Question for the ladies

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  • TheSlorax
    TheSlorax Posts: 2,401 Member
    Just tell him you are in the market for a new *kitten* buddy and ask if he knows any good applicants...

    if this doesnt make her sound like a tramp i'd be shocked!

    if having **** buddies makes someone a tramp I am one hell of a tramp
  • Carissa145
    Carissa145 Posts: 604 Member
    Have you ever gone somewhere by yourselves? Do you flirt with him at all now? I would start being more flirtatious and ask him out to dinner or something. Take it slow and see how he responds. I wouldn't want to ruin the friendship either.

    We talk a lot alone, but we are always in public. I flirt a little with him... but he is really flirty. When I have to leave, he always hugs me etc. Thanks for the advice!
  • Mia_RagazzaTosta
    Mia_RagazzaTosta Posts: 4,885 Member
    Send him a folded up note with check boxes ...

    Or you could take the chance and just tell him how you feel. Maybe he feels the same way and is just as scared as you.

    Alcohol helps before this conversation.
  • da_bears10089
    da_bears10089 Posts: 1,791 Member
    Just send him this

    LKQvOmT.gif

    winning
  • suelegal
    suelegal Posts: 1,281 Member
    If women would stop thinking they had to be subtle about it and just ask men what they think all the worlds problems would be instantly solved.

    But I don't know what he thinks of me and I don't want to make our friendship really awkward, you know?

    But it's already awkward because you're trying to manipulate without being direct. Better direct, don't you think? It's not a word game and you can't do the Vulcan mind thing - just say it!
  • BusyRaeNOTBusty
    BusyRaeNOTBusty Posts: 7,166 Member
    What do you mean by "looking like a tramp"? The only thing that will make you look like a tramp is if you go up to him, grab his balls and drag him to your room. Otherwise just flirt, do you know how?

    the thing is, we are pretty good friends, and if he doesn't like me, then I'm butting a big awkward sigma on the relationship.

    So what are your options? Remain friends forever always wondering "what if"? Or tell him you want to try dating? If he says no, yeah, maybe it'd be weird, or maybe it'd just be normal. If he says yes, maybe it'd be awesome. I think it's worth it.
  • Carissa145
    Carissa145 Posts: 604 Member
    Hey.

    I just met you.

    And this is crazy.

    Here's my number.

    Cal me maybe?

    :laugh:

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    even in written word I hate that song. lol. Ask him to hang out just the two of you and get your flirt on. subtle touching works, so does complimenting him like "I like your shirt, it looks good on you". Then you can always just say you're really sweet and I'm kinda getting a crush on you and see what he says. There's no "easy" way, just gotta go for it. You go girl!! :D

    Thank you!
  • sunglasses_and_ocean_waves
    sunglasses_and_ocean_waves Posts: 2,757 Member
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    +1


    You only look like a tramp if you are one. If you're just a sexually interested woman, you're not a tramp. You're human (and likely good in bed because if you'll really freaking enjoy it).
  • Mobilemuscle
    Mobilemuscle Posts: 945 Member
    Just send him this

    LKQvOmT.gif

    winning

    ****in bears better not let me down thursday night... I was pissed we couldnt take down the saints in chi-town
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    Have you ever gone somewhere by yourselves? Do you flirt with him at all now? I would start being more flirtatious and ask him out to dinner or something. Take it slow and see how he responds. I wouldn't want to ruin the friendship either.

    We talk a lot alone, but we are always in public. I flirt a little with him... but he is really flirty. When I have to leave, he always hugs me etc. Thanks for the advice!

    Okay,not being snarky here just a bit matter of fact.
    It sounds like you have not been responding to overtures from him,honest...no one reads minds so we all read signals and if you are doing what amounts to a stop sign he isn`t going farther.

    He is in the same boat and maybe not the fairy tale fantasy but is reaching out to you.
    Give it back in kind,life will go on no matter.
  • Carissa145
    Carissa145 Posts: 604 Member
    maybe I should tell you all that He used to be into this one girl, and he didn't think many knew about it. One of his good friends found out I was interested, and told me that the guy I liked was into someone else. I dropped the girl's name to the guy who I like and he started freaking out about how I knew and he emphatically said it was over with that girl. What do you think this means?
  • Mobilemuscle
    Mobilemuscle Posts: 945 Member
    maybe I should tell you all that He used to be into this one girl, and he didn't think many knew about it. One of his good friends found out I was interested, and told me that the guy I liked was into someone else. I dropped the girl's name to the guy who I like and he started freaking out about how I knew and he emphatically said it was over with that girl. What do you think this means?

    It means its over with that girl
  • sunglasses_and_ocean_waves
    sunglasses_and_ocean_waves Posts: 2,757 Member
    maybe I should tell you all that He used to be into this one girl, and he didn't think many knew about it. One of his good friends found out I was interested, and told me that the guy I liked was into someone else. I dropped the girl's name to the guy who I like and he started freaking out about how I knew and he emphatically said it was over with that girl. What do you think this means?

    It means its over with that girl


    LOL ya think?
  • just_Jennie1
    just_Jennie1 Posts: 1,233
    Hey.

    I just met you.

    And this is crazy.

    Here's my number.

    Cal me maybe?

    :laugh:

    Please_no.gif

    even in written word I hate that song. lol. Ask him to hang out just the two of you and get your flirt on. subtle touching works, so does complimenting him like "I like your shirt, it looks good on you". Then you can always just say you're really sweet and I'm kinda getting a crush on you and see what he says. There's no "easy" way, just gotta go for it. You go girl!! :D

    Thank you!

    I'm sorry but I just had to! :laugh:
  • Carissa145
    Carissa145 Posts: 604 Member
    maybe I should tell you all that He used to be into this one girl, and he didn't think many knew about it. One of his good friends found out I was interested, and told me that the guy I liked was into someone else. I dropped the girl's name to the guy who I like and he started freaking out about how I knew and he emphatically said it was over with that girl. What do you think this means?

    It means its over with that girl

    Gosh, I know that, but is there a deeper meaning?
  • The_Enginerd
    The_Enginerd Posts: 3,982 Member
    Just tell him you are in the market for a new *kitten* buddy and ask if he knows any good applicants...

    if this doesnt make her sound like a tramp i'd be shocked!

    if having **** buddies makes someone a tramp I am one hell of a tramp
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  • sunglasses_and_ocean_waves
    sunglasses_and_ocean_waves Posts: 2,757 Member
    maybe I should tell you all that He used to be into this one girl, and he didn't think many knew about it. One of his good friends found out I was interested, and told me that the guy I liked was into someone else. I dropped the girl's name to the guy who I like and he started freaking out about how I knew and he emphatically said it was over with that girl. What do you think this means?

    It means its over with that girl

    Gosh, I know that, but is there a deeper meaning?

    You need to stop analyzing everything and just put yourself out there. Jeez, I'd wait until everyone was out of the breakroom, I;d straddle the mofo and kiss him. You'll get your answer much sooner that way.
  • Mia_RagazzaTosta
    Mia_RagazzaTosta Posts: 4,885 Member
    maybe I should tell you all that He used to be into this one girl, and he didn't think many knew about it. One of his good friends found out I was interested, and told me that the guy I liked was into someone else. I dropped the girl's name to the guy who I like and he started freaking out about how I knew and he emphatically said it was over with that girl. What do you think this means?

    It means its over with that girl

    Gosh, I know that, but is there a deeper meaning?

    Just ask him. Then you'll know.
  • Mobilemuscle
    Mobilemuscle Posts: 945 Member
    maybe I should tell you all that He used to be into this one girl, and he didn't think many knew about it. One of his good friends found out I was interested, and told me that the guy I liked was into someone else. I dropped the girl's name to the guy who I like and he started freaking out about how I knew and he emphatically said it was over with that girl. What do you think this means?

    It means its over with that girl

    Gosh, I know that, but is there a deeper meaning?

    You need to stop analyzing everything and just put yourself out there. Jeez, I'd wait until everyone was out of the breakroom, I;d straddle the mofo and kiss him. You'll get your answer much sooner that way.

    lol!

    OP: dont look too deep for meaning with guys.... we generally say what we mean the 1st time
  • ItsCasey
    ItsCasey Posts: 4,021 Member
    maybe I should tell you all that He used to be into this one girl, and he didn't think many knew about it. One of his good friends found out I was interested, and told me that the guy I liked was into someone else. I dropped the girl's name to the guy who I like and he started freaking out about how I knew and he emphatically said it was over with that girl. What do you think this means?

    How old are you, and how old is this guy?

    I was going to suggest that if y'all have been hanging out for a year and he hasn't asked you out, he's very likely just not interested. But after that post, it sounds like y'all are teenagers, in which case the odds of either of you having any idea what you want are slim.
  • bloominheck
    bloominheck Posts: 869 Member
    If women would stop thinking they had to be subtle about it and just ask men what they think all the worlds problems would be instantly solved.

    Your kitty is so cute. I just want to pet it....:love:
  • Carissa145
    Carissa145 Posts: 604 Member
    maybe I should tell you all that He used to be into this one girl, and he didn't think many knew about it. One of his good friends found out I was interested, and told me that the guy I liked was into someone else. I dropped the girl's name to the guy who I like and he started freaking out about how I knew and he emphatically said it was over with that girl. What do you think this means?

    It means its over with that girl

    Gosh, I know that, but is there a deeper meaning?

    Just ask him. Then you'll know.

    So I just waltz up to him and say, "Hey! just wondering if you are interested in me?"
  • ItsCasey
    ItsCasey Posts: 4,021 Member
    maybe I should tell you all that He used to be into this one girl, and he didn't think many knew about it. One of his good friends found out I was interested, and told me that the guy I liked was into someone else. I dropped the girl's name to the guy who I like and he started freaking out about how I knew and he emphatically said it was over with that girl. What do you think this means?

    It means its over with that girl

    Gosh, I know that, but is there a deeper meaning?

    Just ask him. Then you'll know.

    So I just waltz up to him and say, "Hey! just wondering if you are interested in me?"

    Sounds like a more productive action than whatever you've been doing.
  • Mobilemuscle
    Mobilemuscle Posts: 945 Member
    If women would stop thinking they had to be subtle about it and just ask men what they think all the worlds problems would be instantly solved.

    Your kitty is so cute. I just want to pet it....:love:

    thank you... that was my fav pic with him... he passed away Dec 29th 2012... at 21 years old....miss him everyday
  • da_bears10089
    da_bears10089 Posts: 1,791 Member
    Just send him this

    LKQvOmT.gif

    winning

    ****in bears better not let me down thursday night... I was pissed we couldnt take down the saints in chi-town

    if they lose to the GIANTS?!?! i might have to turn in my Bears Fanclub Card
  • sunglasses_and_ocean_waves
    sunglasses_and_ocean_waves Posts: 2,757 Member
    maybe I should tell you all that He used to be into this one girl, and he didn't think many knew about it. One of his good friends found out I was interested, and told me that the guy I liked was into someone else. I dropped the girl's name to the guy who I like and he started freaking out about how I knew and he emphatically said it was over with that girl. What do you think this means?

    It means its over with that girl

    Gosh, I know that, but is there a deeper meaning?

    Just ask him. Then you'll know.

    So I just waltz up to him and say, "Hey! just wondering if you are interested in me?"

    Fix your hair, put on some mascara and ask him out for a drink. Problem solved. Oh yeah, get him drunk and have your way with him =)
  • Mobilemuscle
    Mobilemuscle Posts: 945 Member
    Just send him this

    LKQvOmT.gif

    winning

    ****in bears better not let me down thursday night... I was pissed we couldnt take down the saints in chi-town

    if they lose to the GIANTS?!?! i might have to turn in my Bears Fanclub Card

    mmhmmm
  • Carissa145
    Carissa145 Posts: 604 Member
    maybe I should tell you all that He used to be into this one girl, and he didn't think many knew about it. One of his good friends found out I was interested, and told me that the guy I liked was into someone else. I dropped the girl's name to the guy who I like and he started freaking out about how I knew and he emphatically said it was over with that girl. What do you think this means?

    It means its over with that girl

    Gosh, I know that, but is there a deeper meaning?

    Just ask him. Then you'll know.

    So I just waltz up to him and say, "Hey! just wondering if you are interested in me?"

    Sounds like a more productive action than whatever you've been doing.

    OK, then, that's what I'll do. I'll let you know how it goes!
  • Mobilemuscle
    Mobilemuscle Posts: 945 Member
    maybe I should tell you all that He used to be into this one girl, and he didn't think many knew about it. One of his good friends found out I was interested, and told me that the guy I liked was into someone else. I dropped the girl's name to the guy who I like and he started freaking out about how I knew and he emphatically said it was over with that girl. What do you think this means?

    It means its over with that girl

    Gosh, I know that, but is there a deeper meaning?

    Just ask him. Then you'll know.

    So I just waltz up to him and say, "Hey! just wondering if you are interested in me?"

    Fix your hair, put on some mascara and ask him out for a drink. Problem solved. Oh yeah, get him drunk and have your way with him =)

    If I had a nickel for every time this has happened...
  • TheSlorax
    TheSlorax Posts: 2,401 Member
    maybe I should tell you all that He used to be into this one girl, and he didn't think many knew about it. One of his good friends found out I was interested, and told me that the guy I liked was into someone else. I dropped the girl's name to the guy who I like and he started freaking out about how I knew and he emphatically said it was over with that girl. What do you think this means?

    It means its over with that girl

    Gosh, I know that, but is there a deeper meaning?

    Just ask him. Then you'll know.

    So I just waltz up to him and say, "Hey! just wondering if you are interested in me?"

    Fix your hair, put on some mascara and ask him out for a drink. Problem solved. Oh yeah, get him drunk and have your way with him =)

    also, roofies. but that's only if you want the sex and not the annoying emotional stuff.

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