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WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR DECEMBER 2023
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I forgot who asked about the plantar facitis splint,but got it on Amazon,basically it pulls the top of your foot towards your calf, so that it keeps the heel taught.
That,and icing,and cortisone and orthotics helped mine a whole lot.3 -
Whidislander wrote: »dlfk202000 wrote: »Whidislander wrote: »Debbie, great photos of son and girlfriend decorating your tree. That's nice that they did that for you. My sons only decorated the tree when they were young, but once they hit middle, and high school, it just wasn't cool I guess. It became "moms thing". They did like exploring the tree though, looking for specific ornaments etc. So that was cute.
Rebecca
Whidbey
Wa
Son and I did it together most years. Yes, there were a few of his teen years he didn't help but then he started again. Then Rovin came into the picture and they do the tree. I miss he and I doing it but love having them doing it together.
As long as they do it to your liking, its all good right!?😁💖
Rebecca
Whidbey
Wa
they do it just like he and I used to- I will go add a few more things and move a couple(because there are a few glass OLD ones at the bottom and the kitten touched it-that is how I noticed where it was)2 -
Anniesquats100 wrote: »Good morning ladies!
The hospice nurse will be here tomorrow. I'm hoping I can overcome my fears and discuss the chair lift openly. My family has a huge passive-aggressive tradition. Now it's worse because my dad slips away from conversation or doesn't remember it.
So he goes off and does his own thing, like putting our data into a Web site for ads for chair lifts, without any discussion. It makes me suspect that he doesn't value my input and advice, even though he says he does. Then I intercepted the incoming phone calls and said we were not interested. It worked, and he seems to have forgotten the issue, but he's still not talking
about it.
I have horseback riding today, but it's really cold. And I'm not sure dad can be trusted to stay with mom. I will probably go anyway, part of supporting my mental health by leaving the
house twice a week. Getting a sitter is another thing I could discuss with Dad. Last time he left mom to go get a prescription. Both of them are in denial.
Hmm. Family communication. What a tricky thing.
Annie in Delaware
Annie- the "lift chair" is that the type that is for the stairs to take her up and down or the type like a recliner that helps her to stand up from sitting down?
The recliner type would be good for your mom but also for your dad.
We have one at my MIL's house-bought it from a friend. MIL didn't want it, said we were stupid for buying it, but it was great having it after her fall and still. She uses it almost 24/7. Eats in it , sleeps in it, watches tv, etc. (spends too much time in it but that is up to her)3 -
After work went to WalMart. Made the chicken bacon ranch pasta for the ceramic party Sat. (want the flavors to meld). Have to leave in about ½ hr to get my car inspected.
Guess I’m fortunate that I don’t have to do a lot of geneology. My mother and father are both first generation Americans. Now Vince...his family has been in the US since before the civil war.
Tracey – the Santa Hot Tub put a big smile on my face.
Barbie – good that you didn’t have the big ranfalls. We’re in sort-of the same situation. We’re at the foothills of the mountains so when the weather comes from the West (which it usually does), it breaks up so we don’t get as much rain, etc. Then it reforms when it gets further East.
Annie – despite everything, glad you’re still doing the horseback. You deserve it
kylia – have a great weekend
Rebecca – Oh, Athena and Eli. Thanks for sharing
Off to get the car inspected
Michele NC1 -
well, not sure if it was the "talk" I had with MIL yesterday when she called to chew out DH some more and I wouldn't let her talk to him or if she was just done for now but, when he went over yesterday evening(after she said for him to not ever come back) she was fine, after having him locked out of the houses-said it was because he slammed the door and it wouldn't stay shut.
This morning, she is fine. I told him I am no longer keeping my mouth shut when she pulls this stuff. He keeps thinking if he just sits and takes it for hours at a time she will eventually stop but she doesnt. Hope he will finally stop it and just leave when it starts up. That will get her mad but maybe she will realize it. I didn't yell at her when I talked. Just told her that she needed to stop yelling at him-yes they BOTH needed to stop yelling, she needed to be nice and appreciate everything he does for her. I told her no, she wasn't going to walk down to the senior living place and no she wasn't going to sell the house or give it to the stranger that was on the street. Not happening.
I even offered to dh that I would tell her he was in the hospital because of her(which will happen if this doesn't stop) and I would take care of her for a week, just to give him a break. Of course he won't do it.
Making more candy today. Didn't get as much done with mom but that is ok. Need to finish all of it so I can get some in the mail and some packaged up for gifts for friends and my zumba class.
Debbie
Napa Valley Ca11 -
Miles sighting
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dlfk202000 wrote: »well, not sure if it was the "talk" I had with MIL yesterday when she called to chew out DH some more and I wouldn't let her talk to him or if she was just done for now but, when he went over yesterday evening(after she said for him to not ever come back) she was fine, after having him locked out of the houses-said it was because he slammed the door and it wouldn't stay shut.
This morning, she is fine. I told him I am no longer keeping my mouth shut when she pulls this stuff. He keeps thinking if he just sits and takes it for hours at a time she will eventually stop but she doesnt. Hope he will finally stop it and just leave when it starts up. That will get her mad but maybe she will realize it. I didn't yell at her when I talked. Just told her that she needed to stop yelling at him-yes they BOTH needed to stop yelling, she needed to be nice and appreciate everything he does for her. I told her no, she wasn't going to walk down to the senior living place and no she wasn't going to sell the house or give it to the stranger that was on the street. Not happening.
I even offered to dh that I would tell her he was in the hospital because of her(which will happen if this doesn't stop) and I would take care of her for a week, just to give him a break. Of course he won't do it.
Making more candy today. Didn't get as much done with mom but that is ok. Need to finish all of it so I can get some in the mail and some packaged up for gifts for friends and my zumba class.
Debbie
Napa Valley Ca
Debbie - good job. Made my day.
Lanette
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Pip how exciting!Agree a great Christmas present for Kirby!
Starting to reduce the amount of grains in my diet and upping fermented foods like yogurt. I bought almond flour and coconut flour today to do my Christmas baking. It is much more expensive but as I learn more about wheat and other grains I do not feel right about using flour based in wheat organic or not. I only bake one batch of cherry bars and one batch of chocolate chip cookies. I have three neighbors I give a plate to.This is next on the list when Christmas cards are done. I am hoping this weekend the cards will be done.
We have so few carriers here we had a stretch of four days with no mail. When I did see our carrier Sam I went out and thanked him and gave him a Target gift card.6 -
Debbie I meant a chair lift that you ride up the stairs. It's too much expense for the month or two that she might use it. Even now, she could easily fall off.
Excellent that you had a good talk with your mother in law. Sometimes you get to be proud of saying your piece and setting your boundaries, and her response is a bonus. Good for you!
I had to cancel horse, even though you ladies support it for me. Thank you! It was too cold and wet out. We had a touch of snow this morning.
Mom got dressed by herself this morning. Yay! She is sleeping now. I am going to get a book out.
Sue hope you and your animals are okay. I see that goats get hoof rot from standing in the mud.
Lanette, hope your chickens can get up out of the wet.
May we all be warm, dry, safe and healthy.
Annie in Delaware
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Heather - that is a concern, I can understand your anger.
I really enjoy having a large number of people around. It’s one thing I really dislike about living here. I don’t have the space for it.
Machka - is that your newsletter?
Annie - maybe it’s time to take any financial decisions away from your Dad. He could do a lot of damage in a short amount of time.
I don’t think it’s that he doesn’t listen or ignores you as much as it is dementia issues.
Sorry to see you didn’t get out for your ride. I hope you get out soon, breaks for you are very important.
Barbie - ice cream sounds like a great treat on Christmas Day.
Lanette - sleepless nights are the worst. I hope you get some rest tonight.
Kylia - I’m glad you’re getting away for the weekend. He probably thinks he’s doing a good thing getting away. He could have offered to help with the packing and preparing, although for me it’s easier if DH just stays out of my way.
Lisa - this is my favourite time of year as well. I just love it.
My Dad and Rodger’s Dad loved it too, when my Dad passed I didn’t get back from NB until Dec 17th and wasn’t going to decorate or anything. I decided that would not be what he would have wanted so worked to get it all done.
This is my first Christmas without either Dad. It’s so strange.
Rebecca - you and I share the same talent in car rides. I read that to DH he wisely just laughed.
Oh Eli and Athena are adorable! What great pictures.
Your sister did a wonderful job on her new purchase.
Allie - it was me asking about the sling for plantar fasciitis. Thank you, I’m going to look at that.
Debbie - so glad you spoke up on behalf of DH, maybe a few more of those calls and he will start to calm some.
I should go do some homework. I have to do a presentation on Monday or Tuesday (have to be prepared for Monday as we won’t know the order until then) I’m doing Christmas around the world. So far I have the title page completed. 🎄🌎
Well I’ll be back later, I have to do something.
Tracey in Edmonton5 -
Updates from sunny, beautiful, Arkansas (62f - 17c),
Doing kind of a chair dance happy dance - finally dragged my flabby self back on the elliptical and did ten minutes - had to break at five minutes and run to the bathroom, but I WENT BACK.
I know it doesn't sound like much, but I honestly have clocked no exercise but a bit of walking since October. Too much pain, too much time in the bathroom, and too much fatigue. It's a horrible cycle. I hurt, which makes me tired, which I allow to keep me from exercising, and not exercising makes me even more tired and makes me hurt even more, and on and on. Blah.
Was it the acupuncture yesterday? Doubtful, but not excluding it as a possibility. My apologies to anyone who feels it is an effective medicine. I tend to think it is more likely that my brain kicked me into gear because I tried a technique that my brain equates with Mama kissing my booboos better when I was small. When I was that age, I also believed that Band-Aids were magic. Mama had to hide them, or I would come out of the bathroom covered with them from head to toe because I thought they fixed everything.
My twisty little subconscious may have simply decided if I'm going to hurt anyway, I might as well hurt and exercise. I am not saying this is rational, it's probably the opposite.
All that said, I'm going back next week - the VA will pay for 12 sessions, and I see no reason to dismiss it completely. If acupuncture can diminish the inflammation throughout my body, which the acupuncturist believes it will, I see no harm in continuing to try, and great possible benefit if it truly works. There is some research that proves it does work.
All that aside, work on the summer room continues rapidly:This was taken November 6:
I took this one just a few minutes ago:
All the rest of the windows will go in this weekend:
All this, by the way, has been Corey. I get him what he needs, and other than that roof, it has all been him, I've been very little help. The shirtless (woohoo! ) picture of him hauling posts was taken October 21, so this has all been a bit over six weeks. The man is a beast.
After the windows, vent stove and hopefully solar lights are in this weekend, then the new gas fire stove is due in Monday, and then the last big push will be the week between Christmas and New Year's. Corey's taking off six days, and that will be insulation, flooring, walls and ceiling. I hope to have everything delivered end of next week, fingers crossed. I hope to also be some help while he's doing the rest of this.
Love y'all!
Lisa in AR6 -
Anniesquats100 wrote: »Debbie I meant a chair lift that you ride up the stairs. It's too much expense for the month or two that she might use it. Even now, she could easily fall off.
Excellent that you had a good talk with your mother in law. Sometimes you get to be proud of saying your piece and setting your boundaries, and her response is a bonus. Good for you!
I had to cancel horse, even though you ladies support it for me. Thank you! It was too cold and wet out. We had a touch of snow this morning.
Mom got dressed by herself this morning. Yay! She is sleeping now. I am going to get a book out.
Sue hope you and your animals are okay. I see that goats get hoof rot from standing in the mud.
Lanette, hope your chickens can get up out of the wet.
May we all be warm, dry, safe and healthy.
Annie in Delaware
I have kept my mouth shut for most of the past 33 yrs. DH always told me to not say anything because it would make it harder on him. Can't get much worse than what she is putting him through now. Someone needs to stand up to her. Got tired of going home with a bloody tongue from biting it so much. After a while I chose to not be over there unless absolutely had to. Didn't help dh but if I couldn't speak up, I didn't want to be around her. Kept son away from her for a few years because of the way she was talking, especially when all she did was talk about killing herself. Couldn't have 12/13 yr old son hearing that when he was already having some depression issues.
When she fell, I had to be there to help and she actually appreciated the help for a while, then when she was getting better and I stepped back on the amount of help I was giving her so she would continue to get better, the mean person in her came back and she is back to her mean nasty self again.
Debbie
Time to go walk the wetlands if it isn't raining/windy too much. If it is, I will sit in the car and wait for Ezie to get out of school. May just do a quick walk to the river.4 -
Here we are at my son's.
I ordered fish and chips and mushy peas and it arrived promptly. Bea and Edie ate some of the chips. I got cross with Bea because she was waving her arms around near our drink, but all is well. John is reading her a bedtime story.
He was dragged upstairs by the girls after supper, and this was the result!!!
DDIL gave us £20 towards the fish and chips.
I started talking about my ex's sister, Pauline/Paula, who was killed in a car accident at age 29, when we were living with them. 1974. Don't know how it came up, but they didn't know anything about it. I hope Edie will mention it to 'Grandpa Roger' when she sees him. It was a huge era-marking happening in our lives, and she deserves to be remembered. I will show Edie some photos. I wrote several poems about her in my book 'Memory Boxes '.
Just Max downstairs now, doing his homework.
Love Heather UK xxxxxx
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Heather- John is a gem he is up for anything with those kids,gotta love it..
They are putting new carpet out in the hallway..will take a picture once its done.2 -
Some pics when I catch the right light, yogi is so shiny
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Pip: I love Calendar Boy Yogi! Congratulations.
Lanette: Sympathies to your sister and nephew and YOU!
Annie: If you haven't researched this yet, may I recommend you get versed in the art of the therapeutic lie? For our loved ones with dementia, we can only meet them where they are, then using artful fibs, "redirect" their attention or behavior around to where we want it. Adding my hugs and waves of energy to those of everyone else here.
Lisa: I had some remarkable relief from chronic headaches years ago thanks to acupuncture. I think it's great you have this option from the VA and bravo to you for giving it a try. I love the image of you as a band-aided toddler.
All the photos are so sweet and pretty. Thanks for spreading the happiness. I'm coming off a very tough week of grieving. I have so many little things around my house that spark nostalgic memories of my recently departed BFF, Amy. She gifted me so many items over the years. We visited at least once a year so have many photos. And she was one of my best sounding boards always providing good supportive counsel, and making me laugh. This past weekend I had tickets to Boston where N and I were hoping to have a romantic little getaway in Maine. But I just couldn't. I spend this week cocooning and escaping into books. I spoke with Amy's husband, and we had a good cry together. Her celebration of life will be in the spring, and he has asked me to speak. Deep breaths! I hope to be in a better place emotionally by then.
Meanwhile, I have found that for me, cleaning, sweeping and sitting in the sun are very good depression busters!
Take care, friends. Soak in the joy and shake off the stress. We can do this.
Rori
Colorado Foothills where we are going from 65 degrees today, to snow tonight. 🌨🌨🌨13 -
I just came home from getting my RSV shot. Usually Jake and I go together but we still can't leave Annie alone at home or in the car so we had to separately, Jake in the morning and me this afternoon. One more change to our orderly life.
Lisa I tried acupuncture for six weeks a few years ago. It did cure what aimed me but it was a relaxing experience and if I'd had the money I would have continued
Barbie in NW WA 💖3 -
Rori - So many hugs for you about Amy. My female friends are some of the biggest loves of my life. They are so entwined with us. It's good to take the time to grieve.
Back home now. The parents had a really good time.
Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx4 -
Stat for the day-
Walk w/family- 2hrs 24min 47sec, 2.75ap, 172elev, 88ahr, 104mhr, 6.71mi= 670c
Strava app = 823c2 -
dlfk202000 wrote: »well, not sure if it was the "talk" I had with MIL yesterday when she called to chew out DH some more and I wouldn't let her talk to him or if she was just done for now but, when he went over yesterday evening(after she said for him to not ever come back) she was fine, after having him locked out of the houses-said it was because he slammed the door and it wouldn't stay shut.
This morning, she is fine. I told him I am no longer keeping my mouth shut when she pulls this stuff. He keeps thinking if he just sits and takes it for hours at a time she will eventually stop but she doesnt. Hope he will finally stop it and just leave when it starts up. That will get her mad but maybe she will realize it. I didn't yell at her when I talked. Just told her that she needed to stop yelling at him-yes they BOTH needed to stop yelling, she needed to be nice and appreciate everything he does for her. I told her no, she wasn't going to walk down to the senior living place and no she wasn't going to sell the house or give it to the stranger that was on the street. Not happening.
I even offered to dh that I would tell her he was in the hospital because of her(which will happen if this doesn't stop) and I would take care of her for a week, just to give him a break. Of course he won't do it.
Making more candy today. Didn't get as much done with mom but that is ok. Need to finish all of it so I can get some in the mail and some packaged up for gifts for friends and my zumba class.
Debbie
Napa Valley Ca
Go Debbie!!5
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