chubby or skinny

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  • softncudly
    softncudly Posts: 722 Member
    Yes. I would.
  • DamianaKitten
    DamianaKitten Posts: 479 Member

    :huh:

    Seriously?

    Why can't people just be attracted to what they like without having to be mocked/shamed for it? "lolz you like skinny chicks, bet you just can't handle a woman with curves!!" Really?
    What about skinny chicks with curves? ;-)

    They're a myth. ;) You can only have curves if you're overweight, so that way you can say "that person just can't handle all these curves."
  • CookieEmporium
    CookieEmporium Posts: 74 Member
    When I was single, I dated men anywhere from 5'3" and 120 pounds to 6'5" and 270 pounds. I married someone in between with developed muscles.

    If I were single again.....

    Is this person nice with good teeth and manners?

    What's the education level?

    Can he or she carry on a decent conversation about the things he or she finds interesting? Can I learn something from this person and freely share my knowledge?

    Is the person adventurous in the bedroom?


    We all have different priorities. While looks do play a role, these things above are more important to me than chubby versus skinny.

    What she said.

    YES!!!
  • TX_Rhon
    TX_Rhon Posts: 1,549 Member
    I like a guy with a nice weiner

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    dog and he remembers how I like my coffee :drinker:
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member

    :huh:

    Seriously?

    Why can't people just be attracted to what they like without having to be mocked/shamed for it? "lolz you like skinny chicks, bet you just can't handle a woman with curves!!" Really?
    What about skinny chicks with curves? ;-)

    They're a myth. ;) You can only have curves if you're overweight, so that way you can say "that person just can't handle all these curves."

    Oh yes! And Marilyn Monroe at 5'5" and 118 pounds was a modern-day size 16, too, right? :laugh:
  • somefitsomefat
    somefitsomefat Posts: 445 Member

    It would be nice if we could have a thread where some woman didn't feel the need to come in and insult other women's body types.

    I guess that's too much to ask.

    I was thinking the same thing. It gets a little old, doesn't it? Imagine the outrage if there were body shaming directed at the overweight in every thread.

    Meh, I've been heavy most of my life and the people who've always done the teasing are skinny. I say let the skinny people have it. They deserve to feel what it's like. Maybe they'll actually develop a little empathy from it.
  • victal
    victal Posts: 1,375 Member


    :yawn:
  • DamianaKitten
    DamianaKitten Posts: 479 Member

    :huh:

    Seriously?

    Why can't people just be attracted to what they like without having to be mocked/shamed for it? "lolz you like skinny chicks, bet you just can't handle a woman with curves!!" Really?
    What about skinny chicks with curves? ;-)

    They're a myth. ;) You can only have curves if you're overweight, so that way you can say "that person just can't handle all these curves."

    Oh yes! And Marilyn Monroe at 5'5" and 118 pounds was a modern-day size 16, too, right? :laugh:

    Obviously. :laugh:
  • IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym
    IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym Posts: 5,573 Member

    :huh:

    Seriously?

    Why can't people just be attracted to what they like without having to be mocked/shamed for it? "lolz you like skinny chicks, bet you just can't handle a woman with curves!!" Really?
    What about skinny chicks with curves? ;-)

    They're a myth. ;) You can only have curves if you're overweight, so that way you can say "that person just can't handle all these curves."

    I don't exist! Just kidding, I'm not skinny. I'm fit, with curves. :wink:
  • DamianaKitten
    DamianaKitten Posts: 479 Member

    It would be nice if we could have a thread where some woman didn't feel the need to come in and insult other women's body types.

    I guess that's too much to ask.

    I was thinking the same thing. It gets a little old, doesn't it? Imagine the outrage if there were body shaming directed at the overweight in every thread.

    Meh, I've been heavy most of my life and the people who've always done the teasing are skinny. I say let the skinny people have it. They deserve to feel what it's like. Maybe they'll actually develop a little empathy from it.

    What a sad view of the world.

    If you were skinny, you'd know that they get mocked for it, too.

    Having empathy for your fellow human has nothing to do with body weight.
  • IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym
    IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym Posts: 5,573 Member

    It would be nice if we could have a thread where some woman didn't feel the need to come in and insult other women's body types.

    I guess that's too much to ask.

    I was thinking the same thing. It gets a little old, doesn't it? Imagine the outrage if there were body shaming directed at the overweight in every thread.

    Meh, I've been heavy most of my life and the people who've always done the teasing are skinny. I say let the skinny people have it. They deserve to feel what it's like. Maybe they'll actually develop a little empathy from it.

    Wow, really?!? You don't think we got it, too?!? You don't think that people told me I should eat a cheeseburger or forced to eat a sammich?? Screw that! No ONE should be tortured for their weight. No one!
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member

    It would be nice if we could have a thread where some woman didn't feel the need to come in and insult other women's body types.

    I guess that's too much to ask.

    I was thinking the same thing. It gets a little old, doesn't it? Imagine the outrage if there were body shaming directed at the overweight in every thread.

    Meh, I've been heavy most of my life and the people who've always done the teasing are skinny. I say let the skinny people have it. They deserve to feel what it's like. Maybe they'll actually develop a little empathy from it.
    Oh yeah. People talking behind my back insisting I must be anorexic was so lovely.
  • Whyareyoumad
    Whyareyoumad Posts: 268 Member

    :huh:

    Seriously?

    Why can't people just be attracted to what they like without having to be mocked/shamed for it? "lolz you like skinny chicks, bet you just can't handle a woman with curves!!" Really?
    What about skinny chicks with curves? ;-)

    I love curves. Curves are mandatory! But seriously, anyone of any body shape can be sexy, confident, and attractive. But you have to be that way in your mind. I love a lady with confidence and someone who can rock what they have.
  • grum84
    grum84 Posts: 428 Member
    I have always gone for the chubby or athletic women. I just find I am not usually as attracted to the skinny women.
  • jimmason20
    jimmason20 Posts: 122 Member
    Chubby Fo Sho!!!
  • IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym
    IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym Posts: 5,573 Member
    starting to realize this thread was a gateway to skinny bashing and body shaming.
  • mochamommy
    mochamommy Posts: 187 Member
    All these men are LYING LYING LYING. No one wants a fat girl, Chubby is a fancy word for a gross and fat . Chubby still means fat and nasty. It's just a nice way of saying it. Just like "unfortunite looking" is a nice way of saying one is actually as ugly as homemade sin.
  • mccindy72
    mccindy72 Posts: 7,001 Member

    It would be nice if we could have a thread where some woman didn't feel the need to come in and insult other women's body types.

    I guess that's too much to ask.

    I was thinking the same thing. It gets a little old, doesn't it? Imagine the outrage if there were body shaming directed at the overweight in every thread.

    Meh, I've been heavy most of my life and the people who've always done the teasing are skinny. I say let the skinny people have it. They deserve to feel what it's like. Maybe they'll actually develop a little empathy from it.

    That's a very sad generalization. So because a few thin people teased you, all thin people should be teased now? I can tell you it doesn't feel very good to be told you need to eat a cheeseburger for being too thin. Especially when you can't eat one because you have a bowel disorder. Everyone has his or her own story sweetheart. Don't judge us all based on a couple of cruel people you came into contact with.
  • mccindy72
    mccindy72 Posts: 7,001 Member
    All these men are LYING LYING LYING. No one wants a fat girl, Chubby is a fancy word for a gross and fat . Chubby still means fat and nasty. It's just a nice way of saying it. Just like "unfortunite looking" is a nice way of saying one is actually as ugly as homemade sin.

    I hope to god you're being sarcastic.
  • PRMinx
    PRMinx Posts: 4,585 Member
    All these men are LYING LYING LYING. No one wants a fat girl, Chubby is a fancy word for a gross and fat . Chubby still means fat and nasty. It's just a nice way of saying it. Just like "unfortunite looking" is a nice way of saying one is actually as ugly as homemade sin.

    Wow.
  • somefitsomefat
    somefitsomefat Posts: 445 Member

    It would be nice if we could have a thread where some woman didn't feel the need to come in and insult other women's body types.

    I guess that's too much to ask.

    I was thinking the same thing. It gets a little old, doesn't it? Imagine the outrage if there were body shaming directed at the overweight in every thread.

    Meh, I've been heavy most of my life and the people who've always done the teasing are skinny. I say let the skinny people have it. They deserve to feel what it's like. Maybe they'll actually develop a little empathy from it.

    Wow, really?!? You don't think we got it, too?!? You don't think that people told me I should eat a cheeseburger or forced to eat a sammich?? Screw that! No ONE should be tortured for their weight. No one!

    Yeah but when people tease skinny people it's usually coming from a different place. It's usually more a "you should fatten up so you don't make look so bad." When people tease fat people it's literally to punish them for being fat and to make themselves feel good. It's not balanced at all. You see this in so many areas. You can even look at extremes like eating disorders that cause you to be too skinny. Those are diseases right? That's accepted as such. But when someone says obesity is a disease people laugh and say "get some self control!"

    edit: spelling
  • DamianaKitten
    DamianaKitten Posts: 479 Member
    All these men are LYING LYING LYING. No one wants a fat girl, Chubby is a fancy word for a gross and fat . Chubby still means fat and nasty. It's just a nice way of saying it. Just like "unfortunite looking" is a nice way of saying one is actually as ugly as homemade sin.

    You have quite a disgusting view on the world as well. May I suggest you not force your body image issues on others? I can't believe how much body hate others have. And I REALLY can't believe that because YOU don't like a particular body image, that it means that NOBODY can like that body image, and in fact they are just disgusting people. WTF is wrong with you people? Keep your shame to yourself and your therapist, don't try and force it on others.
  • TX_Rhon
    TX_Rhon Posts: 1,549 Member

    :huh:

    Seriously?

    Why can't people just be attracted to what they like without having to be mocked/shamed for it? "lolz you like skinny chicks, bet you just can't handle a woman with curves!!" Really?
    What about skinny chicks with curves? ;-)

    I love curves. Curves are mandatory! But seriously, anyone of any body shape can be sexy, confident, and attractive. But you have to be that way in your mind. I love a lady with confidence and someone who can rock what they have.


    Attitude is everything! :flowerforyou:
  • DamianaKitten
    DamianaKitten Posts: 479 Member
    All these men are LYING LYING LYING. No one wants a fat girl, Chubby is a fancy word for a gross and fat . Chubby still means fat and nasty. It's just a nice way of saying it. Just like "unfortunite looking" is a nice way of saying one is actually as ugly as homemade sin.

    I hope to god you're being sarcastic.

    Based on post history, she's not.
  • IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym
    IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym Posts: 5,573 Member
    All these men are LYING LYING LYING. No one wants a fat girl, Chubby is a fancy word for a gross and fat . Chubby still means fat and nasty. It's just a nice way of saying it. Just like "unfortunite looking" is a nice way of saying one is actually as ugly as homemade sin.


    good googa mooga. Chubby does not mean fat and nasty, my goodness. I have seen plenty of cute chubby girls with hot guys and vice versa. Its not always about looks and its definitely not always about weight.
  • Zomoniac
    Zomoniac Posts: 1,169 Member
    All these men are LYING LYING LYING. No one wants a fat girl, Chubby is a fancy word for a gross and fat . Chubby still means fat and nasty. It's just a nice way of saying it. Just like "unfortunite looking" is a nice way of saying one is actually as ugly as homemade sin.

    Someone's bitter about not getting any.
  • Helenavee42
    Helenavee42 Posts: 175

    Is this person nice with good teeth and manners?

    I am going do second this question to ask if I were single again! I dated an ex (or so I thought) cocaine addict and I'm not sure if it was from that or not but his teeth were all kinds of f*cked up and it really turned me off of making out for a few years.

    To the actual topic. My ex was kinda chubby but my fiance is nearly skin and bones. (He's working on gaining weight. He actually just joined here and is still learning things.) I don't care as long as his teeth are in good shape, he has a great personality, he is sweet and caring, and he knows how to treat a lady.

    I think all bodies are beautiful and should be treated that way.
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member

    It would be nice if we could have a thread where some woman didn't feel the need to come in and insult other women's body types.

    I guess that's too much to ask.

    I was thinking the same thing. It gets a little old, doesn't it? Imagine the outrage if there were body shaming directed at the overweight in every thread.

    Meh, I've been heavy most of my life and the people who've always done the teasing are skinny. I say let the skinny people have it. They deserve to feel what it's like. Maybe they'll actually develop a little empathy from it.

    Wow, really?!? You don't think we got it, too?!? You don't think that people told me I should eat a cheeseburger or forced to eat a sammich?? Screw that! No ONE should be tortured for their weight. No one!

    Yeah but when people tease skinny people it's usually coming from a different place. It's usually more a "you should fatten up so you don't make look so bad." When people tease fat people it's literally to punish them for being fat and to make themselves feel good. It's not balanced at all. You see this in so many areas. You can even look at extremes like eating disorders that cause you to be too skinny. Those are diseases right? That's accepted as such. But when someone says obesity is a disease people laugh and say "get some self control!"

    edit: spelling
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    Did you miss the part where I said people actually whispered behind my back that I was anorexic? That was not coming from a "good" place. It was nasty and it wasn't true.
  • DamianaKitten
    DamianaKitten Posts: 479 Member

    It would be nice if we could have a thread where some woman didn't feel the need to come in and insult other women's body types.

    I guess that's too much to ask.

    I was thinking the same thing. It gets a little old, doesn't it? Imagine the outrage if there were body shaming directed at the overweight in every thread.

    Meh, I've been heavy most of my life and the people who've always done the teasing are skinny. I say let the skinny people have it. They deserve to feel what it's like. Maybe they'll actually develop a little empathy from it.

    Wow, really?!? You don't think we got it, too?!? You don't think that people told me I should eat a cheeseburger or forced to eat a sammich?? Screw that! No ONE should be tortured for their weight. No one!

    Yeah but when people tease skinny people it's usually coming from a different place. It's usually more a "you should fatten up so you don't make look so bad." When people tease fat people it's literally to punish them for being fat and to make themselves feel good. It's not balanced at all. You see this in so many areas. You can even look at extremes like eating disorders that cause you to be too skinny. Those are diseases right? That's accepted as such. But when someone says obesity is a disease people laugh and say "get some self control!"

    edit: spelling

    FYI~ A fat person teasing a skinny person so that said fat person can feel better about themselves... It is punishing them for being skinny. When someone mocks or shames another person, it isn't about the other person, it's about the person doing the mockery. Mocking people makes some people feel better about themselves.

    It is a disgusting way of being to mock another person for their own choices.
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
    All these men are LYING LYING LYING. No one wants a fat girl, Chubby is a fancy word for a gross and fat . Chubby still means fat and nasty. It's just a nice way of saying it. Just like "unfortunite looking" is a nice way of saying one is actually as ugly as homemade sin.

    Someone's bitter about not getting any.
    lol

    We all know that overweight women never get married.
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