chubby or skinny

Eleonora91

I would obviously date both! I might have my own preferences, but overall, when I start liking someone there are a lot of other things I care about. It's like when you say you like green eyes, but always fall in love with brown-eyed people. And I think that's beautiful because it can really show you how deceiving preferences can be!

LeanneHarrington3

I like big guys. My other half is 19 stone. I love a bit of squish!

bigtwagner

Prefer chubby but it doesn't really matter.

cad39too

Chubby over skinny

invisibubble

I don't like an emaciated man. I like my men to be more chubby than skinny, but that's just aesthetics. I've been attracted to guys of all builds.

Diesel_Girl

<<<--- CHUBBY CHASER

miss_jessiejane

rml_16

Do you need to insult people to feel good about yourself? Skinny or chubby, I wouldn't date someone so insecure.

kelleygi

I just want someone to hold me.

Come here, Angel. :smokin:

PghPensFan69

Which one makes the better sammich?

Chadomaniac

Which one makes the better sammich?

THIS

somefitsomefat

If I can pick her up at least a couple inches off the ground and her boobs are bigger than her stomach we're good to go.

JamieM8168

Doesn't matter to me

wolverine66

i was all prepared to answer, but then I saw you said "honestly"... so....

tula1980

I have more of an issue with height than weight. I like a man who makes me feel tiny, which is just my personal preference. Weight wise I guess I would be more inclined to go for a guy who is slightly over weight wise than slightly under on that premise. I married my husband who ticks all my boxes (not just the physical ones which are the first things I would happily have compromised on) and he's a foot taller than me, broad shouldered and when we met he was clinically 'obese' on his BMI but with 10% body fat. He is a bit more 'cuddly' now after eating all my cooking, but still just as sexy and his arms still make my knees weak!

randomtai

:huh: :huh: :huh: :huh: :noway: :noway: :noway: :noway:

TheGirlsATimeBomb

everyone has a preference. i prefer skinny.

Derp_Diggler

When I was single, I dated men anywhere from 5'3" and 120 pounds to 6'5" and 270 pounds. I married someone in between with developed muscles.

If I were single again.....

Is this person nice with good teeth and manners?

What's the education level?

Can he or she carry on a decent conversation about the things he or she finds interesting? Can I learn something from this person and freely share my knowledge?

Is the person adventurous in the bedroom?


We all have different priorities. While looks do play a role, these things above are more important to me than chubby versus skinny.

What she said.

IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym

I'm rather fond of the chubbier guys, but I have dated all types - from chubby to skinny to muscular. Its more about personality and attitude for me than anything else.

mccindy72

My hubs was chubby when I met him and started dating him, skinny when we married, and is chubby now. I've always been a bit more attracted to bigger guys, but honestly, it has little to do with chubby or skinny and much more to do with other things like humor and intelligence, kindness and integrity.

BeachGingerOnTheRocks

It would be nice if we could have a thread where some woman didn't feel the need to come in and insult other women's body types.

I guess that's too much to ask.

mccindy72

It would be nice if we could have a thread where some woman didn't feel the need to come in and insult other women's body types.

I guess that's too much to ask.

I was thinking the same thing. It gets a little old, doesn't it? Imagine the outrage if there were body shaming directed at the overweight in every thread.

DamianaKitten

:huh:

Seriously?

Why can't people just be attracted to what they like without having to be mocked/shamed for it? "lolz you like skinny chicks, bet you just can't handle a woman with curves!!" Really?

PRMinx

Is he educated, kind and cuddly? Because that's really all that matters :-)

BeachGingerOnTheRocks

It would be nice if we could have a thread where some woman didn't feel the need to come in and insult other women's body types.

I guess that's too much to ask.

I was thinking the same thing. It gets a little old, doesn't it? Imagine the outrage if there were body shaming directed at the overweight in every thread.

It really does get old. I'd be against the latter as well. It's arrogant and makes the person doing the insulting look so, so petty.

fitfan11

Need some meat on those bones

DamianaKitten

It would be nice if we could have a thread where some woman didn't feel the need to come in and insult other women's body types.

I guess that's too much to ask.

I was thinking the same thing. It gets a little old, doesn't it? Imagine the outrage if there were body shaming directed at the overweight in every thread.

You are probably right. I've never understood body shaming. I've been overweight for a long time and so many people feel that means they have a right to comment on my weight. When I was skinny, I got mocked for that, too.

If I had to guess, I'd say it comes from body image issues of the person doing the the shaming/mocking. I used to mock skinnier girls, because I hated my own body. I don't anymore because it's stupid.

IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym

you sound like a real peach.

rml_16

:huh:

Seriously?

Why can't people just be attracted to what they like without having to be mocked/shamed for it? "lolz you like skinny chicks, bet you just can't handle a woman with curves!!" Really?

What about skinny chicks with curves? ;-)

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