool. Can you swim in one of those? Yes, we do have chlorine, but no where near what they have at the Y. So happy to read that you’re liking the exercise
Tracey – I’m so so so very sorry. I know only too well the heartache
Allie – those shirts are so adorable for Miles. Love all the pics of him
Phew! Caught up
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Michelle - never mind oregano, put some of the real stuff in them and see how Bingo goes then lol
We have rain and thunderstorms coming in.
Miles at daycare this morning.6 -
Tracey--I am so sorry about the baby. Sending prayers and hugs for all of you.
Barbie & Rebecca--DH does the laundry and brings to me in basket. I fold and put away. He does help put away his shirts and the towels. Also he does the vacuming and sweeps the floors.
I called yesterday and made an appointment for my foot with a foot doctor. I go next Thursday afternoon.
Blessings, Vicki GRAND ISLAND, NE5 -
Well even doing the exercises for the bursitis in my hips ,I called Royal Caribbean and will get Pier assistance and they will bring me to the ship by wheelchair,sort of like when i get the wheelchair assistance for airports they get me on the ship quicker lol.. hopefully if Dave and Linda and with me all 3 of us can get on quick.6
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Stats for the day-
Walk w/family- pushed Lucy in stroller- 1hr 52min 40sec, 54elev, 3.18ap, 86ahr, 109mhr, 6.04mi= 586c
Strava app= 740c
Zwift home bike trainer- strava stats- 1hr 25min 35sec, 100aw, 1037elev, 15.1amph, 102ahr, 127mhr, 21.50mi= 460c
Strava app= 489c
Zwift stats- 1hr 25min 37sec, 1039elev, 99aw, 51arpm, 15.07amph, 21.5mi= 489c
Zwift home bike trainer- strava stats- 46.47min, 125elev, 106aw, 19.4amph, 107ahr, 133mhr, 15.12mi= 279c
Strava app= 285c
Zwift stats- 46.48min, 125elev, 106aw, 51arpm, 19.36 amph, 15.1mi= 285c
Total cal 1326
My legs are spent. I didn’t do the 45miles, I did 36.62 miles, I’ll pass the 1st place guy tomorrow, assuming he doesn’t ride.
My riding for the last 5 days. No wonder they are tired, and this is after our 6mile walk that I’m doing these rides.
8/5 30.09mi
8/7 35.07mi
8/8 40.14mi
8/9 41.69mi
8/10 21.50mi
8/10 15.12mi
5days of riding 183.61 miles
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dlfk202000 wrote: »grandmallie wrote: »Aww Lisa- gee hope you get some uninterrupted sleep soon.
Debbie- what Lisa said..I filed for divorced when my kids were younger ,because I deserved more. And the way it sounds ,you do too.. you put up with so much from your MIL and your husband ..not my place to say.. but start squirreling away money and do what you need to do for yourself..our future isn't promised
Lisa and Allie
Kylia, Lynette, Carol and Annie- THANK YOU-
I know, it is up to me to make the move. I have been putting money aside for years. Accounts in my name only that he knows about and another bigger one that he doesn't know about, along with cash here at the house
Small changes are already happening.
Thank you for your insight and support.
Debbie
Just jumping in. I think the key thing is that if you decide not to leave, you need to accept that nothing will change except your attitude. The complaining should stop. This is the conclusion I have come to, much as others have described. As much as some things my husband does, or doesn't do, drive me crazy, and he knows these things drive me crazy, and he doesn't care enough about my feelings to stop or change, my life is still better with him than without. So I am done with complaining and sarcastic comments, with slip ups, of course. I am thankful he came along and that we married and I would miss him too much if we weren't together. It's the acceptance and reasonable expectations that Lanette, Barbie, Ginny, and others advocate. It is such sound advice
My husband is also a generally negative person, so when he gets into one of his complaining jags, I don't argue, I just listen and say to myself, "I won't let you steal my joy." When he's in a better mood, he teases me about my "always look on the bright side of life," attitude. (With all appropriate references to Life of Brian), but it helps a lot.
My first husband crossed the line, so no amount of acceptance or positive thinking was going to help that situation.
These are hard decisions for all of us. Sometimes it takes courage to leave and sometimes it takes courage to stay.
Flea, drowning in work
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I just saw a hummingbird at my feeder. It was there for a short time while grabbing a sip of sugar water. I was delighted.
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Some of the bloodwork has come back and I dont know how to read it.
Stayed in bed today..
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Lisa-I hope your sleep straightens out in the near future-steroids do mess with us.
Lanette-indeed we have had similar journeys.
Annie-I am glad you have no regrets-that is what is important-doing what is right and best for you. Hope Teddy's visit goes well and other two appointments are ok also. Hope your father opens himself up to some help.
Kylia-looking for the good is important!
Carol-hope you get tech figured out. Just take it a step at a time-if you get flustered step away. Is there anyone who can assist?
Allie-don't know where you could have stepped over bounds. You made the choices that were best for you. I think having the wheel chair assistance is sensible. Most of the bloodwork tests you can google to help give you a basic reading/understanding of them.
Pip-I know you want to take first place, but I think it is terrific you are raising money. Don't push yourself to point of injury.
Flea-you hit the nail on the head-life just takes courage!
Katla-so glad the hummingbirds visit you.
Car issue is resolved. Evidently the computer software needed an update and the system let me know by turning on everything. Interestingly, in addition to seeing the dashboard show, I also receive notification via my Subaru app on my phone (gives me remote start), it also sent me an email and showed up on my main screen as alerts.
Went over to food truck tonight and got some Korean beef and rice. Rather tasty for a different meal. It's about a 6 minute walk so get some extra exercise in.
Tomorrow have 9 am meeting, 10:30-1 Annual meeting of county group (includes lunch) and then a recognition for one of our youth programs at 2-nice finish to the week.
Take care all,
Ginny in Ohio
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cityjaneLondon wrote: »Hi all.
Had a really nice lunch today with G. I'm really fond of the venue, and now they treat me like a regular.
I had crispy squid with garlic mayonnaise, and a Toulouse sausage with a huge portion of mixed greens. One small glass of white wine. Espresso.
We wandered up through the Lanes together so she could go to her organic grocer and I could buy Italian fennel sausages. All good. We said goodbye, I turned the corner to walk back, and my rogue thigh cramped up and went into spasm. Aaarrrggghhh!
I limped and sat and stretched and limped etc. Agony. I just about made it to the main bus stop and got home somehow.
Had a nap.
Soooo annoying.
Easy cold dinner tonight.
My son still staying overnight. The family return tomorrow. They are pouring the hall floor today.He is up in London.
Love to all. Heather UK xxxxxx
Regarding cramping ...
Might be time to see the doctor.
But first you might concentrate on drinking water and getting enough electrolytes.
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Lisa-I hope your sleep straightens out in the near future-steroids do mess with us.
Lanette-indeed we have had similar journeys.
Annie-I am glad you have no regrets-that is what is important-doing what is right and best for you. Hope Teddy's visit goes well and other two appointments are ok also. Hope your father opens himself up to some help.
Kylia-looking for the good is important!
Carol-hope you get tech figured out. Just take it a step at a time-if you get flustered step away. Is there anyone who can assist?
Allie-don't know where you could have stepped over bounds. You made the choices that were best for you. I think having the wheel chair assistance is sensible. Most of the bloodwork tests you can google to help give you a basic reading/understanding of them.
Pip-I know you want to take first place, but I think it is terrific you are raising money. Don't push yourself to point of injury.
Flea-you hit the nail on the head-life just takes courage!
Katla-so glad the hummingbirds visit you.
Car issue is resolved. Evidently the computer software needed an update and the system let me know by turning on everything. Interestingly, in addition to seeing the dashboard show, I also receive notification via my Subaru app on my phone (gives me remote start), it also sent me an email and showed up on my main screen as alerts.
Went over to food truck tonight and got some Korean beef and rice. Rather tasty for a different meal. It's about a 6 minute walk so get some extra exercise in.
Tomorrow have 9 am meeting, 10:30-1 Annual meeting of county group (includes lunch) and then a recognition for one of our youth programs at 2-nice finish to the week.
Take care all,
Ginny in Ohio
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OregonMother wrote: »These are hard decisions for all of us. Sometimes it takes courage to leave and sometimes it takes courage to stay.
Flea, drowning in work
Willamette Valley OR
Flea - Such a graceful way to say a home truth--one we've all felt. Sorry the work is overwhelming.
Debbie - Thank you for understanding that none of us are trying to push anything on you, just sharing our experiences for what help they may be. Mostly I think, we just hope you find the happiness you deserve, dear heart.
Got lots done today... and am finally to the point where the workroom (was craft room/office) is the last room that needs doing. Everything that's in that room will be stored there, discarded or donated. One last big push!
Time to go snag the laundry from the line, get it put away, and settle down to an evening of gently burping pizza and watching the British population sharply diminished by yet another unlikely killer.
Later, my lovelies,
Lisa in AR
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Debbie how does cutting back the daikon help get bigger ones?
Today’s (8/10) gratitude: that I recognized the smell of propane when I went in the kitchen to refill my tea. The adzuki beans had boiled over and put out the flame. They’re in the crockpot now…08/09: Move: 2 sets PT w/x&a, dogs to powerline. Steps:5108Time to get up and do PT,
Fuel: sugar in vs mfp=-10 CI=1742 CO=510
Live: Joe, readings, BP, play with plants, two loads laundry, Wt:132.1
Later, lighter, lovelies!
Barbara, the Southern Oregon Coastie AHMOD
2023: Be of good cheer. August: Move more, fuel better (less sugar), live NOW
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I am just hoping that if less energy goes into them going to seed, more will be going into producing bigger radishes- Not sure, just hoping. I have never grown them before. Most likely, unless they are really impressive, will be my last. We can get them cheap at the stores around here.
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Had a HORRENDOUS storm the other night. Tornado warning and all. Tornadoes are not common at all around here. Trying to get caught up. We were without Internet for over 24 hours. Fortunately, we did have electricity, some people didn’t have that.
Debbie – I hear ya about the cooking. How I wish I could make certain foods but I know that I’ll be the only one who’ll eat them. I do try to adjust recipes (spices for me, none for Vince) but you can’t do that with everything. And Vince is the same way...the minute I clear out a spot, he fills it up. But he doesn’t want to throw anything away, which makes it interesting since I’m getting to be more and more of a minimalist
I love my air fryer lid for my IP. I’m thinking that might make a good gift for christmas for Jess. The only thing is that you can’t make a whole lot at once. I don’t know if you will be able to make enough for her and Colby. Gotta think on this
Debbie – I wouldn’t mind at all coming over to eat
Phew! Caught up
Michele NC
I would love to cook for you and anyone else that wants to come by. It is something I really enjoy.
I like to try new things, dh is ok with some things but he grew up on totally different food than I did.
I am actually cooking a lot more different than I grew up with too. Dad was like your dh, not much of any spices at all. Dh grew up with mainly Japanese food because that is what his mom knew how to make. She did do other things- like today, she made, and is sending home cabbage rolls that she made.
I don't have the air fryer lid but have the actual air fryer. We stared with the one with the basket but upgraded to the one with the two trays- that is used daily for so many things.
We used it so much that we wore a few out- The only appliance dh will use besides warming stuff in the microwave.
Amazon has some great deals on them.
This is the one we have now:https://www.amazon.com/West-Bend-12-6-Quart-Electric-Digital/dp/B08GP72HJT/ref=sr_1_10?crid=1XD8LKNMHRC22&keywords=air+fryer+with+trays-Westbend&qid=1691715877&sprefix=air+fryer+with+trays-westbend,aps,231&sr=8-10
Got it for less than that price I think.(Dh ordered it-had to get one right away, beings we use it so much)
Debbie
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Just jumping in. I think the key thing is that if you decide not to leave, you need to accept that nothing will change except your attitude. The complaining should stop. This is the conclusion I have come to, much as others have described. As much as some things my husband does, or doesn't do, drive me crazy, and he knows these things drive me crazy, and he doesn't care enough about my feelings to stop or change, my life is still better with him than without. So I am done with complaining and sarcastic comments, with slip ups, of course. I am thankful he came along and that we married and I would miss him too much if we weren't together. It's the acceptance and reasonable expectations that Lanette, Barbie, Ginny, and others advocate. It is such sound advice
My husband is also a generally negative person, so when he gets into one of his complaining jags, I don't argue, I just listen and say to myself, "I won't let you steal my joy." When he's in a better mood, he teases me about my "always look on the bright side of life," attitude. (With all appropriate references to Life of Brian), but it helps a lot.
My first husband crossed the line, so no amount of acceptance or positive thinking was going to help that situation.
These are hard decisions for all of us. Sometimes it takes courage to leave and sometimes it takes courage to stay.
Flea, drowning in work
Willamette Valley OR
Flea- thank you for your insight. You are totally right. I need to stop complaining and just figure things out and see what I will just deal with and what I am no longer going to put up with.
I have found that the more I do things for myself and not depend on him to enjoy things with, I am happier. My walks at the wetlands, Zumba, more time with my mom. These are things that I can find peace and some joy/happiness in. I need that to balance out the negativity that is always in the house. He really isn't every happy or at peace with anything. He is a miserable person and over the years I have felt myself being dragged down. Not letting it anymore, or at least, trying to not let it.
Thanks Ladies- Lots of insight and I SOOOOO appreciate it.
Debbie
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SophieRosieMom wrote: »Debbie - chicken question here.
How do your mom's chickens handle the heat? Are they able to stay in the shade all day? The weatherman is now calling, again, for temps in the mid 90's a few days next week. I know they love being under the evergreens and if that's where they'd stay, I'd let them out of the run all day but they like to go on adventures. They did just that this morning and a little hawk flew close to see what was going on. They were twice his size, but still. They need a babysitter and I'm not going to sit out in the sun with them.
I'm going to put better shade over the sunny west side of their run and dump some water in there to make some cool mud for them to stand in. And freeze some of their wet feed into popsicles. Refresh their water with cold tap water a few times a day.
Not spoiled much, lol.
I found a very thin shelled egg next to the roost this morning.... #3 might be getting in gear.
Back to spouses - I also had my secret $$ stash. Never had to use it to start a new life, but it gave me some comfort just knowing it was there.
Lanette
SW WA State
Mom has shade cloth over one section of the chicken yard. Most years, she also has gourds that grow up and over to give them even more shade.
Not going to help you this year but next year, maybe try planting something that will grow up and over at least part of it, even if it is green beans(those are safe for the chickens I think).
I started having a secret $$ stash with former hubby who had 8 jobs the first year he was out of the Coast Guard. I never knew when he would come home for lunch and just not go back. Having that, and being very frugal, I was able to keep up with my house payments for the two years I was there alone before I sold the house when I was getting married to dh. Sure wish I still had that place. Place wasn't much but the location was wonderful and the yard was huge for in town and I had room to plant everything I wanted, and then some.
My one account that dh doesn't know about, I have the statements going to my mom's house. She knows about the account and just keeps the paperwork up there. It is a savings account and a CD. It is a little hard putting funds into it because I rarely have time to myself but when I do get a chance I do put into it.
When I have money to put into the other account that is attached to our joint account, he almost always goes into the bank with me. Once in a while I can go in.
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Our new Bronco is home finally! Has been built since June 20th! She is everything we wanted. SIL just shook her head. DH said it may hold its value better than the money in the bank. All I know is I could drive a different vehicle every day of the week. Of course now we need a bigger garage! I may never get my bathroom redone. There is a Bronco Stampede going on in Pigeon Forge next weekend....guess where we will be? Lol! Going down after work on Friday, back home on Sunday. 5 hour drive. We will be staying on the strip in a motel. Then head back down two weeks later to our cabin. I am happy DH is wanting to go down for stampede. I keep trying to get more weekend travels.
Annie You are in a rough position with parents. Hugs. I hope puppy feels better tomorrow. Remember you are a strong woman with great perseverance.
Lannette I thought of you this morning. I saw a post with chickens running around in wired "hamster balls"! They could still pluck at ground and move around but weren't in much danger from predators. It was on FB, so may not be real, but what a great idea!
Allie I got my mom assistance at the airport 15 yrs ago, not due to physical health issues, but because she easily panics. It made her trip better. Do what needs to be done so that you can enjoy yourself!
I learn so much from all of you!
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Katla in Illinois1 -
Lisa - Kaitlyn’s husband sure is a keeper. I admire their marriage and relationship. They started dating in 2009, and they just do togetherness so well.
I’ve threatened DH with hitting him upside the head with a cast iron frying pan so I could knock him out and get him to a doctor. Turns out a serious toothache took care of that for me.
I would have had to go buy a pan. I am not a cook so don’t see the love of cast iron, but I know lots of people that swear by them.
I hope you get some good uninterrupted sleep soon.
Ginny - Wise words to Debbie. I was in that situation for about 12 years. I’m sure depression was a huge part of his problems so I too was worried about leaving him.
Things started changing when I started showing more love.
I had this on my phone and looked at it daily sometimes much more than daily.

It’s such a tough position to be in.
Debbie - there are a lot of wise women in this group. Hugs to you. You’ll know what to do when the time is right. In the meantime be gentle with yourself.
Michele - All of the chatter at ceramics makes it interesting for me. I treat it as a social function and we happen to paint. It’s funny how we all see things differently.
Glad you had power.
Allie - I would be up for the real stuff instead of oregano too.
Vicki - I hope that the foot doctor will help. A week seems like a long time when you’re in pain. I hope the week goes by fast for you.
Pip - my legs would be spent after the walk. You sure are an inspiration.
Katla - I’m so happy you are seeing hummingbird’s at your window again.
I haven’t felt well today, DH thinks it’s probably a combination of more coffee than I normally drink, waking up earlier than I have been and too much screen time that I’m also not used to anymore. He’s pretty smart so he’s probably right.
I had to watch a video today for school. Our subject today was Diversity.
I think a lot of you would enjoy it.
It’s on YouTube called “The Danger of a Single Story”.
I had much homework again tonight. I hope that future courses on this program are more organized. I feel very disorganized. I’m struggling to even use some of the technology they are using.
If you had asked me three months ago how my computer skills were I would have told you, fairly good. After this week I feel the answer would be lacking.
The years of working in companies that did not embrace technology has left me feeling left in the dust.
The saving grace is that when I took my computer operator course all those years ago, I wasn’t taught just how to use a particular program. I was taught the “logistics” of how any program operates. I just need to have some time using them and I’ll be set.
We should have had a document or something telling us where to find things from the school’s online resources. File paths for submissions and what we do and do not have available to us.
Maybe my age is showing. 🥴
Anyway ladies, it is 10pm and I have not had supper. I ended up taking a nap this afternoon. I ordered pizza for DH but didn’t want that myself. Now I’m feeling hungry.
I’m looking forward to this weekend. One I hope the money comes on for the loan so I can buy a computer and get it set up. Secondly, I want to spend my days reviewing this weeks course to help me be successful with the rest of it. Next week is when I start leaning to be an Education Assistant rather than a student. I want to have a better grasp on the technology and the style of the school.
Tracey in Edmonton
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Work and then the soup kitchen tomorrow. Depending on what they have for lunch, I might bring some left-overs home for the kids. They many times can't keep food over the weekend. I usually don't bring something home, but if they have something like chicken nuggets, the kids will probably like that.
Debbie – I know that space is somewhat at a premium for Jess. Also, I don’t know just how much she would use an air fryer. I know she uses her IP a lot. I’m thinking that the air fryer lid might also be a good introduction. If she finds she uses it a lot, then maybe a full sized air fryer might be good for her
Thinking about all that I want to do for the company is stressing me out somewhat and I find that I’m stress eating. Not that this is something new. I always get this way before we have company of any kind
Stopped at Sam’s yesterday because I totally forgot to get the hamburgers. Vince saw an 85” TV and was oogling it. For the money, we don’t need it. Of course, he thought we did.
Was looking at lounge chairs for out by the pool. I don’t want one of those zero gravity ones, I want one that folds flat so I can sunbathe. I just want to watch the width. The ones they have at the condo are real nice – and real expensive! So I think we’re going to look locally at something not as expensive then replace them every few years. I think we’ve had the chairs we have now for about 10 years. One of them totally ripped this year so we know that the other one is on the way out. But Vince likes them. I figure we can put that one on one side of the spa and the other two on the other side of the spa. The other problem is storage. It doesn’t look like they fold forward, only flat. Well, we’ll work something out.
Kylia – Pigeon Forge, huh? You’ll be in my neighborhood (sort of)
I’m not a big cast iron fan, either. I love my light Fiber ware frying pans. I don’t think they even make them this light anymore.
Tracey – I find ceramics to be so calming. Same as you, a social time where we paint. Just being with people, talking, exchanging ideas, to me it’s just so relaxing. Guess that’s why I miss it so much. I like to talk and paint at the same time, this gal just likes to talk. She’s also expensive, wonder how much she’s going to charge for the bisque and firing? YOU feel left in the dust technologically-wise???? Sounds like you’ve really got a handle on being sure you’re the best possible student you can be. I admire that
Just can’t sleep, my mind is thinking of all the things I want to do before the company comes. This always happens. I know that tomorrow I need to wash the tables outside, clean the spa, and I want to put away the one pool noodle. I just don’t trust it. I have other ones that the kids can use if they want a noodle.
Michele NC4 -
Michele - You and I must be cut from the same 'having company' cloth.
One thing that's helped me recently, is that they are not coming for a scrupulously clean house, or perfect meals, they are coming for the experience, and the best part of that experience is my calm and centered presence and a warm welcome. I am the gift to them. The host being frazzled and distracted is not what anyone needs.
I try to remember that when I am striving for perfection.
Good luck! Kids are wonderful, but unruly guests.
My son will sleep at his house tonight. I think the family have delayed their arrival until Sunday. Poor other grandparents! I'm lending him some lights. One is a motion sensitive one for the landing and night time toilet visits. He says the electrician is very slow!
I'm not going to cater for him tonight as he can grab a pizza from around the corner. We have sea bass, which comes in a packet of two, so that's my excuse. We have a Waitrose delivery this afternoon.
I bought a celeriac yesterday, so I will make a big heap of remoulade today. He can have some of that with cold meat, if he's in a rush.
It's been nice having him, even if he is not a great 'sharer'. He always puts a brave face on things. At least he has been sleeping well here. Both of them kept on marvelling at how quiet it is here, especially at night. 'Like in the countryside', he said. As I have lived in the countryside for eight years, I know our area is much quieter than that.
OK, enough chatting! On with my book!
Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx5 -
Good Friday!
Heather I agree about the countryside. It is far from quiet with bugs, birds, coyotes, tractors, horsesetc, but I find those noises comforting. I don't miss the traffic and sirens.
Michele I love that area. My happy place has always been mountains and water. I enjoy being close to town but able to escape to our cabin. How far are you from Pigeon Forge?
Company and cleaning- I miss the days of just dropping in to visit for a cup of coffee or tea. Now it seems people get offended if they aren't notified first. If I take time to stop by, I am there to visit with you, not judge your housekeeping skills. Generally my house is picked up, but dusted-lol! I try to make sure linens and bathrooms are clean and basics in fridge, but that is about it. We don't do cookouts anymore because of people's dietary habits. Eating out is just easier. Enjoy your company and don't worry about the house. If they are judgemental about the house then they can stay at hotel just my thoughts.
Guess I ought to get domething done this morning before work.
Lots of love!
Healing thoughts!
Pride in all your accomplishments!
Thankful for all experiences!
Welcomes to the new ladies!
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Kylia in Ohio3 -
Husband and I up at 3 am to make the drive into Seattle for his yearly appointment with the liver transplant doctor. Fun stuff.🙄🙃😁
Husband packed a big roast beef sandwich, and I am taking a container of mandarin oranges, a container of hummus with mini Naan bread bites, and a baby Bell. Also a container of homemade Moroccan mint tea.💖. I did buy some roast chicken but I will keep that home. Was thinking of taking a piece but ah well. I will eat light.
Middle son sent me photos of them taking Athena to the Fair.😁👍
Looks like everyone had a grand day.
Rebecca
Whidbey
Wa
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