Is chivalry really dead? :(

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what you do think?
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  • Mrsallypants
    Mrsallypants Posts: 887 Member
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    One can only hope.
  • j6o4
    j6o4 Posts: 871 Member
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    Can't have chivalry and equality at the same time, so yes it's dead or at the least almost dead.
  • gonnabefitshyla
    gonnabefitshyla Posts: 6 Member
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    I don't believe its dead, my hubby still opens the door for me and always unlocks my door for the car first.. :}
  • leftyjace
    leftyjace Posts: 304 Member
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    Oh good heavens, no.
    But it might be close.
    You wouldn't believe how shocked some women are when I insist on paying for their meal (even if it's not a date), open the door for them, allow them to go first, do the heavy lifting, etc.
    I think it's dying in Europe a lot quicker than it is here in the USA, though.
  • asimmons221
    asimmons221 Posts: 294 Member
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    I find chivalry offensive.
  • leftyjace
    leftyjace Posts: 304 Member
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    I find chivalry offensive.
    Why????
  • mister_universe
    mister_universe Posts: 6,664 Member
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    equality and chivalry are both fallacies.
  • KrazyDaizy
    KrazyDaizy Posts: 815 Member
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    Gawd, I hope not. :sad:
  • ItsMeGee3
    ItsMeGee3 Posts: 13,255 Member
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    I sure hope not. I like when my man treats me like a lady!
  • billsica
    billsica Posts: 4,741 Member
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    The more sandwiches and sweaters she makes, the more chivalrous I am.

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  • leftyjace
    leftyjace Posts: 304 Member
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    I guess I fail to see the conflict between chivalry and equality.

    Chivalry is a way of treating people...

    Equality is allowing people an equal opportunity for achievement.

    Men who hold back chivalry in the name of equality do so out of holding a grudge, or because they don't like showing respect to women in the first place.

    But that's just my opinion.
  • KrazyDaizy
    KrazyDaizy Posts: 815 Member
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    I guess I fail to see the conflict between chivalry and equality.

    Chivalry is a way of treating people...

    Equality is allowing people an equal opportunity for achievement.

    Men who hold back chivalry in the name of equality do so out of holding a grudge, or because they don't like showing respect to women in the first place.

    But that's just my opinion.
    I like you.
  • cmcollins001
    cmcollins001 Posts: 3,472 Member
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    It's not, however, the appreciation of chivalry is dying a horrible death.
  • ZombieGeezUs
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    It's not, however, the appreciation of chivalry is dying a horrible death.

    So much this
  • leftyjace
    leftyjace Posts: 304 Member
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    I guess I fail to see the conflict between chivalry and equality.

    Chivalry is a way of treating people...

    Equality is allowing people an equal opportunity for achievement.

    Men who hold back chivalry in the name of equality do so out of holding a grudge, or because they don't like showing respect to women in the first place.

    But that's just my opinion.
    I like you.
    :tongue:
  • leftyjace
    leftyjace Posts: 304 Member
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    It's not, however, the appreciation of chivalry is dying a horrible death.

    So much this
    Interesting. Are you saying that females don't recognize and appreciate chivalry as often as they should?
  • ItsMeGee3
    ItsMeGee3 Posts: 13,255 Member
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    I guess I fail to see the conflict between chivalry and equality.

    Chivalry is a way of treating people...

    Equality is allowing people an equal opportunity for achievement.

    Men who hold back chivalry in the name of equality do so out of holding a grudge, or because they don't like showing respect to women in the first place.

    But that's just my opinion.

    Nicely put!
  • ZombieGeezUs
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    It's not, however, the appreciation of chivalry is dying a horrible death.

    So much this
    Interesting. Are you saying that females don't recognize and appreciate chivalry as often as they should?

    Depends on the female. I am honestly not really going to get into this topic because as we all know, gender talk will rustle jimmies.

    Inb4lock
  • Still1Workoutatatime
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    nah, just playing possum
  • adorable_aly
    adorable_aly Posts: 398 Member
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    God I hope so.