my hubby paying me to lose weight

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  • BusyRaeNOTBusty
    BusyRaeNOTBusty Posts: 7,166 Member
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    My husband has offered sexual favors for every 2lbs I lose.
  • Chain_Ring
    Chain_Ring Posts: 753 Member
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    That's just creepy. lol
  • Chain_Ring
    Chain_Ring Posts: 753 Member
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    My husband has offered sexual favors for every 2lbs I lose.

    such as?
  • My_Own_Worst_Enemy
    My_Own_Worst_Enemy Posts: 218 Member
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    Am I really the only one who finds this creepy?

    Ummmm. No.

    I was wondering if he got tired of paying her to have sex, and that hes moved on to something else?


    My husband has offered sexual favors for every 2lbs I lose.

    So uhhhhhh. If you hit a plateau, then what happens? Sorry, cant touch you, you need to lose more weight? WTF?



    This thread right here is why people need to lose weight for themselves, not other people or things.
  • vjohn04
    vjohn04 Posts: 2,276 Member
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    It's a good thing he's not offering you money for sexual favors!


    This is absurd, and kinda sad. I'm sorry, but if my husband tried to pay me to lose weight, I'd throw him out on his butt so fast.
  • BerryH
    BerryH Posts: 4,698 Member
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    Am I really the only one who finds this creepy?
    Nope.

    Anyone without a generous spouse who wants to earn money sticking to their goals (and pay up if they miss them!) should try the Gym Pact app. I was too scared to sign up personally!
  • sunnshhiine
    sunnshhiine Posts: 727 Member
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    Am I really the only one who finds this creepy?

    you're not alone...
  • ScottH_200
    ScottH_200 Posts: 377 Member
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    Am I really the only one who finds this creepy?

    Why is it creepy? It's between her and her husband and she's motivated by it. Whatever works.
  • action_figure
    action_figure Posts: 511 Member
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    My husband has offered sexual favors for every 2lbs I lose.

    Pffft. Like that's a huge sacrifice for him.
  • action_figure
    action_figure Posts: 511 Member
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    Am I really the only one who finds this creepy?

    Not enough data to determine.
  • nancybuss
    nancybuss Posts: 1,461 Member
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    people will pick on anything.

    You go girl!!!! If you works for you guys - then its good for you!
  • g33kmommy
    g33kmommy Posts: 104 Member
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    Am I really the only one who finds this creepy?

    Nope. I'm kinda sitting here thinking what the heck, too. Her husband is paying her? Isn't money between spouses mutual anyway? I guess I'm just reading into something the wrong way because I watch too much TV.

    Too each their own, who am I to judge?

    Good luck.
  • tempehforever
    tempehforever Posts: 183 Member
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    Am I really the only one who finds this creepy?

    Not to be an internet jerk, but I find it a little creepy, too. Not so much about having a monetary incentive to lose weight, but more so the idea of a spouse "paying" the other--as if the money is all his? Shouldn't it be, like, shared? Or if you both keep your finances separate, shouldn't you have your own money in the first place? Just seems like a weird power dynamic to gift each other money when you're married.

    (I might just be in an online snarky mood, though. Apologies.)
  • sunnshhiine
    sunnshhiine Posts: 727 Member
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    Am I really the only one who finds this creepy?

    Ummmm. No.

    I was wondering if he got tired of paying her to have sex, and that hes moved on to something else?


    My husband has offered sexual favors for every 2lbs I lose.

    So uhhhhhh. If you hit a plateau, then what happens? Sorry, cant touch you, you need to lose more weight? WTF?



    This thread right here is why people need to lose weight for themselves, not other people or things.

    THIS.
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
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    Am I really the only one who finds this creepy?
    No.
  • homerjspartan
    homerjspartan Posts: 1,893 Member
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    My husband has offered sexual favors for every 2lbs I lose.

    I offered that to my wife as well. Since the offer she hasn't left the couch.
  • seattle_hd
    seattle_hd Posts: 23 Member
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    paying me to lose weight would most likely backfire, as I can't be pushed or even suggested to me - I'm very stubborn that way. But I have a hard time taking compliments too.

    but we are talking about booking a vacation and I suggested we wait until I'm nearer to my goal weight… It's my own incentive. He was frustrated I wanted to wait but I want to feel/look good if we go on a big trip together. Now he sees some weight coming off, I think he's feeling like it might happen.
  • Mother_Warrior
    Mother_Warrior Posts: 44 Member
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    Am I really the only one who finds this creepy?

    I think it's... odd. I don't know though, different strokes for different folks. I wouldn't want to do this.
  • g33kmommy
    g33kmommy Posts: 104 Member
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    Am I really the only one who finds this creepy?

    Not to be an internet jerk, but I find it a little creepy, too. Not so much about having a monetary incentive to lose weight, but more so the idea of a spouse "paying" the other--as if the money is all his? Shouldn't it be, like, shared? Or if you both keep your finances separate, shouldn't you have your own money in the first place? Just seems like a weird power dynamic to gift each other money when you're married.

    (I might just be in an online snarky mood, though. Apologies.)

    Haha, this.
  • Hauntinglyfit
    Hauntinglyfit Posts: 5,537 Member
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    But isn't your husband's money already yours?
    Cause if not.. girl, we need to have a talk!

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